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Memories and Condolences
for Mitchell Gropper
Sponsored by his loving wife for the man of my dreams.
Cyndi
December 15, 2022
Our baby is a senior this year...her college essays...all 3 of them was about you! I know you would have been proud!
Mom and Dad
December 15, 2022
Mom and Dad
December 15, 2022
December 15, 2019
I know this is really just for me...I don't write on this forum often. I think about you everyday. When something happens that's good or bad, I still wish you were here to share that with. I got a letter from one of Matticyns teachers and I cried...I so wanted to share it with you! After I read it, I believed more than ever that you are there with her...every step of the way. Love you still, just me
Your Daughter
May 8, 2016
Hi Daddy! I love you❤
Harvey Meislin, MD
August 26, 2013
Mitch operated on me in 1997 shortly after he finished his fellowship and moved to Arizona. I had no knowledge of his death until someone asked me to recommend a spine surgeon to them. I looked up Mitch and found about about his untimely death.
I was the Associate Chairman of the Department of Surgery at that time and Mitch was the only spine surgeon I would let touch me!
Belated condolences.
Harvey Meislin, MD
no name
June 20, 2013
I'm so sorry you're not here Mitchell. I am thinking of you often these days because the children are growing up. Life moves on in strange ways. Your life continues in your children and all the memories -- so many. I will never understand all of it. Rest in peace young man, rest in peace.
Bob and Marilyn Klouse
May 14, 2013
Mitchell: Thank you for calling me "Champ" and for fixing my back and no more pain!! You told me that this was the year that Father God would welcome you to Heaven. May He comfort you now.I will never forget you nor the true torah Jewish promise to all who cry I am blind and sick and poor in spirit,Oh help me Father God into your life!!!! May we say these things someday again in the City of the Great King Yeshua.
MARILYN GROPPER
February 24, 2013
DEAR SON
YOU ARE SO VIVID IN MY HEART. EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE I HAVE A DREAM OF YOU WHEN YOU WERE A LITTLE BOY, WITH NO CARES. HOW FUNNY YOU WERE, HOW YOU MADE DADDY AND I LAUGH ALL THE TIME. YOU TIED ANYTHING YOU COULD GET AHOLD OF TO TIE AROUND YOUR NECK AND FLY ALL OVER THE BEDS AND HOUSE. YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE A SUPER HERO. GUESS WHAT YOU WERE TO ME.
YOUR BABY WILL BE HERE IN A COUPLE WEEKS. I THINK I WILL SIT WITH HER AND THE PHOTO ALBUM SO SHE CAN SEE HOW CUTE, SMART, AND FUNNY HER DADDY WAS. ARE YOU CURING THE SICK IN HEAVEN? I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH.
MOM
November 22, 2011
I love you Uncle Mitchell and I think about you and miss you more and more every day.
cynthia gropper
December 17, 2010
This is the day I dred; this week is always filled with holiday cheer and get togethers and I remember that week with you. Parties at work; shopping; wondering around Chicago and you telling me "my kids are Jewish, they don't get into the Christmas stuff but our little one will be able to do both". I can cry just as easily now as I did 6 years ago; I just try to not; but I know it is coming no matter how much I wish it wasn't I do miss you; and I love you still.
mackenzie
October 5, 2010
I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
38th Birthday
cynthia gropper
October 5, 2010
Happy Birthday love; Matticyn was sitting by me when I posted your picture on facebook and she said "happy birthday daddy, I miss you"
August 2, 2010
Mitch...as the aweseome concert was near its end...I looked up and knew you were with us...and as I always say when thinking of you..."don't worry, I've got her back"....Linda
Happy Anniversary
cynthia gropper
August 1, 2010
Happy Anniversary!!! No matter what the outcome, I would love you all over again!!!
Lake Powell, The Captain of our ship
December 17, 2008
December 23, 2005
My MAN Mitch, Mitchypoo.....(some of your nicknames I remember you being called)
Just thinking of you and wondering what you're doing right now. Are you cooking something special like you did for us in the OR? Maybe you're cruising around on your recumbent bike in those awful tights. You always made us laugh and always had a smile on your face. That's the way I'll always remember you by.
Your daughter is just beautiful, as I know that you are always watching her. I still can see that twinkle in your eye when you would talk about her or touch CIndy's belly.
Thankyou for all the memories you gave us, it was an honor to have known and worked with one of the most unique neuro surgeons around.(sugar in the wound? what's that about.......IT WORKED!!!!!)
an OR pal-
Michael P. Procter
February 11, 2005
I'm sad to hear of Mitch's passing. I went to high school with him and remember him as a really nice guy. Although we travelled in different circles, we were in a class together one year and wasn't surprised to hear of his success as a doctor. I first learned of Mitch's skills on a medical report on the local news here in Jacksonville back in 1993, and sort of kept tabs on him through the internet over the years. It looks like Mitch made a wonderful life for himself and will be missed by many. Please know that Mitch and his family will be in my prayers.
just your wife
January 27, 2005
hi sweet prince,
The girls on 4 ortho gave me a beautiful locket. It has your initials on it (which will also be the initials of our daughter). It has pictures of you and I. The one from the Munster Christmas party last year, when I wore the dress and pearls that you got for me. And from the railcat baseball game last summer. You look so handsome and your eyes are sparkling just like I remember and cherish when I see them in my dreams.
I miss you so much. By the way I bought a Jeep Cherokee, used, but I think you would be proud of me. I can't put the baby in a convertable. I am really nervous tomorrow they are picking up your cars, I liked going into the garage and seeing them. Now I will just pretend you took them and are lecturing somewhere. You loved to teach.
I will write back later, your mom and dad are coming over this weekend. I am looking forward to seeing them. They help me feel closer to you.
Again, I will wear the locket with your pictures everyday, you will always be by my heart.
love, just your wife
just me
January 25, 2005
Hi my love,
I just wanted to let you know I went to the doctor today. Our daughter is doing very well. She is growing, I am still your little fatty. It is the hardest thing for me to go without you. I remember the first time we went, so do the nurses, they remember how kind and excited you were.
We only have 4 more weeks to go, than our little girl will be here. I asked for an induction date, I don't want to be in labor without you, even though I know in someway you will be with us. I miss you so much, as I promised you, "I will love you forever".
Kathy Cesario
January 24, 2005
To my great friend Marilyn, Larry and the rest of the family. You always talked about all the great and wonderful things that Mitchell has done in his life. The proof is all right in this book. The messages of all the good and the sorrow that everyone feels for you is something you should be so proud of. You should continue to be proud of what Mitchell did in his 40 yrs of life. I know that your heart is aching and you feel empty inside, but continue to remember and cherish all that Mitchell was in his life. His love for you will always be in your heart. He will continue to do amazing things while in heaven. All the angels are so lucky to have him. I am here for you if you need a friend. I love you! Kath
Remember always: When somebody dies, a cloud turns into an angel and flies up to tell God to put another flower on a pillow. A bird gives the message back to the world, and sings a silent prayer that makes the rain cry. People disappear, but they never really go away. The spirits up there put the sun to bed, wake up grass, and spin the earth in dizzy circles. Sometimes you can see them dancing in a cloud during the daytime, when they're supposed to be sleeping. They paint the rain- bows and also the sunsets and make waves splash and tug at the tide. They toss shooting stars and listen to wishes. And when they sing wind- songs, they whisper to us.
