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1941

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2020

HENDRIK LAVERGE Obituary

LAVERGE--Hendrik Johannes (1941-2020) Hans Laverge, age 79, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Saturday, September 12, 2020 in Washington, Connecticut, after a brief but intense battle with cancer. Born in Batavia, Dutch East Indies, his parents were Albertus Laverge and Juliette Terwindt, both lawyers. He had an older sister, Julia, and a twin sister Elizabeth. With the Japanese invasion in 1942, the family were interned in concentration camps (mother and children in Tjideng and father in Pakanbaru). His father died in the camps in 1945. Returning to the Netherlands after the war, where his mother practiced as a lawyer and later as the first female member of the judiciary, he studied at the Openluchtschool, Barleus Gymnasium, de Breul, and graduated with a law degree from Leiden University in 1965 where he was a member of the Collegium of the Studentenvereniging "Minerva". Following his studies, he traveled around the world on cargo ships and found himself in Yemen during the independence uprising, in Indonesia during the political unrest, and in China at the beginning of the cultural revolution. After returning to the Netherlands he married Regine Schade, and they settled in the US in 1968. He joined Brown Brothers Harriman & Co in New York. Subsequently he was Assistant Treasurer of United Technologies in Hartford, Senior Vice President Finance of Continental Grain in New York, Senior Vice President Finance of McAndrews & Forbes in New York, Partner of Valenzuela Capital Partners, Chief Financial Officer of Nidera in Rotterdam, and General Manager of Concordia Agritrading PTE in Singapore. After having "retired", he had countless projects and passions, including as a lecturer at John Jay College; as Treasurer of the Lake Placid Institute for the Arts and Humanities; a Trustee of Gallop NYC; a Trustee of the Leidse Universiteitsfonds, a Trustee of St. Barnabas College in Johannesburg, South Africa; a mentor at Covenant House, a mentor at Baruch College; and volunteering at the New York Immigration Courts translating documents and helping guide immigrants through the process. One of his greatest passions later in life was Mongolia, to which he made many trips over the decades, riding on the steppes with the Kazakh eagle hunters, introducing the Altai mountains to friends and family, and with his local partners building a hotel in Olgii, Mongolia. His theme- song was Cole Porter's "Don't Fence Me In", which he sang riding over the vast landscape. He was an avid tennis and squash player, horseman, dog-lover, voracious reader, and active mentor and advice giver. Having grown up without a father himself, he often said it was like being on the open ocean without a compass. He invested extraordinary time and energy in mentoring young people and helping them find their path. He was a regular, committed and welcome visitor to his children, grandchildren, cousins and nephews and nieces the world over - from the Netherlands to Australia, South Africa, Canada, Scotland, Curacao, and throughout the US. Visits from "Oom Hans" were regular and enjoyed. He was the beacon for bringing the family together for events, trips, adventures and reunions. He is survived by his son, Albert Laverge and his wife Kate of Riverside, CT, and their children Allie and Charlie; his daughter Claire Petitt and her husband Peter Petitt of San Francisco, CA, and their children Saskia and Philip; his twin sister, Elizabeth Insinger-Laverge of Rotterdam, the Netherlands; his partner Barbara Tamerin of New York City; and many close cousins, nephews, nieces, mentees, friends and his trusted labrador, Wellington. A memorial service will be arranged in the future once travel restrictions allow. In lieu of flowers, he asked that donations be made to GallopNYC, which offers therapeutic horsemanship programs to riders with disabilities, veterans, seniors, and at-risk youth. http://gallopnyc.org/

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 20, 2020.

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Nick Low

March 14, 2021

Got to know Hans at Gallop NYC late October 2018. Took this photo of his friend Bentley.
Thank you so much Hans for sharing your experiences and for your hospitality at NYC and at your home. I will never forget that voice along with that sagely smile.

Frederik-Jan Mercx

January 30, 2021

Dear family, it was by chance that so many times looking for my schoolfriend and schoolmate on "Katwijk de Breul" I found the sad annunciation of his passing. I looked for him for a long time but did not know where he was living. He had no connection with the club of reunists of our school.
I was really disappointed that we never had any contact after 1960. I can imagine that you really miss such a lovely and wonderful man; i send you my deepest feelings and hope that you will able to fill the room that he, with his enthousiasm and creativity, made so special.
What I now have left is a couple of pictures and a heartly memory.
I wish you all the best strength you need in these difficult days.
With appreciation and love, Frederik-Jan Mercx

Lies Ouwerkerk-Pal

October 4, 2020

Shocked to read about Hans' passing. He was my classmate at the Openluchtschool and Barlaeus, and the first crush of my life, at age 8. I have marveled reading about the wonderful, fascinating life he has led, and the many lives he must have touched. My condolences and warm wishes for family and friends. May Hans' gentle and compassionate soul rest in peace...
Lies Ouwerkerk - Pal, Montreal

Caroline Thate

October 1, 2020

When our 2 daughters were living in NYC we asked Hans to keep an eye, which he did.
When our eldest daughter got married we had the wedding at Hans' club the Union Club.
Whenever we visited we had lunch or dinner with Hans; the last time was 2 years ago when I had lunch with him.
Fond memories of Hans and Barbara.
Thank you for your friendship!

Alex Munoz

September 30, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.Thank you for your friendship and advices.

irene leeds Habiague

September 25, 2020

In mid -July Hans, Kathleen and Steven, my husband, had a wonderful afternoon lunch . Unfortunately Barbara could not be with us. Hans was “ seemingly” in perfect health. As we sat outside sipping our wine , Hans reminisced about his time with Barbara. “ In our 21 years together we had some wonderful times.”We spoke of many things and he shared his sadness that Barbara was not with us. Hans, all of us who knew you will miss you. -Irene Leeds Habiague

Joni Maya Cherbo

September 24, 2020

How we will miss our dear friend!!
We spent many joyful, festive, memorable times together during Han’s 21 year tenure with his dear companion, Barbara Tamerin.
Han’s was distinctive, a Renaissance man, sometimes quirky, but always
engaging. He adored animals and was ever present when you needed his advice or comfort. We will not see his like again.
RIP, Dear Friend. You left us way too early.

Joni Cherbo

Simone Taylor

September 20, 2020

My sincerest condolences to your family for the loss of your loved one, Please except my deepest sympathies.

Alicia Kershaw

September 20, 2020

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