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LEONARD BERNSTEIN Obituary

BERNSTEIN--Leonard S. Leonard S. Bernstein, age 89, died peacefully October 25 at home in Westbury, New York, surrounded by his family. The cause was a brain tumor, which was recently diagnosed. Leonard was an accomplished business owner manufacturing children's clothing and a successful author of six books, including his most recent collection of short stories "The Man Who Wanted to Buy a Heart". His writing was published in The New York Times, Life magazine, The Saturday Evening Post, and The Wall Street Journal, among others. His book "The Official Guide to Wine Snobbery" was translated into six languages. His short story collection was reviewed as "terse, funny, poignant, honest." The apparel company, Candlesticks, Inc., was founded in 1928 by his father, and operated in New York and Pennsylvania continuously as a family-owned business for almost 90 years. Leonard is survived by his three children, Audrey, Lawrence, and Laura, and six grandchildren: Saskia, Daniel, Isabel, Sonya, Jacob and Julia. His wife Rita, who he met at age 18, died in 2002. Born in Brooklyn, a graduate of James Madison High School, Leonard graduated from the University of Michigan. Leonard was an ardent supporter of literary quarterlies, civil rights organizations such as the ACLU and a longtime member of The New York Wine & Food Society. He loved his weekday racquetball matches, weekend tennis games, beach volleyball and all the joys of decades of family summer rentals in Amagansett. He delighted in visiting art galleries and museums in New York and internationally, and was especially drawn to Renaissance art. Decisions of the U.S. Supreme Court and issues of social justice were a frequent discussion topic, and he cherished a spirited debate and a glass of fine wine. Leonard had an independent and stubborn style. He had an unshakeable belief in persistence, determination, and integrity, and a notable sweet tooth. He was a great and loyal friend. There was a private graveside ceremony for family.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 1, 2020.

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Vivian Bernstein

October 28, 2021

I met Leonard Bernstein at a writing class that he taught at Hofstra University. At the time, I faced challenges with difficult editors, Mr. Bernstein offered to help me navigate the business world of publishing. He offered me invaluable advice and guidance that helped me succeed in publishing. He was always kind, considerate, helpful and thoughtful. I admired his dedication to his family, his integrity, and his willingness to help others. I will always be grateful for the support he offered.

Vivian Bernstein

December 17, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Sandy Passer

December 15, 2020

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I knew Leonard for a very short time, through a few visits.
We were amazed by his gentle demeanor, rich heart and talent, and engaging conversations.
May his memory be a blessing to his family and friends.
Sandy Passer

Bette Adelman

December 5, 2020

I just recently learned of Len’s death from a mutual friend. I am so saddened! He was a most talented, convivial, witty and delightful guy. I will retain very fond memories of our times together with his marvelous late wife Rita on Long Island and elsewhere those many years ago. Condolences to his children and their children from an ardent admirer.

Susan Katz

November 26, 2020

I’m very saddened by this loss of Leonard. He was my official family correspondent of everything Bernstein. I enjoyed our conversation about his books. He was a true Renaissance man. May his memory be a blessing! With love Susan Seidner-Katz

Simone Taylor

November 4, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but your special memories can help you & your family cope. Remembering your loved one today and always. Please except my deepest sympathies.

Rose Clemson

November 4, 2020

The New York Wine and Food Society is greatly saddened and mourns the loss of one of our longest standing members, Leonard Bernstein. Leonard was a member of the Society since 1958. He attended many of our events over more than five decades. Leonard could always be counted on to express his thoughtful clear views on wine. We will miss his wit and insights, especially at our tasting events which he particularly enjoyed attending.

He will be very much missed by his friends at the New York chapter of the International Wine and Food Society and throughout the world.

- On behalf of the membership of the Wine and Food Society of NY

Robert E. Coven
President

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Rose Clemson

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Suzanne M. Grifo

November 3, 2020

Dear Laura, Larry and Audrey, My thoughts and prayers are with you. May Leonard Rest In Peace. With deepest sympathy, Suzanne Grifo

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James S Pellen

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