Don’t miss me too much. The view is nice and
I'm doing just fine.
Brittany Buzea
January 23, 2005
It's just me. Just got home from the mall with Mom. We went out to lunch with Amy, Zachary, and Chloe today. It was fun!! We went to Red Robin(That's one of the places you guys alllwayyyys went without me);)
Mom's had some dreams about you, she has told me about them, she says she feels better when she wakes up in the morning when she has them. They are nice, hopefully I have one soon. Zachary told me about the one he had. It was funny! He said you had realllyy long hair.
We miss you still..It won't ever go away. There is an empty spot in our hearts for you. It won't ever be filled. Things are kind of blah here without you. Mom mom and Pop pop are coming next weekend to spend some time with us. That will be nice to see them. I think we're going to go visit you. It will be the first time there since we put you to rest. It's going to be really hard, but it's somewhere we'll all be able to feel close to you.
One of your patients emailed me the other night. It was a very heartfelt letter. She told me how she couldn't play her keyboard until you did surgery, and now every time she's on stage she thanks you, because without you she wouldn't ever be able to play agian.:) You saved so many people and I'm so, very proud of you.
Well, I guess I better be going. I'll write again soon. I love you.. Miss you..
Always,
Your princess..
Betsy Quillen
January 23, 2005
To Mike and Sarah Nathan:
You have my deepest sympathy at this time. As you face the challenge of comforting your daughter and grandchildren, know that you are in my prayers for strength, wisdom, and lots of love to give them. We lost contact, unfortunately, but tragedy has a way of bringing us together. I remember both of you as loving, humble supporters of Mitchell and Amy and their family. You gave them a fantastic wedding - Wasn't it great? You guys danced so much that beautiful evening. I remember your smiles, and I remember how beautiful Sarah was walking Amy down the aisle with her dad. They were good times. And more will follow! You are both a blessing to Amy and the children. God Bless you.
Betsy Quillen
January 23, 2005
To Marilyn Gropper:
From one mother passionately in love with her little boy to another. My heart aches for you. You are in my heart in prayer this very moment. May God fill your heart with peace at this very moment. The only thing larger than your grief is God's power and love for you. That may be so hard to believe and understand right now, but I believe it to be true. I feel so much love and compassion for you at this moment, and I believe that the source of it is God. He loves you Marilyn, don't ever forget that in your pain. I loved having an opportunity to meet your loveable, hilarious son when he was roomate to my husband during their medical school years at Penn State/Hershey Medical Center. We have so many memories of our good times with Mitch and Amy. We regret that we allowed time and distance to create distance in our relationship with them. We loved being at Mitchell and Amy's wedding, witnessing your Jewish traditions, the dances, the food, the dancing and love between the Nathans and the Groppers. Your beautiful daughters, Marci and Marla, who became Amy's sisters that day. They were good times -- gifts from God. I think of all of you everytime I hear Stevie Wonder's "You are the sunshine of my life". It was Amy and Mitchell's first dance. We (Dave and I, Mitchell and Amy) praticed dancing in Mitch and Dave's little house in Hummelstown. Remember that? The house they shared with Frank Hamlett. We had so many laughs in that house on weekends. Mitch was a great cook and made the best coffee. He told me about the "seven egg omelets" that he made as a little boy in your home. We laughed and laughed. Mitchell picked out my original wedding band. It was a beauty, and a FAKE because Dave was a poor med student. Another thing we laughed and laughed about. Dave replaced it later, but I have a special love for my faker. Mitchell and I were sometimes more alike than Dave and I....Mitchell and I loved beautiful things, Dave always went for understated. I remember Amy wore your gorgeous mink coat on one New Year' Eve...I have pictures. If I can find them, I'll submit one. They were good times with your son smiling that will warm your heart. We loved him Marilyn and he loved us. I'm sorry that we didn't make that bond a priority over the years. It is our loss to live with. I could go on and on, but would rather do it in person. I would love to see you and Larry and your girls, and recall the good times, as well as assure you that you will smile again. I've witnessed my parents' burial of their son, and I've witnessed them smile again. You will not "recover", but you will live on, and God will never stop loving you. You are his precious creation, and He wants to comfort you. Dave will make his own entry when he is ready.
I thank God for the opportunity to know Mitchell, Amy, the Gropper family and the Nathan family. When Dave and I were leaving for Tucson Arizona for Dave's internship, Larry was the ONLY one who assured me that Arizona was beautiful and that I was going to love it. It was a difficult time for me to leave everything and everyone that I knew. Tell him he was so right. Arizona was beautiful and I loved it. He encouraged and comforted me at a time when I needed it and I hope I can do the same for both of you. You are a special family and you always will be. Amy and Mitchell gave us a book (Oh The Places You'll Go)as we left for Arizona - after a great dinner, chicken marsala, made my Mitchell - On the inside, Amy wrote "As we embark on our journeys to fulfill all our dreams, let's never forget just who was there when all the plans were made. Let's always be important parts of eachother's lives. We will miss you both so much." How poignent those words are today. Let's always be important parts of eachothers' lives, even if only in memory. I will now attempt to reunite with Amy, Zachary and Chloe, and try to keep up my end of friendship better than I did with their daddy.
Peace be with you grieving mommy. You gave the best hugs I ever had. The kind that squeeze the life outta ya. Mitchell had those hugs...Remember that and smile!
I hope we'll meet again.
I'll do my entry to Larry, your girls and the Nathans later. I need to rest a little.
God Bless you.
Ilene
January 22, 2005
Chloe and Zachary,
Even though I see you both almost every day, I wanted to share my memories of your dad with you. I remember when you, your dad, and your mom, Amy, moved into Flossmoor in 1999. It was into the house almost right behind ours. We were so excited to have a new Jewish family in the neighborhood. When we found out that Chloe was Stephanie's age and Zachary was Jessica's age that was even better, two new friends. Dan and I got along immediately with your mom and dad. Since we were all originally from the east coast, New York (Dan and I), Philadelphia (your mom and dad) we had so much in common!! We went out together a lot. We had wondeful dinners followed by very boring theater shows. We celebrated holidays together since we both didn't have family here. Do you remember the trip we all took to Puerto Rico and how much fun we had? As families we had fun, as couples we had fun, and of course as friends Dan and Mitchell had fun. I will always think of your dad and those fond memories.
