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Tony Chiodo
January 5, 2025
Happy 19th Anniversary in heaven Dad. 19 Years ago today we burried you on Mom's Birthday. Today Mom would be 100. The Holidays aren't the same since you left and even worse since Mom left. You are both missed and loved very much. I hope you, Mom, Charlie, Chris, Bradon, and Joyce are all resting in peace now. Love, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 31, 2024
Happy 19th Anniversary in Heaven Dad. In 2 hours it will be 2025. I hope you, Mom, Charlie and Chris are together. Say hello to Joyce too. You are all loved and missed. Your son Anthony
Mary Ann (Daughter)
January 1, 2024
Daddy it doesn´t get easier without you mommy Christopher Butch and all the family friends loved ones there with you all. I thank you for teaching me how to make all your and mommy´s traditions to keep going on and being proud of the amazing memories you all gave to me. As hard as it is without you all here, you are all right here with the family Jesus gave to us to share all our memories and traditions you loved.
Keep us all here healthy strong and the love of family to continue to grow everyday. Oh how you all would be with all these babies and kids, they are all as crazy as you left them here. You taught them well. I miss you beyond words. Happy New Year 2024. Give everyone kisses for us and BIG HUGS
Tony
December 30, 2023
Happy New Year dad. It will be 2024 in 2 days. It is 18 Years since you left us. Enjoy your Anniversary with mom, Butch and Christopher and Bradon and Joyce. You are all loved and missed. Your son
Tony Chiodo
August 9, 2023
Hi Dad, happy 103rd Birthday. You don't know how much you are loved and missed. I hope you are celebrating with mom, Chris and Butch and the rest of your family. You are all loved and missed. Your son Anthony
Your Daughter Mary Ann
August 8, 2023
Daddy I was at the police station today bringing your picture for the military honor walk and it brought back so many memories. Seeing your picture there was such a proud moment to know how devoted you were to our community and family. I miss you all beyond words. Looking forward to honoring you yet again with your family together. Kisses to Mommy Butch Christopher and everyone there with you. Love you. You Daughter MaryAnn
Tony Chiodo
August 1, 2023
Dad, It will be 18 Years in December since you left us. Today is 15 Years that mom left us. Chris and Butch joined you both. You are all loved and missed. Your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
November 26, 2020
Happy Thanksgiving dad. It will be 15 years since you left us. Enjoy Thanksgiving with mom, your son Charlie and Grandson Christopher and all of your sisters and brothers. You are loved and missed very much ❤ ♥
MaryAnn
November 15, 2020
Yes Daddy Tony turned 69 now for sure he is Really my OLDER BROTHER. Wish you were here to see all of us here and all the new additions to our family. I know you are watching from above with mommy Christopher Butch and all the family friends and loved ones with you. Pray for us all that we all Stay safe healthy strong and give everyone strength to get through anything Jesus has in store for us. I love and miss you so much. ❤
Tony Chiodo
October 27, 2020
Dad, this past week was the 40th Birthday for Jonathan and yesterday was my 69th Birthday. I wish you and Mom were here to celebrate with us. You are both loved and missed very much. Hugs, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 3, 2018
Hi Dad, I know it has been a while since I wrote. I hope you and mom are resting in peace. 10 years ago mom and Christopher join you. Saturday December 1, 2018 your son Charlie joined all of you. We don't understand why because he wasn't sick but he had a heart attack. You know he recently turned 70. Watch over Charles, Seema and Lisa and the rest of the family. You are loved and missed very much. Your son Anthony ❤
Tony Chiodo
December 3, 2018
Hi Dad, I know it has been a while since I wrote. I hope you and mom are resting in peace. 10 years ago mom and Christopher join you. Saturday December 1, 2018 your son Charlie joined all of you. We don't understand why because he wasn't sick but he had a heart attack. You know he recently turned 70. Watch over Charles, Seema and Lisa and the rest of the family. You are loved and missed very much.
Antohon Chiodo
January 8, 2013
Hi dad, happy 7th Anniversary in heaven. Sorry I am late but things aren't going well. We had a bad flood and Jonathan and I lost everything even our cars. Say hi to mom and happy 2013. Your both loved missed very much. Love, your son Anthony
MARY ANN D. ALBERTS
January 5, 2013
HI DADDY HOW ARE YOU DOING IN HEAVEN? WE MISS YOU SO MUCH. TODAY, 7 YEARS AGO WAS THE LAST TIME WE WERE ABLE TO PHYSICALLY KISS YOU AND TOUCH YOU AND HOLD YOUR HAND. YOU WENT HOME TODAY ON MOMMY'S BIRTHDAY AND IT WAS WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN ONE OF THE WORST DAYS OF OUR LIVES, BUT SEEING YOU AT PEACE AND NOT IN PAIN, FOR YOU WE THANKED GOD, FOR US WE NEVER WANTED TO LET GO OF YOU. TODAY AS HARD AS IT IS, WE KNOW YOU ARE WITH MOMMY CELEBRATING HER 88TH BIRTHDAY WITH ALL THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS THERE WITH YOU AND I KNOW YOU ARE HAVEING A GREAT TIME. YOU AND MOMMY GAVE US ALL SO MUCH TO LIVE WITH IN MEMORIES OF LIFE WITH YOU THAT WE CAN CARRY ON AS HARD AS IT IS, WITH THOSES BLESSED MEMORIES. THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME LIFE AND ALL THAT YOU TAUGHT US HOW TO CARRY ON IN LIFE. HAVE A GREAT PARTY FOR MOMMY. RIP.
LOVE YA
YOUR DAUGHTER
MARY ANN
Tony Chiodo
April 8, 2012
Happy Easter Dad,
Today is Easter Sunday, April 8 2012. I know you enjoyed watching the children find the eggs you and Mom hid. They are all growing up now. Say hello and Happy Easter to mom and Chris for me. You are loved and missed very much. Mary's brother joined you and Mom yesterday. He was 45.
Love alsways
Your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
January 1, 2012
Happy New Year Dad,
It is now New Years Day 2012 and yesterday was 6 years that you left us.So much has changed since that morning.They say God does things for a reason, but I will never know why he took you when and how he did. You are loved and missed so much. Say hi to mom and Chris. Love, your son Anthony
MARY ANN D. ALBERTS
December 31, 2011
6 YEARS AGO AT THIS TIME DADDY I ALREADY TOLD YOU GOOD NIGHT AND GO TO SLEEP AND REST AND WE WILL BE OK, YOU JUST REST AND I/WE LOVE YOU. WELL I LIED, WE ARE NOT OK. AS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SIDE WE ARE SO SELFISH BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH WE DON'T EVER WANT TO SEE OUR LOVED ONES SUFFER WE STILL DON'T WANT TO LET GO. EVERYDAY GETS HARDER WITHOUT YOU AND MOMMY NOT HEAR, LET ALONE ALL THE OTHER FAMILY AND FRIENDS WE HAVE HAD TO SEE GO HOME TO THEIR NEXT LIFE. I KNOW WE HAVE TO MOVE ON AND THANK GOD FOR THE TIME WE ALL HAD TOGETHER BUT IT ALL SUCKS WITHOUT YOU ALL HERE. THANK GOD WE WERE TAUGHT THAT WE DO HAVE TO MOVE ON AND THANK GOD FOR WHAT WE HAVE, BUT NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES WE SAY "BE STRONG" AND DO WHAT WE HAVE TO DO WITH WHAT WE HAVE AND BE GREATFUL, WITHOUT YOU ALL HERE IT IS SO HARD. I HAVE TO THANK GOD AND YOU ALL FOR THE BEAUTIFUL HOLIDAYS THIS YEAR THAT WAS GIVEN TO ME BY HAVEING OUR FAMILY ALL TOGETHER STARTING WITH THANKSGIVEN WITH ALL OF YOURS AND MOMMY'S CHILDREN AND OUR FAMILIES AND THEIR FAMILIES IN THE HOUSE, "OUR FAMLIES FOUNDATION" YOU TWO LEFT BEHIND FOR US ALL TO CARRY ON YOUR TEACHINGS OF WHAT FAMILY AND LOVE IS. THEN OUR TRADITIONAL CHRISTMAS EVE AND DAY AND AS HARD AS IT IS NEW YEARS EVE WILL BE CELEBRATED AS WE KNOW YOU BOTH LOVED, TOGETHER WITH OUR FAMILIES. WE KNOW YOU ALL WILL BE WITH US SHARING THE MOMENTS, BUT KNOWING YOU LEFT US ON THIS DAY IT IS SO HARD, BUT EVERY AND ANY DAY WITHOUT YOU AND MOMMY AND KNOWING CHRISTOPHER IS THERE TOO IS HARD. I HOPE WHERE YOU ALL ARE, YOU WILL BE WITH ALL THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT WE CANNOT BE WITH HERE. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE AND KEEP US ALL HEALTHY, SAFE AND STRONG. I LOVE YOU MOMMY AND DADDY. RIP EVERYONE.
