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STEVEN SCHLEIFER Obituary

SCHLEIFER--Dr. Steven J., one of the leading early voices in the field of psychoneuroimmunology in the United States, died on September 25, 2020. He was 70. Dr. Schleifer's publications on psychoneuroimmunology and psychosomatic medicine span over four decades and continue to inspire new avenues of research and study. Born in New York and raised in Stuyvesant Town on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, Dr. Schleifer was a child of the city. He graduated as valedictorian from Ramaz High School in 1967, earned his undergraduate degree at Columbia College, and his medical degree from Mount Sinai Medical School, where his pioneering research began. He continued his numerous NIMH funded projects as he transitioned to the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey (Rutgers New Jersey Medical School) where he served as Chairman of the Department of Psychiatry for eleven years. As a clinician scholar, he provided thoughtful clinical care and trained countless psychiatrists. After moving with his young family to Teaneck, New Jersey in the early 1980s, Dr. Schleifer's love for opera brought him back across the Hudson often, to the Metropolitan Opera House, where he delighted in attending performances with his family. Dr. Schleifer spent his entire life in the pursuit of knowledge. He was a voracious reader of American and world history and a devoted scholar of traditional Jewish texts. He served multiple communities as a skilled Torah reader and inspiring leader of prayer. His happiest times were spent at family gatherings celebrating the cycle of the Jewish calendar, passing along his love of Jewish ritual, prayer, and song to his children and grandchildren. He leaves his beloved wife of 48 years, Sarah (Rosenberg) of Teaneck, NJ, his children, Jonathan (Katie) of Washington, D.C.; Eli (Jessica) of San Francisco, CA; Yitz (Talya) of Providence, RI; Atara (Tom) of Walnut Creek, CA; ten grandchildren, and a sister, Resa Fogel, of Passaic, NJ. He was predeceased by his parents, Caroline (Rapps) and Jack Schleifer of New York City, and a brother, Richard Schleifer, of Riverdale, NY. Dr. Schleifer was laid to rest in Cedar ParkBeth El Cemetery in Paramus, NJ on Sunday, September 27, 2020. In honor of his commitment to universal access to health care and social justice, the family requests donations be made to The Fairness Project.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 30, 2020.

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Eli Uncyk

August 1, 2025

In 2025, I still remember Steve with respect, admiration and fondness. Dr. Schleifer was a guide and inspiration to many. May his memory be a blessing and comfort.

Beverly Delaney

January 11, 2024

I was saddened to learn of Dr. Schleifer´s passing today and want to extend my sincere condolences to the family. Dr. Schleifer was my teacher and mentor at NJMS for many years and I count him one of the greatest influences in my career as a psychiatrist. Not only was he a great teacher and physician but also a wonderful and kind human being.

Jane Fiero

October 27, 2023

Dr. Schleifer was my first psychiatrist (1981) when I was a pre-med student doing research at the Department of Neoplastic Diseases at the Mount Sinai Medical Center in NYC. He returned every call I made to his service, no matter the day or hour. I'm 63 years old now and wanted to send him a message today when I just learned of his passing. I'm unable to verbalize my pain. I cannot imagine how the family whose picture he displayed prominently in his office must feel. His wife was stunning and the young children were beautiful. I'll never forget that beautiful photo because he looked so happy. I'll pray for you every day. You have my sincerest condolences. I'm very blessed to have met Dr Schleifer. I'm a licensed health care professional in the State of NY. This is only because of Dr Steven Schleifer, MD. I know God l loves me because I was introduced to Dr Schleifer. There's so much more I can say. I've already said too much. I'm sorry.

John

February 5, 2023

Champion for the voices of the untold stories. I was a case study and friend of the good doctor for nearly 20 years. He gave me hope. And his gentle generous council gave me opportunity for change and acceptance of a one time rudderless ship.

My guide, friend and educator.

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John V. McGuire

February 3, 2023

Champion for the voices of the untold stories. I was a case study and friend of the good doctor for nearly 20 years. He gave me hope. And his gentle generous council gave me opportunity for change and acceptance of a one time rudderless ship.

My guide, friend and educator.

Support the Fairness Project. Get involved in the memory of a great and humble man.

Marielle

November 12, 2020

Dr Schleifer was my PI and mentor when I was at graduate school at NJMS. He helped me amplify my love for medicine and justice for the underserved. I was very saddened to hear of his passing. Your memory will live on in all who knew you.

Pat & John connolly

October 2, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful husband father and grandfather
We did not know you well Steven but through the marriage of Jonathan and Katie we share two precious grandsons. We saw through videos and photos and shared stories from Jonathan you were a very loving and dedicated person to your family

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