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MARILYN WHITE Obituary

WHITE--Marilyn J. It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Marilyn J. White, mother, grandmother, and champion of services for those underserved seeking addiction counseling and treatment. Marilyn was a pioneer and icon who founded the Realization Center in 1984, with the dream of helping those affected by addiction in New York City. Marilyn, a credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor, worked with thousands of addicts and hundreds of addiction clinicians, MDs, residents, interns, and social work workers throughout her 40+ years in the field. She devoted her time, passion, and in fact, most of her life to acting as both a champion and advocate for those struggling with addiction. Marilyn demonstrated dedication, poise, and compassion while providing care in an intense and often challenging work environment. She was a leader and role model for countless counselors she mentored throughout her career. Marilyn incorporated her own experience of 50 years from addiction to recovery in everything she did, and her priority was always for every addict in need of access to treatment. She and her long-time business partner, Dianne Schwartz, CPA, CASAC operated Realization Center with dedication, compassion, and commitment. Marilyn's vision and mission will continue under the continued presence of her business partner and her daughter, Shelly White, LCSW-R, CASAC 2. Marilyn is survived by her daughter Shelly White, who continues her work, her beloved grandson, Beyer, her business partner Dianne Schwartz and her longtime assistant Cynthia Simmons. A remembrance celebration and memorial service will be held at The Church of St. Francis Xavier, 46 W 16th St., New York, NY 10011 on Saturday, July 13, 2024 at 9:30am.

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Published by New York Times on Jun. 21, 2024.

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Rosa Olivo

July 13, 2024

Worked for 16 years at Realization Center and Marilyn was part of my support system besides being my boss. She was very supportive and so compassionate. I think of her often.

Andrew D.

June 24, 2024

I attended groups at the Realization Center. Marilyn worked hard to support LGBT affirmative groups, and provide a safe place to be in recovery. She was a compassionate woman that will be missed.

Pia Marinangeli

June 23, 2024

I am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Marilyn, a true icon in the field of addiction treatment in new york city. Marilyn was not only a mentor and role model but an admired mother figure to me. For over 20 years, she taught me about hard work, dedication and passion for what she strongly believed in- helping others. She inspired me and challenged me to grow and learn. Her business acumen and sense of humor were like no other. The impact she has had on my life and countless others is immeasurable. Marilyn's wisdom and support will never be forgotten. Her legacy will continue to live in the hearts of all those she touched. Xo

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