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Paul A. Gibson
ST. JOHN - Paul Allen Gibson, 89, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 19, 2022, at home surrounded by his family. He was the oldest child of the late George and Ruth Gibson.
Paul is survived by his wife, Betty (Wiersma); his children: Scott (Dawn), Dave (Amy), Tami, and late Teri (late Tom) Kerns. Adored grandfather of Candice (David) Van Drunen, Jori (Joe) Vroom, Laci (Max) Van Dam, Isaac, Desi Kerns, Dillon Kerns, Grant, Will, Adam and Gise; and great-grandfather to Parker and Beckham. Beloved brother to late Bud (late Marlene), Mary (Marv) Smit, late Judy Urban; in-laws: Nick and Wilm DeGroot, and Harriet (late George) VanderVelde, Wally (Sandy) Urban.
Paul was born in South Holland, IL, and attended high school in Mishawaka, IN. After high school Paul joined the Air Force and was stationed in Korea. Upon returning home, he met the love of his life, Betty who he was married to for 64 years. Paul worked for his father and later owned Gibson Chevrolet.
Paul enjoyed traveling around the world early in his life and loved the Florida sun when he retired. Throughout his life he rode horses, drove buggies, raised chickens and always had at least one faithful German Shepherd by his side. He delighted in competing with his horse and buggy filled with his grandchildren in the Lake County Fair.
Paul not only served his country, but also served at his church, Faith Church (South Holland/Dyer). He was a church plant committee member, a deacon, an elder, a small group leader (for the horse-lovers Bible study), and an usher for many years. His cheerful personality, positive attitude and Christ-loving spirit made people feel comfortable.
A memorial visitation will be held Thursday, July 28, 2022 from 3:00 p.m. until the time of the memorial service at 7:00 p.m. at Faith Church, 100 W. 81st Ave., Dyer, IN with Scott Gibson officiating. Burial will be held at Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery - Elwood, IL. Memorial contributions may be given to Evangelical Child and Family Agency (1530 N. Main St., Wheaton, IL 60187) or Young Life Ministry of Jan Mulder (PO Box 33, St. John, IN 46373). Arrangements entrusted to Smits Funeral Home - Dyer, IN. For further information, please contact 219-322-7300 or visit our online guestbook and obituary at www.SMITSFH.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Gibson
Jan Mulder
July 28, 2022
Paul was a wonderful friend and a loyal, smiling, faithful, welcoming usher. Our team (and the whole church) will surely miss him at the door. He will be waiting for us all in Heaven to greet us there with desserts in hand when we arrive!! Paul, I am so grateful for your heart, your friendship, and your service and will miss you dearly.
Doug and Audrey VanVuren
July 28, 2022
Our heartfelt sympathy to you, Betty, and all of your family.
Steve Booth
July 27, 2022
I always enjoyed visiting with Paul and Betty either at youth baseball games or at Faith. Always pleasant and kind. My deepest sympathies to Betty, Scott, his family, and all who loved him
Charlotte Van Dam
July 26, 2022
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Sending my deepest sympathy to the Gibson family.
Annamae Groeneveld
July 24, 2022
Happy, Kind, Always a kind word! He will be missed by many
Kimberly Aylsworth
July 23, 2022
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim & Rosalie Reif
July 23, 2022
Our deepest sympathy to all of Paul’s loved ones
Barbara Kerns Conroy
July 22, 2022
My heart goes out to everyone in the family. Grampa Gibson had a wonderful impact on everyone's life! To say He will be missed, is an understatement. Keeping you in my prayers.
Beverly Perkins
July 22, 2022
My deepest sympathy Scott, and to all of your family. I met Mr. Gibson when he would drop by Midwest Transit occasionally. He was always pleasant and easy to chat with. Praying for you. Beverly Perkins
Michelle Lagestee
July 22, 2022
Prayers for you Betty, Scott & family.
Paul Sutkowski
July 21, 2022
Paul was always so upbeat and greeted me with a smile at church. Loved his positive attitude and encouragement. Well done good servant.
Sally Rock
July 21, 2022
It was pure joy and such a honor to have known Paul! Kind hearted, Godly man and the very best smile! My deepest sympathy to Dear Betty and family!
Julie Gonzalez
July 21, 2022
Worked at Gibson Chevy for 10 years. Always loved coming in the morning to see Paul's smiling face. Beating Everyone in in the morning. Saying HELLO to all who entered the dealership. Making sure everyone and Everything was up to par. Loved his horses and faithful German Shepherd, who made frequent visits at the dealership. May your family find peace knowing you all have a New guardian angel looking over you.
Jill Dyke
July 21, 2022
My deepest sympathies to Betty and the rest of the family. May God give you peace and comfort as you mourn. Paul was such a kind and friendly man. Love to Betty from my mom, Joyce Fennema.
July 21, 2022
Paul was always such a gracious man. Our prayers and sympathy to Betty and the family.
Sincerely, Joy Huizenga and family
Richard & Carol Seifert
July 21, 2022
We feel very honored and blessed to have known Paul. He was a great Christian man and loving friend. We will miss him greatly. We will keep Betts and the family in our prayers during this time of loss. ❤ Dick & Carol
Anita Boyd
July 20, 2022
Wishing Betty and family God´s comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Rest Well Paul!
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