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Shane Sweeney Obituary

Shane Ryan Sweeney October 19, 1992 - January 26, 2013 Oakdale - Shane Ryan Sweeney, age 20, of Oakdale, passed away unexpectedly on January 26, 2013 in Norwich, the victim of a single-vehicle accident. He was born to James and Beth McKechnie Sweeney of Oakdale on October 19, 1992 in New London. Shane graduated from Montville High School in 2010 and attended Lincoln Technical Institute in New Britain. After attending Lincoln Tech, he was employed by AT&T, where he worked as a Premises Technician installing and repairing home entertainment systems and telecommunications equipment. He was described by his co-workers as a dedicated worker and was well-liked by everyone. Besides his parents, James and Beth; he is survived by one sister: Erin Sweeney of Oakdale; two grandmothers: Eleanor Sweeney of Lewisburg, Pennsylvania, and Jeanne McKechnie of Lake Wales, Florida; three aunts: Patricia Sweeney of Dallastown, Pennsylvania; Jacquelynn Lawrence of Lake Wales, Florida; and Karen Wescott of Mystic; one uncle: Steven Wescott of Mystic; and three cousins: Jonathan Lawrence, Raymond Wescott, and Colin Wescott, all of New London. He was predeceased by his two grandfathers: Leo Sweeney of Lewisburg, Pennsylvania, and John McKechnie of Lake Wales, Florida. He was loved by all and is sorely missed. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday at 10:00 A.M. at Our Lady of Lakes Church in Oakdale, meeting directly at church. Burial will follow in Maplewood Cemtery. Calling hours will be held on Thursday from 6-9 P.M. at the Woyasz & Son Funeral Home, 11 Jerome Rd, Uncasville. Shane loved animals, so in lieu of flowers, the family requests that you send donations to the Connecticut Humane Society, PO Box 41, 169 Old Colchester Road, Quaker Hill, CT 06375.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin on Jan. 30, 2013.

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Mom

January 27, 2025

I miss you every day.

Aunt Jackie

January 25, 2024

Sweetie, I can´t believe it´s been 10 years! We had some great times! Miss you! I love you always!! Love, Aunt Jackie

Beth and Jim Sweeney

January 25, 2024

Brian - Thank you for always remembering. It means a lot to us. He always shows us signs, even 11 years later. <3

Brian G. Le Blanc

January 24, 2024

Rest Well. Prayers to the family

Brian G. Le Blanc

January 19, 2022

You are in my thoughts, and prayers

Beth Sweeney

August 19, 2013

Thank you for your sweet post, Jennifer. I'm so glad that he was so kind to you. He had a heart of gold.

Jennifer Van Winkle

August 16, 2013

Much love Shane you are missed. Wishes we could have talked more in hs, like we did in TYL in computers class.God times funny times in that class.

Jennifer Van Winkle

August 16, 2013

I went to school with shane,I actually even graduated with him. He was full of life and so kind to all. I am glad that I had the chance to know Shane and go threw school with him. He always had a smile that would light up a room when he walked in. I remember being the new student back in TYL, Shane helped me get to my classes and even was sweet to also helped me meet some people. He will be missed, I will never forget how great of a person Shane was to everyone. To the family I am sorry for the loss of your son and brother. Never forget Shane is always with us, hes one of a kind that we all are lucky to know in our lives.

Jackie Lawrence

March 14, 2013

Beth, I'm so glad you paid to keep his guest book online! :)

Beth

March 12, 2013

I'm so glad he felt true love with you Lily. It was the best 2 years of his life too. <3

Lily

March 11, 2013

I'm so blessed i got to spend 2 years of my life with this boy. I love you so much. You are my guardian angel. <3

Laura Seras

February 26, 2013

Beth and family, My deepest sympathy to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Sue Sullivan

February 14, 2013

Beth, Jim and family
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Shane. I can remember sitting in Karen's kitchen with him on ly lap so many years ago. He had the biggest and brightest smile then and he still does. I was not able to attend the calling hours or the services due to a sudden illness but I was thinking of all of you and said a prayer for Shane. All my love Sue "WHO" as "The Grand Pooh Bah" always called me

Meg Garrett

February 10, 2013

Dear Beth, Jim and Erin--Mrs Sweeny just informed me of your tragic loss-- I as very sorry and I am keeping all of youin my prayers. Margie Robins Garrett

February 8, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Stephanie Gauthier
Donna Haggerty

Michael Salerno

February 5, 2013

It is with a heavy heart that Shane has passed into God's loving embrace. I had the privilege of car pooling to and from AT&T training last year with him
. My favorite memory of Shane is, one day on our way home Shane asked me about God. We talked, and at the end of our trip that day, Shane asked me to pray with him. We did, and I had the privilege of hearing him invite Jesus into his life, and his heart. I will never forget my friend. He was a young man I felt had it all together. Rest in peace. Chane, Chane, Chane......

