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Jill and Ken Iscol
February 26, 2022
To the Family:
So very sad to hear that both Nick and Evie are no longer with us. We had not seen them in many years but I look back fondly on our friendship and his legal representation of ours in our formative business years. And Evie was our office design consultant. We were close personal friends when John, Larry and Susie were teenagers. I am very sorry that we lost touch. They were a wonderful couple and I can´t even imagine how Nick bore life without her. If there is a memorial service in the future, please let us know.
Travis Lovett
February 24, 2022
Travis Lovett
February 24, 2022
Travis Lovett
February 24, 2022
The world lost two social justice champions this week, one who was renowned for his steadfast and determined commitment to global health and one who was steadfast and determined to create pathways for Harvard´s best and brightest to pursue public service. I´m not sure if Paul Farmer and Nick Beilenson ever met, but they shared a determination to confront injustice anywhere and everywhere they encountered it. Their common bond was tikkun olam: a mission to mend the wounds and repair the wrongs they saw in the world.
Sometimes we only know the stories of unsung heroes after they leave us. Their kindness and heroism take on many forms. For anyone who knew Nick, he wasn´t really quiet and he wasn´t always patient, but he embodied our mission and call to service. He had a vision in the twilight of his life to create a starting point for Harvard students to pursue public interest careers - his work enabled over 1,800 Harvard College students to pursue public service internships and jobs in the fields of education, legal services, public health, social services, advocacy, and social innovation. He worked to develop hundreds of relationships with community partners, students, staff, and alumni. His work as a mentor forged bonds across generations. For several years, he was the only full-time staff person for the Center for Public Interest Careers even though he never took a paycheck. He juggled that work alongside being a tireless advocate for civil rights. He believed housing was a human right and led a nonprofit for several decades that fulfilled that mission.
Nick and I met two or three times each week for over a decade. For me, those conversations started as formative lessons about building relationships, persistence and perseverance, a life-long commitment to learning, and building a public service program on the foundation of the most important capital anyone has: keeping their word. He pursued a relentless quest to honor justice and truth, to keep this institution accountable to its mission, no matter how insurmountable the obstacles might feel. Over time, our conversations became more about family and friendship, books, sports, arts, and escapes - all the things that made his life exhilarating and complete. I got the chance to know his wife of 62 years, Evie, and how proud they were of their children and grandchildren. When I had children of my own, Nick and Evie sent us Peter Pauper Press care packages filled with children´s books, adventure books, and notable quotes.
We had the chance to honor Nick in 2015, when he earned Harvard´s Outstanding Supporter of Public Service award and that meant as much to our team as it meant to him - we created this award to honor alums who dedicated their lives to public service. We have only given out this award a few times as a way of honoring those whose work has transformed the Harvard community. It´s fitting in a lot of ways that Nick was the last recipient of this award: he had a great sense of humor and would joke that he broke the mold for how to live a purposeful life.
Nick was caring and charismatic. He lived a life full of adventure, hitchhiking across the North America three times, hiking every 4,000 foot peak in the White Mountains, exploring six continents with a resolute commitment to discover all that he could. He won the men´s national squash championship in his age group in 2008. In his late 70´s, he hopped the late-night train between White Plains and Manhattan to take weekly Spanish classes at NYU. Nick was a Renaissance man who defied his time. I was convinced that if anyone could live forever, it was him. He was a man in the arena who built the arena: Nick´s work at Harvard and Phillips Brooks House was the precursor to a nationwide public service internship program, the establishment of our engaged scholarship program, summer and year-round mentoring programs, nonprofit board recruitment, and programming to sustain a lifetime of service.
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