Donna Chiavaroli
January 19, 2005
My name is Donna Chiavaroli. I met Sarah Nathan, Zachary and Chloe’s grandmother, at work in Philadelphia. Our friendship grew over the past five years and I am happy to say that we are more than co workers… we are friends. We share stories about our children, spouses, family, friends, politics, and religion. We rely on each other to make hard days easier with laughter, treats, or tea…. She always speaks about her family with pride especially her daughter Amy. The kind of pride that I hope my own mother feels when she talks about me. We discussed Amy’s courage to live so far away from family raising two children and making a home for them and her then husband. She speaks of how proud she is of the job Amy is doing raising her grandchildren and how they are blossoming into fine young people. She shares stories about their births, school, sports, camp, and vacations. After she confided in me about the divorce it was easy for me to see that her concern for Amy, Zachary, and Chloe’s wellbeing was overwhelming. When others in her position would resort to bashing the ex husband, she remained focused on being positive for Amy and her grandchildren. I too am a mother of two young children. I struggle each day with the hectic schedules and the continuous effort it takes to instill in them the values my husband and I hold dear. I barely get through some days …even with the support of a loving husband and an involved extended family. I love my family and know that living without any one of them would be difficult. I did not know Mitchell. I heard and read about him. It is easy to see that he meant a lot to a lot of people. I know his family will miss him. I also know that there are a lot of people here in Philadelphia that will miss him…. Miss knowing that he is here to continue sharing his life with his children. Miss knowing that he is here to assist in some of the decision making. Miss knowing that he is here to answer his children’s questions and comfort them. I pray each day for Amy…that she has the energy to maintain the hectic schedules, the steadfastness to instill the values she and her ex husband agreed upon, the courage to be both mother and father to her children, the strength to keep alive their childhood memories of their father, the free time to pamper herself when needed, and most of all the lightness of being … to enjoy life. I know Amy, Zachary, and Chloe will be okay and feel better again soon because they have great family in Philadelphia… my friend Sarah.
Brittany Buzea
January 18, 2005
It seems like it was only yesterday I had to make that 911 call. I remember thinking to myself on the way to the hospital what I was going to say to you..I was going to say "Mitch, DON'T EVER DO THAT TO ME AGAIN". I really thought it was just a little something and you were going to come home. I remember walking down to the ER and I just started bawling. Mom asked me what was wrong and I said "that was so scary". It was, this whole thing is scary. It can happen to anyone, at any time, even if you had the kindess heart in the world, and this proves it.
Today was not such a good day. I kept thinking of that night, the last time I ever saw your face. I miss it, that ol' Mitch look. I even miss the things that I used to tease you about. Calling Mom to see what she was doing after being gone 5 min., Pouting, Your little kid ways. You never know how much you love someone until their gone. I loved you more than words can explain. I think of you everyday, and shed a tear for you everynight. I love you. Sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite.
Princess..
Zachary took this of you in the kitchen tasting and cooking :)
January 18, 2005
cindi gropper
January 18, 2005
Hi Sweet Prince,
It has been one month since I last kissed you good-bye. I must admit, it seems like it is becoming more difficult. It isn't the bad nightmare I was hoping it was, but it is real, you are no longer right next to me. I miss so much your smile and the twinkle in your eyes, I miss working with you and the pride I felt standing next to you. I miss you looking for me even if I was gone minutes. I miss your love for me, and I so miss loving you.
I have been able to last a full day at work, your patients miss you sooo much, they have been a great help to me. The office, the physicians, nurses, hospital have all been so caring and wonderful, yet I miss you.
Zachary, Chloe, Brittany cooked dinner Sunday, it was probably the first time I smiled, and we felt you there, Zachary remembered your secret ingredient for the guacamole. The baby is growing, I am now your not so "little fatty", but you could still find my hip bones and jaw line ;). I am starting to look like the lady we saw in San Diego when we were watching the seals. I must admit, you are probably taking care of me, because so far the aches of the last two months have not been too bad, Thank you,
I want you to know that I am trying. I love you, "more today than yesterday, but I love you less today, less than I will tomorrow".
Love, Just your wife
Lori Lee Pupek
January 17, 2005
Dear Cindy and Family:
I too can share with you your pain and reasons why so soon. I lost my father at the age of 49, 13 years ago. Yes, we have the wonderful memories and pictures to look back on and can feel the presence of him with us as each day goes on. From reading the many entries of the guest book, Dr. Gropper was a very dedicated doctor and touched everyone's lives that surrounded him. I pray for all of you and that little Matticyn will have her Daddy's BIG smile!!
Donald Grey
January 17, 2005
I was shocked, saddened and taken aback by the sudden death of one of the finest doctors I have had the priviledge to know. In my sincerest heartfelt feelings, Dr. "Mitch" Gropper was in a class all of his own. His dedication to this patient and his warm personality will always live with me. He was an extra special doctor and an everyday man. Never once was I treated without the professionalism this kind gentleman portrayed. In my eyes Dr. "Mitch" could walk on water. He indeed was the best of the best. These words are written from my heart. The loss of Dr. Gropper will not be forgotten for his previous dedication to his physician duties will last for an eternity.
Brittany Buzea
January 15, 2005
Hey Mitch,
It's just me, Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you. Mom and I just got back from a movie, we saw Oceans Twelve, it was pretty good. It was kind of hard being there, Mom was telling me how you guys used to sneak into two movies;). Zachary and Chloe are coming over tomorrow we're COOKING!! haha, I know, hard to believe eh? We're gonna do it just like you, well try at least! We got on the food network and picked out different foods, Zachary had the main course, Chlo had dessert, and I did dessert(our favorite):) Yep, we're going to attempt. I'm pretty excited. Help us out will ya? You know us and cooking, that was always your job! We got the baby furniture yesterday, it's beautiful!! Mom said she had a hard time with it since you helped pick it out and everything. We put some of the baby's stuff in the droors and everything, I can't wait till she comes..I'm soo excited!:) I forgot to tell you last time, Zachary, Chloe, and I made the baby a build a bear in the mall. It took forever!! It was really fun though! We named it and everything, and we're going to put it in Matticyn's crib. Mom hasn't seen it yet though, we're going to give it to her at the baby shower..we have another little surprise for her too(shh). Well, I'm going to go downstairs with Mama! I miss you soo much, not a day goes by where I don't. Help us make dinner tomorrow night, I know you'll get a kick out of us trying. I love you! Rest in peace my stepdad.
