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Paul J. Shaffer

Paul Shaffer Obituary

Paul J. Shaffer

BARBERTON - Paul J. Shaffer, 68, passed away Friday, August 1, 2008 at Hospice Care Center with his family at his side.

Paul was born December 14, 1939 in Barberton (Sherman), Ohio to Paul and Cleo (Snyder) Shaffer. He was a life resident of the Sherman/Barberton area. After retiring from Alsides, he worked at Unicorn Machining and Fabricating for his brother until his declining health forced his retirement.

Paul was preceded in death by his parents; brother, Eugene Shaffer and sister-in-law, Patricia Shaffer; he leaves his beloved wife of 45 years, Barbara (Kyle) Shaffer; four children; 10 grandchildren and one great-grandchild; sister, Doloras Shaffer; brothers, Robert and Ronald Shaffer.

Paul and his brothers had many activities including camping, motorcycle riding, fishing, and boating that included their families. Paul will be sorely missed.

In following Paul's wishes there will be no services. (Campfield-Hickman-Collier, 330-745-3161)

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Published by Akron Beacon Journal on Aug. 4, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Paul Shaffer

19 Entries

Tara Bunting

November 20, 2008

Barb & Family,
I am soo sorry to hear about Paul. I have tried to get back in touch with Butch a couple of times with no luck. I sure miss everyone up there and have thought about all of you often and wondered how everyone was doing. If you get a chance ask Butch to contact me on Myspace. I would love to hear from him. Love always, Tara

Linda (Eaton) Clowser

August 22, 2008

Barb,

I was thinking about my husband this morning and I thought of you. I know exactly how you are feeling right now. It has been almost 2 years since my husband died. At least you got to say good-bye. Dale died in his sleep of a heart attack. The last thing I got to say to him was good-night, see ya in the morning. But there was no good morning, my husband of 31 years was gone. My sons have kept me going. Family spending time together is the thing. Don't take for granted the time you do have to be together. Do the family get togethers like you used to when Paulie was here. You never know when time will run out for a loved one. My mom just passed away last October and my Aunt Junie in March of this year. I wish I would have spent more time with both of them, but I didn't, and now I can't. Now I spend as much time with my children, my brothers and sisters as I can! You take care.

Linda (Eaton) Clowser

PS, For the record I'm Dorothy and Bob Eaton's oldest daughter.

mICHELLE RICHARDS

August 20, 2008

To all the Shaffer familys,
WE are very sorry to hear about Paul .
We didn,t know him very long , but will miss him very much.
JERRY,Michelle,Cody Richards (HARTVILLE)

Jamie (McClung) Ross

August 14, 2008

I babysat Lynn's oldest children when they were little and had the pleasure of babysitting a couple of the other grandchildren too. I have such fond memories of the whole family, including Paul. My heart is breaking for all of you. Please accept my deepest sympathys. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Butler

August 14, 2008

I just heard about the passing on of Paulie and although he's left us for now, we will one day meet again. My thoughts and prayer's are with all the family and friends! Love, Jen

patty ann lowe

August 13, 2008

barb and family, i know the pain that you are feeling. in time it gets better just hold on to the memories for they are what get you through each day. i know it's hard to let him go but know that he is free no more pain. i know that he and my dad are together. they are waiting for us. may God hold you in His arms.

Dan Matz

August 13, 2008

Paul, the first time I met you, you brought Lynn and my son Dan to my house in a T-Bucket you built. What a great looking car that was. I wish I'd have gotten to know you better. I hope there's hot rods in heaven because if there is I'm sure we'll meet again. We've got great kids Paul, who gave us beautiful grandchildren. Watch over them and keep them healthy and safe.

Doloras Shaffer

August 9, 2008

I will miss Paulie but will keep our memories in my heart. I had 4 brothers, and they were all special to me, but, I loved Paulie in a different way than the other 3, because I was there when he was born and felt like a mother since I was so much older than him.
Paul was a very tender, caring, and ambitious person. He always worked hard but had time for fun with the family. The four boys were all close throughout their lives, doing things together, and just hanging out.
Paul will be missed and long remembered for being a very special person.

Love to you Paul from Sis.

Linda & Frank Aiello

August 7, 2008

Barb and Family,
We were so sorry to see that Paul had passed. We've lost both of our Dads and Moms so We know the ache the kids are feeling. It's an emptiness no one can fill. We can only wonder why God Takes them too early. Our deepest sympathy to you all.
Frank & Linda Aiello

Robert (Robbie) Rager

August 5, 2008

Uncle Paulie I find it hard to put into words how sad I feel with your passing.
I didn’t get as much time with you as I would have liked and I know that is at a great loss to me. I can honestly say that ALL the memories I have with you are truly good ones. I sit hear with tears in my eyes thinking back. Remembering your stories and your jokes and the time I got to spend with you. I can’t help but think what a good deal heaven got.

BETTY ARMBRUSTER

August 5, 2008

TO THE SHAFFER FAMILY,

YOU FAMILY IS IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
WE LIVED ACROSS THE STREET ON BUSHEY AVE. FROM SHAFFER'S WHEN WE WERE KIDS. WHAT NICE NEIGHBOR'S THEY WERE. AS YOU GROW OLDER YOU NEVER FORGET THE GOOD OLD DAYS,WHAT WONDERFUL MEMORIES.