LOVE YOUR DAUGHTER
MARY ANN
Tony Chiodo
November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving Dad, Today will be the 1st time that the 3 of your children will be together for Thanksgiving in over 12 years with your Grandchildren and Great Grandchildren. It would be a better day if you and mom were here also.
You are loved and missed very much.
Love, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
July 19, 2011
Happy 91st Birthday dad. Wednesday 7-20-11 is tomorrow. I can't believe just 6 years ago we had your surprise 85th on the bus going to Atlantic City with all of your friends from Church. Eva made everyone cupcakes and you won the bingo game going down. I still see your blue eyes and beautiful smile when you called bingo. Everyone yelled at you because you shouldn't have one on your Birthday and mommy wanted your winnings as always. Dinah and John enjoyed the day also. Remember meeting your niece Christine Tuttle there and she gave you a sock full of quarters? She hugged you and kissed you and said go win big. If I remember right, you won close to $500 that day. I did good also.
The memories of our good times is what keeps me going. You weren't just my father, but my best friend also. It was hard to lose both in one person. I always think of you and miss you very much. 7-18-11 would have been your Grandson Christopher's 39th. I hope both of you are together enjoying cake and ice cream. Wish him a happy Birthday and also wish mom a happy 3rd Anniversary with you again on 8-1-11.
Love and miss you very much. Your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
June 21, 2011
6-21-11 Hi Dad, I am sorry for being late wishing you a Happy Father's Day. Mary and I were in South Carolina visiting Linda and Marty then went to Georgia for a meeting for the Insurance business we are in. Mary won another award. :-) Also, Happy 64th Anniversary to you and mom. You are togeher again so I hope you have a nice time. Did mom buy you anything?? NO, what a surprise. LOL Happy Faher's Day and Happy Anniversary. You are loved and missed very much. Your son, Anthony
Angelo Medina
May 30, 2011
hey pop just wanted to say I miss you and i am doing pretty well at the moment love you nanny and uncle chris as well
Tony Chiodo
April 24, 2011
Happy Easter Dad, 2005 was the last Easter we had with you. It seems a life time ago. So much has happened since then and not for he better. I remember the times waking up and going downstairs and looking for all of the hidden eggs. When Jonathan was born, Joyce and I would bring him there and he and his cousins would do the same. Those were the good years. Wish Mom and Chris happy Easter. You are loved and missed very much. Your son, Anthony
April 14, 2011
HI DAD AND MOM. JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT WE WENT AND PUT PALM CROSSES ON ALL THE GRAVES AS I PROMISED WE WOULD. WE ALWAYS MAKE SURE GRANDMA CHIODO HAS HER PALM FOR HER DAY AS WELL AS EVERYONE ELSE.
WE MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH AND IT IS SO HARD.
EVERYONE UP THERE HAVE A HAPPY PALM SUNDAY AND A HAPPY EASTER.
LOVE YA
MARY ANN
Elaine Fernandes
March 15, 2011
Hi Poppy,
This is one of the hardest things I have to do but I thought it was about time I did. Since you left us on that awful morning my life has never been the same. You were not just a Grandfather (Poppy) to me you were a father, and most of all my Best Friend. We could talk about anything and you would never judge or say anything negative unless it was necessary. We had so many great times together to count or to even mention, but I am so greatful that we had the last 10 months together. I loved the fact of "kidnapping" you on Friday mornings picking up Stephanie and going for breakfast at IHOP and then shopping all day. Most of all the calls from Nanny yelling at us to get you home. I would do anything to have those days back. I don't really understand why God took you away from us when you did so many amazing things in your life to help people, but I guess I'm not supposed to know. He has his reasons. I also want you to know that I did all I could to make sure Nanny was taken care of after you left us. I took her shopping, out to eat, pumpkin and apple picking, out just for the day, and anywhere she wanted to go. I did my best to make sure she was ok and as happy she could be without you. Well in the last 5 years, my life has changed so much. I had 6 back surgeries and 2 knee surgeries plus so many other things. But what I am most proud of is that I have 2 beautiful children. You got to meet Nathan (only for about 8 months) but trust me I will NEVER let him forget you, and a daughter, Kayla Paige who Nanny met for 8 months also. They are amazing children. You would be very proud of them. Nathan plays T-ball and does Mixed Martial Arts and Kayla is only 3 so she is not participating in anything yet but trust me she is a handful. I'm sorry you didn't get to meet her. She is beautiful and a real handful but she is what keeps me going. Alex is doing really good. Honestly Pop without him I really don't know how I could survive. He is amazing and I am in great hands with him. With everything I have put him through (health and me just being me) I don't know how he does it, but he always sticks by my side and I love him so much. You would be so proud of him knowing that I am in great hands. I know we have talked about our future when I was getting married, but you would be proud. As for everything else, life is hard without you and Nanny here but we cope. I guess Cope is the only word I could use cause basically thats what we do is cope. When we lost you and Nanny we lost a HUGE part of our Family. Actually we lost our family. Things are so different without you both here. Family gatherings are just that gatherings. Nothing compared to what we used to have. But we all figured that was going to happen. As for Mommy, I worry alot about her. She is such an amazing person and strong, brave, and just amazing that you would be so proud of what she is and has become. I could not have asked for a better mother, grandmother for my children and most of all a Friend. Last month she stayed in the hospital with me for 5 days. Giving up her life outside of the hospital to be by my side. Honestly, I don't know if she wasn't there I would have stayed. It was really scary but we made it through with a life lesson on my part. Life is too short live each day as if it was your last. Thats my new motto. I enjoy the littlest things that I took for granted before. In a way you taught me that a long time ago I just never listened. Sorry. But now it is permenantly embedded in my head. I just want you to know that there is not a day that goes by that your not thought about or that something reminds me of you or Nanny or that i see something and just start laughing cause something reminds me of something we either did together or laughed at together. You and Nanny have bestowed so many traditions and family morals that i am trying to bestow in my family. At Christmas time, on Christmas morning we (the adults) do a shot of Galiano together and cheer you. I remember you coming downstairs every Christmas morning with that Rifle shaped bottle of Galiano and we would all do a shot (even us kids) to cheer Christmas and life. Thank you for everything you have done for me and my family while you were here and for all of the memories and traditions you have given to us. We can and will never forget you or those traditions (how could we). I love and truly miss you each and every day. Words really cannot express how much you are really missed and needed especially when I need to talk. I miss those days. Stephanie has kind of gotten the blunt of many of those conversations with me yelling at her (not really her) but what I needed to talk about. There is not a day that goes by that your not thought about or missed and I truly hope that you and Nanny are reunited (she really missed you) in "Heaven" and that your living life after death. I love and miss you so much. Thanks for listening as always I knew I could count on you. Please keep watch over all of us. Again, I love and Miss you every day. I know your watching us from above and I hope that we are making you and Nanny proud. Please give Nanny and Huge kiss and hug for us and tell her that we love and miss her so much. Again, we love and miss you and Nanny each and every day. I just hope your happy. Love your granddaughter Elaine. XOXOXO
Tony Chiodo
January 4, 2011
Hi Dad,
This is Jan. 5 2011, mom's 86th Birthday. The lord took you and mom from us so I hope you give mom a nice gift. :-) The both of you are loved and missed so much. I hope God is taking good care of both of you now.Love always, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 31, 2010
Happy New Year Dad,
On this day in 2005, the Lord took you away from us. We will never know why, but think he had better things planned for you with him. Maybe your a Policeman there too. Whatever his reason was, we really love and miss you.
