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RIED--Therese J., beloved wife of Horace J. Ried, died in her hometown of Stamford Connecticut on August 17, 2011, at the age of 75, with her family around her. She is survived by her children, Carl and his sons Matthew and Alexander, Gillian and her son Christopher, and Lucas and his wife Marnie, and their two children, Jake and Mackenzie. She is survived as well by her step children, Joshua, Amanda and her sons Zachary and Cooper, and by Adam. Additionally, she is survived by her half-sister, Heidi Grondal. Heidi is the wife of Benedikt Grondal, (2010) one-time Prime Minister of Iceland. Therese, known more familiarly as Tessa, was the adored daughter of Ruth Heinitz Jaeger and Dr. Werner Wilhelm Jaeger. Dr. Jaeger, a University Professor of Philosophy and Classics at Harvard University, was the author of many influential works including the renowned, two-volume "Padeia, Ideals of Greek Culture." Born in Berlin, Germany in 1935, Tessa and her parents moved to the United States to escape Nazi persecution in 1938. Tessa was a graduate of The Buckingham School (1952), Radcliffe College (BA 1956) and Yale University (MA 1957). With her master‘s degree in Linguistics, she was fluent in many languages, including French, German, Italian, Spanish, Ancient Greek and Latin. She was a member of Phi Beta Kappa. She married for the second time in 1978, to the love of her life, Horace John Ried, of Stamford, Connecticut. Ried, Advertising Director for the publication "Plastics Engineering" for 25 years, passed away in 2002. They were a couple truly meant for one another in every way, and their love was an inspiration to all who knew them. Tessa, who spent her later years working as an environmental activist and wildlife rehabilitator, had a long career of public service, including positions as Assistant Director of the Meridian House Foundation (a half-way house for the mentally ill in Stamford, CT) from 1977-1981, Assistant Director of "Gateway Communities, Inc," (a half-way house for alcoholics in Stamford, CT) from 1985-1990, and Director of Publishing at "The Volunteer Center of Fairfield County," from 1990-1999. Tessa's volunteer work began early, when she worked as an EMT for the Stamford Ambulance Corps (1972-1973) Later, She was the organizer of the environmental activist group "Save Our Swans" (1990) and Founder of "The Rippowam River Neighbors Association" (1996) as well as being a licensed wildlife rehabilitator for the State of Connecticut (2000). In addition to her extensive career, Tessa was an avid gardener, photographer, reader, writer and loved animals. A graveside service for family will be held Wednesday, August 24th, at the Union Cemetery in Stamford, CT, where Tessa will be buried next to her true love, Hal Ried. She was an extraordinary person, and is sorely missed.

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 21, 2011.

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Jessica Hausman

August 19, 2023

Tessa....never cease to miss you,
Jess

Jessica H

August 16, 2022

Dear Tessa;
can't imagine what interesting entities you may be hob knobbing with these days.... but I want to know all about it later. Missing You Here, Jess

Jessica Hausman

September 2, 2011

Tessa....now that I'm here, I really don't know what to say. You were the one good with words.. We miss you here a lot, but know,.. that on a grander level, you move amongst the ones you have loved and who have loved you, for ions...ain't it great!...Give love to Fred from me...and...See you later.

Chris Heinitz

August 24, 2011

Very sad to hear of the death of Tessa. She was a cousin of both my grandfather and grandmother (who were also cousins!). I only met Tessa twice. First when I was a small boy and she was 13 years old she came to stay with us in England. A few years ago I stayed with her for a night in Stamford. On both occasions I was so impressed by her. Her boundless energy and humanity. Brief but very striking memories. My condolences to her closer family.

Nina Yagupsky

August 23, 2011

In a small family like ours (Tessa's mother and my mother were cousins), every member of the "clan" is highly treasured and appreciated.
This was also the case with Tessa. We celebrated together some of our children's weddings and met socially on several occasions (alas, too few).
Hal and Jaime (who passed away in 1994) got along wonderfully and Tessa and I had established a real bond since I met her for the first time (shortly after we came to the US, in 1961).
Unfortunately we did not get together too often these past years but had our regular "telephone visits".
We will miss Tessa wholeheartedly and are very saddened that she left us at this early age.
With fond memories and our deepest condolences,
Nina, Alex and Gabi Yagupsky

Doug Hewell

August 23, 2011

Thank you Tessa for letting me be a part of your family. It was a great privilege and pleasure to know such a smart, funny and interesting woman. My sincere condolences to Luke, Carl and Gillian on the loss of your mom.

