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JONATHAN WAINWRIGHT Obituary

WAINWRIGHT--Jonathan Mayhew "Jon." Jonathan Mayhew Wainwright "Jon," beloved husband, father, and grandfather, died on Thursday, November 21st in his home in New York City, with his wife, Candace, his sons, Jay and Shep, and his stepdaughters, Kate and Lexie Olmsted, by his side. He was the son of Janet Parsons and Stuyve-sant Wainwright, II, a U.S. Congressman, of Wainscott, NY. Jon graduated from St. Paul's School, Yale University, and NYU School of Law. In his youth, Jon was a passionate hockey player until a serious back injury during his freshman year at Yale. Unable to continue with hockey, he then took on the task of running the Yale Student Laundry - a formative experience from which he learned that much could be accomplished with hard work, determination, and a creative approach - a philosophy that guided him the rest of his life. Jon worked at Cadwalader, Wickersham & Taft from his law school graduation in 1968 until his death. The firm described him as "one of the legal profession's foremost experts in investment management, alternative investment products, and family office matters, providing corporate governance and transactional advice to a who's who of U.S. and international clients." Both professionally and per-sonally, Jon had a way of gathering people. He was curious and eager to learn about everyone, and many gravitated toward him, seeking his guidance. Cadwalader noted that "Jon served as a mentor to countless people, including partners of (the) Firm. He offered friendship and provided sage advice. Many of those who benefited from his wisdom have gone on to lucrative careers at some of the biggest hedge funds and institutions in the country." Jon served on numerous boards, including the B. Robert Williamson, Jr. Foundation, Lighthouse Guild, The Nature Conservancy, and Friends of Georgica Pond Foundation, which he helped found in 2015 to protect the water and ecosystem of Georgica Pond, where he lived for over 75 years. An American Studies major in college, Jon had a lifelong appreciation for American art, literature, and music. He was an avid upland and duck hunter, a family tradition which he was thrilled to share with his sons. Jon's favorite places were his cottage at the Long Point Company, a duck hunting club in Canada, and his house on Georgica Pond, where he gardened, delighted in the wildlife and the weather, and enjoyed the thousands of daffodils he and Candace planted over the years. Jon was predeceased by his sister, Snowden Wainwright. He is survived by his wife, Candace; his sons, Jay (Bitsy) and Shep (Tina) Wainwright; his stepdaughters Kate (John Grossman) and Lexie Olmsted (Ly Tran); his grandchildren Jack, Lucy, Sally, Alex, Reed, and Chloe Wainwright, Eliza, Charlotte, and Xander Grossman, and Will and Katie Tran, and siblings Stuyvesant (Mitten) and Laura (Whit Griswold).

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 1, 2024.

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John R. Tassini

December 3, 2024

Jon was a great gentleman of the law - in the best sense of the phrase. We very much enjoyed his company. Remember the good times. Very Best Wishes to Candy & family, Jack & Mary Tassini

Sandra stiles

December 3, 2024

Dear candy so sad to hear of your beloved husband passing. My best sandy stiles

Sheila Scharfman

December 2, 2024

Dearest Candy, I am so saddened to hear of Jon's passing.. I know you two fought a most courageous battle, but I hope you and the family will be comforted in the coming days and years by Jon's extraordinary legacy and your precious memories.
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December 2, 2024

A wonderful gentleman, family man and friend.
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