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Phyllis Jaffe Obituary

JAFFE--Phyllis S., an early practitioner of education labor law and wife of the late Frederick Jaffe, died at home in Ossining, NY, on December 22, 2008. She was 83. Mrs. Jaffe served in the Women's Army Corps during WWll, graduated from Columbia Law School in 1949, and served as the president of the Ossining Board of Education 1966-69. Mrs. Jaffe led Plunkett and Jaffe's Westchester County office from 1975 until her retirement in 2003. Her cases included Immediato v. Rye Neck School District in which the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the right of high schools to require community service as a graduation requirement. Mrs. Jaffe was preceded in death by her brother Edwin Shelley. She is survived by and will be missed by her sons Paul, David (wife Leslie); and Rick (wife Kim) four grandchildren, Dara, Gary, Eli and Julian; her brother, Heywood, (wife Maritza), their daughter and granddaughter; and sister-in-law Florence, her children, grandchildren and greatgrandchildren. Donations can be made in the name of Phyllis Jaffe to The Clear View School (serving children with special needs), 480 Albany Post Road, Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510. The family ([email protected]) is planning a memorial service to be held at a later date.

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Published by New York Times from Dec. 24 to Dec. 26, 2008.

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Paul Zav

January 19, 2009

To the Jaffee brothers and their families,
It is with deep regret that I learn of your mom's passing. Although she lived well and long it does not diminish the heartache you must all be feeling.
I have thought of her and you often, recalling fond memories of a lady who displayed the infinite patience necessary to raise all of you. lol.
Her home was always open to us all and for that the entire neighborhood was grateful.
May the comfort of family provide you sanctuary from any more pain and may your bereavement be short.

Paul Zav

Betsey Hardeman

December 31, 2008

To Paul, David, Rick, daughters-in-law, grandchildren and others in the family:
Please know that you have my deepest sympathy. Phyllis and I were colleagues and friends for over twenty-five years. She was a very special lady and she will always occupy a special part of my heart. I shall never forget her. Know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Fondly, Betsey

Jane Efroymson

December 24, 2008

To all the Jaffes:

My thoughts are with you. Your mom was a special lady and all will have fond memories.

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