Always,
Your Princess!:)
MARILYN AND LARRY GROPPER
January 14, 2005
DARLING BABY SON: ALL THAT WE HAVE LEFT ARE MY MITCHELL MEMORIES. WE NEED YOU IN OUR LIVES SO MUCH. WE MISS THE NIGHTLY CALLS "HI MOM, HI DAD" HOW ARE YOU, DO YOU WANT TO TALK TO ZACHARY AND CHLOE?" IT WAS SO HARD BEING SO FAR AWAY FROM YOU, IN INDIANA US IN PENNSYLVANIA. YOU NEVER SHARED HOW MANY LIVES YOU SAVED, HOW MANY PATIENTS LOVED YOU. YOU WERE SO HUMBLE. WE WERE SO PROUD OF WHAT YOU DID WITH YOUR LIFE, BUT NEVER KNEW THE LIVES YOU WERE SAVING EVERY DAY. YOU HAD SO SHORT A TIME OF HAPPINESS IN THE PAST YEAR, SO PROUD OF YOUR NEW WIFE, NEW HOME, YOUR COOKING AND ENTERTAINING. YOU CAME FROM US AND KNEW THAT THE MORE PEOPLE WE OPENED UP OUR HOUSE TO AS YOU CHILDREN WERE GROWING UP MADE A HAPPY HOME. OUR DOORS WERE ALWAYS UNLOCKED TO YOUR FRIENDS AND YOUR SISTERS FRIENDS AND WE WERE PROUD TO BE PART OF THE FUN IN OUR HOME. WE TRIED OUR BEST TO MAKE YOU INTO A KIND AND GENEROUS ADULT AND WE HOPE WE SUCCEDDDED. YOUR FIRST GRADE TEACHER SENT US A CARD REMEMBERING WHAT AN ADORABLE FUNNY LITTLE BOY YOU WERE. NO MATTER HOW EXCELLED IN SCHOOL YOU WERE, YOU STILL HAD TIME FOR SPORTS AND SCHOOL SHOWS. TODD AND YOUR OTHER FRIENDS FROM JR. AND SENOIR HIGH SCHOOL WERE HERE TO SEE US. WITH TEARS IN THEIR EYES THEY CAN'T BELIEVE YOU HAVE LEFT US SO SOON. JEFF MISSES YOU TERRIBLY AND FLEW OUT FOR THE FUNERAL. I DON'T THINK YOU KNEW WHAT AN IMPACT YOU HAD ON PEOPLES LIVES. YOU WILL NEVER BE REPLACED BY ANYONE. YOU WERE ONE OF A KIND. THE SUN HAS NOT BEEN OUT SINCE WE BURIED YOU. THERE IS A PIECE OF HEART THAT IS MISSING FROM DAD AND MY HEART,IT WILL NEVER GROW BACK. WE HAVEN'T STOPPED CRYING SINCE YOUR PASSING. WE NEED TO BE WITH YOU. WE ARE NOW JUST LIVING FOR YOUR SISTERS, GRANDCHILDREN, NIECES AND NEPHEWS, NA NA SALLY YOU LEFT BEHIND. PLEASE KNOW HOW MUCH YOU MEANT TO DAD AND I. WE DON'T KNOW WHAT G-D WAS THINKING WHEN HE TOOK YOU FROM US AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE WHEN YOU HAD SO MUCH LEFT TO DO IN THE WORLD. WE WILL NEVER KNOW THE ANSWER. DAD AND I HAD THREE CHILDREN AND WE WOULD GIVE OUR LIVES TO BRING YOU BACK. A HUGE MISTAKE WAS MADE WHEN THEY TOOK YOU FROM US AND THE WORLD. IT MAKES NO SENSE OF WHY YOU ARE GONE. WE GO TO SYNAGOGUE EVERY DAY TO SAY THE MOURNERS PRAYER, BUT WE ARE STILL FINDING NO SOLICE IN PRAYER. WE WANT YOU NOT A SYNAGOGUE OR PRAYER BOOK. WE WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW MUCH WE LOVE YOU AND WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. A PARENT SHOULD NOT HAVE TO LOSE A CHILD. IT IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE OTHER WAY. PLEASE COME TO US IN OUR DREAMS SO THAT WE KNOW WHEREVER YOU ARE YOU ARE CONTENT. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN, YOUR MITCHELL STORIES WILL BE THE ONLY THING THAT KEEPS US GOING. WE HURT SO BADLY. WE LOVE YOU SON. WE TALK TO YOU EVERY DAY AND NIGHT, PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAY YOU CAN. WE NEED OUR MITCHELL.
LOVE MOM AND DAD
January 13, 2005
I promise to raise our children as we planned and dreamed - to insure their health and well-being - their happiness, their laughter - and to wipe all their tears. We were good parents in the beginning, middle and end. I am reminding them of all the wonderful times you had with them from the day they were born, sharing the words your spoke to them as babies, toddlers and younger children and the silly things you did, like letting one-year old Zachary delve into a bag of Doritos during an Eagles game and letting Chloe suck on your finger so she would stop crying! I have never been so glad that I took so many photos over the years
and made so many albums! Those photo albums are out and easy to reach - and there are amazing and abundant photos of you with them both. I will always honor your memory by helping the children strive as you would have wanted, laugh as if you were tickling them, and by helping them remember their dad, a man that I knew for 23 years.
You are missed.
Dillon Schindler
January 13, 2005
I am Dillon and I wanted to write to my Uncle Mitchell. I told my Mommy to do it on her "cuder" (computer). I need to tell you.
I miss you Uncle Mitchell. I am sorry you are dead and had to go to live with G-d. I am sorry you can't walk with me anymore on the beach and I can't try to push you in the ocean. I loved to dig a giant hole with you and Zachary in the sand even when my Daddy would yell at you to be more careful so you would not cut your hands on shells because you needed them to work. I love your big belly. I'm sorry you can't read this too but Mommy told me you can read this.
At night I yell at the sky so you can hear me call "Uncle Mitchell, Uncle Mitchell", I can't hear you answer me but I hope you can still hear me and love me anyway from far away.
I had an operation on my throat and tubes in my ears yesterday. Daddy wore one of your head wraps from your hospital. Mommy said you were watching me. My nurse, who gave me an icey juice and took care of me was named Cyndi and had a big baby in her tummy just like Aunt Cyndi.
I wish you would come visit me sometimes. I love you a lot. I am making you a picture and it will be beautiful. I will ask mommy to send it to you.
Love, Dillon
Brittany Buzea
January 12, 2005
Mitch,
It's still hard to believe you're gone. I try to keep my mind on other things, but I just can't. I keep thinking about you, and if you're okay. It was so sudden, such a shock. If only I could have told you how thankful I am for being able to have you in my life. Everyone misses you, especially mom. I try to be strong for her but we're both hurting. My main thing is not to let her feel guilty for anything. I know how much she loved you as did everyone else. Even the baby misses you, I know shes misses your "HEY BABY" to mom's belly. I try to talk to Zachary and Chloe as much as possible. I don't see them as much, I miss them. I miss family movies, family vacations, I miss Sunday dinners. There's just so much missing. Everything's changing, everything's so different without you. You had such an impact on not only my life and your family's life, but every one of your patients and their family's. Thank you for everything you've done for me and for letting my mom smile again. That was the best gift you ever gave me. I'm going now, I have to call mom back. I'll write again soon. I miss you and love you more each day. Rest in peace my stepdad.
Love always,
Your princess!:)
Cherokee Beaver
January 12, 2005
Dear Cindy,
This guestbook was passed onto me and I am a friend of your mother-in-law Marilyn. Someone else said it before, but it bears repeating. If Mitch was anything like his mother or father, he must have been a true prince. I have read about Mitch and it goes without saying that he must have been a very beautiful stone to have made some tremendous and miraculous ripples in the lives of so many people. Through my own life I have come to seek peace when it felt that life was never going to turn itself around. I pray that you find a peace and a solace during this time. You are a blessed woman to know that you loved the man of your dreams with every piece of yourself, no regrets. I pray for you, your children, Mitch's parents and sisters and everyone who was touched but him. I leave you with this, "In the depth of winter I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer." ~Camus
Blessings to you and your family.
Cherokee
Barbara Lindsay
January 12, 2005
My sincere and dearest blessings to Dr. Gropper's family, friends and co-workers.
I was a patient of Dr. Gropper. I was forwarded the letter concerning his passing and recently received it in Houston, where I am spending the winter. I am so saddened as I loved Dr. Gropper for what he did for me as well as his caring, his kindness, and his knowledge. He performed an operation on me after a previous operation, done elsewhere, had left me with constant pain. He consulted with other colleagues and honestly told me that not all agreed it could be done. However, he said he felt he could do the operation and he did, successfully. I tried to thank him and give him due credit, but he was modest about it. I owed him so much more. But for him, my life would be so different.
