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JACOBUS--John Law. After a brief but hard-fought battle with cancer, John Law Jacobus, of Washington, DC, passed away on January 2, 2021. He was 57 years old. Born in Washington, DC, on December 23, 1963, John grew up in Princeton, NJ, and graduated from Princeton Day School in 1982. He attended Harvard University, receiving a Bachelor of Arts (A.B.) in History and graduating magna cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa. At Harvard, John was a recipient of the Detur Prize, a John Harvard Scholarship, and the Whitehill Prize. After college, John received his Juris Doctor (J.D.) degree in 1989 from the Harvard Law School. Following a clerkship under the Hon. Maryanne T. Barry, at the U.S. District Court for the District of New Jersey, John served as a trial attorney at the U.S. Department of Justice in Washington, DC. While at the Justice Department, John received two Special Achievement Awards from the Attorney General, for Sustained Superior Performance of Duty (1993) and for Meritorious Acts Performed on Behalf of the Department (1994). John next joined a large national law firm, then served as the general counsel in a family-owned business, the Jacobus Pharmaceutical Company, Inc., a position he relished. Returning to firm practice at Steptoe & Johnson, LLP, in Washington, DC, John remained there for the rest of his career. Elected partner at Steptoe in 2001, John specialized in commercial litigation and arbitrations; he also served as chair of the Insurance and Reinsurance Practice Section of Lex Mundi, the world's largest assembly of private law firms. While at Steptoe, John also devoted a significant amount of time to pro bono work, helping persecuted or tortured immigrants reach the safety of the United States, and leading litigation on behalf of developmentally delayed children against the government of the District of Columbia. John cherished reading and collecting books on World War II and history in general. Together with his partner (and later husband) of 23 years, John also enjoyed traveling and seeing both the cultural sites of the world and its geographical wonders, from Argentina to Zimbabwe and dozens of countries in between. John appreciated the vibrancy of urban spaces, but relished getting deep into rustic places as well. He was particularly fond of walking in the woods and along the rocky cliffs at Isle au Haut, Maine, where his family has spent summers for many generations. Isle au Haut often inspired deeply contemplative moments in John, especially at night, when the ink- black sky was spread with stars and the murmurs of the ocean sounded nearby. Character was destiny for John, and he exemplified the belief that kindness was the greatest wisdom. He was utterly devoted to his husband, David Uhler, and was beloved by his family and many friends. John was predeceased by his brother, William Penman Jacobus, to whom he lovingly gave many hours of thoughtful care during a prolonged period of illness in William's life. In addition to his husband, John is survived by his parents, David and Claire Jacobus of Princeton, NJ; his sister Marget Jacobus of Westfield, MA; his sister and brother-in-law Claire Jacobus and Andrew Hildick-Smith of Winchester, MA; his sister Laura Jacobus of Princeton, NJ; three nephews (Gordon, Seth, and Neil Hildick-Smith), a niece (Ellen Jacobus), and a new grand-niece, Sophie, daughter of Gordon and his wife Alice Wisener. A memorial service for John will be planned for a later date. Those who would like to honor John's memory in the meantime may wish to make a donation in his honor to the Lombardi Comprehensive Cancer Center at Georgetown University (lombardi.georgetown. edu/giving); the Isle au Haut (Maine) Community Development Corporation (isleauhaut.org); or the Shakespeare Theatre Company of Washington, DC (shakespearetheatre.org/ support/ways-to-give).

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 10, 2021.

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Mark Quinlivan

April 2, 2023

John was one of my closest colleagues when he was at the Department of Justice. What a guy!! It sometimes seemed like he was born a century too soon. He had such a reservoir of the classics that always amazed me. We tried a case together when he was at the DOJ and became close friends. John was a great soul and will be truly missed.

Ian Hunter KC

January 4, 2023

John was such a good friend and a really lovely guy. He is greatly missed.

Jonathan Mastrangelo

January 4, 2023

I happened to be thinking of John last week, unaware that the anniversary of his passing was approaching. John was such an important influence early in my career. He taught me to trust my instincts, which is one of the hardest and most valuable lessons for a young lawyer to learn. I will be forever grateful.

Julie Anna Alvarez

May 1, 2021

I was deeply saddened to learn of John's passing during a Harvard Class of 1986 reunion of first year dorm residents of Matthews Hall South. John and I became friends then and continued our friendship as we transitioned to Lowell House. We overlapped as students at Harvard Law School. Our birthdays were near each other and shared an interest in history and literature and found humor in the everyday. I have so many memories of fun times (especially the year John's Halloween costume was a spot on take on Pope John Paul II). I regret we lost touch as happens to many busy attorneys. I send my prayers and know that because energy can never die, his spirit lives on. And his memory lives on in those of us who knew him and appreciated him as a wonderful friend. My condolences to all his dear ones.

Ian Hunter

March 2, 2021

My wife Jill and I have just heard that John passed away a couple of months ago. He was a great friend and we will miss him greatly. I knew him through our joint membership of ARIAS US. More than once he sent me a book for Christmas nicely inscribed by him with a warm message of good wishes. Just the nicest possible guy. Lovely memories of dinners with him will stay with us for long time. We send his husband our heartfelt condolences.
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Jonathan Mastrangelo

January 21, 2021

John was a great friend and mentor. I worked with John relatively briefly but he was the one of the first lawyers who was a mentor to me and we spoke regularly over the years, typically when I needed sound counsel on an important career decision. John was a brilliant, incredibly talented lawyer — but even more importantly he was modest and kind friend. I will miss him a great deal. My sincerest condolences to John’s family.

Jonathan Mastrangelo

January 21, 2021

John was a great friend and mentor. I worked with John relatively briefly but he was the one of the first lawyers who was a mentor to me and we spoke regularly over the years, typically when I needed sound counsel on an important career decision. John was a brilliant, incredibly talented lawyer — but even more importantly he was modest and kind friend. I will miss him a great deal. My sincerest condolences to John’s family.

Simone Taylor

January 15, 2021

Prayers and fond memories are what you have to remember your dearly departed. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Keith Decker

January 10, 2021

In my 24 years at Steptoe, John was one of the kindest and gentlest people I ever worked with there. He always had an encouraging and positive word to say in any situation when we worked together. Would that the legal profession not be stereotyped by public perception but be characterized by what John brought to the profession. RIP John.

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