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Jared Thompson Obituary

Jared Ryan Thompson passed away on March 3, 2006. He was born on July 28, 1976 to Thomas Dean and Joan McLauchlin Thompson. Jared attended Oklahoma City University, Department of Holistic Medicine at Kramer School of Nursing, and Southern Nazarene University. He was on the Dean's Honor Roll at both universities. Jared was an Electrician Apprentice at the time of his death. Jared was a proud member of the Chickasaw Nation. He was a member of the Epiphany Roman Catholic Church. Anyone who knew Jared was aware of his caring nature. He always went out of his way to help others. Jared now joins his older brother, Dean, who preceded him in death, his grandmother Marie Josephine McLauchlin and grandfather James Rayburn McLauchlin, Jr., MD. Jared is survived by his parents, his Aunt Sarah Pansza and Uncle Terry Pansza, and his Uncle James Rayburn McLauchlin III. He is also survived by his grandmother, Monzella Keel Golden of Stratford, uncles, cousins and special friends, Gary Michael Gray and Karen Booth and their families. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Indian Cultural Center or thecharity of your choice. Services will be private at the Pickard Funeral Home in Stratford, Oklahoma. The Very Reverend Russel Hewes will be officiating along with Jared's cousins, The Very Reverends Steve Lucas, Edmond, Oklahoma, and Jay Keel, Ada, Oklahoma. Burial will follow at McGee Cemetery in Stratford, Oklahoma.

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Published by Oklahoman on Mar. 6, 2006.

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Craig Cohen

January 20, 2007

Jared:

Nearly not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. When I arrived here on campus this past fall, I would see friends that knew each other. I would wish to myself that you could have been here. We could work on remodelling our lives together. I know you are looking down on us all now. No more pain and discomfort but rather joy and true serenity; found only in the Lord. Til we meet again brother...

Annette Coelho

January 17, 2007

Hi Joanie and Tommy
I met both your boys the day you were leaving Glendale for Oklahoma. They were well mannered, curtious and kind.
You and Tommy raised them well.

Jared is now home with the Lord. In perfect peace. As christians we live with this great assurance that in heaven we all shall meet...we will.
Ziren and I love you and Tommy.

Pam & Jack McCarty

July 28, 2006

Dear Jared,

Today on your birthday, you and your mom and dad are in our thoughts and prayers...

May you have a blessed birthday in Heaven...

Love from Hannah's mom & dad

Carol Sue Taylor

June 24, 2006

Dearest Joanie: I was so glad to see you earlier today but so saddened by your news. I did not know your sons but knowing you for these many years I know they must have been fine young men. Please know that you and Tommy will be in my thoughts and prayers. May your days be filled with God's light and love as you recall the many wonderful memories you all shared together. Please be assured that I will keep in touch. With love,



Carol Sue Taylor

Mom & Daddy

May 25, 2006

Dear Jared,

It has just been since March 2nd that we last hugged and squeezed good-bye. You had just hope in your heart and love in your eyes.

We miss your physical presence so much. I just watched one of your favorite programs and I hope you had already seen the show. It was about Earl's mom and dad. It warmed my injured heart. Daddy and I will go on until it is time to come be with God, Jared and Dean. We are going to see Craig and Kari Cohen tomorrow and we get to ride in your truck with Craig. We will bring yellow and white matching crosses to you and brothers' grave-site. Happy Memorial Day. Hope you are with Daddy, Mom, our babies that I mis-carried, Nana, Ba-ba, Bamps, Mel-Mel, Uncle Bill, Aunt Carol and especially Aunt Lurline, Aunt Madeline, & Dr. James Kedall Ahtone!

Love you both so much, Hugs, & xxxx

marie cloud

May 15, 2006

Joni and Tommy

I know that this past weekend has been quite difficult for you. As you know, holidays always are. I lost my father 4 days before Father's Day. I do know that time helps. It doesn't totally take away the pain, yet the sadness becomes manageable.

Joni and Tommy, you meant so much to Jared. He respected and admired you and was always willing to accept your love.

I know it may not feel like it, but his spirit remains alive within you and your memories. Share his memories, as each person you share with will come away truly blessed for having known Jared.