The last time I was in his office I told him of the death of my husband a few months earlier. He hugged me and consoled me and asked how many years we were married. I told him 54 and he was happy for me that I had enjoyed so many loving years. Then he told me he was to be married that weekend. He was so happy and full of joy.
His death is hard to accept, but I know he must have been needed elsewhere. His short life was a blessed one for the many he helped.
Sincerely,
Barbara Lindsay
Sylvia Stults
January 12, 2005
Cindy: Words can not convey the sorrow felt upon hearing about Dr. Gropper. After attending the service I could not help but admirer you for your strength in withstanding everything that has taken place. When dealing with Mitch at the hospital just the mention of your name made him beam. He so very much loved you, and I can see why. Mitch was able to accomplish more in his life then most men his age, he too was strong willed. My God give you the strength needed to get through this. My prayers are with you.
Joe Sanchez
January 11, 2005
Dearest Cynthia my name is BIG JOE 1%ER i am a friend of Diane Romano who was a patient of your late husband. i must tell you that the first time i met doc Gropper i was confused i told her husband john look a guy is wearing a support shirt as we are both members of the outlaws motorcycle club, his response was that is the surgeon! i was like ok? than i realised that this doc is cool! he is in touch with his patients, that was something i thought was a thing of the past i only met him that one time but he got my respect and made john and myself laugh when asked if after diane"s surgery if she was gonna be able to talk he said she was already i did to good of a job! that was the only time i got to met and talk to him but he was so real i thought to myself what a neat person. our condolences to you and your family on such a loss.
CJ 1%ER
BIG JOE 1%ER
DIANE & ERICKA
just me, cynthia gropper
January 11, 2005
I just wanted to let everyone know who reads this from time to time. That Mitch is truly with me. I went to the doctor today, and my once small 42nd percentile baby girl is now in the 87th percentile. I told Zachary, Chloe and Brittany that Mitch must be making sure she is "eating" well, making fancy "Emeril" dishes.
Zachary Gropper
January 11, 2005
Dear Dad Cindi, Chloe, Brittany,Matticyn, Buttercup, Tucker, Lizzie, and our new puppy Mitzy who you never met, Mom Mom, Pop Pop, Aunt Marci and Marla, and every one else including our family and all of our friends miss you a ton. It's going to be very tough without you. I Love you more than anyone always
Your beloved son,
Zachary
Victoria Mcknight
January 11, 2005
Dearest Cindy and children: I am a success story of Dr. Gropper's...as I read along this incredible book of tributes, I am one of thosands that his Gift from God healed. He was truely an Earth Angel and now he is in the highest of heaven's circles: doing what he has always done...extending the Hand of God to those in need. I was a failed surgery when I met him. I was desperate and at the end of the line. When he smiled at me and said "I can fix you like new, but you have to trust me and give me carte blance to do whatever is necessary once I get in there." I had no doubts and I trusted him instantly. He held good on his promise to me to give me back my life. Now I promise you and Dr. Gropper that I will dedicate my life, in his honor, to doing whatever I can to releave suffering, to give upliftment, to share a simple smile. Your pain of loss can only be healed by the grace of Heaven. I will pray with all the others for your healing and upliftment. You were also my nurse, and I look forward to seeing you when I come back home for my one year checkup. I am devasted, along with you, to have lost my Angel, my Healer, my friend. Thank you for sharing him and all these wonderful testimonies with the world. God Bless you and take care of you and the little ones. My love, Vicki McKnight (Coar)
Sharon Fendrick
January 10, 2005
Mrs. Cindy Gropper
I had the pleasure of being on of Dr. Gropper's patients for a short period of time. For some reason, and I am not sure why, he confided in me telling me about you, your daughter, and his two children. When he spoke of you his smile always widened and I could just see his LOVE FOR YOU and how proud he was of becoming a new father. All of us will miss him dearly, but remember "he is just away"
Dan Heffez
January 9, 2005
Dear Cindy, I was shocked and saddenned to hear of Mitch's passing. I always liked Mitch. He taught me a great deal about the cervical spine. I will certainly not forget him. Please accept my heartfelt sympathies.
Gin Fraser
January 7, 2005
Dear Cindi,
Ray and I were shocked when Mom called with the news. I'm so very sorry, you and your family are in my prayers.
Your cousin, Gin
Marianne Collopy
January 7, 2005
Dear Gropper Family,
I am very, very sorry to hear about the loss of Dr. Gropper. He too was my doctor, performing my second and third surgeries after my first surgery was less than successful.
Dr. Gropper was so kind, intelligent, and aggressively confident in his work. It was absolutely worth the drive to Munster, Indiana to see him. I will miss him dearly.
Cynthia Gropper
January 7, 2005
I want to take this time, to again thank everyone who writes a note in this guestbook. I read it everyday. I would also like to extend my heartfelt appreciation to: CINN office, NeuroICU, 4 Ortho and Surgery. I went to work this week. The halls were lonely without him walking beside me, the office quiet without him calling for me, but with all of your strength and sincerity I did make it through. I know how you all are also hurting from loosing a man that was not only a great doctor but friend, I know how much joy all of you took watching us grow, as friends and in love. I know as you have all told me that Mitch was proud of me, what I did as a nurse and my so called strength. I will do my best not to let him or any of you down.
Thank you all so much,
love,
his adoring wife,nurse,and friend
Robin Verta
January 6, 2005
Dearest Cynthia,
Just wanted you to know my thoughts and prayer are with you always and I will always be here for you and the children, be strong and remember mitch's smile, humor and love for all, especially you and the soon to be arrival.Mitch we love and greatly miss you. Hugs and kisses to all. Robin
NIMCU (Community Hospital)
January 5, 2005
Cindy,
When we saw you today we could feel your sorrow. We wish we could turn the clock back. We have learned sooo much working in the Neuro unit with thanks to all that Dr. Gropper have contributed. We all miss him deerly and are struggling to be strong..
I often expect him to walk in with one of his colorfull headbands on and that smile and say something that will light up the room.
Cindy, we all love you and are here for you, for anything, anytime. We share your sorrow. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Please know that Dr. Gropper was truely a wonderful person or he would not be with his maker now. Know that he is performing his miracles still and that he is still with you: heart and soul.
Linda Edwards
January 5, 2005
cindi,
I am so very,very sorry for your loss. I know how extremely happy you and Mitch were with each other. My family thinks about you every day and remembers you both in our prayers.
Sarah Nathan
January 5, 2005
I am the Mother of Mitchell's first wife Amy and the Grandmother of Zachary and Chloe. I have known and loved Mitchell for over 20 years. I watched him mature as a man, a father and a doctor. I came to know in those years a complex, brillant and multifaced human being. He was skilled in so many ways, he was so gifted. As he continued his education to achieve his goals in life, my husband Mike and I visited many times. We shared so many wonderful family times. As Zachary and Chloe came into the world our times together were wonderful- sometimes it was hard to visit in all the different places they moved to - but we did. Always with love and admiration for their little family and to watch them grow and mature, each in a different way. I will always love Mitchell and I wish him peace in eternity. My prayers now are for Amy, Zachary and Chloe - especially knowing how the children will miss him. This is the hard part for all of us who loved Mitchell. And yes, during all those years, I came to love him and so I will miss him forever.
