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ANN SIMMONS ALSPAUGH

1934 - 2016

ANN SIMMONS ALSPAUGH obituary, 1934-2016, Oklahoma City, OK

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ANN ALSPAUGH Obituary


Ann Simmons Alspaugh December 13, 1934 - September 20, 2016 OKLAHOMA CITY Ann Simmons Alspaugh passed away, unexpectedly, at home, Tuesday, September 20, 2016. Her family, and many, many friends, mourn the loss of one of Oklahoma's leading ladies. Ann was the mother of three, the grandmother of seven, an executive, a community leader, a patron of the arts and an engaged philanthropist.
Ann was born in Duncan, Oklahoma, on December 13, 1934, the daughter of Marjorie Simmons Alspaugh Gray and Howard Beason Alspaugh. Her step-father, Robert Mark Gray, was an advertising executive, credited for the then famous "Put a Tiger in your Tank" advertising campaign for Exxon. Ann is also the granddaughter of Ola Mixson Simmons and Louis Bascom (L.B.) Simmons. L.B. founded the Rocket Oil Company of Duncan, Oklahoma and the Rock Island Refining Companies whose pipelines and other assets were merged into Koch Industries.
Ann attended Duncan High School in Duncan, Oklahoma. She loved all of her Duncan schools and often said she was well prepared for Smith College and later for the University of Oklahoma where she was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma. With her first husband, Paul Anthony Andres, Ann had three beautiful children, Holly, Louis and Paul.
Education was of essential importance to Ann, as it was something she said no-one could take away. The honorary degree bestowed upon her by OCU, the long associations with The Oklahoma Medical Research Foundation and the Oklahoma School of Science and Math, and the degrees in law, medicine and business achieved by her children were sources of great pride. To her family, she set an example of exceptionalism, grace under pressure, an enduring image of a woman of elegance, manners and style.
Community leadership defined Ann. She had a servant's heart and used her energies and gifts to make a difference in the lives of others. Service enriched her life, gave her joy, confidence and happiness. Hence, over the course of her long life, Ann dedicated herself to the enrichment of Oklahoma and the often anonymous care of those in immediate need. In return, the state honored her with membership into the Oklahoma Hall of Fame.
Beauty and art also surrounded the life of Ann. She understood the impact of the fine arts on the culture of Oklahoma. She collected, she mentored, she gave special support to Native American artists, and she focused her attention most recently on the Oklahoma Contemporary Art Center.
Ann loved each and every organization and endeavor that she championed, and her family would like to honor her with a listing of her various awards and associations.
Ann's awards include: the Oklahoma City University's Distinguished Service Award in 1984; the Outstanding Philanthropist Award, National Society of Fund Raising Executives, the Oklahoma Chapter 1985; Honorary Degree, Doctor of Humane Letters, from Oklahoma City University in 1986; the 1991 Recipient of the Governor's Arts Awards for the State of Oklahoma; the 1992 Oklahoma City University Norick Hulsey Gallery Society Award; the Second Annual "Women of the Year Award" in philanthropy from the Red Lands Council of Girl Scouts, 1992; the First Annual Grande Reverence Award at the "20th Anniversary Celebration" by Ballet Oklahoma, 1992; the Ellis Island Medal of Honor from the National Ethnic Coalition of Organizations, New York, New York, 1992; the Woman Who Makes a Difference Award, by International Women's Forum, 1992, Denver, Colorado; the 1992 Byliner Award, by Oklahoma City Professional Chapter of Women in Communications, Inc., 1992; Chosen for recognition at the 27th Annual "Ladies in the News" luncheon, March 1993, by the Oklahoma Hospitality Club; the 1993 Distinguished Friend of the Oklahoma City University

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Published by Oklahoman from Sep. 22 to Sep. 23, 2016.

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cara young

December 6, 2016

Our deepest condolences, my family has many fond memories of her.

Cara Goynshor Young

JIMMY & PAULA VENABLE

November 28, 2016

Our deepest love, thoughts, and prayers are with you now and ALWAYS. Ann was such an awesome, loving, caring, and elegant lady and shall always remain a member of our family. We hold such precious memories, love, and cherished times in our hearts and souls. God bless each of you, as I know the empty places left in your heart. My greatest regret is that we did not know in time to attend her memorial. Love in Christ,
PSALM 91:11

November 5, 2016

Condolences to the family of Ann Alspaugh. One of Oklahoma Cities Finest. I only met Ann from working for young bros. marble and granite in the 1990's .Wonderful Person beautiful home and most of all most likely the state's greatest benefactor

Svetlana Alexandrova

September 29, 2016

Mrs Ann Alspaugh will surely be missed by all. Most elegant, caring, and always carried herself with beautiful style.
We will miss you.

Gregory Story

September 23, 2016

Ann was a wonderful lady I will always remember her she was very special to me.
I have known her for 42 years and I can't believe she is gone.

Janie Porter

September 23, 2016

Ann's family are in my heart, thoughts and prayers! The many endearing and precious moments and memories I shared with Ann will be forever etched in my heart. Her spirit will live on with such grace from such a grand and beautiful lady. Thank you Ann for the beautiful gift and blessing of you! Janie Porter OKC

Steve Payne

September 23, 2016

Ann was a long time friend of my family, and meant so much to us. Always such a pleasure, so caring and thoughtful. Our prayers are with your family for comfort.

Christopher Howse

September 22, 2016

As a child, Ann was the most glamorous teenager I knew. Her sister and I were constantly being told to, "mind our Ps and Qs" as she whirled out to go to the Broadmoor to dance and favor some local with her charm. A terrific Christmas card and gift sender, many of my years are wound up with Ann and her family.

shirley Harris

September 22, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Greg James

September 22, 2016

A long-time friend of my mother, Ann remained concerned and interested about my father and our family after we lost our mom. Just as she cared for her friends, she cared for our heritage, our state, and country. She understood how important history, art, and education are to the future of all. Thank you to her family for sharing her with us. Greg and Jeff James

Flossie McCoy

September 22, 2016

My sincere sympathy for your loss of Ann. While you're celebrating her life well lived with good memories, may God give you strength and comfort. Matthew 5:4

September 22, 2016

What a wonderful lady! She will be greatly missed and was loved by so many. Bless your family during this difficult time. Myrla Pierson

Susan Punneo

September 22, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of great loss.

September 21, 2016

Ms Alspaugh was one of those special folks who "took time" for those who she had assisted in the past. She spent some very special time with my late college roommate in sharing her remembrances of a beaded flower arrangement that Rachel McCampbell had made for her. "Virginia" said that when you were in the midst of Ann, you felt special..............she was that kind of person. Ms. Alspaugh, thank you so very much for your "servant's heart". God Speed on your way to Our Lord!.....Rickee Eddleman

September 21, 2016

May God loving kindness comfort you and help you through this sad time
PSALMS 29:11

Claudia Cox-Phillips

September 21, 2016

Many loving memories......my prayers are with the family at this time...Claudia

Bob / Margaret Mills

September 21, 2016

Ann was the epitome of class and stature. I truly admired the many wonderful things she did for humanity. She is a person that will truly be missed.

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