Brent

February 5, 2013

Shane was a good friend and co-worker. He wil be greatly missed. My prayers are with your family.

February 3, 2013

Jim and Beth
Our prayers are with you during this time of grief. Our hearts go out to you.
Dave Brungard and Susan Thiebaud Hillsboro Oregon

Margie Cooper

February 3, 2013

Beth and Family,

Words cannot express how truly saddened I am to hear of your loss. I have such fond memories of our friendship back when you were pregnant with Shane and hosting your baby shower. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Paula Michaud

February 3, 2013

Jim , Beth and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you, Im so sorry for your loss, GOD BLESS!!

Linda Dulin

February 3, 2013

My son Collin went to school with Shane and as I sit here I pray that God will watch over you and your family and guide you through this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss of your son.

Linda Troutman, Snder

February 2, 2013

Jim and Family, All of the Troutman's of Lewisburg send our sympathy and prayers to you all during this sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Sandy (Blackstone) Antonellis

February 1, 2013

Dear Sweeney & McKechnie families, My thoughts and prayer are with you at this time. My God watch over you and comfort you all.

Barb and Mike Hess

February 1, 2013

Dear Beth and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. I hope you can find comfort in the loving support of friends.

marcy watrous

February 1, 2013

Beth,Jim and family I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss Shane was a wonderful young man I will keep you all in my prayers god bless you Marcy Watrous

February 1, 2013

Thoughts and Prayers... The Chicketti Family

Bonnie Banks

February 1, 2013

My deepest sympathy to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Terri Barning

February 1, 2013

My deepest condolences on the loss of such a fine young man. I had the honor of having Shane in my CCD classes at Our Lady of the Lakes, and he graduated MHS with my daughter, Sarah. Our prayers to your entire family

Dan Stopa

February 1, 2013

So sorry for your loss :{

Dale Goulekas

January 31, 2013

Peace & comfort to Shane's family...

Dale Goulekas

January 31, 2013

My deepest sympathy to all of you. I have been sick and not able to attend the services. I have been keeping you in my thoughts and pray for you to find comfort in the loved ones than have gathered to support you during these difficult times. Take care of yourselves. Your Angel Shane is now smiling down upon you....

Francine Gumkowski

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your whole family.

Jamie Selbie

January 31, 2013

Beth,
Our hearts go out to you,Jim & Erin. I cannot even begin to imagine how hard this is. I was just recently watching a video of our kids celebrating a birthday when they were little. There are no words to make this any easier that is for sure, sending you strength & positive thoughts.
Hugs,
Jamie, Elijah & Kyle

Donna Brycki

January 31, 2013

To the Sweeney Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Shane always had me laughing. My thoughts & prayers are with you..

Kim Keefer (Acy)

January 31, 2013

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Caroline Telgarsky

January 31, 2013

To Jim and Beth,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son Ryan. My deepest Sympathies
Caroline Telgarsky

January 31, 2013

Thank you everyone for your kind words, prayers and thoughts. It really does help! Love, Jackie, Jonathan & Meg

Beth, Jim, & Erin Sweeney

January 31, 2013

Thank you all for your kind and healing words and prayers. They are helping us through this difficult time.

Brenda Lavoie-Hall

January 31, 2013

Beth & Family, I am so saddened to hear of your sudden loss. My heart aches for all of you. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this tragic time.

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth, Jim and family, We are so sorry for the great loss of your beautiful boy. We pray that you will find some comfort through God's love during this most difficult time.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are here for you in whatever you need. Leslie and Dave

Nora (Wood) Taylor

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth and Family - I hope knowing that we are all thinking of and mourning with you all is some comfort and know that you will always have our support and love while Shane now watches over all of you from wherever his bright spirit resides now. No words can express the heartbreak and sadness, take it one day at a time.

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth and family, My heart is with you. My deepest condolences.

Rob Goodwin

Morgan~ Elise Welch

January 31, 2013

Shane was a great friend. Inspiring and always there for you. I told him i was afraid to leave for boot camp he said don't be your not allowed to back out you have helped me now I am helping you. My prayers to the family. He was a great person to talk to if you were down and always happy to see people. Again my prayers. ~ Morgan- Elise

Tim Dulin

January 31, 2013

I was shocked when I heard the tragic news.Shane was one of Collin's first friends from back at Oakdale school.I am truly sorry for your loss.