Sonia Byck-Barwick

August 23, 2011

Sending our love to Carl, Luke, Gillian and families at this difficult time. I have special childhood memories of exploring Aunt Tessa's beautiful back yard. Much love, Sonia

Joelle Lionetti Pisanelli

August 23, 2011

Luke,

We are very sorry for the loss of your mom. It;s never easy losing a parent. May God walk with you to feel comfort and remind you of all the memories.

John Soos

August 22, 2011

Carl and Family so trully sorry for your loss,thinking of you.
John Soos

Chuck and Renee Overholser

August 22, 2011

We were so sorry to learn of Tessa's death. We send our sincere sympathies to the family.

Bonnie and Jeff Pomponi

August 22, 2011

Luke, Marnie and Family,

So sorry to hear about Tessa. We are thinking of you all. We love you!

Love and Friendship Always!
Bonnie and Jeff

Carole-Anne Byck-Kessler

August 22, 2011

Carl, Gillian and Lucas,
Thinking of you all and sending my love during this very difficult time. I have wonderful memories of spending time with your Mom and Hal at their beach home.

August 21, 2011

Carl had this photo of my mom when she wa sa young woman ...

Paul Wise

August 21, 2011

I feel so fortunate that I was recently able to say hello to Tessa while visiting with Carl and his two wonderful sons at Carl's boyhood home in Stamford. Carl, Gillian, and Lucas, I'm very sorry for your loss.

August 21, 2011

I miss my mom so much. Sending thanks and love to all who have written here ...

love, Gillian

Rosie Cepeda

August 21, 2011

Tessa, May you rest in peace sweet lady. Our condolences to your family. With prayers and love, The Cepeda family

Anthony Corelli

August 21, 2011

Our blessings and heartfelt sympathy to a special family. Tessa, you will be dearly missed by all. With our love and condolences, Anthony & Kim Corelli. XOX

August 21, 2011

Mom,

I miss you so much ... I am arranging things for your funeral and I keep wanting to call you ask for advice!

Amanda Ried Hewell

August 21, 2011

Tessa was an extraordinary and unforgettable woman - larger than life, charming, and erudite - and I'm proud to be a member of her family. My sympathies to Gillian, Luke and Carl and their families. I hope she and my father, Hal Ried, are breakfasting together, reading the papers, and enjoying each other's company.
Love, Amanda

August 21, 2011

Tessa (and Hal) were great friends of our family. We will miss her greatly. We want to offer our support to her children and extended family. Tessa, we loved you and will miss you.
Gretchen, Guy and Seth Sharpless

The Dougan's

August 21, 2011

RIP

Heidi Jaeger

August 21, 2011

Dear sister. How I miss you. We had a special relationship. I´m sorry I can´t come and say goodbye properly but my thoughts and prayers go with you. My deepest condolences to the whole family and at this sad time we grieve together inspite of me beeing a thousand miles away. God bless you all and the memory of a beloved sister and mother.
your sister
Heidi Jaeger Grondal

Rebecca Chaitin

August 21, 2011

Tessa, there has never been anyone quite like you. Even though we haven't seen each other in years, I will miss out long phone conversations. Godspeed and love, Becca







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Lucas Byck

August 21, 2011

MOM-GRANDMA
WE LOVE YOU FOREVER
Lucas,Marnie,Jake,Mackenzie

Carl Byck

August 21, 2011

We love you mom...
Carl, Gillian, and Lucas

Lucas Byck

August 21, 2011

MOM,I LOVE YOU
AND WILL ALWAYS AND FOREVER

Lucas Byck

August 21, 2011

MOM,
I LOVE YOU LUCAS

Carl Byck

August 21, 2011

We love mom

Patti Behzad

August 21, 2011

Tessa was a colorful neighbor and wonderful conversationist....I will miss our visits together. We shared many ups and downs that life threw at us over the 20 years I knew her. Her passing marks the end of an era in our unique enclave.
Her spirit will remain with me

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