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STEPHEN GELLMAN Obituary

GELLMAN--Stephen G., 56, passed away on February 15, 2014, surrounded by his loving family. Beloved husband of Wendy Rosenthal Gellman, loving and devoted father to Lindsay and Alexa. Cherished son of Florence and the late Jerome Gellman, son-in-law of Joseph and Elinor Rosenthal, brother of Elyse (William) Greenbaum and Kenneth (Melissa) Gellman, brother-in-law of Jonathan Rosenthal, and devoted uncle. Brilliant attorney and caring friend who lived his life with humility, grace, and consideration for everyone he touched. A partner of Wachtell, Lipton, Rosen & Katz. Graduate of Haverford College and Stanford Law School, where he was a member of the Law Review and the Board of Visitors. Passionate athlete. His kindness and generosity made the world a better place. Our hearts are broken. He will be forever missed. Funeral service Tuesday, February 18th, 11am, at Temple Emanu-El, 65th Street at 5th Ave., New York City.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 17, 2014.

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Joe Quinlan

March 7, 2014

In the fall of 1974, Steve was a senior in high school and visited several colleges, accompanied by his parents and even his young brother. When he got to Haverford College, Steve had a bit of a "show me" attitude during his campus tour. His tour guide, a senior, was a bit distracted at first, but quickly realized that this was a special case. Steve was exactly what Haverford wanted in a student, so the college student shifted gears and made sure the Gellmans met the right people and got their many thoughtful questions answered. Some 40 years ago, I was that tour guide and I experienced first hand Steve's intelligence and easygoing humor, among his many fine qualities. I wound up working at Haverford for two years and got to see him in action: as a scholar, an athlete, a counsellor and a leader. But most memorably, as a friend. We both wound up working in Manhattan, and I was able to see him just enough to know he was the same special person from the same special family that I met so long ago. I was proud to be his friend and along with his many, many other friends at Haverford, I mourn his passing.

Matthew Mosner

February 23, 2014

I am writing to send my condolences; I went to Haverford and got to know Steve my freshman year when he served as our "customs man" or RA and was always impressed by his helpfulness and decency - I also worked at the same law firm as his wife Wendy, Richards & O'Neil - I am very sorry for your loss

Steve with Dave Hilbert, Haverford College 1976

Jennifer Evanson Hassel

February 21, 2014

This news brought deep sadness. Steve was a Haverford classmate. I have not seen him since college but remember his grace on the tennis court, his love of philosophy, his engaging smile, and how he took a special interest in reaching out to help others. My heart goes out to his family.

Fern & Murray Becker

February 20, 2014

Sincerest condolences to all the family, We wish you all- the strength to carry on. Fern & Murray Becker

John Mark Engel

February 18, 2014

Steve was my "customs" person (dorm advisor) at Haverford College. I looked up to him. He was handsome, played a beautiful game of tennis, and had a beautiful girlfriend. He taught tennis at a summer camp in the berkshire mountains, and obtained a job for me the following summer teaching many of the same children he taught. They idolized him, as I did, and it was a tough act to follow. He had a sense of fun combined with a core of decency. There are not many like him

Meredith Lobel-Angel

February 18, 2014

So sorry to hear this sad news. He was a fellow Stanford Law classmate. My heartfelt condolences to his family. This is such a difficult time for them.

Dave Luljak

February 18, 2014

I was a good friend of Steve for four years at Haverford. I'm terribly sorry to hear of his passing and give my condolences to his family and friends. He was sincere and warm, intense but easy-going. A wonderful person to have as a friend.

Peter Kay

February 18, 2014

I went to high school with Steve and saw him at all of our reunions. Every time I spent time with Steve it was enjoyable - I keep seeing the word "kind" mentioned in every note here and so many of the thoughts on Facebook. Steve had so many great qualities, but kindness was certainly how I will remember him most. What a wonderful guy who I know will be tremendously missed.

February 18, 2014

To Steve's family,
I was a friend and classmate of Steve's at Stanford Law School. He was a wonderful, gifted, kind and elegant man. I can't imagine your great sense of loss but am sure that your lives have been enhanced forever by his life. -- Sincerely, Michelle Facktor

Bud Bell

February 18, 2014

I have not seen Steve since our graduation from Haverford, but I will never forget his bright, smiling face. He was beloved on campus for his kindness, optimism, and ever-ready friendship. Please accept my deepest condolences.

February 17, 2014

There was no kinder and warmer man than Steve. He cared about everyone and was so genuine. He was so proud of "his girls", and with good reason. He was one of a kind and will be sorely missed.
What a tremendous loss to those who knew and loved him.
Lisa & Larry

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