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PAUL WEISSMAN Obituary

WEISSMAN--Paul M. April 3, 1931 - September 30, 2020, died peacefully at home surrounded by his beloved wife and children at the age of 89. A lifelong philanthropist, Paul Weissman had a distinguished career at Bear Stearns where he was a Senior Partner and Global Head of Institutional Equity Sales. Together with his wife Harriet, they pioneered and endowed numerous programs that have touched the lives of countless students. Born in New Haven, CT, to Regina and Abraham Weissman, he graduated from the Hopkins School, received his BA from Harvard College, and an MBA from the Wharton Business School. From 1955 - 1958 he served in the Army Finance Corps. He devoted decades to helping young people realize their potential. Harvard College, Mount Holyoke College, Connecticut College, Hopkins School, and the Rye Country Day School were among the recipients of his financial support and personal interest. A passionate believer in the value of education, he and his wife established Harvard's International Internship Program, Coach for College fellowships for scholar athletes in Vietnam, the Library Preservation Center, the Weissman Family Financial Aid program for undergraduates, and the Golf Team Directorship. As President of the Harvard Alumni Association and Chairman of the Harvard College Fund, he was recognized for his outstanding leadership and fundraising efforts. He was Captain of the Harvard varsity golf team and served as Class Agent from 1952 until the present day. Through their generosity and vision, he and Harriet supported the creation of the Weissman Leadership Center at Mount Holyoke College, which provides leadership tools and mentorship to students; the Weissman Student Commons at the college; the children's section at the White Plains Public Library; and EL Education, a leading K-12 nonprofit empowering teachers to transform schools in diverse communities across America. White Plains Hospital benefited from his involvement as Chairman of the Board and Co-Chair of its Foundation. He received the Joseph Hofheimer Leadership Award for his commitment and service to the hospital. He also served as a Board Member of Connecticut College, Hopkins School and Rye Country Day School. In recognition of his efforts, he received the Hopkins Medal and Harvard Medal in 1998. He is survived by his wife of 59 years, his children, Michael (Leslie), Stephanie, and Peter (Bach), and grandsons, Matthew, Justin, Ethan, Andy and Will. He will be sorely missed by many and will continue to inspire young people to follow in his footsteps. A private funeral will be held on Sunday, October 4. Donations in his honor may be made to the White Plains Hospital.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 3, 2020.

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Ann Aceves

October 19, 2020

Dear Harriet, My deepest sympathy to you on the terrible loss of your dear husband. I was so very sorry to receive that news. You two, together, have been so generous to MHC over the years. What great partners you were. My condolences to you and your family. With sadness, Ann Neuberger Aceves MHC ’56

Judy Talainam Shagoury

October 15, 2020

Harriet - My condolences to you and your family. I thoroughly enjoyed working with Paul for all those years at Harvard. He was "one in a million."
Judy Talanian Shagoury

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Bruce S. Lane

October 8, 2020

Paul is irreplaceable. Having served with him as a Harvard Class Agent since our graduation in 1952, I have valued his leadership and friendship for over 68 years. May he rest in peace and may his memory be a blessing!

Bob Littlehale

October 6, 2020

Paul Weissman hired me to join Bear Stearns in 1980 to be part of the institutional sales team based in Boston. His guidance and support were invaluable to me and I respected him so much for being a true professional and gentlemen. I will miss him.

Elliott Baim

October 5, 2020

In a dog eat dog business environment, Paul was a true gentlemen. His guidance was extremely valuable to me.

Simone Taylor

October 4, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time of grieving.

Simone Taylor

October 4, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time of grieving.

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