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Eva Baer-Schenkein Obituary

1932 - 2011
We report with great sorrow the passing on September 17 of Eva Baer-Schenkein, New York, NY. She was cremated on September 20. Eva was 79 years old, daughter of the late Simon and Else Baer. In 1936, Else brought four-year-old Eva to America to visit her dying father. They remained here rather than return to Germany, which saved both their lives.

Eva was the widow of her adored Arthur Schenkein. Together they made life infinitely sweeter for each other. Eva is survived by first cousins in Israel, brother and sister Richard Frankfurter and Brigitte Brandeis and respective families. In the US, many of her husband's Schenkein relatives survive Eva.

She graduated high school at age 16, then attended Queens College before entering Mount Sinai School of Nursing. Eva's nursing school adventures, where she was the Class of 1954's unofficial rebel, were a precursor to her lifelong stance as a person, a no-nonsense nurse and administrator who did not tolerate phoniness or arrogance of any kind. Eva loved nursing and nursing loved Eva. She went to Teachers College of Columbia University for two advanced degrees.

Eva graduated from nursing school to the labor floor at Mount Sinai Hospital, eventually becoming head nurse. She assisted in the delivery of hundreds of babies - and always quoted the precise number. She moved to become head of nursing at Beekman-Downtown Hospital with responsibility for 400 nurses. Administration was not rewarding enough so she entered the program at Roosevelt Hospital to train as a Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetist. Her subsequent career was as an OR CRNA in a colorectal surgical practice.

Eva and Roosevelt friends banded together as The Roosevelt Girls whose chief goal was monthly dinner to recall old times, stay in touch, and look after each other. Three years ago, Eva "retired" and went into per diem corporate nursing. She found new friends in business medical departments while providing nursing care to employees, occasionally reading them her Nursing Riot Act on how/why to look after their health. She gave them her firm and enduring support and sense of caring deeply about all people.

Eva had her own style - a marvelous pixie Mohawk haircut along with tattoos and dark blue toenail polish and a silver ring on each finger. She lived what she called a young life in an old body. She leaves behind her beloved dog Pilou, who gave her boundless love.

Eva was a novelist, stand-up comic, poet, observer of New Yorkers' foibles, and food adventurer among the city's ethnic communities. She was an honest, loyal and caring friend and neighbor. She loved her apartment on the Upper East Side because it was a real home. She leaves many friends on Guadeloupe where she vacationed for 30 years. She loved life and lived it to the fullest her own way. She will be mourned by all, remembered with joy, and deeply missed by anyone whose life she touched. Eva was simply - the best.

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Published by New York Times from Sep. 27 to Sep. 28, 2011.

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Alice Simpson

September 21, 2020

Few are the days that I don't think of my dear aunt and our loving friend, Eva, and remember her exquite joy of life.

Nouara Immoula

July 24, 2012

Je ne réalise pas que tu aurais fêté tes 80 ans, Eva. Tu semblais tellement plus jeune. Tu m'auras beaucoup beaucoup manqué cette année en Guadeloupe. Tu restes toutefois très vivante. Love, Nouara (Paris)

Janet Wasserman

July 16, 2012

My thanks to those who were able to attend our July 8 birthday brunch for Eva's upcoming 80th birthday on July 11. To those who were unable to attend, thank you for your good wishes. I have some photos dating from 2009 which I'll send out soon.

Eva in Guadeloup

alice simpson

July 14, 2012

alice simpson

July 14, 2012

On Wednesday, July 11th, Eva would have celebrated her 80th birthday. When each of us remembers her, her spirit and acceptance live on.

Eva's ashes are part of the beach at Guadeloup, the place she most loved and shared with her beloved Arthur. The sun continues to shine on her.

gilda mitel

July 13, 2012

mes messages :coucou bibi reste les memmes a + gilda robert et pilou

Natalie Tiernan

February 20, 2012

Eva and I met as seven year olds who had recently moved to the Ward Hill neighborhood on Staten Island. We had stayed in contact until this Christmas; that represents more than 70 years. I hesitated to search for her obituary when I did not receive her annual holiday letter. I look forward to meeting her again in the next life.

