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MELISSA GORDON Obituary

GORDON--Dr. Melissa, Dr. Melissa Gordon passed away peacefully on July 23, 2025, from complications of metastatic breast cancer. She was born on August 27, 1948 to Dr. Alvin Gordon and Elaine (Isaacson) Gordon, and raised in New York City. Melissa was a graduate of Hunter College Elementary School, Riverdale Country School and Briarcliff College, and received a PhD in Child Psychology from NYU where, after she graduated, she trained and supervised doctoral students for many years and taught as an instructor in the Educational Psychology Department. Before beginning graduate school, she worked as a science teacher at the Brearley School and then, for the past 43 years, as a school psychologist at the Village Community School in the West Village, as well as consulting with several child-art organizations and working privately as a parent consultant. Melissa is survived by her husband Christopher Culler, her daughter Camilla Culler, her brother Todd Gordon (Susan Feder), her nieces and nephews, Basia Gordon, Sam Gordon, Lisa Tripician and Christina Tripician, and many dearly beloved and generous friends. The enduring impact that she had in the lives of literally thousands of children is immeasurable. She was genuinely loved by so many. A memorial service will be held for Melissa in the coming weeks. Contributions can be made to Studio-in-a-School (studioinaschool.org), a non-profit organization Melissa was deeply involved with for many years.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 26, 2025.

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Larry Hess

December 2, 2025

I'm sorry to read about this news today. I will miss her. Larry Hess

MARY SCHACHTEL WRIGHT

September 26, 2025

Melissa was my roommate in college, and she remained a friend for so many years. I will miss her humor, her wisdom, and her honesty. I love you, my sweet Melissa.

Alicia

August 8, 2025

Very fond memories of Melissa from my visits to VCS. Very sad to hear this news. Love to you Chris and family.

Paul Smith

August 1, 2025

Very sorry to hear about your loss, our thoughts are with you.
Paul & Jan Smith

Bob Kirsch

July 29, 2025

July 29
Melissa and I lost touch years ago, at her request. But today for the first time in quite a while was the urge to search for her. So she and I have a connection.
She was wonderful in elementary school, wonderful in college, and wonderful since. Do identify a single characteristic, her sensitivity, which appeared in a great many interrelated Tonalities, hues, greys, Blends and contrast, and intensities. She was creative with her sensitivities as with everything else.
Some people story is having overcome, which she also did, but Melissa was wonderful and fine at least since fourth grade.
Bob Kirsch

Julie St Germain

July 28, 2025

Single Memorial Tree

Jan Novack

Planted Trees

Bill Fried

July 27, 2025

Dear Chris,
I read Melissa's obituary in this morning's Times with sadness. On the very few occasions that I met her, she seemed to me a kind, generous, smart woman, and an exemplary wife to you. Please accept my condolences for your loss. I wish you the strength to mourn well and to accept the support of those closest to you.
I remember you with affection and esteem.
--Bill

Barbara Ley Toffler

July 27, 2025

I am the oldest daughter of Melissa´s father Alvin´s dearest friend, Ted Ley. I remember Melissa and Todd from childhood. My heartfelt condolences to Melissa´s family. She sounds like warm, caring person who made a difference in so many lives. May her memory be a blessing.

Ann Dolinsky

July 26, 2025

A person who connected easily and helped to connect others, Melissa was an exemplary person and is an inspiration. She leaves a big footprint. I am sending my sympathies to her family.

Ernesto Ferran

July 26, 2025

You helped so many .. I´ll miss you
Ernesto

Iris Fodor

July 26, 2025

So sorry to hear the sad news. Melissa was an outstanding, caring student and mentor in the School Psychology Program at NYU. She was loved and appreciated by her fellow students and faculty..so proud she has contributed so much to VCS and the many children, family and colleagues in our city. Condolences to Chris and her family.
Iris Fodor, Prof. Emerita, NYU.

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