Search by Name

Search by Name

BARRY AND CAROLE KAYE

BARRY KAYE Obituary

KAYE--Barry and Carole. The Trustees and Staff of the Whitney Museum of American Art are deeply saddened by the passing of Barry and Carole Kaye, beloved parents of Fern Kaye Tessler, Trustee and Co-Chairman of the Executive Committee. As founder of Barry Kaye Associates, Barry was widely recognized as an insurance industry pioneer and one of the foremost authorities on life insurance as an investment alternative. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, Carole shared her love for the arts first as founder and then as curator of the Carole and Barry Kaye Museum of Miniatures for nearly two decades. Together, Carole and Barry were committed philanthropists who generously supported Jewish causes, higher education, diabetes research, and the arts, including the Whitney Museum and its capital campaign to build its new building. Their philanthropy inspired their children to make a difference in the lives of many through devoted service and personal generosity. We extend our most heartfelt condolences to Fern, Lenard, Peter (Monica), and Greer Tessler, Barry and Carole's sons Alan (Michelle) and Howard (Andrea), Barry's son Rory Kaye and their entire extended family. Flora Miller Biddle Honorary Chairman; Leonard A. Lauder Chairman Emeritus; Susan K. Hess and Thomas E. Tuft Co-Chairs; Richard M. DeMartini President; Robert J. Hurst Co-Chair of the Executive Committee; Adam D. Weinberg Alice Pratt Brown Director

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by New York Times on Apr. 29, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for BARRY KAYE

Not sure what to say?





Gene R Auriemma

April 22, 2024

Barry and his loving wife Carole will live on forever...and gorever will be missed.

Gene R. Auriemma

August 30, 2021

Rest in Peace Barry and Carole. You left an everlasting impression. I learned so much about our industry from you and of course your good friend Sidney who was your biggest fan. Gene

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Jane Panetta

Planted Trees

George Taylor

May 25, 2020

We (my wife and I) met Mr. Kaye while walking by the Plaza where he was sunning in his wheelchair, accompanied by his nurse. We struck up a conversation that lasted quite a while and ranged over a surprising range of topics. He was warm, engaging and listened as well as he spoke. It was a chance encounter with a memorable individual. May they rest in peace together.

Cluster of 20 Memorial Trees

Phyllis Rosenstock

Planted Trees

Cluster of 20 Memorial Trees

Leonard Lauder

Planted Trees

Lisette Michaud

May 1, 2020

I enjoy the 6 years worked for you

April 30, 2020

So very sorry to hear this sad news.
If they had a choice, togetherness would have been it!
We had many wonderful times with them.
Please know that I'm thinking of you and how proud they were of you!!
Audrey Larman

Joyce Howard

April 30, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Phil Murphy

April 30, 2020

I met Barry at a very difficult time in my life in the early 80's - he was larger than life for sure and had a heart even bigger. We only had 2 meetings but he changed my life forever.
Your thirst for life and people will never be forgotten -
Thank you, Barry, Rest In Peace
Phil Murphy

Evelyn & Jack Pesso

April 29, 2020

Our sincerest condolences to the family on the loss of the most magnificent couple that we had the privilege to know. We met Carole and Barry at the Friars, immediately took to one another, and became good friends. We will miss them very much.

Mary

April 29, 2020

This was very shocking news! Ive been serving breakfast to Barry and Carole Kaye for 10yrs. They were always very kind and generous, they will be missed in The Palm Court @ The Plaza Hotel NYC RIP

Ken Samuelson

April 29, 2020

Barry's was a master communicator and fierce advocate for life insurance. He left his mark on our industry and will never be forgotten. A legend.

Laurie Sisson

April 29, 2020

The miniatures world has lost two great lights. Thank you for your creativity and excitement. Barry and Carole,you are missed.

Renee Katz Mann

April 28, 2020

My mother Carole Katz and I are so sorry to hear about their passing. I remember them well from La Costa and my parents always enjoyed being with them.

howard sharfman

April 28, 2020

My condolences to the Kaye family. Barry was larger than life and an amazing man. He will be missed by many, and leaves an amazing legacy of family and clients.

Dean Marco

April 28, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Kaye family. I can still remember my first meeting with Barry as if it was yesterday. He inspired me some 25 years ago and thousands of others!

ronald hubble

April 28, 2020

carol was the most interesting and dynamic person to ever be involved in miniatures. i will miss them both.

Valerie Cantone

April 28, 2020

Words cannot express how sorry I am to read this. Both Barry & Carole where my first employer and taught me how to strive and grow in the insurance industry. I will always be grateful for their guidance both personally & professionally.

Brooke Tucker

April 28, 2020

I am so very sorry to hear of their passing. They were supportive of my miniature room settings when they had their museum and really a joy to know. A true Auntie Mame was Carole!

Kevin and Susie Mulvany and Rogers

April 28, 2020

Carole and Barry were wonderful long-time patrons of our work who also became friends. Their generous support for miniaturists worldwide culminated in The Carole and Barry Kaye Museum of Miniatures in LA, a fabulous showcase for the very best antique and contemporary miniatures. Socialising with them as a duo was always fun and energising. Vale both.

April 28, 2020

Carole and Barry Kaye were an extraordinary beloved couple who will be sorely missed by all who were fortunate enough to know them. They had a presence and a glow about them that shone on everyone they touched...my condolences to their family... Yetta Bregman

Phyllis Rosenstock

April 28, 2020

Carole and Barry were our dear friends and some of the most exciting times in our lives were in their company To say Im devastated by their loss is an understatement my heartfelt sympathy To their wonderful family Phyllis Rosenstock

Barb and Marvin Leventhal

April 28, 2020

Your parents/grandparents set an unforgettable example for innovation and generosity for generations to come. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Stephen Winter

April 28, 2020

My dear Uncle Barry and Aunt Carole, I love you and will miss you forever.

Showing 1 - 25 of 25 results

Make a Donation
in BARRY KAYE's name

Memorial Events
for BARRY KAYE

Apr

28

Memorial service

3:00 p.m.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81717089866?pwd=dnBaaC9iMFdDZTJMdTZqby8rbXZhdz09

Meeting ID: 817 1708 9866 Password: 018512, NY

How to support BARRY's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor BARRY KAYE's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more