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EDWARD LAHEY Obituary

LAHEY--Edward V., Jr., of Vero Beach, FL, Southport, CT, and Nantucket, MA, died peacefully at home on March 23, 2025. He had happily celebrated his 86th birthday with family just the week before. Ed was born on March 11, 1939 in Boston, MA to Edward and Margery (Mehegan) Lahey. He graduated from Iona Grammar School and Iona Prep '56, both in New Rochelle, NY, and the College of the Holy Cross '60, in Worcester, MA. He served two formative years as a young officer on a mine sweeper in the U.S. Navy prior to earning his JD at Georgetown University Law Center '64. He embarked on his legal career at Hester, Owen & Crowder, Washington, DC in 1964, and subsequently joined the legal department at Pepsico, Inc., in 1965, where he would spend the rest of his career, becoming vice-president and general counsel in 1973. His career took him all over the world. After retiring from Pepsico, he stayed active in the legal world through the American Arbitration Association, both as an arbitrator and on their board. In 1964 Ed married Joan McCafferty and a few years later they settled in Larchmont, NY. In 1977 they moved to Southport, CT with their three children. Ed was a member of Pequot Yacht Club, The Country Club of Fairfield, Nantucket Yacht Club, Vero Beach Yacht Club, Oak Harbor Club, and a former member of the John's Island Club. He loved sailing, rowing, fishing, working on old boats, music, and was an avid reader. He was tireless in his work on the boards of the Atlantic Classical Orchestra in Vero Beach, the Nantucket Conservation Foundation, the Discovery Museum in Bridgeport, CT, and St. Vincent's Hospital Westchester. He was devoted to and is survived by Joan; their children, Sheila (Marty), Ted (Colleen), and Matt; their grandchildren, M.J., Billy, Danny, Nathaniel, and Molly Duffy, Ford, Holt, and Pierce Lahey, and Kate and Anna Lahey; and his brother Dan Lahey of Key West, FL.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 30, 2025.

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Fred and Gail McRobie

May 29, 2025

A most accomplished friend and colleague and outstanding General Counsel will be missed by all who associated with him.
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Christina Apelgren

April 16, 2025

All of us in the ACO family appreciate all the support Ed showed to the orchestra over the years.
He will be missed.

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Barbara Beal

April 13, 2025

Ed was a valued member of the Atlantic Classical Orchestra Board. Sending prayers to his family.

Nancy and Joe Serafini

April 9, 2025

Joan and Ed were among our first friends in Nantucket in 1985. We absolutely adored being with them both whether at their home for an exquisite dinner or at a beach party or enjoying a concert . Ed always had a smile which we will miss

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GEURGE

April 2, 2025

a former grammer and prep schoo; classmate and teammember. I'llmiss his smile

Patty Dwyer

March 31, 2025

Sending deepest sympathies - always remember Mr. Lahey buying one single red rose for his wife every single Friday while he worked at Pepsi :).

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