With love and prayers always,

Marie

marie cloud

May 7, 2006

Joanie and Tommy,

My prayers are with you. Jared was a light of hope and an inspiration to keep on keeping on. His spirited perseverance in a troubled world is hope for all.

You have been blessed with the time you have had with both Jared and Dean. Our world is a better place because God loaned their spirits to us for awhile.

They are with our Creator now, more than likely keeping an eye on you two.

My prayers are with you now and for many years to come.

With love,

Marie, Jeff, and Annie Cloud

Pam & Jack McCarty

May 2, 2006

Jared,

It is an honor to know you through this guestbook and through your mother, and we look forward to meeting you in Heaven someday...



Joanie,

You and Tommy will remain in our prayers. As you know, our daughter Hannah is also in Heaven. What a wonderful place it must be! If Jack and I can be of help to you in any way, please just let us know...



Praying for God to comfort you, as only He can do...



Hannah's Mom & Dad

John and Gae Bachle

April 7, 2006

Dear Joanie and Tommie:

We just learned of Jared's passing. John and I want you both to know that we are so saddened by the loss of your beautiful Jared. Please know that we share in your sorrow and will always remember his precious little face. We will keep you in our prayers and most positive thoughts. John and Gae Bachle

Jack & Nikki Pratt

April 6, 2006

Joanie and Tommy, Peace be with you always. Time is the great healer and with God's help and love you will soon be healed and praise the times that Jared's memory comes to tap you on the shoulder. All our love, Jack and Nikki

Denise Viramontes

April 1, 2006

Dear Joanie & Tommy,

We were so very sorry to hear about Jared's passing. During this very difficult time, remember always that you are both in our prayers. We feel your pain and share in recalling all the memories that we were so fortunate to have with Jared, Dean and the two of you. Your two angels are looking over you now everyday.

We love you both very much and will always be here for you!

Jared will be truly missed but never will he be forgotten. He is free from pain and is in a beautiful place, Heaven.



With Love Always,

Jose, Denise, Joseph & Jonathan

Jennifer Gay

March 28, 2006

Dear Tommie and Joanie,

We are so sorry for your loss. Michael always thought as Jared as the little brother he never had. We think of you everyday. He is now with his brother and I consider them both guardian angels watching over us all. All our love...Michael, Jennifer, Mikayla, and Carley Gay.

Nancy Hogan

March 28, 2006

Joanie,

We embrace you tenderly with our thoughts and prayers during this time as we ponder, even through the sorrow, the eternal glory that has dawned for your precious son Ryan. May our Lord's tender comfort be yours. May our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father who loved us and by His grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you.

Nancy Hogan

DEBORAH MCELLIGOTT

March 25, 2006

DEAR TOMMIE AND JOANIE, OUR HEARTFELT PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU BOTH AT THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME. I REMEMBER CUTE LITTLE JARED WHEN WE HELPED YOUR FAMILY MOVE INTO YOUR NEW HOME IN GLENDALE! HE WAS ALL SMILES. MAY ALL OF YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES BE FOREVER IN YOUR HEARTS, AND HELP EASE THE SORROW AND PAIN THAT YOU MUST FEEL.REMEMBER THAT JARED IS WITH YOU EVERYDAY IN ALL THAT YOU DO! ALL OUR LOVE TIM, DEBORAH, ASHLEY, AND MATTHEW MCELLIGOTT

Hershel (H.V.) Jackson, Jr.

March 24, 2006

Tommie and Joanie,



It is with great sorrow that I am writing this. My wife, Dixie, and I are holding you and your family up in prayer. Losing a child is never easy, but God has him safe in his arms now. He is waiting for a reunion day of joy when you meet again.



Tommie, I have lost two son's and know the pain and long lasting hurt, but we are not to quesiton God's plans. So, hang in there, keep the faith and live for your wife and family with the knowlege that you will see him again.



Loads of Love,



Your cousin,



H.V., Jr.

Carealee Gay-Banuelos

March 23, 2006

Dear Tommy & Joanie,

Our thoughts and prayers are with the both of you. I will always remember Jared and I, when you first moved to California, riding our bikes together. We used to have so much fun. I will miss him dearly but think of him always!! We love you both!!Love, Carealee, Victor, Jonathan, Jeremy and Jackson (Cousins)

Carvel & Pat Gay

March 23, 2006

Dear Cousins



We will truly miss dear Jared, I know we didn't see him much after you moved back to Oklahoms, but we will always remember his pretty smile and good heart.