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth and family, My deepest sympathy goes out to you. Find comfort that Shane is with God and will forever look down on you and protect you. He is your guardian angel. Peace to his family and friends. Joyce Healey

Margie

January 31, 2013

Beth you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there's anything we can do.

January 31, 2013

Dear Jim and family.I am sorry about your loss. May God bless you in your time of grief and sorrow. Ted Czyczerski

Michael and Sheila Gwizdak

January 31, 2013

Beth and family
We were so sorry to hear about your loss of Shane. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Danny & Idette Thompson

January 31, 2013

Jim and Family: So sorry for your loss. Can't imagine the pain you must be feeling but just know we are thinking about you.

Marleen & Mike Myers

January 31, 2013

Beth, Jim, Erin and Family,
We are deeply sadden by your loss. Healing moves at its own pace. Be kind to yourselves and take one day at a time. I know your heart is aching and we are truly sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts an prayers.
Marleen & Mike Myers

Annette Jackes

January 31, 2013

Dear Sweeney & McKechnie families; Words can not express the sorrow or ease the pain of your suffering, I know this. But please know you are thought of and prayed for, that Shane's soul has been prayed for, and that God is with you.

With deepest sympathy,

Annette J.

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth, Jim and Erin, My heart breaks for your loss. Shane was a wonderful person so funny and bright. I am so blessed to have had all the opportunities to see him grow from a little boy to the brilliant man he became. Love to you all. Alice

Beth Farbotka

January 31, 2013

Dear Beth and family, my prayers and thoughts are with you and I hope you feel God's embracing all of you through this time of much sorrow. God Bless

Dan McSparran

January 31, 2013

My thoughts and prayeys are with the Sweeney family at this time of loss.

January 31, 2013

Love and Peace to you all.. love Dee & Gregg

Ed Dutra

January 31, 2013

Beth, Jim and Family,
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Fred and Dee Bruning

January 31, 2013

Jim, Beth and Erin,
Our heart felt sympathy for your loss of Shane. What a wonderful young man who will be missed. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen (McKechnie) Wescott

January 31, 2013

Thank you all for your kind words of sympathy. It is these expressions of love, support, and prayer that are keeping us all going.

Susan Bakowski-Kuhn

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth & Family,

I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. ~Hugs to all of you~

Joanna Stamp

January 30, 2013

To the Sweeney Family,
It seems like just yesterday that Shane and Erin were a part of our Bright Horizons family. We were terribly saddened to hear about Shane's passing. He will always remain in our thoughts and our prayers. Please know that we are thinking of all of you, and we are so sorry for your loss.
-Your friends at Bright Horizons

Lynn Craul

January 30, 2013

Dear Jim,
I can't even guess the pain you are suffering. Please know you all are in my prayers and thoughts. He was so handsome! Shane is the same age as my youngest. I can't even imagine how that would hurt!

Rashmi Venkatesh

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth and family

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies and prayers. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Sincerely
Rashmi venkatesh

Billy ,Debbie Caron

January 30, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Pat Robinson

January 30, 2013

Beth, deepest heart felt sympathies to you and your family. No words can comfort you at this very sad time, but I hope that knowing the love and support around you can help you cope during the days ahead. Deepest regards!

Ellen (Regan) Sefransky

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth: I remember when you were pregnant with Shane. My heart aches for you guys because I know even at 20 he was still your baby boy. I have been praying for him and your family.

Anthony Gialpis

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth and Family,

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May your son rest in peace and God rest his soul. My prayers are with all of you.

With deep sympathy,
Anthony Gialpis

January 30, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Janet McCarthy

January 30, 2013

We were so saddened to hear about Shane. I will always remember the sweet little blonde boy with a wonderful smile from Oakdale School. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. From Dan, Janet, Melinda &Julia McCarthy

Linda Kowaleski

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth, family and friends-
It is so sad to lose a child at any age. May it comfort you to know so many people care and offer God our prayers in Shane's name. And may these prayers bring you comfort and peace now and in the days ahead.
So very sorry for your loss.
Very sincerely-
Linda Kowaleski

January 30, 2013

Dearest Beth and family, I send you my deepes symathy and many prayers. My heaaart is with you. Irene Pia Hill

James Allard

January 30, 2013

Jim,
I am so so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
~Jim Allard

January 30, 2013

Jim and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dave & Mary Hillibush

Vickie & Stephan Ambrosch

January 30, 2013

Beth and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

AL Garceau

January 30, 2013

Jim & Family My Thought's and Prayer's are with you alway's during these hard time's with the loss of your son, God Bless you and your Family.

