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Philip A. Twomey July 31, 1937 - September 19, 2012 New London - Philip A. Twomey, Command Sergeant Major, U.S. Army, (Retired) passed away on September 19, 2012 in New London. He was 75 years old. He was born on July 31, 1937 in Norwich to Frances and John Twomey. He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Marie Twomey, of New London, two daughters, Patricia Twomey (Curtis Lind) and Elizabeth Rychling, both of Las Vegas, Nevada, two grandsons, Daniel Meuse (Kristen) of Cranston, Rhode Island, and Eric Meuse of Las Vegas, Nevada. He is also survived by his great grandchildren, Abigail Martha Meuse and John Philip (Jack) Meuse. Also surviving are two sisters, Peggy Blake and Isabelle Aleskiewicz (Matthew), both of Norwich, and a sister-in-law, Helga Twomey of New London, niece Carolyn Pryor (Edward), nephews John P.Twomey (Gary Baillargeon), William (Shawna), Charles, John, David, and Thomas Blake, and Michael Aleskiewicz (Elena). He was predeceased by his parents and his twin brother, Thomas M. Twomey. He was a cum laude graduate of Connecticut College in New London, Connecticut, with distinction in the major field (Chemistry). He was employed as a chemist and laboratory manager by Pfizer, Inc., At the time of his retirement, he managed all laboratories involved with the manufacture of finished products at the Pfizer Groton, Connecticut manufacturing site. He was recognized by the U.S. Federal Court system as an expert in penicillin chemistry and in the manufacture of penicillin products. He retired from Pfizer in 1996, and then concentrated on operating an Information Technology company servicing small businesses in the southeastern Connecticut area. He began his collegiate and military career as a member of the Class of 1959, U.S. Coast Guard Academy. He left the Coast Guard Academy, joined the U.S. Army and completed his military career over a period of some 30 years, both on active duty and in the US Army Reserve. He served in leadership positions throughout his career, including Company First Sergeant, and then Command Sergeant Major at Battalion, Brigade, Maneuver Training Command, and Division levels. He also served as the Commandant of a First Army Senior NCO Academy. His awards include the Legion of Merit, three awards of the Meritorious Service Medal, the Army Commendation medal, and the Army Achievement medal as well as many lesser awards, decorations and citations. He was classified as an expert in all weapons systems available to the Light Weapons Infantryman. He was an accomplished golfer and one of the original members of Fox Hopyard Golf Course. He was also a long time member of the Shennecossett Golf Course where he scored the first three of his four holes-in-ones. A second avocation that provided him with many hours of enjoyment was photography. In retirement, he volunteered his services to support the technology hardware at Saint Joseph School in New London, and at Saint Patrick Cathedral School in Norwich. He also served as a Technology instructor at both schools. Calling hours are Thursday from 5-8 P.M. at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 A.M. Friday in St. Patrick Cathedral, Norwich, with interment to follow in St. Joseph Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Joseph School in New London or St. Patrick School in Norwich.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Sep. 20, 2012.

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Edward Vopat

May 16, 2024

I was just looking through my military records, and ran across a letter from CSM Twomey from 1985. It brought happy tears to my eyes, and those have been hard to come by. I wanted to look him up and say hello. To his family, please know he is still missed by his soldiers

Frederick Zirin

November 9, 2016

I knew SGM TWOMEY in 1975-1976, a true gentleman and leader without peer. My condolences for his loss.

John Crowley

September 25, 2012

Liz,
I am sorry to hear of your family's loss.
We should all aspire to be as influential a father, a mentor, and an inspiration as you father.

September 24, 2012

Dear Marie,
Please accept my prayers and condolences.
I am so sorry. I just noticed Phil's obituary in this morning's (Mon., 9-24-2012)Norwich Bulletin.
Jacqui Keller

Len and Jackie Szczygiel

September 24, 2012

Thoughts and prayers for your family in this tough time. I am sorry I saw this too late to attend services. God Bless!

