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LePATNER--Wesley. UJA-Federation of New York mourns the tragic loss of our dear friend Wesley LePatner, beloved wife of Evan. Wesley was an exemplary leader within UJA, bringing extraordinary energy and wisdom to everything she touched. Her dedication to UJA and the Jewish community, devotion to volunteerism, and unwavering advocacy for Israel transformed countless lives. She will be deeply missed. We extend our heartfelt condolences to Evan; Wesley's parents Larry and Ellyn Mittman; her children Emerson and Jonathan; her brother, Jordan Mittman; and the entire family. Linda Mirels, President; Marc Rowan, Chair of the Board; Eric S. Goldstein, CEO

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 30, 2025.

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Nutan Patel

Yesterday

Dear Lepatner and Mittman family,
My deepest condolences in the loss of your loved one. May shared memories bring comfort during this difficult time.
My prayers for your continued strength and God´s indefatigable mercy.
I did not know Wesley, but reading and hearing about her, she seemed like a wonderful woman.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Jeff Derman

Yesterday

Our sincere condolences to the family. David Shiffman and Jeff Derman, Solomon Partners

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Daniel Faust

July 30, 2025

Wesley Lepatner- Hope you read this in the world your now in (heaven.)
I never knew you but reading all about you on line, I sure wish I did. I knew somebody just like you who was jewish with all your attributes. I was so bless to know her and I sure wish I knew you. I feel awful want you went through at the end. You have so much to offer.
Sincere condolences to the husband, children and her brother. So sorry you guys have to deal with this. So senseless.

Amy Zitron

July 30, 2025

May Wesley LePatner´s name be for s blessing. She was my daughter´s roommate at Yale

Meg Whelan

July 30, 2025

What a tragedy, Evan, my deepest condolences to you, Emerson, Jonathan and the whole family. Wesley was a one-of-a-kind force, in the best possible way, her legacy lives with you and your children.

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Ronald Dorfberger

July 30, 2025

simply tragic so so sorry!

Mark Nesoff

July 30, 2025

Ellyn i dont have the words to express my sadness for your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences

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Linda and Richard Levine

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Debra Alicea

July 30, 2025

I worked with Wesley's brother and her father. Such kind people. I am so heartbroken for them all. I am praying for everyone.

Bonnie

July 30, 2025

May she rest in peace and her memory be a blessing.

Your friends from Synchrony

July 30, 2025

Thank you for all the good you brought to this world.

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Nicole P

July 30, 2025

You will not be forgotten. May your memory be a blessing

Victor Hong

July 30, 2025

So sorry. May your memory bring a blessing.

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