Wish mom and Chris a Happy New Year for me.
Miss and love you. Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas Dad,
On this day 5 years ago, you were with us. It would be the very last Christmas you would be with us. One week later you were gone from our lives.You are always loved, missed, and thought of. God bless you always and say Merry Christmas to mom.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
November 11, 2010
Hi Dad, Happy Veterans Day 2010 to you. I will always remember you marching in parades today starting in Lodi with the Police, the in Habrouck Heights with the V.F.W. and sometimes even going to another parade and playing the fife.
You don't know how much I miss you and our talks that we use to have. I have so much to talk to you about now.Say hi to mom for me.
I love you and miss you so much.
Your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
July 19, 2010
Happy 90th Birthday dad,
Tomorrow will be your 90th Birthday and it is hard to believe that it was 5 years ago, I had the surprise 85th Birthday for you on the Bus to Atlantic City with all of your friends. I remembered you crying when you got on the bus and saw your friends. You and everyone else had a nice time that day. That would be your last Birthday to spend with us. I still carry the bill in my wallet from the money we won and split.
You are loved and missed so much. Say hi to mom.
Love always, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
June 21, 2010
Happy Anniversary dad. Thanks for being with me today when I took the State exam and passed it. Please be with Jonathan when he takes his also.
You are loved and missed very much.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
June 20, 2010
Happy 63rd Anniversary dad, tomorrow would be mom and your Annivesary. Today is also Father's Day,so happy Father's Day to you.
Frank Messena died this week so look for him.I guess that card table is really big now.
You didn't get to meet Mary and her children, but you would have loved them and they would have loved you. They met mommy and miss her a lot. Monica turned 17 June 15 and Steffi is going to graduate 8th grade June 25. Stacey Graduated High School June 17 and Bryan graduated 8th grade June 18.
I passed my pre-license test last week and taking the State one tomorrow, wish me luck. Wish Jonathan luck also because he is taking his State one also.
You are loved and missed very much.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
May 30, 2010
Hi Dad,
It is Memorial Weekend 2010 and you and Uncle Mike are not here marching in any parades.The fifes are quiet in our family.
Philip Wagenti and Bob Young have joined the Lodi Police Force in Heaven the last 2 days. Most of the old gang are there now.
Say hi to mom. You are loved and missed so much. Love, your son Anthony
Anthony Chiodo
April 3, 2010
Hi Dad,
Happy Easter to you. You are loved and missed so much. Love your son
Tony Chiodo
January 5, 2010
Hi dad,
It is 4 years ago today, on moms 81st birthday that we buried you. It isn't any easier today, than on the day. You are always in my thoughts and heart.
You are missed and loved so much. God bless you and mom and say happy birthday to her for us.
Your son, Anthony
MARY ANN ALBERTS
January 5, 2010
HI DADDY, HOW ARE YOU? IT IS MOMMY'S 85TH BIRTHDAY TODAY AND WE CAN NOT GIVE HER A PARTY HERE SO CAN YOU MAKE SURE YOU GIVE HER A BIG SURPRISE PARTY. IT WILL BE A GREAT ONE WITH ALL THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT YOU HAVE THERE. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. WATCH OVER US ALL. WE NEED YOUR HELP. IT IS A REAL HARD TO BE HERE WITH OUT YOU AND MOMMY AND WE NEED YOU WITH US TO GUIDE US IN THE RIGHT DIRECTIONS OF LIFE. HELP ANTHONY TO GET A JOB, I HATE SEEING HIM SO DOWN AND OUT, PLEASE GIVE HIM A BOOT IN HIS BUT(I CAN LAUGH) TO HELP HIM.
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU AND I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT TIME AT MOMMY'S 85TH BIRTHDAY PARTY.
ALL MY LOVE
MARY ANN
Tony Chiodo
December 31, 2009
Happy New Year and Happy Birthday in Heaven dad,
Today is New Years Eve 2009. It was 4 years ago today that you left us. A lot of things happened since you left, including Mommy leaving us in 2008 also. You are now with her again.
I miss our talks and times together that we use to have and you know that some of the talks we had, never worked out the way you said they should. I still don't have work, so looking to retire like I said isn't going to happen anytime soon now. The times in Marty's garage, going to football games, or just going out and having lunch and a beer with you.
Nothing has been the same or will ever be the same since you left us. Please continue to protect us and be with us. You are loved and missed so much. Say hi to mom and to Christopher for me.
Love you. Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas dad,
It is hard to believe that just 3 years ago, you were with us. At times it seems that your gone forever and other times it is like yesterday that you left us. But now you are with your parents and brothers and sisters and mommy and Christopher again. God bless all of you and you are loved and missed so much.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Love always, your son Anthony
December 18, 2009
Hey Poppy! so its already senior year and im almost done!! im so excited. i just wanted you to know that i love you and miss you all the time. and i want you to rely that message to Nanny Nonno and Nonna that all of you have inspired me so much. and i cant believe you guys arent here anymore. well last night i did my LAST winter concert for chorus. i almost fell off stage but it happens.. lol. only for me. i just want to thank all of you for your support all through out my years of growing up. i wish you guys were here still so you can see all of the other ones grow like you did with me. Bryan lauren Nathan and kayla are getting so big. i feel so old just looking at them. Salvatore too, he's a freshman already. its crazy how the years are going. its tough. ill be graduating soon enough and i'll have all of you to thank for that!
I Love You All! and Thank You for ALL of the Love and support you gave me throughout my entire life!
Rest in Peace!
Staceyy Ann! <3
ps. i hope you like my benches on Farmville on Facebook. you all each have your own bench to sit on!
Again! i love you Forever and always!
<3
Tony Chiodo
October 30, 2009
Hi Dad,
It has been a while. Today, 10-30-09,Jonathan is taking his State of New Jersey Insurance test. I hope you will be there with him and get him through this alright. He is really into this and needs to pass.
Things with me just keep getting worse and I don't know what I am going to do next.
You are loved and missed so much.
Your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
August 1, 2009
Hi dad,
Today 8-1-09 is the 1st anniversary that mom left us, so I guess that it is your 1st anniversary together again. You put up with her for 60 years here, and now you have to put up with her again. :-)Happy Anniversary.
