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LINDA STACKHOUSE Obituary

STACKHOUSE--Linda Grace Starlin, a native Staten Islander, died of cancer on February 10th in her Manhattan home, at age 74. Linda was born June 24th, 1941 in Westerleigh, graduated Curtis High School in 1959 and earned a BA Summa Cum Laude from Pace University in Manhattan. She later received her Masters in Public Administration from Baruch College and was elected a member of Pi Alpha Alpha. After her Pace graduation, she spent two years in Malaysia on a Peace Corps assignment. She was married to Hon. John E.H. Stackhouse, retired New York Supreme Court Justice, from 1963 until 1983 and had two children, Laura Stackhouse and Daniel Stackhouse. She is also survived by her granddaughter, Ruby Saratoga Hayes, son-in-law Pete Hayes, and her brother and sister, C. Peter Starlin and Dorothy C. Starlin Heffner. Linda retired from Weill Cornell Medical College in 2008. She was employed there for 25 years and her last title was Division Administrator. She was an active member of Holy Apostles Episcopal Church for over 40 years, and was a tireless volunteer for the Holy Apostles Soup Kitchen. She was an outstanding cook and dancer, and she was passionate about travel, music, and the arts. She was an ardent supporter of independent theater, film, dance and many New York cultural institutions. She will be greatly missed by her family and a multitude of loyal friends. A memorial service is planned at the Church of the Holy Apostles, 296 9th Ave., in Manhattan, on Saturday, March 19th at 11am. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that donations be sent to the Holy Apostles Soup Kitchen, www.holyapostlessoup

kitchen.org

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 28, 2016.

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Ann Christensen

February 1, 2018

Linda and I met in high school and remained friends. It's almost two years since she passed and I think of her and miss her every day. Linda represented the best of everything. She was intelligent, kind and a good loyal friend. Rest in peace dear friend.

Isabel Sciaky

March 26, 2016

I moved to Chelsea in 1976. Linda was the first person I met as I walked towards Hudson Guild with my daughter. She greeted me so kindly. Linda was always so kind and loving. Today, our children are still friends. So much to remember and so many wonderful memories. Rest in peace.

Patric Pucillo

March 18, 2016

This 6 or 7 year old little boy had never seen such a pretty 6 or 7 year old little girl, until Linda and her family moved in across the street. The Starlins, Mom & Dad, Linda, Pete and "Ditty" were a fond part of my early years. Rest in Peace, Linda. God Bless.

Fric Spruyt

March 8, 2016

Lovely Linda,
Met you at Ashokan New Year's so many long ago I can't remember.
Always a joy to cross paths with, at one festival or another. Wish I new you better, wish I could change my plans for the 19th...
Hope you are still dancing where ever you are!

Dan Stackhouse

March 2, 2016

Linda was the best mother I could ever have asked for. I will miss her very much, but the lessons she taught me will always stay with me.

C. Peter Starlin

March 2, 2016

Linda will be remembered and missed.She was my older sister whom I loved and cared about,always.She is now with Mom and Dad.I Love you Linda. God bless you.

March 2, 2016

Vicki, Goldie and Tom - Rest in Peace Linda. You deserve angel wings in your new home. You were a blessing in all our lives and we miss you.

manny fonseca

March 1, 2016

a wonderful friend & one of my favorite dancer partner for many yrs.

Robin Theil

February 29, 2016

Linda was my best friend for thirty-six years. Linda was the kindest, nicest and most generous person I have ever known. She was so much fun to be with and go places with. We lived next door to one another, sharing kitchen walls in our Chelsea apartments for twelve years. I will miss her greatly.

February 29, 2016

Betty Ann and Maitland Chase
Dearest Linda will always be in our hearts.

Heading to the Iguana to hear the Vince Giordano orchestra.

Cindy Long

February 29, 2016

Loving kindness and a generous spirit were Linda's hallmark traits. Jim and I feel so lucky to have know her. She was a special light in this world. The photo was taken in Sept 2015. I add it here because she said she liked this photo of herself. She looked beautiful.

February 29, 2016

Our children's "Other Grandmother" It is an honor to be her brother-in-law. She was a "giver" all of her life and a source of comfort to many of us.
God Blessed her and through her He blessed many.

Mary Kelly

February 28, 2016

My dear friend Linda, always an inspiration.

Susan Miller-Coulter

February 28, 2016

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will remember you always.

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