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Robert Grigg IV Obituary
Robert D. Grigg IV, 53, passed away Monday, November 2, 2020 in New York City. While his family is left grieving, they proudly celebrate his vibrant life.
Born on February 9, 1967 in Bethesda, Maryland to Robert D. Grigg III and the late Margaret Dwyer Grigg, Rob graduated from Winston Churchill High School, a competitive and exceptional athlete. He went on to Wake Forest University where he met his wife Allison, played for the men's soccer team, joined Kappa Sigma Fraternity, and became a lifelong Deacon fan. He graduated in 1989 with a B.A. in Economics. After receiving an MBA from the University of Maryland in 1993, he began his career in New York City. At his death, he was a widely respected Executive Director at J.P. Morgan Private Bank, having been with the bank for 27 years.
A lover of the outdoors, Rob treasured time spent in Central Park, along the C&O Canal, and at Litchfield Beach. Rob was happiest with his family. He was an ever-present fan on the sidelines of his daughters' athletic competitions and was enormously proud of the beautiful young women they have become. Rob's family and friends will long remember his terrific smile, his contagious laugh, his delight in the practical joke, and his love of cooking.
Rob is survived by his wife of 26 years, Allison Reid Grigg, and daughters, Margaret (Maggy) Childress Grigg and Ashley Reid Grigg; father, Robert D. Grigg III; sisters Jennie M. Grigg and Stacey Grigg Saidy (Tom); and nieces, Margaux and Jane Saidy.
Memorials in his honor may be made to the Central Park Conservancy at 14 East 60th St., New York, NY 10022 or online at www.centralparknyc.org/honor.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Grigg IV
Phebe Port
November 2, 2024
Beloved Allison
My heart is with you today and always Phebe
Phebe Port
November 4, 2023
Thinking of you Allison and you and the girls ever in my prayers Phebe
George Harris
November 2, 2022
Allison I hope you and the family are well !
George Harris `87
Miriam Hurvitz
October 18, 2022
I am very sorry to hear Mr. Grigg died. He was very kind and it was always delightful to chat with him. May God be with him.
Allyson Martin
September 25, 2022
I am so sad to learn that Rob has passed. We enjoyed Rob and Allison´s company when we lived in NYC years ago. Our hearts go out to Allison, Maggy and Ashley.
Gabriela
March 9, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Robbie’s passing. I was an old friend from Churchill. Nothing but warm memories of him. My deepest condolences to his family.
Arlene and Neil Gross
December 2, 2020
Allison,
We just heard about this today and were all in shock. I do not know what to say, just that our thoughts are with you and the girls.
We send you all our sympathies and let you know that we are thinking of you.
Patty Leon Millar
November 21, 2020
I am so sad for your loss, Allison. I was a grade school classmate of Robbie’s at Seven Locks Elementary and his sisters were friends with my sisters. I always really liked Robbie as he was always kind to me! May God grant you and your daughters healing comfort with loving memories and please know he and your family and his family will be in my prayers.
With love,
Patty Leon Millar
Jose Yearwood
November 21, 2020
Allison,
Christine and I are so deeply sorry for your loss. Rob was a great mentor and friend and will be missed. My heart is broken for you and the girls. Please don't hesitate to reach out to the extent we can be of any help.
Sincerely,
Jose
Allison Burnett Smith
November 18, 2020
Allison,
I was saddened to hear the news about Rob, and I am praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
Tyler Kenton
November 16, 2020
Smile, laugh, and practical joke. That’s always how I will remember Rob. You guys are in my heart and in my thoughts
Pete & Vicki Becker along with Bill & Linda Becker
November 16, 2020
Robb's cousin Bill and cousin Pete both mourn Robb's passing with you. We hold dear the precious memories of times when the family would gather... being together... laughing together... enjoying a slice of many blessings together.
Curt Fallin
November 15, 2020
So many great memories with Robbie G. He was a gentleman, and we were all lucky to know him.
Joy & Rich O’Connell
November 15, 2020
We just want you and your family to know how sorry we are for each of you. You are each in out thoughts and prayers.
Jimmy Bhullar
November 15, 2020
Rest In Peace Rob. Condolences and best wishes to his family.
I worked with Rob when he was in equity sales at JP Morgan and stayed in touch with him when he transferred to the private bank. Watched his kids grow up through his annual Holiday cards. He was always cheerful and spoke very fondly of his daughters. So sorry for your loss.
Kathleen Longo
November 12, 2020
Dear Allison,
I am totally heartbroken and at a lose for words for you and your girls.
We worked together for many years. I will keep you and the girls in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Love to you and thr girls.
Elizabeth Lisotta
November 12, 2020
Dearest Allison, I am at a loss for words and totally heartbroken for you and your girls. We have worked together for so many years and although I'm no longer down the hall from you, I will always continue to be "your Lizzy" & keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this very sad & difficult time. Love you always my friend, Liz Lisotta xoxo
Therese & Gene Dayton
November 12, 2020
A Cousin is a little bit of Childhood that can never be lost. Thinking of you all each day, as we remember Rob and the ways that he touched our lives.