NSCCU-- Community Hospital
January 4, 2005
There is not one day that goes by that Mitch is not greatly missed. Every room, every where we go on our unit brings back wonderful memories of working side by side with him. Thinking back even at our worst times with our patients, his knowledge, skills, and sense of humor made tough times more bearable! There were times when he would even stay in our unit and sleep in a chair in case his patients needed something. That was true dedication and it will be surely missed. We will never forget all that he taught us over the years. Some of us were even lucky enough to be with Mitch that last Friday helping him in our unit for several hours trying to save yet another young women's life. We even remember his final words that he spoke to us and that left impressions on all of our hearts.
We sometimes don't know what to say or act to comfort you Cindi. Please know we are all here for you and your family. We miss him dearly and loved him too. The baseball games, the christmas parties, and the picnic this past year--all those memories will never be forgotten. We all watched your love grow together! Call us if you need anything.
Love,
The entire staff of NSCCU
at Community Hospital
Caroline Jaffe
January 4, 2005
Dr. Gropper literally saved my life a little over a year ago, removing a tumor from my spinal cord that was slowly paralyzing me. Lucky for me his expertise was just what I needed, and serendipity brought us together.
Cindy, I was floored when I got the letter from CINN today. Please get ahold of me. Maybe I can entice you to come hear some live music when you're ready.
Much love from CJ
Amy O'Neill
January 3, 2005
Thank you for saving my life...You are my angel. May you rest in peace...
Corbin and Dr Gropper
Sam, Kim, Corbin & Kayden Hofelich
January 3, 2005
Upon hearing of the passing of Dr Gropper we were deeply saddened. Dr Gropper was more then a doctor to us he was like family. We first met Dr Gropper in September of 97 in Tuscon, Az. He performed an emergency surgery on our 6 mo old son Corbin, who was diagnosed with a vascular malformation in his brain. After the surgery we traveled home to Indiana, knowing Mitch was never more then a phone call away. In 1999, upon an MRI finding, Corbin had several more vascular malformations. We found Dr Gropper again, this time he was at CINN in Munster, Indiana. I beleive Dr Gropper was Corbin's Guardian Angel sent from Above. It was no accident findindg Dr Gropper, he was truely a gift from God! He has touched our lives and given us hope. May God bless and keep his family
;Sincerely,
The Parent's and Grandparent's of Corbin Hofelich
Emily Havansek
January 3, 2005
The Gropper family,
I’m Emily Havansek one of Dr. Gropper’s hypohydrosis patients. The other day I heard the news of his passing, and my heart sank. Dr. Gropper changed my life! He took my life in his hands and put it back better then I could have ever imagined. He was an amazing person, and not a day goes by were I don’t think of how much he did for me. I’m sorry that he has left us and that he especially left his loving family and his awaited child. I send my condolences and my prayers ,hopefully soon to be heared, every night . And I thank you personally for letting me have the honor of meeting Dr. Gropper and for changing my life. He will be missed but will never be forgotten. God please be with you in this time of need
Sincerely,
Emily Havansek
ELI TATARSKY
January 3, 2005
Hi Cyndi,
My name is Eli and I am a member of your mom's support group.
Although I have never met Mitchell, I have heard so many wonderful things about him from your parents and I feel that I have known him through them and as a result, I was deeply saddened by his untimely passing.
Please try to be strong during these sad times and know that God is on your side.
Sincerely,
Eli Tatarsky
Havertown, Pa.
Maria White
January 3, 2005
Dear Mrs. Gropper,
I want to send my deepest regrets to you on your loss of your loving husband. I did't know Mitchell personally but I do know his mother. And if Mitchell was anything like his parents then he was a very great man. Please know that I think of your family along with the extended family of Mitchell each and every day. You are in my prayers every evening. My love goes out to you and the life that grows within you.
Kathleen Fleckenstein (Gumbiner)
January 2, 2005
Cindy,
I know that we haven't seen each other in such a long time but we truly have a lot in common still. I cannot even begin to express my deepest and heartfelt loss of your soul mate. I finally found mine as did you after what seemed like a lifetime. I can only tell you to stay strong for your children and especially for your unborn daughter. She will undoubtedly remind you daily of the love you and Mitch shared. I am so sorry that I never was able to meet him but know that when you finally meet the person meant for you they will always be part of you. Stay strong and please feel free to contact me and let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Kathleen
Marsha Morris
January 2, 2005
Cindi: Happy New Year to you and the children. I read the guest book daily and have seen your loving entries. There is not a day that goes by that I do not remember your husband, you, the children, and your lives going forward. Could you please pass on our love to Mitch's dear mother as well? She and I corresponded in the "way back" via e-mail, but I do not want to trust my memory for her correct e-mail address. May the Lord richly bless you in this coming new year.
Susan Radtke
January 2, 2005
Dear Cindi
I was so very shocked and dismayed to hear of Dr. Gropper's passing. I so very much enjoyed working with him. I also enjoyed meeting and knowing you for whatever brief time that may have been. I trust that knowing how he touched the hearts and lives of others with his joy and skills will be a comfort to you. I will never forget his crazy surgical hats.
I pray God's comfort and strength as you travel through the days ahead.
Affectionally
Susan Radtke CNP
His beloved wife
January 2, 2005
MUNSTER | Colleagues and friends of Dr. Mitchell Gropper, a neurosurgeon at The Community Hospital, are mourning his death.
Gropper had been at The Community Hospital for about five years and was chairman of the department of surgery. He was also a member of the hospital's executive committee of the medical staff.
Dr. Doug Chung, president of the medical staff, said Gropper was known as a kind gentleman, a good surgeon and a leader.
"I know he is a newlywed so it's very sad for his wife, and he was expecting a baby," Chung said.
Gropper was a partner in the Chicago Institute for Neurosurgery and Neuro Research, with offices in Chicago and Munster.
A hospital spokeswoman said Gropper attended Pennsylvania State University College of Medicine. He completed residencies at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago and the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey, in Newark, N.J. He completed a fellowship at Cleveland Clinic Hospital in Cleveland, OH.
Gropper is survived by his wife Cynthia, his children, Zachary and Chloe, and stepdaughter Brittany Buzea. He is also survived by his parents, Larry and Marilyn Gropper, and his grandmother, Sally Feinberg.
4 Orthopedics Community Hospital
January 1, 2005
Dear Cindi,
We don't think there is a day that goes by on our unit that someone isn't asking each other... "How is Cindi doing ?", since your tragic loss. The morning we heard about the loss of Dr. Gropper, we all formed a circle and had a prayer for you and your family. With all of our tears, it was very difficult to get through the eight hour shift. It was especially hard going into the patients' rooms that just had surgery by Dr. Gropper just days before.
There isn't enough words to express our deepest sympathy for you, Cindi, during this difficult time. We would have loved to visit you so many times, but we didn't want to be a burden. We will always be there for you Cindi, just give us a call !
Dr. Gropper has touched each and everyone of our hearts in many special ways and will always be remembered.
Cindi, try to stay strong and be positive, not only for you, but for the children and the baby on the way. Mitch has given you the most precious gift in life... a baby !! The memories and love of Mitch will continue to grow strong each day as you watch your baby grow.
We love you !
4 Ortho
CINN Munster Christmas Party
December 31, 2004
just me, your wife
December 31, 2004
I read the guest book everyday, thank you to all of you for loving Mitch as I did.
