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PAUL M. HARKENRIDER CALUMET CITY, IL Paul Michael Harkenrider (6/7/52 - 2/14/14), passed away at home on Valentine's Day. Born in Elkhart to Paul R. and Anna C. Harkenrider, the first of 11 children. Paul grew up in Lansing and attended St. Ann's, Bishop Noll, and NIU in DeKalb. Paul had worked at Inland and LaSalle Steel and the CBOE and was a member of the Sons of the American Legion and the USW. Preceded in death by his father; his brother, Michael; and numerous family and friends. Paul is survived by his mom and nine siblings: Dan, Mary, John, Teresa, Kate, Angela, Marg, Tom, and Matt and their families; his aunt, Maxine; and many cousins and friends. Paul will be remembered for his unassuming, generous, and loving spirit; for tireless devotion to his family; and for his love of animals and the outdoors. Special thanks to all those who brought comfort care to Paul. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 1:00 p.m. today at Our Lady of Knock Catholic Church in Calumet City, with Rev. Patrick M. Lyons officiating. Visitation with family will be in church today at 12:00 p.m. Interment at Assumption Cemetery in Glenwood immediately follows Mass. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Our Lady of Knock Church, 501 163rd St., Calumet City, IL 60409; or to Loretto Convent, P.O. Box 508, Wheaton, IL 60189.

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Published by The Times on Feb. 18, 2014.

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Mark Trock

March 29, 2014

Just learned through the American Legion of Paul's passing. My thoughts go to his family. Grew up with Paul and the Harkenriders while attending St. Ann's

Jim Clarke

March 23, 2014

So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I heard last night. What a wonderful guy from a terrific family.

Chuck Cassity

March 15, 2014

Very sorry to learn of Paul's passing. We were best buds back at St. Ann's. My sympathy to all the Harkenriders.

Joan Harkenrider

February 28, 2014

Paul, may you rest in eternal peace and the Harkenrider men that went before you stood ready and welcomed you with open arms...Grandpa John, Mike, Uncle Bill, UJ, Billy, your dad and mine. There has absolutely gotta be beer in heaven!! Much love...Joanie

James Torok

February 26, 2014

Just heard about Paul's passing. So sorry to hear. Many memories from BNI. My condolances to the family!

James Webster

February 23, 2014

Condolences to the Harkenrider family - All the Harkenrider's are good people.

Kevin Lyons

February 22, 2014

Very sorry to hear this. My best wishes and condolences to the Harkenrider family. God Bless.

Janet Nau Franck

February 21, 2014

All of the Naus send their deepest love to each of you wonderful Harkenriders. Paul was exceptionally close to us (especially Felix) and we loved his stories, jokes and fun loving spirit. Sliding down the stairs in cardboard boxes, climbing trees, bonfires on the beach. He is smiling and waving down! God bless him and each of you Harkenriders! love,

Marie (tese) Frohlich (Reilly)

February 20, 2014

I just heard and am so sorry! Paul was a dear dear friend during a difficult transitional time in my life (1970's) and I have always remembered him as one of those angels that comes into your life when you need it most. So grateful for that memory so sad to see him go too soon. Sincere condolences to his family.. oh the times we had ice fishing, skiing and toasting to life!!

Evelyn McCloskey

February 20, 2014

I want you to know that you are in my prayers at this sad time. I remember meeting Paul when he was in the hospital a few years ago. I was a volunteer at St. Margaret-Mercy. He was so happy to meet a member of his aunt's community,a Loretto sister.
Our prayers are with all of you.
Peace,
Sr. Evelyn McCloskey, IBVM

February 19, 2014

I was so sorry to hear about Paul. He was a wonderful person, and I have many fond memories of him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God speed.

Ami Kulik (formerly Ami Lewandowski)

Margaret/Dennis Lawson

February 18, 2014

Please find comfort in knowing that Paul had a kind Heart and a Warm Spirit when it came to his Co-Worker's @ the 80" HSM. May His Precious Soul Rest In Peace.

February 18, 2014

My condolence to the Harkenrider Family, may God bless you in this time of sorrow.
C. Vaughn (St. Barnabas choir member)

Carol Boyle

February 18, 2014

Paul, you will be missed by your many friends and family. It says a lot about the person you are, that so many friends will be missing you. To the whole Harkenrider family- my heart is with you this special day of celebration of Paul's life here on Earth.

Ms Tee

February 18, 2014

Paul I was finally ready to go sking up in Michigan. This has been the perfect winter for it. I have so many fond memories of you. I think about u every time I see a squirt in the pop isle of the grocery store. You are the only person I know that buys that. You would be glad to know that my kids have very nicely padded college funds because of everything you taught me. Thank You. You were a good co worker and a great friend. Tee

terry Callahan

February 17, 2014

God bless Paul. You have a great family, and will be missed by all.

February 17, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about paul passing. I really enjoyed helping with his care when he needed the help. He gave me advise about the stock market every day May he rest in peace. Sincerely, Peggy Staszak

Billy bonnie Lyons

February 17, 2014

always a good friend almost like family to us Paul will be missed from the bottom of our hearts our deepest regrets to the family and friends left behind

Therese Lysaught

February 17, 2014

So sorry for the loss... Paul was a good man. I remember lots of fun times in Dune Acres with the Domkes. Sincerely, Therese Lysaught (Sivore)

Kerry ODonnell

February 17, 2014

Our condolences to the Harkenrider Family

Kerry and MaryAnn O'Donnell

David Brickman

February 17, 2014

Good bye old friend.You left us to soon. Rest in peace.

Bryant M

February 17, 2014

Sorry to hear about this Harkenrider gang, Paul was always my buddy down at the post 697, hope alls well as best as can be, Bryant

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