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CONSTANCE DREYER Obituary

DREYER--Constance,

died on Sunday, July 26 at NYU Langone Medical Center, age 74. Beloved wife and life partner of Dr. Benard Dreyer. Born August 3, 1940 in Broadalbin, NY, Constance was a long-term resident of New York who thrived on the pulse of the city. She was a brilliant hospital administrator whose last position was as Associate Executive for Bellevue Hospital, in charge of clinical services. She retired upon the birth of her last child. Constance and Benard were an inseparable team. She had a phenomenal intellect coupled with strong moral values. She had an indomitable spirit that lifted up all the people she touched. She was an extraordinarily loving person who gave of herself to so many, changing their lives for the better, even during her illness over the past six months. In addition to her husband, she is survived by her children Derek, Dimitra, and Craig and grandchildren, Adeline and Alma. Devoted and selfless, Constance shaped her children's lives in extraordinary ways. A memorial service will be planned in the future. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Constance's memory to Children of Bellevue, KiDS of NYU Langone, The American Academy of Pediatrics Friends of Children or the Academic Pediatric Association Fund.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 30, 2015.

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kathy broadway

August 21, 2015

condolences from the Broadway family

The Newmans

August 10, 2015

Condolences and Love from Florida,

Dimitra Dreyer

August 10, 2015

I am thinking of you today, Mom, as I expect to each and every day for the rest of my life.

Karen Arnold

August 9, 2015

Dimitra and family- so very sorry for your tremendous loss. You are all on our minds and in our hearts. xoxoxo

August 9, 2015

Constance changed my life. She had a bigger impact than anyone, save my parents. I'd heard about Constance all my life, the way families pass on stories about extraordinary, near-mythic members that they can't quite reconcile their relationship to. But I didn't meet her until shortly after moving to the city; she reached out and shook me to my core, changed how I saw myself, how I lived, how I thought. There are so, so many things which I could not have accomplished, could not have even faced had she not stood behind me. I miss her. I thought she would be a part of my son's life, and she didn't even get to meet him.

Dimitra Dreyer

August 8, 2015

Life as I know it will never be the same as a result of my mother's passing. I will endeavor to carry on knowing that the gifts she gave me and lessons she taught me strengthened the very core of my being. My mother was extraordinary. I am deeply saddened by the fact that she wanted so much to live for many more years. There were so many people she wanted to help, trips she wanted to accompany my father on, and grandchildren she wanted to read to.

I miss her dearly. I always will.

August 5, 2015

Her loving memory & upbeat personality will grow in ur hearts forever,Much Love,Cheryl

July 30, 2015

My condolences to the family during this difficult time. May the love and comfort from friends and family help your heart heal (Psalm 147:3; Proverbs 18:24).

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