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STRAVINSKY--John. It is with great sadness that the family of John Stravinsky announces his death on November 1, 2023 at the age of 77. He was born on November 4, 1945 in Paris, France to Francoise and Soulima Stravinsky and was the grandson of the composer Igor Stravinsky. John attended Lake Forest Academy in Lake Forest, IL and Urbana High School where he grew up. He was in the second year graduating class of the Tisch School of the Arts, New York University. As a young man in New York, he performed in clubs, acted in theatre, film, and television commercials, and tended bar at Mickey Ruskin's Ocean Club and One University Place. He began writing in the 1970s, contributing to the Soho Weekly News, Boxing Illustrated, Billiards Digest, and eventually writing golf, boxing, and baseball pieces for the Wall Street Journal, the New York Times Magazine, Inside Sports and others. For several years he wrote on pro football and other sports for the Village Voice. He worked for HBO in the early 1980s doing off- camera interviews at Wimbledon and was a color commentator for pool tournaments for ESPN. In 1991, he and his wife and young children moved from Brooklyn to Bellport, NY. There, he authored six books, ranging from a biography of Muhammad Ali, to an anthology of poker writing, to a co-written memoir of a golf hustler. John himself was an avid golfer, a canny poker player, a sophisticated handicapper at New York and California racetracks, and champion pool player. A savvy gambler, he bet on every game he played and most of the games he watched. He was a suave and charming raconteur often using obscure American slang which he mixed with the occasional bawdy French phrase. He was the very definition of "clubbable" - social and popular - but with no pretense or false enthusiasm. When not playing golf at his cherished Bellport Country Club or Sara Bay Country Club in Sarasota, FL, where he and his wife have resided since 2019, John was a passionate reader of books and publications, from Patricia Highsmith and Leo Tolstoy to The Nation and The Ring Magazine. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Dava, and his sons, Louis and Charles. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that a donation be considered to The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research: www.michaeljfox.org

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 12, 2023.

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bloob

July 8, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

John R Benck

June 5, 2025

I just read about the passing of my old buddy John Stravinski. I knew John in New York when I was hanging out with Tommy O'Donnell and Nathan, amongst others, and in Mexico with his beautiful wife, Dava. Rest in Peace old buddy, you were a very funny and cool guy and I'm sure you are very missed by your family and his many friends.

Anita

August 16, 2024

Dear Dava, Louis and Charlie, so saddened to the passing of John. We lived across the street from his parents on Siesta Key in the early 90´s.
Dava, you and John were so concerned, when I had my amniocentesis when carrying my daughter and to this day appreciated both of your concern.
Are heart goes out to you and boys.
Much love,
Anita and Katie

Karen Kaz

June 19, 2024

I knew John at Kendall College Evanston, Illinois in the mid-60´s .
He taught me how to play pool in several pool halls he frequented on Howard Street, at the Evanston/Chicago border. We went off to separate universities to finish college . After that, we had a chance encounter on Nee Years Eve in the 70´s when he was a limo chauffeur and drove a couple I knew to a party in Englewood Cliffs, NJ. He stayed at the party and told me he was going to acting school.
It sounds like he had a good life.
I´m sorry to hear about his passing.
Condolences to his family .
Karen K

Franny Galati Clarkson

February 6, 2024

Dear Dava - I lost my brother in 2023 & I know John & Frank were very fond of each other. John was a wonderful friend & so much more. With love to you and the boys! Franny

Gary Hughes

February 4, 2024

Talented, amiable and funny. Condolences to his family.

DanMcClelland

February 4, 2024

From our first days at school we were competitors at the Illini Union pool hall. Most memorable was John´s on the edge of a table...burning, we went outside and fought.
Time out John.

Sandy Carter Leister

February 4, 2024

What a coincidence to receive this news today. My husband and I talked about John 2 nights ago with memories of sharing biology table with him (plus Tom & Kevin) as well as very bazaar English class experience. What an unusual and wide career he had. We had enjoyed talking about his experiences at our 50th reunion dinner.
Sandy Carter Leister

Bennett Hart

December 24, 2023

Great memories of John in High School and - believe it or not - in the Boy Scouts - He is always missed !!

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