Tom Alligood

September 24, 2012

Marie
Please accept my deepest sympathies to you and your family of your loss.
Phil was a terrific, quality individual.
Tom Alligood

September 23, 2012

Dear Marie and family,
We have lost a great friend and wonderful person. I shall always remember his stories and contagious laughter. Love, Melissa Andriks

September 23, 2012

Marie,we were saddened to hear of Phil's passing. Unfortunately, it was after the fact or we would have attended the services. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Phil will be missed by all his freinds at the Hopyard.

With our deepest sympathy,
June and Austin Gillis

Bill Satti and family

September 23, 2012

Great man an mentor for so many of our children at St.joseph's. Our thoughts and prayers are with him

james and Anne Logan

September 23, 2012

Our deepest sympathy to the Twomey family. I have fond memories of Waterford and teaching the girls at Clark Lane. You are a wonderful family.

Kay Belli

September 22, 2012

Peggy and Isabelle...So sorry to find that you all have lost Phil. You kids were like my own. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

September 21, 2012

Marie, so sorry to hear of Phil's death. Thinking of you & your daughters at this sad time.

Peggy Healy, Saunderstown, RI

sandra coval

September 21, 2012

My deepest condolences to the Twomey family in your time of grief as God welcomes home his beloved son Philip.

patricia gagnon

September 21, 2012

My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time. My deepest sympathy.
Sincerely, Pat Gagnon

Arlene Pollack

September 21, 2012

Please accept my sincere sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss.

Mark and Joan Callaghan

September 21, 2012

Dear Mrs. Twomey and family,
We grieve with you the passing of an accomplished and loving man. His service to others has been, and will continue to be, a source of great inspiration. We pray that your good memories will comfort you in the days ahead.

Leo Rice

September 21, 2012

Marie So sorry to hear of Phil's death. He was a great person to work with and when he became supervisor of all the plant Labs, to work for. I regarded him as a personal friend and remember him fondly.

Leo Rice

Tim Bonanno

September 21, 2012

To the Twomey Family
I am so sorry for your loss. Mr.Twomey was my mentor when it came to the computers he built for my buisness.Over the years I saw how much he loved his family. I will miss him and his stories of how he took care of his daughters.
Tim Bonanno

THOMAS PHALEN

September 21, 2012

Marie, Patty and the entire Twomey family….

Please accept our deepest sympathies on Phil's passing. May you be comforted by your memories of a devoted husband, father and grandfather and a life well–lived in service to his God, his country and his fellow man. May he rest in peace.

Tom and Janis Phalen

September 21, 2012

Dear Mrs. Twomey,
I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Tracy Stronski Smith

Thomas Gionet

September 21, 2012

Sorry to hear about your loss. We grew up with the Twomey's.Our condolences go out to you and the family.With love and prayers Tom & Olive Gionet

Andrew Cannon

September 21, 2012

Mrs. Twomey and all of Phil's family... I am deeply saddened by your loss. Phil was always a gentleman with quick wit and charm. I enjoyed his invaluable assistance with the St. Patrick School auctions. He will be missed greatly by both schools and all who knew him. My thoughts are with you today.

Carol Dooley

September 21, 2012

Dear Marie and Family,
Please accept my very deepest condolences
for the passing of Phil. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
With sympathy,
Carol Dooley

The Blette family

September 21, 2012

Our sincere condolences to the Twomey family. We will remember Mr. Twomey everytime we look at the beautiful pictures that he took of the kids over the years. We will also always remember his friendly and warm smile. May your memories help you through this difficult time and give you peace.

Steve Durham

September 21, 2012

My sincere condolences to your family.I am saddened by the news of Phil's passing. He was a great guy and the consumate gentlemen. I have fond memories of our golfing days at Shenny with Ed and Tom. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Blette family

September 21, 2012

Our sincere condolences to the Twomey family. Everytime we look at all the beautiful pictures of the kids that Phil took over the years we will always remember him. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Eve & Rit Manthous

September 21, 2012

A wonderful man who helped mankind. Please accept our sympathies for your loss. May his memory be eternal.

Teri Bruce

September 20, 2012

Dear Mrs. Twomey,

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and wishing you peace.

James Cortina

September 20, 2012

To the family of Phil Twomey, my thoughts and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time.I am so deeply saddened to have learned about his passing. Phil always went out of his way to help our association when we needed his help. He will be missed by all that knew him.

