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for Gaylon Stacy
William Eudy
June 26, 2025
I met Gaylon Stacy through his son, Michael who was a long time friend and business associate. Gaylon was a gentleman with exquisite manners who was highly intelligent, soft spoken and gracious. By the time we met he was working as the executive director of a professional organization and nearing retirement but still appearing periodically on television for the OETA telethons. Among my most prized possessions is a collection of VHS tapes made from film and kinescopes of the Gaylon Stacy Show in which he interviews television and movie actors, politicians and other celebrities and important figures. I think of him often and miss him.
jack
October 6, 2023
he was such a great part of Oklahoma history
Jerry Hargis
April 12, 2020
Gaylon Stacy was a 'professional' in every way. I first met him at OU, then He, Dean Ward and I worked up a group to do some singing,and Gaylon and I worked in the radio studios of KUVY and WNAD, and I have always appreciated his keen wit, good humor and kind faithfulness to friends. After our graduations, we went separate ways and rarely crossed paths again, but I kept tabs on his successful rise in broadcasting and public service. He was unique, sincere, talented and absolutely committed to his family and beliefs. It is redundant to note how much he will be missed, but he was unique and special in so many ways. May he rest in peace knowing the contributions he made to everyone he touched. Much love and many blessings of comfort to his family and many friends.
Dr. Jerry Hargis, Norman, OK
beth ronning lundgren
March 17, 2019
I met Gaylon Stacy when I going on 10 years old when he sang in the OK-4 and they sang at Minneapolis at the Minneapolis Commodore Chorus Valentine Barbershop show in 1974. It was my first time I heard barbershop and I fell in love with barbershop that night and fell in love with the OK-4. At the afterglow Ok-4 didn't seem bothered by this 9 and half bothering them when she was sick. They gave me my first barbershop record. I played that record so much I wore it out. I will forever remember him and the OK-4
August 9, 2013
Sad day! Re-arranging my desk, I came across a printed email from Gaylon, dated Feb. 9, 2008, in which we had reminisced about our employment, and complications thereof, at KWTV in the early 60's. I was a cameraman on his morning show, and we shared a lot of laughs and memories. I was going to email him tonight; but in sadness, I've discovered he has passed away. He was a 'good guy' and even after 45 years away from TV, Gaylon and I exchanged emails, lots of recollections.
You were a good man, Gaylon. It as pleasant working with you!
John H. Ward
Johnie Beth Matthews
June 14, 2013
So missing you. You were always so warm and welcoming.
January 6, 2013
I was once on a committee for the United Way and Gaylon was the motivator and leader of this committee. I left OKC long ago for LA but I always remember Gaylon Stacey's presence on the airwaves of OKC tv.
Janice Shepherd
November 7, 2011
Jane and Family:
I followed Gaylon and Ken Witten on television commercials when I was in my teens. Marrying Ken Witten in 1992, I enjoyed the music and antics of both men for many years. Gaylon continued to call and comfort me after Ken died in 2009. I will miss him greatly.
Jan Witten Shepherd
October 20, 2011
I remember meeting Gaylon when I did the financial audit for Oklahoma Lumbermen's Association. Later, I was honored to be the family's CPA. Gaylon and Jane and Michael were and are wonderful people, and I consider them friends as well as clients. God bless you, Jane and Michael, as well as the rest of your family.
Phil Goss
Harold Wallace
October 19, 2011
I will always remember Gaylon as one of the nicest, most sincere people I have ever known in the advertising/PR industry. Over the years, since around 1960, my father and I enjoyed working with Gaylon in multiple ways, from proposing people to be on his show to simply asking him to be our spokesman or voice-over. Since my first experience of Gaylon singing in the First Methodist Church to his last presentation of the last Edmond Parade, I will always think of Gaylon as a friend. Additionally, my wife treasures her PEO relationship with his wife, Jane. Harold Wallace/John Wallace
Johnie Matthews
October 18, 2011
I got to perform on Gaylon's show when I was a folk singer. Then later got to know him better while working on a Reader's Theatre play at Mayflower. So gracious, hadn't changed a bit neither one of us. What a sweet, sweet person - Gaylon. R.I.P.
Pam Marrs
October 18, 2011
I met Gaylon when he became Executive Director of OSIA. Gaylon was a great man with many talents which he used to really get that organization in the public eye. He will be missed by so many. My heart goes out to his family - God speed.