November 7, 2011

Rest in peace,old friend,we're on the same journey. You & Vickey just moved faster. The L&D A team,Mt.Sinai,1955,Vickey, Eva, Deeda,& (Elliott,whever you are),probably having a good laugh. Many good memories are with me. Vaya con Dios, Deeda Nahas Syage,San Diego,CA

Alice Simpson

October 17, 2011

For more than twenty years, Eva was more than my Aunt, she was my dearest friend, warm and caring, without any hidden agenda. We shared city life, theater, movies, and great food adventures. I miss our morning calls and Skypes, seeing Pilou in her arms. Some called her “salty," but I found her vulnerable, gentle and just about the sweetest person I knew, giving of herself to everyone; she was a listener, considerate, and accepting--and always forgiving. It’s a rare friend with those qualities. In the last sentence of Eva’s book, “O.R.” she wrote, “I thought about who I am and decided: I’m just someone to watch over you.” She is watching over all of us.

Daniele Cattaud

October 1, 2011

She went not alone, in peace knowing that her loved Pilou will live with someone who would like him. I can't believe she is gone. I remember all the good times we spent together in Guadeloupe. Each year when she arrived, she showed me her new tattoo, and the photos of her dog. The last year we went in Ste Anne she gave me a very small metal box and she said " it's for you to remember me ". She was an exceptional woman, always good humoured in spite of the pains of her life. I have really great sorrow. She will always remain in my heart.

Lynda Scapino

September 30, 2011

Loved your yearly visit to Florida. We had fun sharing our funny stories. Eva was a great friend to all. My life was enriched because of her. Rest In Peace my dear friend and thanks for the memories.

Janice Erlbaum

September 29, 2011

I was lucky to have Eva as a student in two of my writing classes. I always looked forward to seeing her and reading her witty, intelligent, interesting work. I admired her personal style -- the things she wore, the way she spoke, her terrific charisma -- and I will always think of her as a wonderful model of the very kind of woman I hope to be.

Jeff Goldstein

September 29, 2011

Eva was a true friend to me and a role model on how to live a full life marching to your own drummer, being true to yourself and making the most of every day, which she did right up to the end. She lived every day of her life independently, on her own terms, caring deeply for her friends and wishing us all the best in life. And while she never put up with any nonsense from the people in her life, she was a complete pushover for her beloved dogs, as was I, which was yet another reason why I loved her so much, and will miss her deeply.

Moyra Walker

September 29, 2011

Totally devastated by your death. I just spoke to you three days before. Thank you for your presence in my life and for the past thirty winters in Guadeloupe - years during which we shared much laughter, tears and friendship. I will miss your intelligence, humour, caring, SKYPE calls and our occasional meetings in NYC where you lastly introduced me to Brighton beach and surroundings. My children and I will never forget your kindness to us all at the time of David's death and the great speech you gave at his memorial. I am so glad that you had Janet with you at the end.

September 28, 2011

Un bonheur de te connaître, Eva. Une Grande Dame. Une voix, un sens de l'humour, intelligente, vraie, humaine, forte, libre. Une personalité rare et riche. Au fil du temps, nous sommes devenues
très complices et tu étais comme une maman pour moi. Je me sens orpheline. Repose en paix. Love. Nouara (from Paris).

Alicia Jones

September 28, 2011

Words can not begin to express how dear you were to me. You taught me so much. Thank you for being at every single performance I ever did, thank you for teaching me how to handle various situations and various types of personalities. Thank you for willing me to fight when I had Breast Cancer. I will never forget you and all the words of wisdom. RIP my dear friend.

Paula Reiman

September 28, 2011

You were always a one of a kind. You never failed to amaze. I did share the love of our dogs and I enjoyed meeting your soul mate. It may have been later in life but your devotion and respect for each other showed openly and was lovely. Paula Cohen Reiman Mount Sinai class 1954

Allan Wasserman

September 27, 2011

Loved our long walk and talk up 7th Avenue South and through The Village. We shared so much from all crazy aspects of our lives. Dug our meal on the upper west side a few months back. You remain a solid family member to us. You were a rock after my sister's surgery. I will miss your calm and strength and confidence and your humor. You were a mensch always. Someone to count on. You are missed by many. Rest In Peace dear family member.

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