Director / Connecticut Police Work Dog Assoc.

September 20, 2012

good guy- very intelligent man!

September 20, 2012

Dear Marie and the Twomey family,

We are saddened to learn of Phil's passing. Roland and I send our deepest sympathy to you and yours.

Colette and Roland Trailor, Sr

Amber Hickey and Tab Ford

September 20, 2012

Anytime we take a picture we will think about you. RIP Mr. Twomey. You were our favorite teacher at Saint Joes. <3

dennis riley

September 20, 2012

Marie: My condolences on your loss. His life's composite was truly a remarkable one. Please convey my condolences to your children and the other members of the family.

Frank Kohanski

September 20, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the Twomey family. Phil was a friend, a co-worker, and a fellow golfer. Rest in Peace, Phil.

Russell Nickerson

September 20, 2012

I so enjoyed asking Phil and receiving help with my computer over many years. His answers were always helpful, sometimes accompanied with humor. We go back to Pfizer in the eighties when we first got acquainted. I will miss him!

Richard and Sharon Morgan

September 20, 2012

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

September 20, 2012

Thank you for your time at St. Joesephs, you taught me photography and thank you

Laura Light

September 20, 2012

May His light shine upon you and may His comfort be felt by all those left behind.

September 20, 2012

Dear Marie, It's with a sad heart that I heard the news about Mr. Twomey. Every time I use my computer, I think of him. I will keep his memory in my heart and in my prayers. I will also pray for you. God bless you always. Sister Bernard

September 20, 2012

Dear Marie and Family,

You are in my prayers and my heart in this time of sadness for your family. Phil and you Marie have been a great support for me at St. Joseph and I am ever grateful. As Phil's life and accomplishments are celebrated, I count myself as fortunate to have met him and to have been one of the beneficiaries of his gerosity of time, talent, and treasure.

May the love and memories you share bring confort to each of you.

With love,
Marianne Cote

September 20, 2012

Dear Marie and Family,
The Saint Joseph School Family sends its thoughts and prayers at the loss of our wonderful friend. We give thanks to you for sharing Phil with us as he enhanced our technology and photography programs. His legacy will continue to live on at St. Joseph.

With love to all,
The Saint Joseph School Family

Michelle Herter

September 20, 2012

To the Twomey Family,

We had the pleasure of knowing and working with Mr. Twomey when he stepped in to help us with our computers many years ago. He was so patient with us as we were trying to learn the ropes of bringing computers into our practice. Never upset by our constant calls asking him a million questions, or to help us with a computer problem. It was always a pleasure to have him come to our office for a service call, and we always enjoyed hearing about his latest golf experience. It was an honor and a privilege to know him, and my hope is that the memories of him will help your family cope with his loss. He will be missed by many.
My deepest sympathy on behalf of everyone at Children's Dental Associates of New London County.

Patricia Leroy

September 20, 2012

Marie and Family,
This is such sad news to hear. I will forever treasure all that Phil taught me about technology, photography and what it means to be generous in spirit. My world was a better place because of him. I hope to continue some of his good works. May God comfort you and hold Phil in his loving arms.

September 20, 2012

Marie, my condolences on losing Phil. He and Tom were good friends when we served together in the CT National Guard.
Take care, Bill Pedace
Abiquiu, NM

The Bergeron Family

September 20, 2012

Mrs. Twomey and Family - Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Judy Dailey

September 20, 2012

I am so sad for your loss. My sympathy to you and the family.

Meredith Morrison

September 20, 2012

Marie- What a blessing to have had the opportunity to meet and work with Phil. He was an amazing man who touched so many hearts and brought smiles to so many faces. I will always remember the way he lit up when when speaking of you and your family, and the way he loved his photography. Thank you Marie- for sharing Phil with the entire family of the Diocese of Norwich. We will miss him. Fondly,

John and orchis Moon,jr

September 20, 2012

I worked with Phil at Pfizer. He was a gentleman all the way. Our condolences to,the family.

Carol(lyn) Drury Allen

September 20, 2012

Marie, Condolences to you and your family in this great loss of your husband, Phil.

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