Love, your son Anthony
MARY ANN ALBERTS
July 20, 2009
HI DADDY, I KNOW I DO NOT COME ON AND WRITE TO YOU AS OFFTEN AS I SHOULD BUT I TALK TO YOU ALL DAY AND NIGHT AND I KNOW YOU ARE ALWAYS WITH ME. TODAY ELIANE AND THE KIDS WENT TO SEE YOU AND BROUGHT YOU BALLOONS AND ME AND GREGORY BROUGHT YOU ONE TO FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY. WE ALL MISS YOU AND WISH YOU WERE HERE WITH US TO CELABRATE THIS DAY WITH YOU BUT WE CAN'T AND IT HURTS SO MUCH. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE WITH MOMMY AND CHRISTOPHER AND YOU CELABRATED CHRISTOPHERS BIRTHDAY ON SATURDAY AND TODAY YOUR AND I KNOW THAT CHRISTOPHER MUST HAVE BEEN SO HAPPY TO BE WITH HIS POPPY AND NANNY ON HIS BIRTHDAY AND NOW FOR YOURS. THIS IS MOMMY'S FIRST YEAR WITH YOU TOO FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE YOU ALL ARE HAVING A GREAT TIME TOGETHER WITH ALL YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY THERE.
ALL MY LOVE
YOUR DAUGHTER
MARY ANN
P.S. PLEASE KISS MOMMY FOR ME. I LOVE YOU MOM
Tony Chiodo
July 19, 2009
Happy Birthday Dad,
Tomorrow is Monday, July 20,2009. It would be your 89th birthday if you were still here. Things just keep getting worse around here since you are gone. Five years ago we went to Atlantic City for your birthday and you and I did good. It hasn't happened again for me.
Words can't express how much I miss you and wish you were still here. All of the talks that we had and the way things were. Nothing is the way you said it would be when you were gone.
Enjoy your birthday and rest in peace. You are loved and missed so much.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
June 20, 2009
Happy Father's Day dad. This is the 4th Father's Day without you here. You have no idea how much you are missed and how I miss that talks we use to have.
God bless you and thank you for being the father that you were. I love you.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
June 16, 2009
Hi Dad,
More sad news. Your good friend Earnie Capuana also joined his wife Lee and you on the 12th. He was 90 and it mentioned that he, like you were the co-founder of the Police Columbia Association. Now the 2 Captains are together again. :-)
Love, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
June 15, 2009
Hi dad,
Sal's mother Giulia has joined you on Friday, June 12 2009. I know that she is in heaven with the rest of you. Remember all of the good times we all had at BBQ's and when there was a party? I know that will continue in heaven also.
Today is June 15th and is my Stepdaughter Monica's 16th birthday. I know you would have loved Mary and her children and sorry they never got to know you.
You are loved and missed so much.
Rest in peace dad.
Your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
March 14, 2009
Hi Dad,
Tomorrow is Uncle Mike's birthday. As always, I am keeping your tradition up and playing his birthday. 351 came out on Thursday so lets hope 315 comes out today or tomorrow.:-)
You are missed so much and I miss our talks that we use to have. Some things that we talked about didn't go the way you thought they would, but that is ok. I would rather have you here more than anything else anyway. I have my wife and her children and Jonathan and that is what matters now.
You would have loved Mary and her children. They didn't get to meet you, but I tell them all about you and how great you were.
Wish Uncle Mike a Happy Birthday for me.
I love you and miss you.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
March 14, 2009
Hi Dad,
Today is Uncle Mike's birthday. As always, I am keeping your tradition up and playing his birthday. 351 came out on Friday so lets hope 315 comes out today.:-)
You are missed so much and I miss our talks that we use to have. Some things that we talked about didn't go the way you thought they would, but that is ok. I would rather have you here more than anything else anyway. I have my wife and her children and Jonathan and that is what matters now.
You would have loved Mary and her children. They didn't get to meet you, but I tell them all about you and how great you were.
Wish Uncle Mike a Happy Birthday for me.
I love you and miss you.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
January 5, 2009
Happy 3 year anniversary and happy 2009. Today mommy would have been 84. As you know she left us on 8-1-08 to be with you again.
I wrote in her guest book that I hope now that your together again, she is listening to you, but everyone knows that isn't going to happen. :-)
God bless you and I love and miss you very much
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas dad,
It is hard to believe that 3 years ago, you were with us and enjoyed your last Christmas and last week with us.
You can't imagine how much you are missed. I miss our times together and the talks we use to have and the times just sitting and talking in the gargae with Marty.
Last night at your house wasn't the same without you and now without mommy there.
2005 was a bad year for us and now 2008 is just as bad. We lost mommy and Christopher within a few weeks apart and now after 10 years, I lost my job.
I hope that 2009 will be a better year for us.
I love you and miss you very much.
Your son, Anthony
Norma Rhode
December 5, 2008
poppy,
it's Norma after all this time. so many things have been happening to me and I don't know how to cope on some days. some days are good, some are better, some are baaaad!
losing nanny was pretty rough around here but you know all that. have you taken my mom "thelly" under your wing and did she help you welcome nanny? well let me get down to what i want to tell you.
I have cancer, breast cancer. everything went around like a whirlwind since August and now I am sitting her, having had my first chemo treatment and i think i am experiencing everything possible that could be experienced.
what i was kind of hoping is that you could let my mom know about it. she had breast cancer also and even had one removed but i had a double mastectomy. i think the day the doctor told me that i needed to have this done, i just raised my eyes upward and somehow i knew it was the right thing to do. there really was no other choice.
so, could you guys kind of get together and help me "get through this"? i am on disability, lost my job completely but am trying so hard to keep things in perspective.
i'm sorry i haven't written to you in awhile, i really was "holding things together" but this is a chance to say happy holidays in heaven to you, nanny and 'thelly' if you would give her my messages.
thanks, poppy!
Tony Chiodo
November 26, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving Dad. I know it isn't happy here because you aren't here, but you are always in my thoughts and will always be in my heart.
This will be the first holiday that you are with mom again, and also your grandson Chris. It would be nice if you were all here with us again.I love and miss you every much.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
September 20, 2008
Hi Dad,
Today is another sad day for our family. Your grandson Christopher has joined you and mommy today. I hope that you can take care of him there like you did when you were here.
You are all missed and loved. God bless you all.
Love, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
August 29, 2008
Hi Dad,
Monady will be one month since you and mom are reunited again after 2 1/2 years. Things were never the same after you left us and now life is worse without both of you here.
You are both loved and missed very much.
Your son
Anthony
Tony Chiodo
August 6, 2008
Hi Dad,
Sorry it has been a while since we talked. On Friday, 8-1-2008, mom joined you again. It has been 2 years and 7 months since you left her and us.
Mom loves you very much and she missed you so much. Now the 2 of you are together again forever.
Please watch over MaryAnn because she needs both of you now, more than ever. There wasn't anything that could be done to save mom and MaryAnn has doubts about everything. She did the right thing by having mom in the Hospital. There were 2 Doctors and 4 Nurses working on mom for over 25 minutes. She wasn't going to come back to us by that time. The Lodi Police gave us a very nice escort for the Funeral. It was LT. Richard Policastro who also was there for your funeral and who respected you very much as his Officer and as a freind. Marty also came up but Linda couldn't make it.
You are loved and missed by everyone.
Your son, Anthony
MARY ANN D. ALBERTS
June 17, 2008
HI DADDY! HAPPY FATHER'S DAY. I KNOW I AM A DAY LATE BUT, YOU KNOW. WE MISSED YOU SO MUCH. WHOEVER SAID IT GETS EASIER, DIDN'T LOSS YOU.
I RAN A FUNDRAISER FOR A FRIEND OF MINE WHO IS 27 YEARS OLD AND NEEDS A HEART TRANSPLANT. WE HAD IT AT THE LODI BOYS CLUB, THEY ARE GREAT. I KNOW YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN PROUD OF YOUR FAMILY AND SOME CLOSE FRIENDS. WE PUT A TRICKY TRAY TOGETHER IN 6 WEEKS AND WE RAISED $12,500 FOR HER. KEEP WATCH OVER HER.
I HAVE TO GET SOME SLEEP SO I AM GOING TO SAY GOOD NIGHT, WATCH OVER ALL OF US AND KEEP US STRONG.
WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
ALL MY LOVE
YOUR DAUGHTER
MARY ANN
Tony Chiodo
May 27, 2008
Hi Dad,
Hi Dad,
Yesterday was Memorial Day and Mary and I went to a parade just like we did when we were young and you and Uncle Mike marched. Of cause it wasn't the same now. After the parade, they did their service and then the band played Nearer to thee my God and then taps and the 21 guns went off.
I know you picked that song for Uncle Mike's funeral and you always played it on the fife, that is why I picked it for your funeral. It was so fitting for me yesterday to have the song played, then taps then the guns because even though they didn't know you, I know God had you there with me for those few moments.
Please keep watching over mommy because she really needs you. We all need you but mommy needs you more to help her to remember to take her medication and eat.
You are loved and missed so much by everyone. Rest in peace and may God keep you blessed.
Love, your son Anthony
ANN YOUR LOVING WIFE CCIODO
April 3, 2008
MY DARLING ,MISS YOU MORE THEN EVER.I KNOW I HAVE BEEN IN YOUR PRAYERS,YOU HAVE BEEN WITH ME .I AM FEELING BETTER BUT I STILL HAVE A WAY TO GO .WITH THE KIDS HELP & MARYANN & ANTHONY &MOST OF ALL ALL THE PRAYS ,I AM DOING BETTER,,I MIMMU SO MUCH .PRAY FOR ME ,I LOVE YOU
MARY ANN D. ALBERTS
March 20, 2008
HI DADDY. I HOPE YOU GOT TO SEE THAT I DID NOT FORGET TO PUT THE PALMS ON GRANDMA'S GRAVE IN HONOR OF HER NAME DAY FOR PALM SUNDAY. I HAVE TO THANK GREGORY FOR GOING TO PICK THEM UP BECAUSE I WENT TO THE STORE AND THEY DID NOT HAVE ANY LEFT SO HE GOT THE THREE CROSSES (YOURS, GRAMDMA AND GRANDPA CHIODO AND GRANDMA AND GRANDPA MONACHELLI). CHARLIE AND ME PUT YOURS ON BEFORE WE LEFT FOR THE TRAILER THURSDAY NIGHT AND GREGORY PUT GRANDMA'S ON THE GRAVE ON PALM SUNDAY. WE HAVEN'T GOTTEN UP BY GRANDMA & GRANDPA MONACHELLI'S YET BUT WE WILL, I DO NOT HAVE A PALM CROSS FOR THEIR GRAVE BECAUSE GREGORY PUT THEIRS AT GRANDMA AND GRANDPA CHIODO'S THINKING TWO WENT THERE, WELL HE MENT WELL. GRANDMA, GRANDPA, AUNT NETTIE, UNCLE DOM AND THE AUNT, YOU HAVE TO LOVE HIM.
ANTHONY SAID MOMMY WAS IN THE HOSPITAL FOR 33 DAYS, IT WAS HARD TO SEE HER GOING THROUGH THIS AND HARDER WITHOUT YOU THERE. I KNOW YOU WERE THERE BUT, WELL YOU KNOW. YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN PROUD OF ALL OR US. TONY, MARY, CHARLIE, ME AND THE KIDS WERE ALL THERE MAKING SURE SHE WAS TAKEN CARE OF AND DAM, I THINK WE ALL DID A GREAT JOB. WE PROMISED YOU WE WOULD TAKE CARE OF MOMMY AND THINGS AND WE ARE, AS BEST AS WE CAN. NOW WE ARE HELPING HER TO GET BACK TO HER OLD SELF AND WE WILL MAKE THAT HAPPEN TOO. HELP HER TO GET BETTER AND GIVE HER THE STRENGTH TO.
I HOPE YOU ALL HAD A GREAT TIME FOR UNCLE MIKE"S BIRTHDAY WITH ALL THE FAMILY AND ALL YOUR FRIENDS. HAPPY BIRTHDAY UNCLE MIKE.
WELL, HAVE A VERY HAPPY EASTER AND GIVE KISSES TO EVERYONE FOR ME.
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
ALL MY LOVE TO YOU.
YOUR DAUGHTER,
(YOUR YOUNGEST CHILD)
MARY ANN
Tony Chiodo
March 18, 2008
Hi Dad,
It was Uncle Mikes birthday Saturday and I played it like we always did. As always, it didn't come out. LOL This week is Easter and like Christmas, it will never be the same. There are only 2 little ones and everyone else is gone now.
Mom was sick and in the Hospital for almost 6 weeks but she is home now. Keep watching over her. You are loved and missed so much. Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
January 12, 2008
Happy New Year dad,
The last few weeks were busy. Mary and I got married 12-29-07 and we wish you were there with us. :-( I tried to stay in Moonachie, but we are moving 2-1-08 to Elmwood Park to a house we got there.
You are loved and missed very much. Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
November 24, 2007
Hi Dad,
Today,11-24-07, Aunt Ann passed away. She was sick as you know, and went in her sleep like you did. All of you are loved so much and missed. Keep looking over mommy and keep her safe.
Love, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
November 21, 2007
Hi dad,
Happy Thanksgiving to you. Things without you here have changed so much. You are loved and missed so much. Keep watching over mommy.
God bless you. Your son, Anthony
ANN CHIODO
November 5, 2007
HELLO MY DARLING
ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I SENT YO A MESSAGE I DID NOT FORGET YOU BELIVE MEYOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS,WE HAVE HAD SOME GOOD THINGS GOING ON .I KNOW YOUD BE SO HAPPY ,#1 ANTHONY GOT ENGAGED TO A WONDERFUL PERSON ,YOU WOULD LIKE HER#2YESTERDAY THE KIDS GAVE MARYANN A 50TH SUPRISE BIRTHDAY PARTY
#3 TODAY IS STACY 16TH BIRTHDAY.
GOD ,HOW WE MISS YOU. WE ALL KNOW YOU ARE WITH US
CHARLIE I LOVE YOU
YOUR WIFE ANN
Stacey Principato
September 18, 2007
Hey Poppy.... I've been pretty good. I've been planning my Sweet 16 party. Aunt Val bought me the most BEAUTIFULEST dress I've ever seen... I miss you Poppy and wish you were here. Well I made it Pop. Im a Sophomore in Highschool Already. I get my permit this school year and i am so excited. I love you Poppy and I miss you so much...=> <3
ANN CHIODO
September 17, 2007
HELLO MY DARLING,
JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I MISSYOU SO MUCH.I SPENT THE WEEK-END AT GINNY &JOE LOU & SUE WERE THERE TOO ,WE PLAYED CARDS.EVERYBODY WERE TALKING ABOUT WHEN YOU ALWAYS STUCK EVERYONEWHEN YOU PLAYED,YOU ARE ALWAYS IN ALL OUR THOUGHTS &ALL THE FUN WE HAD ,YOU ARE MISSED BY ALL CHARLIE &LOVED
REST IN PEACE MY DAELING
YOUR WIFE
ANN
Tony Chiodo
September 6, 2007
Hi Dad,
This Saturday ( 9-8-07 ) will be the 1st Anniversary for Jonathan and the store. It has been really hard, but you would be as proud of him as I am for all of the hard work he is putting into it. Brandon, Mary and myself are putting in a lot of time with him helping to make it work. I wish that you were here to see it.
You are loved and mised so much.
