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BRYAN--Barbara.

Aged 72, a nonprofit leader in New York from 1975-2003, died October 17th of metastatic colon cancer. A graduate of Wellesley College with an M.A. from New York University, Barbara began her career as a teacher in the Peace Corps in Turkey, then became a community college English teacher. In 1973, she moved to New York and was employed at the Russell Sage Foundation, Institute for Community Design Analysis, and Safe Horizon, then known as Victim Services Agency, where she headed the Brooklyn and Staten Island Court operations for five years. In 1985, she became the second executive director (later president) of the five- year-old New York Regional Association of Grantmakers (NYRAG), now Philanthropy New York. Over the next 18 years, Barbara guided and grew the membership organization of private foundations, community foundations, and corporate giving programs. Under her leadership, NYRAG encouraged greater inclusiveness and diversity in the philanthropic sector; emphasized greater openness and accountability toward nonprofit grantseeking organizations; and participated in efforts to increase philanthropy in the region. Barbara Bryan is survived by her husband, Will Freeman; her mother, Betty Bryan; an aunt, June Bair; sisters Carolyn Young (widow of J. Michael Young), Susan Bryan (Cindy White), and Jean Bryan (Thom Clark); brother, Frederick (Betty Holmes); stepsons, Toby Freeman (Celia) and Eben Freeman (Rekha Menon); grandchildren, Kiran Menon Freeman and Maya Menon Freeman; three nephews; two nieces; and numerous grandnephews, grandnieces, and cousins. Services will be held at 2:00pm on October 30 at Manhattan's Middle Collegiate Church (50 East 7th Street). The family requests that in lieu of flowers, a donation be made to a charitable organization of your choice.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 23, 2016.

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Dallas Barbara Sutton

October 17, 2021

Barbara Bryan was a person of great authenticity and compassionate heart. It's no wonder she did so much good in the world, and was so loved and valued by her family and friends. Somehow, her reality, her being, doesn't fade with time. I feel she's cheering us on from the other side of the thin veil. Blessings to her family, who surely miss her the most.

Ellen Jaffe

October 17, 2019

I remember and think of Barbara so often -- she was a true friend (since our days at Wellesley College) and we shared many deep feelings and experiences. I remember her love of life and people, her fairness and integrity, and the grace with which she approached her illness and death (get your affairs in order, and continue to enjoy life as fully as possible). This last is especially meaningful to me now as I deal with my own cancer. Several friends from Wellesley and I gathered this past weekend for our almost-annual reunions, which Barbara always loved, and thought of her warmly. Sending caring thoughts to her family and all her friends on this anniversary of her passing. May her memory continue to be a blessing.

Ellen S. Jaffe

October 28, 2016

Deep condolences to Will, to Toby and Eben, and to all Barbara's family. She was a wonderful and true friend for over 50 years, a person who loved life itself as well as the people in it. May her memory be for a blessing.

October 26, 2016

Such a bright, perceptive and strong woman, such a wonderful soulmate to Will. Saddened by her loss, but enriched by the pleasure of having known her. May her love and memory bring peace to her loved ones. Martha Kunkis

Dallas Sutton

October 24, 2016

Such a great loss for her family and all who knew her. I was fortunate to have her as a classmate and friend from elementary school through high school. She was smart, fun, and a person of real integrity. She led by example. Sending all blessings to her family and friends. Dallas Barbara Sutton

Gerald Fritz

October 23, 2016

Her enthusiasm will remain forever in all of us who had the privilege of knowing her. Thais and Jerry Fritz

October 23, 2016

Heartfelt condolences to the family.God will fulfill this promise very soon for those who have passed on John 3:16;5:28,29.
S.Landrum Bklyn.

October 23, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with
the family, for the loss of your
loved one.
May the "Father of tender mercies"
be with the family and friends,
during and after these difficult
times.

October 23, 2016

Gone and will not be forgotten,precious memories live on in the hearts and prayers of love ones bringing comfort and hope at this time of grief, wait on God to make all things new, doing away with death and pain shortly.

October 23, 2016

What a difference Barbara made in the world both in big ways, though her work, and in small ones -- the wisdom of her advice, the light of her smile. We will cherish her memory. Love to all, Chris and Carol Yoder

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