It is New Years and I hope to dream about our past New Year's Eve together. I want to thank him for a wonderful year, a home, a love, a wedding, a baby.
I love you this year and every year to come, my sweet prince.
Christina Holston
December 31, 2004
Dear Cindy,
I got the letter today from CINN telling Dr. Gropper's patients of Mitch's passing. I am so very sorry. He was a wonderful man and I admired him very much. After my surgery last March, I told all my family and friend's that my surgeon was a genius, I will always sing his praises.
All of the failed teatments and surgeries I endured before I met Mitch made me appreciate him all the more. He gave me back my life and I will always be grateful for his skill, his compassion, his honesty and his humor.
I was looking forward to seeing him at my one year check up so that I could tell you both thank you again.
Words cannot express my deepest sympathy for your loss.
The world was a better place because of Mitch.
Sincerely,
Christi Holston
Christina Graham
December 31, 2004
I still remember that day when I went to work and was told that Dr. Gropper passed. My heart sank. He was a man that I had the upmost respect for.
I have so many fond memories. He was a great surgeon that never was scared to take a challenge on. He would perform surgeries on patients that other surgeons would run from. As he stated, "I can reattach a person's head back on their body" and he could.
I remember when Mitch, Cindi and myself were at the baseball game and we snuck into the skybox. He was such a kid.
His love for Cindi and his children was so powerful. He only had wonderful things to say about his family.
Cindi, Mitch was your sole mate and I am truly sorry that he was taken from you so soon. But you need to stay strong for youself and the children. That is how Mitch would have wanted it.
We love you
Christina Graham
cynthia gropper
December 31, 2004
Michell R. Gropper, M.D., was a member of the Chicago Institute of Neurosurgery and Neuroresearch (CINN), Chicago, Illinois; a founding member of the CINN Institute for Spine Care; and an assistant professor of Neurosurgery at Rush Medical College, Rush University Medical Center, Chicago, Illinois.
Dr. Gropper was well-versed in treating the full spectrum of neurological disorders in both children and adults. He has a special expertise in caring for patients with complex spine diseases including tumors, scoliosis, congenital abnormalities, and degenerative conditions. He also had a keen interest in spinal deformity, pediatric spinal diseases and brain tumors. Dr. Gropper often cares for patients with failed back surgery syndrome and other chronic pain ailments.
Whenever possible, Dr. Gropper used minimally invasive surgical techniques to speed the recovery time and promote the long-term healing of his patients. He was highly skilled at microendoscopic discectomy, foraminotomy, and vertebroplasty.
Dr. Gropper began his medical training at the Pennsylvania State College of Medicine in Hershey. After earning his degree, Dr. Gropper accepted a residency in neurological surgery at the New Jersey Medical School in Newark, which he completed in 1994. He then accepted an additional residency in neurosurgery at Northwestern University Medical School in Chicago, Illinois, which he completed in 1996. Following his residency, Dr. Gropper held a complex spine care fellowship in orthopedics and neurosurgery at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation in Ohio.
In 1997, Dr. Gropper moved to Arizona where he held the positions of director of the Southern Arizona Spine Service, chief of spine surgery for the Arizona Veteran's Administration, and chief of pediatric neurosurgery and assistant professor of neurosurgery at the University of Arizona in Tucson. Dr. Gropper accepted his current position with CINN in 1999.
Dr. Gropper is an active author and researcher. He frequently writes on the topics of spinal fusion, failed back surgery syndrome, spinal arthritis, myelopathy, and neuroaugmentative procedures for paralysis. Dr. Gropper was currently leading a multicenter clinical trial to evaluate the effectiveness of posterior lumbar interbody fusion allograft implants.
Dr. Gropper is a member of several professional organizations including the Congress of Neurological Surgeons (CNS), American Association of Neurological Surgeons (AANS), North American Spine Society, the Joint Section on Disorders of the Spine and Peripheral Nerves of the AANS and CNS. He sits on the Section's Scientific panel, is chairman-elect of the Mayfield Award Committee, is chairman of the Guidelines Subcommittee on cervical myelopathy and has recently been named to the Spine Surgery Outlines Committee.
Robin Warner
December 30, 2004
Evan and I send our deepest condolences to the entire Gropper family. We never knew Mitchell but Marilyn and Larry have told us so much about what a wonderful son, father, doctor, husband, brother and friend he was.
Our heartfelt sympathy to all who loved him. We know he will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Robin and Evan Warner
CHRIS BERRIER
December 30, 2004
DEAR CINDY
I AM SO SORRY AND SAD TO HERE ABOUT MITCH. YOU, HE AND I HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH TOGETHER OVER THE LAST FOUR YEARS. I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT HE IS ONE OF THE GREATEST MEN I HAVE EVR KNOWN. I CONSIDER MYSELF LUCKY TO HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE BEEN TREATED BY SUCH A WONDERFUL MAN.
MY SYMPATHY
CHRISTOPHER BERRIER
Deb Thomas
December 28, 2004
To the family of Dr. Gropper - you are in my prayers. I felt blessed to have been a patient of Dr. Gropper. No concern was trivialized and no pain left unattended. I will miss the professionalism, sense of humor, care and concern he showed without fail. I will also miss his red bandana. God bless you and give your strength. Love and prayers... Deb Thomas
India Castaneda
December 28, 2004
I truely enjoyed meeting Dr. Gropper. He performed 2 surgeies in the same year on my husband, he trusted and was totally comfortable with Mitch's surgical skills. He thought the world of him. He was a tell it like is kind of guy. I thought he was funny and not a stuffed shirt like some doctors can be. I showed him many homes and got to know his personality. I used to ask him, "Are you sure you're a doctor?" He will be sorely missed and I can only offer my deepest sympathies to his wife Cindy, his parents and his children.
India
Gordon Kohler
December 28, 2004
Our deepest sympathy to you family during these times. Dr Gropper saved my life. He was truly a blessed man and a gifted surgeon.
December 28, 2004
Dear Mrs. Cynthia Gropper,
I hope that you do not mind that I took your email adress from a guest book that you wrote in on December 24, 2004.
I am extremely saddened by the news of Mitch's passing away. I graduated with Mitch from Abington High School in 1982. Mitch was a great friend in high school and he wrote in my yearbook that I was one of his best friends. I wish that I had kept in touch with him during college and after. I read so many great things about Mitch in the guest book that I had to tell you that Mitch was that way he was in high school also. He helped me pass Biology class and if it wasn't for him I don't think I could have gotten through some of the honor math classes we had together. He would spend hours with me trying to help me understand a concept and not be concerned about "wasting" his time.
Mitch also had the ability to talk me into doing silly things. The one that I remember the most was when we did the gong show in North Campus. He talked me into doing day-o and with the help of his mothers bikini bathing suit, I walked on stage singng day-o in front of the entire school. We were gonged anyway. I wish that I had taken more time to look Mitch up about 10-15 years ago when I started asking about him at our class reunions. Mitch would cross my mind and I would wonder what he was doing and how succesful and accomplished he would be. I now know from reading some his website information that he succeeded and was touching many lives as he did mine in high school.
These must be trying times for you and your family and I really do not want to take a lot of your time, but I wanted tell you that from reading all the guest notes that Mitch was great man ( though you already knew that), but he also was a great man in high school. Mitch will be truly missed.