Marsha Holley

August 5, 2008

Dad really enjoyed going to Uncle Ronnie's shop and keeping in touch with people that would show up. He talked about that a lot. He also liked it because it gave him a feeling of pride and self worth. Uncle Ronnie, Thank you for doing that for dad.

Dad used to love to fly remote planes with Uncle Bob, him and Nevin would talk about those times a lot. He also enjoyed the fishing very much. He always felt very connected to you in a special way. Thank you Uncle Bob for all the joy and support you gave to dad.

Dad talked a lot about how close families used to be and how much fun he had at the family outings. He said Aunt Doloras treated him as if he was her kid and he never knew why she did that for him but it meant so much. Thank you Aunt Doloras for all you did for dad.

Dad had so many good memories that he would share of everyone in his family. He enjoyed his family and his friends. He always said he had really great friends most seemed like brothers to him and the best family anyone could ever hope for.

Dad said many times that looking back on things the best times in his life were with his wife, kids, family and friends and he wouldn't change anything or have had it any other way. He would laugh and say he didn't have much money but we always had a lot of fun and he had more than enough love and that was all that mattered to him.

August 5, 2008

A loving, considerate husband.
A funny, fun-loving father.
A very loyal, honest friend and man.
All of his grandchildren admired and looked up to him.

All of us grandchildren had the wonderful opportunity to hear his funny sayings and stories which will stay with us forever. Grandpa was such a funny, gentle, quiet, family oriented person.

Grandpa we are all going to miss you so much. Dont worry we will take care of grandma. And remind her to always "WATCH HER ASHES!!"

p.s. you said you would hear us when we talked to you so we will be doing a lot of talking to you.

Love,
Courtney Lewis

Aaron Hanna

August 5, 2008

Hi Barb,sorry for your'e loss. My deepest sympathy is with you all. Pauly was a great guy, I know my dad really liked him to. Contact me if you like. Aaron Hanna

butch&diane gajovski

August 4, 2008

Barb and family Butch and I just learned about your loss of your great guy and feel your loss. we will always remember all the good times we had togather . Paul was a nice person. Id there is ever have a need we are here
for you . Butch and Diane Gajovski

Marsha Holley

August 4, 2008

Thank you Uncle Ronnie and Aunt Doloras for providing the Obituary for My Dad. I know it would have meant a lot to him.

Thank you Uncle Bob and Aunt Lucille for being by dad's side during his best and roughest times especially throughout the last 17yrs of his life. You have always been there for him and our family and I know how much it meant to him and all of us.

Dad - you provided me the best gift in life - laughter. You always made me laugh even when I wanted to cry. You turned every situation good or bad into a funny memory that I will have and cherish forever. You gave great advice and gave yourself unconditionally. You taught me to understand that everyone in life does their best and not to be angry with others because they are doing the best they can. You gave another gift after your life - peace of mind. You left with beauty, love, grace and dignity - I love you forever - DAD.

In his final 24hrs Hospice told me and my sisters, brother, and mother that dad was holding on longer than they expected. They said he was waiting for us to leave or someone to come into see him before he goes. I can only believe he waited for Uncle Bob and Aunt Lucille because he went after Uncle Bob and Aunt Lucille came to say goodbye.

He has always said he has the best family anyone could ask for and everyone in his family meant more to him than words can say.

Dad I will see you again - until then I will live life knowing I couldn't have been directed in life by a better person.

I love you!!!!

Ronald Holley

August 4, 2008

Paul died as he lived, surrounded by his loving wife of 45 years and 4 adult children, Marsha, Lynn, Sherry and Paul Jr.
They were present holding his hand 24 hours a day for his final week in Hospice.
It was a most touching experience and I marveled at the love and caring they shared. They refused to let him go it alone.
I could never ask for a better father in law and will always remember and miss him.

Linda (Eaton) Clowser

August 4, 2008

Barb,

You may not remember me but I am Bob and Dorothy Eatons oldest daughter. Last time I saw you was at Aunt Patty's funeral. Since then mom and Aunt Junie have died. I remember you and Paulie when I was real little. Some of your kids weren't even born then. Seen you mostly at Aunt Patty and Uncle Ronnie's place over on Juneau. I always thought Paulie was kind of cool, but never really knew him that well, I was always in the kitchen with Mom, Aunt Patty and you, listening to you all talk about what ever. That was before mom went and married Bruce Carter. Anyway, I just want you to know that the Eaton, Carter, and Clowser families are thinking of you. We all send our condolences. Could you do me a favor and tell Uncle Ronnie, Ronnie Jr., Danny (if you see him) and Becky, that we send our condolences, also. Thank you. Take care of yourself. The hurt will heal with time. Believe me, we know.

Linda Clowser, Anne Eaton, Tracie Carter Robinson, Alan Carter

Tamara & Ira Hamman

August 4, 2008

You can sum up Uncle Paulie in one word . . . FAMILY. Nothing meant more to him. I will always remember the kindness Aunt Barb and Uncle Paulie showed when Kim and I would visit. They could always make us feel special. And I’ll always laugh when I think of the first time Kim and I ate shrimp with them. Uncle Paulie will truly be missed.

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