LISA BELARDO

January 30, 2013

Shane was friends with my nephew and whenever he was around he was always such a sweet boy! May god be with his family and friends in this horrible time of need. shane you will be greatly missed!!

Kathy Fletcher

January 30, 2013

Beth, Jim, Erin : No words can ease the pain or answer the questions you are all experiencing. You with continue to be in my thoughts and prayers for comfort and healing at this most difficult time. Sincerely Kathy

January 30, 2013

Graduating with Shane, I know how much of a sweetheart he was. Every time I saw him, he was smiling and wherever he is now he is indeed still smiling. -Aj

Nick DeFelice

January 30, 2013

Jim, Beth, Erin I'm sorry, Shane was my best and first friend I will never forgot our childhood together from riding t playing in the woods rest in peace Shane, I love you brother

Karen (Yanchinsky) Harrington

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this tragic time. May you find comfort in family and friends, and in the shared memories of times spent with your son, Shane. With deepest sympathy.

donna hicks

January 30, 2013

Beth, Jim, & Erin, I am deeply saddened by Shane's passing. I will always remember his smile and enthusiasm for life! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mark and Lisa Evans

January 30, 2013

Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.

Danielle Gruhzit

January 30, 2013

God bless you during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.

Brenda Brown

January 30, 2013

Beth, Jim, and Erin - A star shines greater tonight because an angel is watching over you forever. Cherish the memories that you have with Shane as a mom, dad and sister; he loved you all and knew you loved him as well. With sincere sympathy.

Jackie, Nikki, Dom and Emmi

January 30, 2013

Beth, Jim and Erin- Words can not express how sorry we were to hear of Shane's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. You are such a wonderful family and I know Shane will be missed but never forgotten.

Ginny Sellman

January 30, 2013

Beth, my heart aches for you and your family. Deepest sympathy.

MaryEllen Christina

January 30, 2013

To the family of Shane, we are sorry for your loss. To Karen, Steve and family, Joe and I are sorry to learn of your loss. With love, Joe & Mel

David & Ellen Swercewski

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth, Jim, Erin and extended family. You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this painful and difficult time. Words alone cannot express our deepest condolences. Know that God is walking with you and carrying you when you need Him. Love David & Ellen Swercewski

Nikki Pender-Dulin

January 30, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tragic time. So terrible to lose someone so young.

Kristen & Shawn Cooley

January 30, 2013

We are so so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karen Field

January 30, 2013

With deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. Wishing you peace and comfort in the days ahead.

Lori Taylor

January 30, 2013

Dear Beth and Jim,
Please accept my deepest condolences at the loss of your son. I remember when he was a baby, when I knew you then as Lori Gallant, and I lived on Old Colchester Rd, and friends with you , Dee Dee, Cindy and Kendall. Although it has been a long time, my heart hurts for you two. But just know that Shane is now an angel on your shoulders, and will never be forgotten. I wish I were still there in CT for you.
Very Sadly and Sincerely,
Lori Krieger Taylor

richard grillo

January 30, 2013

may god be with you at this time'

Alice Crowell

January 30, 2013

Tenderly may time heal your sorrow. Gently may friends ease your pain, softly may peace replace heartache and may warmest memories remain. You are in my thoughts.

Monique LaBonte

January 30, 2013

I am employee of at&t. I had not had the pleasure of meeting Shane. I am so sorry your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends and co-workers. God Bless!

Madeleine Jarvis

January 30, 2013

Over 25 years ago I lost my 20-year-old son the same way, so I understand the pain you're going through. You don't get over it, you just learn to live with it. He will always be with you in your heart, in your thoughts. My prayers and sympathy to your family during this difficult time.

Dan and Dawn Penman

January 30, 2013

Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. And always remember that the memories will live on as he is now a part of your heart!

Angela Fausset

January 30, 2013

Beth and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers..

cheryl lawrence

January 30, 2013

As a mother who lost a 27 yr old son 7 years ago and a 37 yr old daughter last week my heart goes out to your family. The pain never goes away but the memories will last a lifetime. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Lori Kiely

January 30, 2013

Dearest Beth, I can hardly express my sadness, upon hearing about the loss of your son Shane. There are no words that could ever convey enough meaning after the loss of a child. Shane had a beautiful smile, and I'm sure was loved by all who knew him. He was very blessed to have you for his mom during his all too short years here on this earth. My heart goes out to you and your family during this very sad and difficult time.
My deepest thoughts, prayers, love and concern are with you. Lori

Pat & Mike Gualandi

January 30, 2013

Beth,Jim, Erin and the rest of the family, Please accept our condolences on the loss of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time in your lives. Pat & Mike

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