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STEPHEN BEITLER Obituary

BEITLER--Col. Stephen S. U.S. Army Special Forces Lt. Colonel Stephen S. Beitler, Commander of the 16th Psychological Operations Battalion, died on May 1, 2020, at age 63, of traumatic brain injuries suffered while trying to save the life of one of his soldiers during a parachute mission. He died at his home at Highland Park, Illinois. Colonel Beitler had served as an intelligence adviser to the Joint Chiefs of Staff and as the Intelligence Briefing Officer to the Secretary of Defense during President Ronald Reagan's Administration. He received the Legion of Merit Award on September 11, 1997, and numerous medals from various foreign governments. Colonel Beitler lived by the Special Forces motto "Sine Patri" (Without Equal). Always first in his mind were allegiance to his fellow soldiers and his country. He served in the Special Forces from October 1, 1987 to September 30, 1997. He met his beloved wife, Deborah Gottlieb, while they were students at the University of Chicago. She died in 2011. He leaves his two adored children, Elinore and Grace Beitler. Also, his loving father, Stanley Beitler and deceased mother Arline Beitler; a cherished sister, Norma Maxine Beitler, and in-laws Elaine and Marvin Gottlieb, and their daughter Nancy Gottlieb Bauer, and Nancy's daughters Amanda and Jocelyn Gottlieb Bauer. As well as, his loving, compassionate and selfless companion Lisa Saul and her children, Max and Jonah. The Colonel would have preferred any donations to be made to the "Vigilant Torch Foundation", 6412 Brandon Avenue, Suite 318, Springfield, VA 22150.

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Published by New York Times on May 10, 2020.

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Judy Goldberg

January 4, 2021

Just stumbling on the internet trying to find old friends from my childhood and got to this. I was a Laurelton friend of his sister and have fond memories of the family when we were all so young.

Simone Taylor

May 11, 2020

Please except my deepest sympathies to you and your family, May God,Family & fiends to comfort you and your family in this time of sorrow.

elizabeth gardner

May 10, 2020

RIP to a true hero.

Michael MD

May 10, 2020

The Bruck Family will miss their dear cousin Steve greatly! He was an American Hero but more importantly a hero to his Family and Friends! All our love to Stanley, Norma , Elinore , Grace and the rest of the Family. We are here for you. Enid , Michael, Marc, Liat, Zoe and Noah Bruck

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