Your son, Anthony
ANN CHIODO
July 19, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DARLING.WE WENT TO MASS TODAY FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY, OH GOD ,REMENBER THE BIRTHDAY PARTIES WE HAD FOR YOU &ALL THE KIDS THAT WERE BORN IN JULY, OH HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED CHARLIE ,I MISS YOU SO MUCH
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
YOUR WIFE ANN
MARY ANN ALBERTS
July 19, 2007
HA DADDY, HOW ARE YOU DOING WITH ALL YOU FRIENDS AND FAMILY? GOD KNOWS THEY ARE SO LUCKY TO HAVE YOU. IT IS SO HARD FOR ALL OF US HERE NOT TO PHYSICALY HAVE YOU HERE BUT WE KNOW YOU ARE HERE IN SPIRT. I KNOW THAT YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WILL BE CELBRATING TOMMORROW YOUR 87TH BIRTHDAY AND YOU WILL BE IN YOUR GLORY, AND YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER WILL BE SO HAPPY TO SHARE YOUR DAY WITH YOU AFTER ALL THESE YEARS APART(PHYSICALY)AND I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT TIME. I WILL BE CELEBRATING YOUR DAY HERE AND WISHING EVERY MOMENT YOU WERE HERE. SO HAPPY 87TH BIRTHDAY DADDY. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
YOUR MOST LOVING DAUGHTER (AND YOUNGEST CHILD)
MARY ANN
P.S. GOD I MISS YOU BUSTING US AND PLEASE WATCH OVER ALL OF US AND KEEP US SAFE.
Tony Chiodo
July 18, 2007
Happy Birthday Dad.
Tomorrow 7-19-07, we are having a Mass at Mt. Virgin for your birthday. We know it really is Friday, but tomorrow was open. 2 years ago, we went to A.C. on the bus from Mt. Virgin and had a party for you on it.
How is your new neighbor doing? On July 1st,Charlie Alaimo died and is laid to rest in the slot below you. Also last week, we had a funeral for Rosemary Shortino. She was killed July 3.
I hope that you keep watching over mommy and make sure she is always safe.
Love and miss you so much. Happy 87th to you.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
July 1, 2007
Hi Dad,
Thank you for being there for Jonathan yesterday with the sale at the store. He did well and I know you were there with him. Mom came with Gregory and MaryAnn and Charlie came with Jerry. Valerie was there in the morning with Bryan and Lauren.Kim and Barbara were also there. Mary had a car load of her friends come from Bergenfield. Bert & Ernire were great and all of the kids, young and old had a nice time with them. I wish you were there in person.
Happy 4th for July to you also.
I love you and miss you.
Your son Anthony
ANN CHIODO
June 18, 2007
HELLO MY DARLING,HAPPY FATHERS DAY, GOSH THESE DAYS ARE SO LONLY.NOTHING IS THE SAME.OUR LIFE IS SO EMPTY.I WENT TO THE TRAILER AGAIN ,I GO BECAUSE I DON'T WHAT TO BE HOME ALONE,ITS TO LONESOM,PRAY FOR US CHARLIE THAT THERE WILL BE PEACE IN OUR FAMILY,I LOVE YOU &MISS YOU,
YOUR WIFE
ANN
MARY ANN
June 18, 2007
HA DADDDY! HOW ARE YOU? YOU ARE WITH ALL THE PEPOLE I WISH WERE STILL WITH US HERE AND ARE NOT. YOU HAVE MY GRANDPARENTS AND GOD YOU MUST BE SO HAPPY TO BE WITH YOUR MOM AND DAD AND GRANDMA AND GRANDPA. LIET ME JUST TELL YOU SOMETHING, WHOEVER SAID IT GETS EASIER AS TIME GOES ON NEVER LOST YOU. DADDY NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY I HATE LIFE WITHOUT YOU. NOTHING IS THE SAME.
WE WENT TO MONTECELLO LAST NIGHT ON THE WAY HOME FROM THE TRAILER (OH GOD DADDY YOU WOULD LOVE IT) AND BETWEEN MOMMY AND GREGORY, THEY HAD US OUT TILL 12:30AM. GREGORY LOVE TO PLAY (CAN'T IMAGIN WHO HE IS LIKE)HE NEVER WANTS TO LEAVE, AND MOMMY STILL PUTS HER TICKETS RIGHT IN HER POCKET :-).
WELL DADDY I HAVE TO GO TO WORK, HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
PLEASE WATCH OUT FOR MORMA'S MOM, AND ALL OF YOUR FAMILY.
GIVE EVERYONE BIG KISSES FOR ME, I DO EVERYDAY BUT YOU CAN FOR ME TO.
I LOVE YA,
YOUR DAUGHTR
MARY ANN
Seema
June 18, 2007
wow, today I felt you being gone greater than ever. Every year I send a grandfather and great-grandfather card to you for father's day. It felt empty this year. I know it's the second year, but I'm no longer in denial. Watch over all of us in our family and hope that business works itself out. Love always, Seema
Norma Rhode
June 16, 2007
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Hi Poppy: I've never known that there was a "guest book" to write in for you but I was wondering if you could kind of do me a little favor.
My mom left us last Friday and I was hoping that you would kind of watch out for her a little bit. She is kind of lonely as she really hasn't gone anywhere lately. she was in the hospital for about a month (but you know that because I sincerely believe that you guys might not be here but you know it all).
Anyway, could you just kind of keep an eye on her for me? thanks I would really appreciate it. She is now with her Mom and Dad and both her ex husbands but might need a friend.
thanks. You know, I may not have been your "family" but you treated me like I was and I sort of miss you not being here. but I do have one question for you.......was there any film in that camera you always had in your hands? I never saw a single movie that was taken. Was there film? really?
Miss you and thanks for looking out for "thelly".
Norma
Tony Chiodo
June 16, 2007
Happy Father's Day dad.
This is the 2nd one without you. You are missed so much by everyone. You showed all of us how to enjoy life, but it is hard with you not being here.
You and mom gave us many of great memories and we are still trying to make more.
Rest in peace and keep watching over mom.
Miss you and love you.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
May 28, 2007
Hi Dad,
This is the 3rd letter I am sending to you. The other 2 never printed from the other day.
Today is Memorial Day and it isn't the same without you. No day is the same. All of the traditions that we had are all gone now. Today we would have gone to the parade and then to 157 Farnham Ave for a BBQ. That won't ever happen again.
You are missed so much. When we have Weddings or a party, there isn't anyone walking around with the camera to continue to give us the memories that you always gave us. I gave a party to Linda & Marty because he retired and they moved to South Carolina. If you were here, I know we would have a movie to send them, but your camera has never worked since you aren't here. It only works for a few minutes and then dies because they forget to plug in the batteries.
I have a girlfreind named Mary and she is helping Jonathan a lot with his store. I know that if you were here, you would be there for him and have your friends stop in also. The family doesn't go there except for mommy and Elaine sometimes.
I hope that you are resting in peace and that you keep watching over mommy.
Love always dad.
Your son Anthony
ANN CHOIDO
April 9, 2007
HELLO MY DARLING,
MOW PALM SUN, & EASTER IS OVER,THESE WERE SAD DAYS FOR ME,THEY WERE SO SPCIAL TO YOU & ALL OF US.MARYANN CHARLIE ,GREGORY .SALVATORE & ME WENT TO THE TRALIER,IT WAS SO COLD BUT WE JUST HAD TO GET AWAY ,I MISS YOU MORE & MORE,THEY SAY IT GETS BETTER AS TIME GOES BY ,THAT IS NOT TRUE.THANK GOD I HAVE SO MANY MEMORIES OF THE THINGS WE DID.I MISS YOU SO MUCH & LOVE YOU .WATCH OVER ALL OF US PRAY FOR US .AS WE PRAY FOR YOU THAT YOU MAY REST IN PEACE
ALL MY LOVE
YOUR WIFE ,ANN
Tony Chiodo
April 8, 2007
Happy Easter dad,
This is year 2 without you being with us for Easter. I really hope that you are resting well like they say will happen when we die.