Sending our Love, Your Colorado Cousins
Therese Dwyer Dayton
November 12, 2020
In memory of my kind and caring cousin Rob, we will plant a tree, like the trees he enjoyed in Central Park, New York City. With luv, Therese
Therese Dwyer Dayton
November 12, 2020
Dearest Family, blessings at this most difficult time.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our lil cousin Rob is so well loved. He is remembered for his infectious laugh, playfulness and charming smile. We wish we could be there with you now for hugs and to share memories that we all treasure. May God Bless you, Give you comfort and fill you with His divine peace. Luv, Cousins Therese & Gene
Therese Dwyer Dayton
November 12, 2020
Dearest Family, our heartfelt love to you all. We will remember his joy for life, infectious smile and laughter. Our lil cousin was so much fun and he is well loved. We pray comfort, peace and healing during this most difficult time of loss for each of you. Wish we could be with you for hugs and shared memories we all treasure. God Bless You, Therese & Gene w/Luv
Michael Propper
November 11, 2020
Terribly sorry to learn of this, many good times watching and coaching the girls on the hardwood, he was a proud father and husband.
Love to the 3 ladies here.
Frank J Becker
November 11, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Phebe Port
November 10, 2020
Dearest Allison and Maggie
Your ELC Family is saddened beyond words to learn of the loss of your beloved husband and Father. Both of you along with Ashley are in my and my husband David’s prayers continually. There really are no words that can express what we feel in our hearts . May God comfort you now and always. I only met Rob once at an ADDF event, but i remember clearly thinking what a great couple!
All my love to you both,
Phebe
Linda Donelan Langiotti
November 10, 2020
Allison and family,
We send you and your family love, prayers, and sincere sympathy.
Jesus Grave de Peralta
November 10, 2020
Robert Dinwiddee Grigg IV was a treasured friend. He was literally the first person I met at Wake Forest. We competed in soccer long before anyone showed up for freshman year at Wake, but it also gave us times to forge a lifelong bond.
We were pledge brothers, teammates and KE leadership in our four years. Robbie G was good counsel and a quick laugh. He was a sneaky prankster but a good sport when the tables where turned. He was a good man.
All my love to you, Allison. May your family find peace in Rob’s memory
Jojo Gorospe
November 10, 2020
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughters, and your family. Please reach out if you need anything. Enjoyed my memories of Robbie and you at Wake and with the Siggies. Much love.
Jesus Grave de Peralta
November 10, 2020
Robert Dinwiddie Grigg IV was a treasured friend of mine. He was literally the first person I met at Wake Forest, at our first soccer practice before freshman year. We were both goalkeepers and competed, but we found out we had a lot in common (including high school friends) and forged a partnership. That bond would last throughout our time playing soccer, pledging, academics and fraternity leadership. Robbie G provided good counsel and a ready smile. He was a sneaky practical joker but a good sport when tables were turned. He will be missed but never forgotten. All my love to Allison and his daughters.
Alice McKenney & Claire McKenney Bolden
November 10, 2020
We are still in disbelief about Rob’s death. When we think of our Cousin Robbie, my sister Claire and I inevitably envision an energetic and fun-loving child, with bright flashing eyes and a wide grin. It was in our childhoods that we knew him best. We will always remember the many wonderful summer visits to Walnut Grove. There we played and swam in the pool with Cousins Robbie, Jennie, and Stacey. We remember special holiday family meals together in the dining room, casual gatherings on the large screened in side porch, and meeting Allison for the first time. Our hearts and prayers are with all the family.
William Atkins
November 10, 2020
Allison, you and your family are in my prayers.
My deepest sympathies.
Bruce Robb
November 10, 2020
Hello:
My names is Bruce and I had the pleasure of working with Rob over the last 6 years. While our time together was brief, we did partner together on many client and prospect situations.
In prepping for situations Rob would always provide something unique or nuanced on a client or prospect that would lead to terrific outcomes.
He was an amazing listener and instructor; I will miss partnering with him.
My sympathies and thoughts go out to all of you.
Best,
Bruce Robb
Hilary Corman
November 9, 2020
I am heartbroken for your loss. May he Rest In Peace. I will always treasure his friendship. He will be missed.
Mike Brown
November 9, 2020
Allison, just so shocked and saddened to hear the news this weekend. As you could imagine Siggie nation was sending messages, tears, and prayers about the loss of our beloved brother. Prayers and thoughts go out to you and your girls and just know you have an entire brotherhood here for support for you. I remember most about your husband a constant smile and many good times with fellow KEs in school and in your visits back to campus. Take care and love, thoughts and prayers to you and your girls, Mike "Bobo" Brown.
Beatrice Fuller
November 9, 2020
I am so sorry to learn of the loss of Robbie. I still see him as the happy childhood friend of Tony, having adventures together. I send you all my heartfelt prayers.
Beatrice Fuller
November 9, 2020
So sorry to hear of the loss of Robbie. I still see him as a young boy happily playing with Tony. My prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God bless you all and give you comfort.
Greg Kares
November 9, 2020
Robbie G....was a great friend, brother and mentor. Rob taught me that hard work would make you a winner, when talent alone wasn't enough. He was a competitor, whether it was sports, or school, or career. He cared deeply for everyone he touched. And so many of us will miss his infectious smile and his desire to listen when you needed to be heard, often times when you didn't realize it. Wishing I had stayed closer over the years. Love you and miss you brother.
Greg Kares- Kappa Sig c/o '90
S Chambers
November 9, 2020
My condolences to the family. May you find comfort in your treasured memories and Gods promise to return our loved ones. 1st Thessalonians 4 : 13 & 14 .
George Harris
November 8, 2020
Allison we are saddened for your loss. We are holding you and the family in the light and pray for peace and understanding. God Bless ! George and Terri Harris. WFU ‘87.
Linda Schwartz
November 8, 2020
I remember Robb as a wonderful friend to my son. My heartfelt condolences to Allison and his entire family.
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