I pray for you and your family and for for your expectant child. May God look over all of you and ease your pain. May the good and happy memories stay with you always.
Pamela Gaines
December 28, 2004
Dear Mrs. Gropper,
May God grant you courage and strength during these difficult times. Dr. Gropper recently performed my surgery and I will always remember his words of encouragement, "You fight. Be a fighter." Continue to remember your love for Dr. Gropper and his love for you.
Julianne Williams
December 27, 2004
Call me Mitch is what he said, adorned in his do-rag and cowboy boots. I knew I'd like him from the first day I met him. His smile, his kindness, his laughter and his constant need to save the world one patient at a time made him one of the easiest surgeons to work with. I have missed that since I left Munster, it is rare to be able to work in an environment that truly was a team effort - he was a coach and mentor always maintaining fun in the field. I know that the staff will miss him, his patients will be at a loss without him, and his wife and children will forever have a "wound" that no surgeon can repair. He was an angel on earth saving lives and fixing the fractured, I am sure he is doing the same in heaven.
You are truly missed cowboy!
Julie Williams
Buzz Miller
December 26, 2004
Dear Cindy,
I was deeply saddened to learn of Mitchell's passing. Larry & Marilyn were very good clients of mine. They were also very good friends who attended my wedding in November of 2000.
My prayers are with you and your entire family.
Dr. Charles Falcone
December 26, 2004
My heart goes out to Mitchell's family in this time of great loss. I think back fondly to when Mitchell and I were roommates in medical school and remember what a great person he was. His legacy will live on.
Bill and Marge Gumbiner
December 25, 2004
Please accept out deepest sympathies. Cindy our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
wife
December 24, 2004
Thank you for the Christmas present. I know how proud you would have been to see me smile as I open it from you. The children were all there to see our love.
My beloved husband, friend, surgeon, doctor, and father
December 24, 2004
cynthia gropper
December 24, 2004
I would like to extend my heart filled thanks to everyone who has expressed their love and support for Mitchell and his family.
I loved him more each day and felt I had found my heaven on earth in his smile, eyes, arms, and voice everyday. The pain is unmeasurable, but with support, I know in time things will go on. I live without regret or doubt on whether or not he knew how much I loved him and he me. I honestly felt we walked the hospital halls, OR, Office with patients, home, vacations with everyone meeting us knowing how much in love we were. Some people never experience that type of love and devotion. I am blessed for that opportunity and will do my best to find solace in that fact. As I raise our yet to be born daughter, with the help of Brittany, Zachary, and Chloe I will try to instill his humor, love, compassion, joy of cooking :), his perfectionism, desire for friends and family to share in our happiness, and his golden heart.
I Thank all of you for your kind words, although it brings tears to my eyes they are met with a smile and pride.
Love, Cynthia Gropper
Lonna Otis
December 23, 2004
Dear Mrs. Gropper and family,
I was extremely saddened by the sudden loss of your husband, father and son.
In the short time that I was acquainted with your husband, I found him to be very considerate, caring and jovial.
We have all suffered a great loss and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
May God grant you peace.
Sincerely,
Lonna Otis
Roger Wilhite
December 23, 2004
Cindy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Dr. Gropper. He helped me when no other surgeon could. I will always remember his cheerful smile. May God be with you.
Carol Buzea
December 23, 2004
Cindy, Virgil and I wish to extend our sympathy to you. May the coming year bring comfort to you.
Debbie Jacob
December 23, 2004
Mrs. Gropper and Family-
I was so disheartened to hear about Mitch's passing. He came on board at CINN just as I was leaving and even attempted to bring me on as his Admin Asst. He was a truly wonderful person and I'm sure will be missed by many who's lives he touched. May you find comfort in your memories and solace in knowing that GOD must have needed a great person like him on the Spiritual side.
Sincerely,
Debbie Jacob
nora glumac
December 22, 2004
To Mrs. Gropper and Family, My sincere sympathies for the loss of your beloved. I am employed @ Ingalls Hospital in the O.R. as a radiology technologist. I deeply regarded Dr. Gropper as a wonderfully compassionate surgeon. He was someone who brought much levity and humor to the OR which is often an extremely tense work environment. IF I can speak for many of us in the O.R. he will be greatly missed. God Bless, Nora Glumac R.T.
Audrey Hoff
December 22, 2004
Cindy, as a med transcriber at Community, I held back the tears as I typed Dr. Gropper's last dictation from last Friday. He was also my neurosurgeon a few years ago. His compassion and wonderful sense of humor will greatly be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Beth Nichols
December 22, 2004
Mrs. Gropper,
My heartfelt sympathies for you and your family. Dr. Gropper was a fantastic person as well as a great doctor. He brought my brother, Sean McQuade, back from near death during 9-11. We are a very large family and were overwhelmed with this accident at the same time the country was going through such a terrible ordeal. I hope your days will be brighter with fond memories of your husband and the good deeds he performed for families with sick loved ones. I want to offer you my condolences and let you know my brother is doing better and is alive thanks to your husband.
Beth Nichols
Vicki Breidenbaugh
December 22, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Neighbors, Steve, Vicki, Steven and Taylor Breidenbaugh.
Yvonne Tobin
December 21, 2004
Cindy,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Dr. Gropper performed my surgery in Aug. 2003. I was and will forever be grateful to him and my family & I will never forget him.
Matt Dawson
December 21, 2004
Cindy, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Without you and Dr. Gropper I don't know where I'd be today. He was a great doctor and an even better man. I will miss him dearly.
Joellen Groen
December 21, 2004
Cindy,
I want to wish you my sympathy at this difficult time for you and your family. Just know that you are in my prayers. Dr. Gropper and youself got me through one of the most difficult times in my life when he did my extensive surgery. I will pray that God will give you his peace in this difficult time. Joellen Groen
MaryAnn Lewis
December 21, 2004
Cindy, our deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family. I was a patient of Dr. Groppers. He truly is a miracle worker. May God Bless you and your family.
Millie Valcich and family
Marsha Morris
December 21, 2004
Cindy: I could not believe it when I heard about your beloved husband. I feel like he was the "big brother" I never had. You have both made us feel like extended family. My heart breaks for you and the children. Dr. Gropper has served our entire family (Marsha, Glen, and Melody). We are praying for your family. If there is "anything" we can do, please do not hesitate to contact us - any "day," any "time," any "moment." Cindy, I love you dearly. May the Lord comfort you in your time of loss.
Allan Harkabus
December 21, 2004
I am a current patient of Dr. Gropper and thought the world of him. What a self-confident, caring man. I will miss him greatly as my treatment moves along. I am so sorry for your loss.
Lynn Cohen
December 21, 2004
Cindy,
I am so sorry for your loss. Myself and my son are both patients and I met you when you assisted Mitch with my son's surgery this past summer. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and forever and Mitch will be in our prayers always.
Fondly,
Steve, Lynn, Samantha, Allyson and Marc Cohen
Robin Verta
December 21, 2004
Dearest Cindi, Brittany, Zackery + Chloe,
My Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.My deepest sympathy to all. Dr. Gropper trully, his love and greatness will live on forever in our hearts.
Charlene Cohn
December 21, 2004
Cindy
My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry. I love you so much and please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Love
Charlene
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