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John Patrick McQuillan

1940 - 2023

John Patrick McQuillan obituary, 1940-2023, Valparaiso, IN

John McQuillan Obituary

John Patrick McQuillan

11/21/1940 - 8/12/2023

John Patrick McQuillan died peacefully at home on August 12, 2023, in Valparaiso, Indiana, at the age of 82. John McQuillan is survived by his wife, Kathleen (née Drouillard); children, Blaine, Nora (Kevin) Coleman, Dr. Patrick (Dr. Deborah), Ellen (Scott) Drake, and Dr. Ryan (Viviana). He is also survived by his sister Jan (Bruce) Dillow, and his brother James (Eileen) McQuillan. He was preceded in death by his father James and mother Dorothy (née Barns). John and Kathleen are loving grandparents of fourteen: Emma, Grace, Claire, Quinn, Connor (Nora & Kevin); Sarah, Josie, Marisa (Pat & Deb); Sophie, Lila (Ellen & Scott); Luke, Michael, Isabella and Sofia (Ryan & Viviana).

John was born on November 21, 1940, in Pittsburg, PA. His family moved to Metuchen, NJ, Munster, IN, Houston, TX, and back to Munster, IN. He went to Bishop Noll High School in Hammond, IN. He graduated from the University of Notre Dame and also from its law school, becoming a "double Domer". It was at Notre Dame that he met Kathleen Drouillard, who had just finished her studies at St. Mary's College. They were married on July 24th, 1965, at Notre Dame University's Sacred Heart Basilica. They recently celebrated their 58th anniversary.

For 40 plus years, John was a partner at Spangler, Jennings & Dougherty in Merrillville, IN. He loved the practice of law and was an excellent trial, defense lawyer. In his spare time, he enjoyed Notre Dame football, reading, comradery among friends and family vacations with his children and his many grandchildren. In retirement, he pursued a goal of keeping his mind active by taking many classes at Valparaiso University. He also spent many years volunteering for the CASA organization advocating for children. John was a devout Catholic. He and Kathleen participated in the Cursillo movement starting in the late 60's and continuing until his death. They were active parishioners of St. Paul Catholic Church for over 38 years and St. Teresa of Avila for 20 years.

John donated his body to the University of Indiana School of Medicine where two of his sons, his daughter-in-law and his granddaughter are graduates/attending. A memorial mass will be held at 10:00 am on Wednesday, August 16th at St. Teresa of Avila Catholic Student Center, 1511 Laporte Ave, Valparaiso, IN, 46383. Prior to the mass, there will be a visitation starting at 9:00 am in the St. Teresa Community Room. In lieu of sending flowers, we ask that donations be made to CASA at portercountycasa.org or Porter Country CASA, c/o Family & Youth Services Bureau, 253 W. Lincolnway, Valparaiso, IN 46383.

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Published by The Times from Aug. 15 to Aug. 16, 2023.

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Deborah Godshall Haberer

August 28, 2023

Dear Kathleen and family,
We were so sorry to hear of John passing. My Mom, Mary Beth Jone and I were just there visiting and saw Joanne Morrison at Jim's funeral, I had asked about you and Jim. Our family extends our sympathy and prayers to you and your family.
My Dad, Jerry, Jim and John are now together in spirit. We are praying for your peace and healing grace. Love, Deb Godshall Haberer and Mary Beth Jones

Home Instead

August 15, 2023

Our thoughts, prayers, and sincerest condolences go out to the entire McQuillan family. It was an honor to provide care to your father and give peace of mind to your family during this difficult time. May John rest and rejoice in the beauty of Heaven with our Lord.

Barbara Hanson

August 15, 2023

Kathy, Blaine, Nora, Pat, Ellen and Ryan,
I am so sorry to learn of John´s passing. Reading the synopsis of his life encapsulates and embraces the wonderful husband/father/lawyer and friend he was. Our family has so many shared memories for which we are grateful. We join so many others who are grateful for knowing John and are praying with you in your time of profound sadness. Love, Barbara Hanson and family

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