Mary Nell Bowser
October 17, 2011
My friend, Gaylon, and I met many years ago when we were in the second grade at Blanchard Elementary School. By the time we had reached the ripe old age of nine in the 4th grade, we fell into "puppy love". Our "puppy love" for one another lasted until we reached the 7th grade. Our genuine love for one another never died, and we remained dear friends until this very day. As it turned out, he married my very best friend, Jane Gilmore. I married Don Bowser, and the four of us were buddies to the very end. Don got to Heaven before you Gaylon, but I know he welcomed you with open arms. I pray for your safe journey, my dear friend. My love remains true.
Karen Baker
October 17, 2011
On behalf of the Oklahoma Lumbermen's Association, we send our thoughts and prayers to Gaylon's family and friends. Even though it has been nearly 20 years since he was the Executive Vice President of OLA he is still fondly remembered within the lumber industry. We thank him for his many years of service to the OLA and its members.
martha sheriff
October 17, 2011
gaylon was one of the best bosses i ever had. we had a lot of fun but we worked very hard. i loved it when all the local celebs would drop by our office. it was always a fun fest. what a great guy and an amazing talent. he will be missed.
Wayne Myers
October 16, 2011
Gaylon missed I met him a Dennys when my wife and I went there for breakfast a man of great knowledge of Oklahoma and areas of interest He will be missed
Ninalea Davis
October 16, 2011
My family spent many times watching his show and he was ONE OF A KIND.. My prayers are with your family
October 16, 2011
Warm. Funny. Friend & sang bass in the second funniest quartet in the world. Hugs Jane - We are all better people for having had Gaylon in our lives.
Carl Hancuff
Marilyn Beitler
October 16, 2011
Gaylon Stacy has been part of my life growing up in Oklahoma City through the years. I always liked watching his TV shows and anything he was hosting. Thanks for the good memories Gaylon, you are in a better place now.
Brenda Bohannon
October 15, 2011
He would come in to Reid Printing for business. I thought that was neat
because as a child I watched his show. He was a great talent. Sorry for your loss.
Henrietta Kutz
October 14, 2011
Gaylon Stacy runs through my memories as far back as I can remember being in OKC, so talented and so genuinely friendly and kind. In loving memory of a wonderful person who will be loved and missed always.
Shirley Anderson
October 14, 2011
When I worked with Gaylon's daughter, Shelly, when Gaylon would phone & I answered Shelly's phone, I would always try to talk without my thick Okie accent because he spoke in his fluent tv commercial voice. You'll be missed.
George Tomek
October 14, 2011
October 14, 2011
I never had the opportunity to work at the same TV station with Gaylon, but our paths crossed many times. I interviewed him as a journalist when he was a respected legislator. Gaylon and I teamed up for an infommercial production a couple of years later - he helped me get through it. Gaylon was full of savvy common sense when I became a lobbyist. And, his pleasant personality and sense of humor were legion. Gaylon was the M-C one year at Edmond's Libertyfest Parade and I was a judge. He kept all of us on the stand and the public in "stitches" for a solid hour. Only Gaylon could manage that.
Rest in Peace Gaylon. You're in a better place My Friend. God Bless You & your Family.
Gordon & Tommie Cargill
October 14, 2011
So sorry of your loss. I'm sure he is singing with the Great choir and making everyone laugh. A wonderful friend that will missed. In God's Love,
Mary Ann Karns
October 14, 2011
One of my favorite people, all time, ever. Fun, funny, gifted, loving, lived as he believed and claimed, a servant's heart. Thanks for all the many, many years of memories and joys and projects shared.
October 14, 2011
A great brother. Will miss you.
Louise Bland
October 14, 2011
Gaylon, you were always there to help a friend. I'd come from Tulsa in the early 60's. Had done a TV show there called "Spotlight" --- You knew about that and had me on your show to help me get my start in OKC. God bless you, for everything you did for me and others. You were a true friend. One with a beautiful soul
gloria rehrig
October 14, 2011
Jane, You and the kids are in my thoughts and prayer. Gaylon was a great friend to many. I'll always remember him. Gloria Rehrig
October 13, 2011
Watched him on TV, but most enjoyed his singing with the Barbershop Quartet.
Great personality.. Will be missed.
October 13, 2011
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
What a great man!
Jerry D. Brown, P.C. and Staff
October 13, 2011
Sorry for your loss, Larry Butler
October 13, 2011
I'm 52 years old and Mr. Gaylon Stacy runs through my memories as far back as I can remember. A talented and unique individual. His friendly face and humorous heart will be missed. So long friend. Michael Mann
chip / debbie robberson
October 13, 2011
Mr Bulldog
You will be missed. You are a special person and i will never forget you.
Chip and Debbie Robberson
October 13, 2011
One of the true "Good Guys" Gaylon was a good friend and a great fisherman. He will me missed by many. Al Ruble
Richard Charnay
October 13, 2011
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
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