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McGRATH--John William, passed away on May 3rd. He was 90 years old. Better known as "Jack," he was the oldest child of Hugh and Marion McGrath. He grew up in New Rochelle, NY, graduated from The Canterbury School, Williams College and New York Law School. From 1955-1957, he served in the United States Army as a counterintelligence agent. He was a partner at the law firm Lane and Mittendorf; when he retired in 2019, he was of counsel at Gallagher Lagalante. Jack had a lifelong passion for politics. He was actively involved in many campaigns and served as Chief Advanceman for Governor Nelson Rockefeller in two presidential campaigns. An avid golfer, gardener, and baker, he served on committees at the University Club and was a Brother of Holland Lodge No. 8, F.A.&M. He is survived by his wife of 35 years, Patricia Ogden McGrath; his son, John W. McGrath (Johanna); his three grandsons Hogan McGrath, Dylan Diouf, and Leo Diouf; his three stepchildren Alix Ogden, Alfred T. Ogden III, Fell Gray and their families; a brother Hugh McGrath and two sisters, Mary Elizabeth Hutcoe and Julianne McGrath. His daughter, Paula McGrath Diouf predeceased him. A service will be held on Tuesday, May 23 at 4pm at the Church of the Heavenly Rest, 1085 Fifth Ave. at 4pm. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Paul McGrath Scholarship Fund at The Canterbury School, 101 Aspetuck Avenue, New Milford, CT 06776.

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Published by New York Times on May 14, 2023.

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Loraine Arnott

February 9, 2025

I met Jack and his lovely daughter Paula in the 90´s through work in the Lloyds Insurance Market in the City in London and learned all about all about his wife Patty and his family. His brother Hugh helped me out at the time and went above and beyond. Jack was indeed a great and kind man and I am so sad to hear of his passing. Rest in Peace, Jack. Your kindness has never been forgotten.

Loraine Hogan Arnott (Dublin, London, Oxfordshire).

Helen Downey

July 12, 2023

Jack was forever the ultimate Gentleman I just learned of his passing & am sad as a very decent era has left us he was special I was a great friend of his sister who he has joined in Heaven My Prayers

Wayne Chambless

May 22, 2023

Jack was a great friend and golf partner. He was one of the first people I met playing golf on Long Island. Many happy and hilarious memories. We will miss him,

Julianne Mcgrath

May 18, 2023

I will definitely miss my oldest brother Jack I am the youngest in the family. I am the eighth and I will definitely miss him. Love you Jack.

Dan Biederman

May 15, 2023

I remember John fondly as a charismatic member of Manhattan Community Board 5-- may he rest in peace

Dan Biederman

Henry Sopher

May 14, 2023

What an incredible character ..loved working with him.

No one is actually dead until the ripples they cause in the world die away..." - Terry Pratchett, Reaper Man
May his memory be for a blessing!

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