The holidays aren't the same anymore or are any other days. When God took you, he didn't just take a husband, father, grandfather or great grandfather, he also took my best friend. I miss the talks that you and I had that nobody knew we had.
Please watch over mom and protect her and help her make decisions that she making now. She has new furniture and the floors are done now. Help her with anything else she is going to do.
Jonathan is doing a little better with the store. I know if you were here you would have your friends going there and you would be there everyday with him helping him and keeping him company. He can use the help and I am doing everything that I can to help him.
Linda and Marty are moving May 15th to South Carolina. I will be loosing another great friend. Protect them while they make their move.
You are loved and missed so much. Again, Happy Easter and rest in piece dad.
Your son, Anthony
ANN CHIODO
March 20, 2007
HELLO DARLING
YESTERDAY WAS ST. JOSEPH'S DAY.WE LOOKED FORWARD TO THAT DINNER,I COULD NOT GO WITHOUT BEING WITH YOU,
I CAN STILL SEE YOU WITH THE FLAG,YOU WERE SO PROUD.DO YOU KNOW PEOPLE STILL BRING THAT UP.YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH
I MISS YOU MORE & MORE,THERE ARE TIMES I JUST WANT TO GIVE UP .I PRAY THAT GOD WILL HELP ME HAVE PATIENCE .EVERYONE HELPS ME& THEY TRY TO MAKE ME HAPPY.CHARLIE PRAY FOR US,THAT WE WILL HAVE PEACE IN OUR FAMILY & GOOD HEALTH
LOVE YOU &I WILL MISS YOU ALWAYS YOUR WIFE ,ANN
Stacey Principato
March 14, 2007
heyy poppy. It's been along time since i wrote to you. sorry bout that, I've been really busy with school and softball is starting.
I made the freshman softball team, which is the team i wanted to make cause Mr. Kuhns coaches that team and he is a real good coach.its going to bea good year but it is going to be really werird without you at the games but Its going to be a good year. well i have to go. see ya later
Tony Chiodo
March 13, 2007
Hi dad,
I hope that you are resting well. It is that time of year again when you would call me and tell me to play Uncle Mike's birthday. I still hear your voice telling me to play 315. I did last year and it came out and only paid $76.00. I hope you bring me luck again this year.
Mom is having the floors done in the house. I was there Sunday and it brought back a lot of memories seeing the hardwood and not the rug. I remembered all of the times we rolled around on the floor playing and mom yelling that we are going to scratch the floors. :-) We did have a great life with you. You are loved and missed so much. Rest in peace, your son Anthony
ANN CHIODO
February 18, 2007
TO MY SWEETHEART,FOR 59 YEARS WE WISHED EACH OTHER A HAPPY VALENTIMES DAY.I AM NOT STOPPING MOW.EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT HERE ,YOU ARE STILL MY VAL. & ALWAY WILL BE.I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU SO MUCH
YOUR WIFE
ANN
Tony Chiodo
February 17, 2007
Hi Dad,
Mom can out to dinner with us last Sunday for Valentine's day. It would have been nice if you were there with us also. :-)
I am going to Las vegas on business tomorrow for the week. Please watch over mommy and make sure she is ok. She keeps getting dizzy and she fell again the other day and hit her head. Give her the strength that she needs to get around, and be ok.
You are missed so much by all of us and loved by all of us also.
I will write and let you know if I get to gamble while I am there and if I win. Bring me the luck that you did on your 85th birthday in Atlantic City.
I love and miss you dad.
Your son, Anthony
ANN CHIODO
February 8, 2007
MY DARLING, TODAY IS FEB 8TH.IT IS VERY COLD ,I WENT TO THE DENTEST TODAY ,YOU KNOW HOW I HATED TO GO TO THE DENTEST ,AS LONG AS YOU WERE WITH ME I WAS OK.YOU WERE MY STREAGTH..OH HOW I MISS YOU.WHEN I THINK OF THE TIMESWE HAD TOGETHER,OUR LIFE WAS GOOD WE HAD A GREAT FAMILY.& GRANDCHILDREN,YOU LOVED THEM AS THEY LOVED YOU
PRAY FOR US CHARLIE, I KNOW YOU ARE WITH US,I LOVE YOU SO MUCH &MISS YOU MORE THEN EVER
YOU LOVING WIFE
ANN
Tony Chiodo
February 7, 2007
Hi dad,
I hope that everything that we were taught about life and death is true. That means that you are happy and with God and Jesus Christ right now.
Theresa Aliamo passed away on Feb. 5, 2007. I hope that you and Sal are there to great her into heaven like we are taught.
You have no idea how much you are loved and missed.
You will never be forgotten. Love always, your son Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 30, 2006
12-30-06
Hi dad,
I don't know if I should Happy New year, Happy Birthday, or Happy Anniversary, so I will say them all to you.
Today is Saturday, 12-30-06 and this is the DAY that you were taken away from us. The date was 12-31-05.
This past year really sucked. It started with you leaving, then Little Rosie Gallo, then Joe Lyons. Then there were a lot of friends that met you again this year.
Life here will never be the same. Mommy is doing her best to get her life together, but she has been sick. Please watch over her, and also watch over MaryAnn. They are having a hard time and need your help.
You are and always will be missed and loved.
Rest in peace dad.
Your son, Anthony
Tony Chiodo
December 24, 2006
12-24-06
Merry Christmas dad,
It sure doesn't feel like a merry time now. Things aren't the same and will never be again.
We are going by mom for dinner as always and will open gifts. It will not be the same as looking at the chair and you sitting next to mom with that very big smile on your face as the kids open their gifts.
We all know you are with us and will watch from above.
It is hard to write this, but then it is a pleasure to write it, because you are my father, and you were also my best friend and you aren't suffering anymore, and that is the best part.
Please keep watching over mom, she loves and misses you so much as we all do.
Meryy Christmas dad, your son Anthony
ANN CHIODO
November 24, 2006
HELLO MY BELOVED,WE HAD THANKSGIVING BY ELAINE THE THREE GIRLS WORKED SO HARD ,WE WERE ALL TOGETHER, BUT I WAS SO SAD WITHOUT YOU .OH GOD ,I MISS YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE DOES SO MUCH TO MAKE ME HAPPY ,BUT WITHOUT YOU ,,I FEEL SO ALONE.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH &MISS YOU MORE THAN SST ,PRAY FOR ME CHARLIE .TO BE STRONG .
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
YOUR WIFE ,ANN
Tony Chiodo
November 23, 2006
11-23-06
Hi dad,
Today is Thanksgiving Day and the first without you. No day has been the same since you were taken away from us. The only thing good about you not being here, is that you are comfortable now.
What are we thankful for?
We still have mommy with us. The both of you gave all of us the best life we can ask for. I want to thank you both for that.
Have a great Thanksgiving Day
Always know your loved and missed everyday
Poppy isn't hear with us now, but in spirit, you will always be
Pray for all of us and for mommy that she stays well
Yes, it is hard to understand why God does what he does
Thank you for the greatest memories we can have
Have a peaceful rest now and forever
After life should be calm and enjoyable they say, I hope it is
Never think you ever let us down, you didn't
Kindness was always your way
Sharing was better than being alone you taught
Giving love was always what you did
It was never in you to turn your back on anyone
Very happy were the people that you took into your life
I will always love you, miss you, and thank you
Not only did God take you from your family, but your friends also
Gone are the days we will be together and talk like we use to do
I will always love you and I miss you a lot. Hugs and kisses, your son Anthony
ANN CHIODO
November 11, 2006
HELLO MY LOVE,TODAY STACY RECIVED HER CONFMATION ,YOU WOULD BEEN SO PROUD OF HER. SHE LOOKED SO BEAUTIFUL ,I BOUGHT HER DRESS ,YOU WANTED THAT.STEPHINE & SAL HAD A BIG PARTY FOR HER ,EVERYONE WAS THERE, WE ALL MISSED YOU SO MUCH,BUT I KNOW YOU WERE THERE.STACEY SAID SHE MISSED YOU AS WE ALL DID, . YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED &ALWAYS MISSED
WITH ALL MY LOVE
YOUR WIFE ANN
Mary Ann D. Alberts
November 2, 2006
Hi Daddy! I miss you so much. There are so little words that can express how much I/we miss you. I just want you to know that in the morning I am having another sinus operation and I know you will be right there with me and help me get through this. I hate to have this done again but the eye is hurting me and well I need to have it done. While I am incapacitated please watch Mommy and everyone and keep them healthy and safe. I love you.
