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Phyllis West Obituary

On Tuesday, July 13, 2021, Phyllis Behrle West, a devoted Daughter, Wife, Mother, Sister and Grandmother passed away in Akron, Ohio, at the age of 80, after a battle with Alzheimer's. Phyllis was born to Virginia (Vath) and Herman Behrle on December 30, 1940, in Pennsylvania. However as a young girl she moved to - and spent the rest of her life as an- unofficial ambassador- to her beloved Akron. She graduated from Our Lady of Elms High School in 1958 and from the University of Akron in 1962 with a degree in mathematics. Her first career was as a systems analyst for IBM where she worked for eight years. After Tara's arrival she shifted her focus to being a mom, nurse, carpool driver and room parent/PTA volunteer extraordinaire, with a small math tutoring gig on the side. After Todd made it to high school in 1988, she started selling real estate-- a way of convincing even more people to move to Akron-- until she retired in 2011. Throughout her life she generously volunteered her time to many organizations including the American Red Cross, Catholic Social Services, WITAN, Junior League, Leadership Akron, Litchfield Rehabilitation Center, Our Lady of the Elms, Stan Hywet Women's Auxiliary, the University of Akron Alumni Council, Seedlings Garden Club, the Village at St. Edwards, and tutoring children at Rankin and Helen Arnold schools. She enjoyed golfing, gardening, walking, traveling and spending time with her friends and beloved grandsons. Phyllis was preceded in death by her dad, Herman; her mom, Virginia; and her brother-in-law, Dr. J.C. Johns. She is survived by her husband of 51 years, Hugh; daughter, Tara (Brian) of Portland, OR; son, Todd (Kathleen) of Grand Rapids, MI; sister, Stephanie Johns of Goodyear, AZ; 3 grandchildren, Colby, Carter and Matias; nieces, nephews and friends. Phyllis was a longtime member of St Hilary Catholic Church and her funeral liturgy will be held there at 11 a.m. on Saturday, July 24th, with a visitation for friends and family from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m.. Calling hours will be Friday, July 23rd, 2021 from 4 to 6 p.m. at Ciriello & Carr Funeral Home, 39 S. Miller Road, Fairlawn, Ohio, 44333. In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made to Our Lady of the Elms 'Behrle Scholarship', 1375 W. Exchange St., Akron, Ohio 44313 or the Alzheimer's Association.

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Published by Akron Beacon Journal on Jul. 18, 2021.

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Terry Dempsey Parkinson

December 11, 2021

My thoughts are with the family of my former classmate. I will always remember her beautiful blue-green eyes. A very sharp, quick mind followed by a charming smile.

virginia t scott

July 27, 2021

To Phyllis' family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I met Phyllis at Cutler Real Estate as a fellow Realtor. I shared a work room with Phyllis and several others. She was an impressive Realtor with an excellent work ethic. Beyond that, she was such a really nice, good person. Great sense of humor. Wicked sense of humor, even! Fun to be around but when her phone rang, all business. I liked her a lot. She made a difference.

Laura Horning Duryea

July 19, 2021

Hugh, our thoughts and prayers are with your family. I have great memories of Phyllis as a friend of my mother's, especially their trips to New York City! Then I loved seeing Phyllis and Hugh on their many walks around the neighborhood ... or at Fairlawn Country Club. Finally when I became a real estate agent I realized what a true professional Phyllis was as we navigated transactions in our beloved Fairlawn Heights together. Farewell to a great lady and a life well-lived.

Barbara Webb

July 18, 2021

My fondest memory of Phyllis was playing golf at a fund raiser for Our Lady of the Elms! She was always good at math and helped us to keep our scores - which were not great!!
My sad condolences to the family as I have all good memories of Phyllis through our years at elementary- high school - and college!

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