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Robert Pickus

1923 - 2016

Robert Pickus obituary, 1923-2016, St. Helena, Ca

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1923

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2016

Robert Pickus Obituary

1923 - 2016
Robert Pickus, who devoted his life to developing non-violent alternatives to war, died on Friday in St. Helena, Ca. He was 92.

War, he argued, could come about by building arms, and by not building arms. The task, therefore, was to build legal and political alternatives to war. "In the shadow of Hiroshima," he wrote in his 1968 preface to a reprint of Albert Camus' Neither Victims Nor Executioners, "we had in America a clear goal and a moral commitment to sustain it. The goal was to end war. The moral commitment was the refusal to legitimize murder."

"The problem of a pacifist," he told an anti-Vietnam war rally in 1965, "is not just to condemn violence, but to work out a way to counter the other side's violence." While criticizing military escalation, he held anti-war activists responsible for focusing exclusively on America's faults. "I believe if those of us in this room were to stand before a mirror, we would see an obstacle to disarmament," he told a gathering of NGO leaders in 1978.

From 1951 to 2016, as the head of Acts for Peace, Turn Toward Peace and the World Without War Council, Pickus organized a series of peace initiatives and served as a consultant to groups ranging from the National Endowment for Democracy and the National Association of Evangelicals to the National Catholic Education Association and the National Council on Philanthropy. In 1985, he launched the James Madison Foundation, under the leadership of his colleague, the Catholic theologian George Weigel.

Pickus entered the University of Chicago in 1941 and studied under Hans Morgenthau and served as a research assistant to Mortimer Adler. During the war he served in the Office of Strategic Services in Sweden and Great Britain. In 1950, he undertook Fulbright study at the London School of Economics and hitch-hiked through the Middle East and India.

Following graduate study, Pickus first worked to link the co-operative movement and the labor unions, a reflection of his experience in Sweden during the war. During a visit to Walter Reuther, the head of the UAW in Detroit, he met Sara Greenberg, whom he would later marry.

In the 1950s, Pickus called for a pacifist statement that became Speak Truth to Power: A Quaker Search for an Alternative to Violence (1955). He wrote a summary for the Progressive magazine, which also published an exchange with Reinhold Niebuhr, George Kennan, Dwight MacDonald and Norman Thomas.

He later focused on arms control and initiatives to build democratic civil society in the Soviet Union, Eastern Europe and, with Bayard Rustin, in South Africa.

He is survived by his wife, Sara, his sons Joshua and Noah, and his grand-children Linkon, Micah, Reed and Mira.

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Published by New York Times from Jan. 25 to Jan. 26, 2016.

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Gene Keyes

December 8, 2016

Along with A.J. Muste, and Bradford Lyttle, Bob Pickus was a formative influence in my joining the peace movement in 1961. See my essay "Bucky and Pick: Two Grand Designers of a World Without War". http://www.genekeyes.com/Fuller-Pickus.html

Ivan Starr

March 27, 2016

I knew Pick as my godfather. I always loved his presence in my life. I just wish there had been more of it.

Brian Brennan

March 7, 2016

He was a mentor, incredibly formative, wonderfully disarming, occasionally maddening. I will always be grateful for what he taught me.

February 9, 2016

His contributions to AFSC may have been problematic (to AFSC) at times, but they were full of conviction and thought. He will be missed
Stephen McNeil AFSC San Francicso

February 3, 2016

May Pick's memory be for a blessing for Sara, Rambam, Noah and their families.

Love
Rivka Greenberg

Susan Seeley

January 29, 2016

I remember Robert as a man of conviction and principle. He really lived his ideals. His work and memory will be a blessing to us all. My best to his family. Susan Abrami Seeley

Sydney

January 28, 2016

Gone and will not be forgotten, fond memories live on bringing a measure of comfort to family and friends, may he R.I.P until that new day, when all will be made new, no more sickness, sorrow or death, the former things have passed away.

January 27, 2016

Never met this man but I was privileged to work with his wife, Sara, who always spoke of him with love, respect, and admiration

January 26, 2016

Thank you for your life's working for peace, the mandate of evolution.

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