Your Daughter
Mary Ann
Elaine Fernandes
October 19, 2006
Hey Poppy (my blue eyes) it's Elaine. I want to start out by saying that I miss you and love you more than words can say. I know that people (after reading this) is probably going to think that I belong in a mental hospital or at least talk to someone, and they are probably right, but hey what are you going to do. I just want you to know that I really tried my hardest to do everything in my power to help you. I know you know that I would have done anything for you (still would) just to have you here with us. I don;t tell anyone this, but I guess I'm going to let the cat out of the bag, but I am jealous of Stephanie and Valerie that their kids got to know you and that I only got 7 months for you to get to know Nathan. I happy for them, but just wish that Nathan had more time with you (as for the rest of us).
As hopefully you see, I have been going through some health related things. I'm not really sure if its true that you can hear us or see us from heaven, but I come and talk to you all the time. I have been through hell the last 6 to 7 months, but hopefully now everything is ok with my back. They finally got it right (for now at least) and I know that you were with me all of the times as my angel and I thank you for that. I really needed you there. I was really scared.
I just also wanted to tell you about Nathan. Wow he has grown up so much since the last time you saw him. He is a handful. He talks, runs, climbs on everything, swims, plays baseball (not professional yet, but hopefully someday), he laughs all the time, and he has so many of your features it drives me crazy. He scrunches his nose like your did, he loves to do nosey nosey, he loves music like you and boy oh boy he looks at every female that crosses his path. He loves to sit and watch the airplanes go by. You would have had the best times with him sitting on the front steps watching the airplanes go by and counting them. I would have loved for you to be here with him. We talk about you all the time so he knows all about you (at least for a 1 1/2 year old), but he will in the future also. He is truly amazing and definitely keeping me and Nanny young. We also just got his Halloween costume. he's going to be a talking/singing monkey. I remember last year when you bought him his first costume. It is just not the same without you here.
Alex and I got Nanny a dog. She is so cute. She weights about 4 pounds, white and is full of energy. I know its not you, but its helps her alot. We have been each others rock. With me out of commission all this time and out of work, and you not being here, we have each other to keep ourselves company. Don't worry she is doing ok. We both (all) miss you like crazy.
I sat in your chair today. All I saw was you sitting there. Me feeding you, listening to your stories (which I miss soooooo very much), and just being with you.
I really hope that they preach about you being reunited with everyone you love in heaven and that your happen, but life really has changed drastically since your gone. YOur presence is missed at every function, birthday, bbq, some silly little everyone is going by Nanny and Poppy for dinner tonight and barging in on you to every holiday. I don't ever want you to think for see or feel that anyone stuck down here has forgotten you because that would never be the case. Your unforgettable.
I will let you rest now, but know that I miss you and love you so much. Some days don;t even seem bearable to deal with, but than I think of you on my shoulder and than poof your there.
Always stay there. I love you and miss you.
Love your granddaughter
Elaine
ANN CHIODO
October 18, 2006
HELLO MY DARLING ,I HOPE & PRAY THAT YOU ARE AT PEACE.WE MISS YOU SO MUCH,PRAY FOR US..ALL THE KIDS MISS YOU & LOVE YOU.YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY HEART.I LOVEYOU
YOUR WIFE .ANN
Tony Chiodo
October 16, 2006
10-16-06
Hi Dad,
I am going to Minnesota today and will be back Thursday. Jonathan is doing so, so with the store. Mom is still hurting and having problems walking. Elaine had her surgery again.
Please watch over them and everyone else. It is birthday time and it is the first that you aren't here with us for them.
You are always in my thoughts and I will always love you. I miss you so much. Your son, Anthony
ANN CHIODO
September 12, 2006
MY DEAREST HUSBAND ,I MISSU SO MUCH.MY LIFE IS SO LONESOME.YOU WERE MY LIFE .WE HAD A GOOD LIFE ,WE HAD OUR UPS & DOWNS .BUT WE HAD LOVE.I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER &SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE.PRAY FOR ME CHARLIE AS I PRAY FOR YOU EVERY DAY
WITH ALL MY LOVE
YOUR WIFE
ANN
Andrea Satler
September 12, 2006
Hi Charlie. Went with Mom's favorite daughter ( Maddy ) and Sandy yesterday. We took mom to the Classic Residence which is part of the Hyatt Resort chain. We wanted Mom to see the place and know that when she and John are ready they could possibly go there. It was amazing. Just like a hotel. It was beautiful. I know they are not yet ready for it, but, I did not want Mom to think this place was like an assisted living or nursing home. Far from it - It was super.
Earlier in the day Mom and Maddy went to the Fair Lawn Senior Citizens Center. Mom did the aerobics class. She was not interested in the ceramics. She made some nice friends with some of the other seniors who were there.
Wish you could have been there also.
They also play cards - which I know you always enjoyed.
Laurie and Lindsay are doing great.
Lindsay now has a puppy. His name is Finnegan and he is so cute. He is a schnoodle ( schnozer/poodle ).
Dan and I went up to Oneanta to visit his father. You knew his dad from the police department. I saw Neil the other day and he was asking how your family is doing. He always speaks highly of you. Guess that is it for now. Will write again soon.
Angelina bartoloni
September 10, 2006
Hi Pop,
Just wanted to let you know Jonathan opened his own store yesterday. It's called Bargain Bin. It's a dollar store plus. Almost all of the family was there and we know you were there in thought and spirit also.You would haved loved to go shopping there. He has a little bit of everything. I just want to ask you to keep your eye on him and make sure he makes a go of it. He has wanted this for a very long time. Just watch over him and Nanny and Mary Ann too. She is having a really hard time dealing with you not being here. Please try to give her some peace of mind. And watch over the rest of the family too.
Love you,
Angie
Tony Chiodo
September 10, 2006
Hi dad,
Yesterday Jonathan had his dream come true. He opened his own store. It is called the Bargain Bin and is in Rochelle Park. Only a couple of the family weren't there to be with him on this day and you were missed so much. Jonathan and I stopped to see you before we went to the store to open.You would have been so proud of him as he cut the ribbon with the Mayor. Mommy was there as so was Stephanie,Sal, Stacey. Salvatore, Elaine,Alex, Nathan, Valerie,Christyn, Norma & Bruce, John & Dinah, Angie, Joyce, Evan, Bradan, Brandon, Betty, Evan mother,Eva, Brandan's mother, and a whole lot of the Townspeople.
Please keep watching over mommy and everyone else and help Jonatha to make the store go well.
I, as well as everyone the knows you, miss you and love you so much.
Your son Anthony.
Stacey Principato
September 9, 2006
heyy poppy highschool is great. the classes are hard though but the days go by very quickly. Algebra is awesome my teacher is so cool. my world history teacher and i both like wrestling so. anyways i have to go, see ya later
~Stacey~
MARY ANN D. ALBERTS
September 8, 2006
SEPTEMBER 8, 2006
HI DADDY JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU THE FEAST IS HERE AND YOUR NOT. OH GOD HOW IT HURTS. I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU.
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