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Charles Horowitz, Ph.D.
December 3, 2025
I light up inside thinking of Jae at Esalen in the kitchen where we worked, or out on the deck by the fire pit.
I'm glad to have known you, Jaelitza
Charles Horowitz PhD
December 19, 2024
She was such a bright & kind woman to me in my years of residency & study at Esalen. I worked in the kitchen with her often. I think of her fondly.
June Kinoshita
March 16, 2024
Jaelitza was a wonderful friend and inspiration to me. She looked after my toddler daughter when we lived in Big Sur and instilled a sense of wonder and delight in nature that has left a lifelong imprint. She came and lived with us for a year near Boston where we spent delightful hours working together in the garden and taking care of our flock of chickens. She found and made beauty everwhere she went. I will always cherish the many handmade valentines, socks, handwarmers, and toys she gifted us with. She had an amazing life and will live on in our memories.

Ulla Kutscher
February 1, 2024
I worked with Jaelitza at Gazebo Esalen in 1992...she was such wonderful teacher for the kids and for me too..good bei Jae...and thank you for your love....RIP .....Ulla from Germany
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Alex Schweiger
February 1, 2024
Dear Family of Jaelitza
My heartfelt condolences for your loss.
I like to share a moment of my life, the encounter with Jaelitza, which left an imprint on my life to this day.
I met Jaelitza when she was the age I am about now. As a workscholar I came to Gazebo/ Esalen in 1994/95.
Jaelitza gave Gazebo a wholesome and quiet presents. She was one of many Gazebo teachers who would shape my work and broaden my view and knowledge.
Working in her wake has had an influence on my work with youth kids still to this day.
She held her opinions firmly and I never missed her warm welcome and unmistakable twinkle of humor and wise knowledge.
Jaelitza was somebody I could learn from, observing and turn to when needed.
She offered guidance without force.
Jaeliza made an impression which stayed with me all my life. She still appears when I search for "that" wisdom.
She is present when my inner younger is in turmoil.
Jaelitza will continue to stay with me, her contribution, gifting this world with a creative spark, firm presence and warm sense of holding for healing and growing.
Thank you Jaelitza
Brian LYKE
February 1, 2024
I worked in the Esalen kitchen with Jaelitza.....each cook decided their menu and I ordered the ingredients, the produce, the meats...whatever was needed for the meal and she created some wonderful meals. Reading her obituary I realize I knew very little about her and always wondered what became of her after she left Esalen. I've thought about walking "the camino" myself and was saddened to read about the theft she endured while on a spiritual pilgrimage. I have only good memories of her! Sending you love and light, dear Jaelitza!
Janat Dundas Horowitz
January 31, 2024
While living at Esalen, every time I met Jaelitza I learned something. She always was so lively, bright and fun. I have wondered about her. May she rest in peace.
Karen Mueller
January 31, 2024
I was one of the many people whose life and heart was touched by Jaelitza during our time together at Esalen. Wonderful woman, wonderful friendQ
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