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IAN GRAHAM

1931 - 2020

IAN GRAHAM obituary, 1931-2020, New York, NY

BORN

1931

DIED

2020

IAN GRAHAM Obituary

GRAHAM--Ian H. July 27, 1931 - September 28, 2020. Known as "Mighty" on the football field, Ian H. Graham, the son of Scottish parents from Northern New Jersey, was an athlete, entrepreneur, philanthropist, husband and father. Mr. Graham was a self made man who came from a blue collar town and credited several people for putting him on a path to success including his parents who sacrificed to send him to the prep school, Peddie School, his football coach who taught him the intricacies of the game, one of his teachers who became his mentor and his wife, world famous photographer, Ellen Graham. Early on, Graham said that it was the Peddie School, where he graduated in 1950, that "Turned him around in the right direction." During his prep school years he was the captain of the football team, a member of the varsity wrestling and golf teams, secretary of the Gold Key Society, president of his senior class, and student prefect of his dormitory. After graduating Rutgers in 1954, he was recommended for a position in the carpet industry, where he worked for several years honing his business skills and coming up with the slogan, "Home means more with carpet on the floor." Moving into the insurance business in the 1980s, he soon founded his own company, Ian H. Graham Insurance, Inc. first to sell liability protection to condominium associations. New York City was seeing a slew of buildings converted into condos and co-ops and Graham skillfully identified the opportunity. As he said "About 70 percent of co-ops came through my office. I created an industry and then expanded to boards of cemeteries, yacht clubs and others." In 1999 he sold his private insurance company to Aon Corporation and he and his wife, Ellen, split their time between Florida, California, New York and Europe with golf turning into a lifelong passion. As a philanthropist, Graham remained loyal to Peddie through service and lifetime contributions. "I want Peddie to have the best facilities," he said of his dedication to improvements to the state-of-the-art Ian H. Graham Athletic Center which was named in his honor after a large gift in 1997. "When I was there, we had a bathtub as a pool." "I strongly believe in giving back, and I'm delighted I'm able to provide great opportunities to students. It's inspiring to see the impact of the gifts I have made." Ian Graham had a strong sense of gratitude becoming the school's third most generous benefactor behind Walter H. Annenberg '27 and Finn M.W. Caspersen '59 and he served as Trustee Emeritus. Thanks to Graham's latest gift to Peddie, the Athletic Center was upgraded this winter (2019) with two new wooden basketball courts, a curtain system and a resurfaced indoor track. He is survived by his wife Ellen Graham and his son Alexis Graham. Photo of Ian Graham in Beverly Hills, CA, 1970 by Ellen Graham.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 4, 2020.

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Margaret R McGinnis Johnson

May 28, 2024

My name is Margaret R Johnson McGinnis cousin of Ian graham and want to say how sorry I was to hear of his passing. My aunt Cathy and uncle jack was so proud of him and also of his wife Ellen

Helen Downey McCooey

July 2, 2023

I l was not aware of Ian´s passing
He was a very Special Gentleman who my husband John H McCooey & I spent many Happy times with he @ his Beautiful
Talented wife Ellen

Margaret rose McGinnis Johnson

January 26, 2022

So sad to hear of my cousins passing his aunt and uncle Jean and George McGinnis would be sad at hearing of his passing. He was a good cousin and nephew to us

Anne Davis

September 28, 2021

Ian was a handsome, charming, generous man. He taught his younger cousin Anne when she stayed in Cape Cod how to eat lobster, and showed her the places of interest to go. Treasured memories of Ian.

Frank Chominski

August 4, 2021

Truly enjoyed working with him while I was at Aon. On a personal side Ian was a very caring and generous person. Also a a good golfer.

Terri Robinson

January 13, 2021

Ian, will be missed, a friend for over 50 years starting in New York City. He had a great sense of humor. May he rest in peace. Deepest condolences to his family.

Mihir Patel

October 12, 2020

Ian’s legacy is one of generosity, competitiveness, honor and charity. For my 20+ years of working with him and his family, he became a mentor and confidant. My holiday lunches with him will be sincerely missed.

My deepest condolences.

Mihir

Carlos Eugenio Bullos

October 9, 2020

As a Peddie alumnus ‘56 proud and happy to learn of his wonderful life, family and dedication to our Alma Mater

Pamela McCulloch

October 8, 2020

Sending condolences across the miles to the family of the late Ian H Graham
May He Rest in Peace. From Pamela Mcculloch (cousin ,paternal side of the family)

Anne Davis

October 8, 2020

My mother was Ian's father's sister. I met him for the first time in New York in 1968, when he welcomed me and helped me travel to his parents' home in Cape Cod. He visited Scotland with his Dad on a golfing holiday in 1981and met the rest of his cousins. We found him charming and full of fun. I am very sorry to hear of his passing, and wish to extend condolences to his wife Ellen and son Alexis.

Simone Taylor

October 4, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time of grieving.

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