Our prayers and love are with you at this most heart breaking time.

Please remember the good times and hoping we will see you both soon.



With our deepest love and prayers.

Cousin Carvel and Pat

Nicky, Colin, Andrew and Marcus Smith

March 20, 2006

Joanie and Tommy, Jared will always be remembered by us as the very special and kindly person he was. Our love and deepest sympathy go out to you both at this sad time. God bless.

Linda Terrill

March 15, 2006

Tommy my friend, and Joanie, oh how my heart hurts for you. Tommy you know we share similar burdens, but for it to come to you again, I cannot imagine how broken hearted you both must be. Please know that there are many, many friends, family and loved ones out there that hold you both up in prayer. I am so sorry I am just now learning of this, but please know that I will hold you both close to my heart in the coming months as you start this journey without your beautiful son Jared. Please know that God is with you..."come to me, all you who are weary and heavily burdened, and I will give you rest.." Matthew 11:28

Gayle & Barney Semtner

March 15, 2006

Joanie and Tommy,

Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Fondly,

Gayle & Barney Semtner

Kay Lucas

March 14, 2006

Joanie and Tommy,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you.

Kay Lucas

Susie Nelson

March 14, 2006

Dear Joanie and Tommy:



Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.



Fondly,

Susie and Jay Nelson

Cathy (Murray) Polony

March 12, 2006

Joan and Tommy,

I just found out about your loss, and want you to know we are thinking of you. I will always remember Jarod as that darling little boy in pre school! We will be remembering you in prayer that you will find the special love and comfort that only God can give.

Cathy Murray Polony

deborah walker

March 11, 2006

Dear Tommy and Joanie,



I am so very sorry for your loss. Jared was a sweet, humble person who loved God and who exhibited strength beyond his years. I know that this leaves another void in your lives but God will be your strength. Debbie

Chris Pribil

March 10, 2006

Dear Tommy and Joanie,

I just wanted to let you both know that Jared and both of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gary M. Gray

March 9, 2006

Dear Tommy and Joannie,



Please accept my deepest regrets for the loss of your beloved son, Jared. Even though he is gone physically, the memory of his ready smile, quick handshake, and friendly demeanor will live on, and give you comfort over the years after this very difficult initial period. None of us who know and care deeply for you two will forget Jared Ryan Thompson, that special son and person -- with a heart full of love and hair 'red as a flame.' -- Love, Gary

Brad Williams

March 8, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gena Howard

March 8, 2006

Dear Tommy and Joanie,

We are deeply saddened about Jared's passing and want you to know you are both in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you strength and peace now and in the days ahead. We love you.

Love,

Brad and Gena Howard

Terry and Frances Gray

March 7, 2006

Tommy and Joanie-

We were so very sorry to hear of Jared's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kim Chadbourne

March 7, 2006

Joanie and Tommy



My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please accept my deepest condolences. Sincerely, Kim Chadbourne

Gavin Gray

March 7, 2006

Tommy and Joanie,



We are praying for and thinking about you both during this very difficult time, and offer our deepest condolences upon the passing of Jared.



With our deepest sympathy,

Gavin and Natasha

Penny Replogle

March 7, 2006

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart breaks for you both. Please know that you will be in my prayers.



Love, Penny

Gregory Gray

March 7, 2006

Tommy and Joanie,



With the love and support of your friends and family you will make it through this difficult time. I offer you my deepest sympathy and prayers.



Love,



Greg

Karla Gray

March 7, 2006

Dear Tommy and Joanie,

I love you both and you are in my thoughts and prayers. You and Dean & Jared have always been family to me and I am thankful to have such fond memories that I will forever hold dear. With deepest sympathy, Karla Michelle

Karen Booth

March 7, 2006

My dear Joanie and Tommy, We've been friends for about 40 years. I can only say that you are the bravest people I've known. I am always by your side. I will write more later, and I will submit a picture or two. Keep your heads high. You are proud people; your son would be proud of you. He is in a better place and free from all pain and suffering. Love Always, KK

Patrick Hosty

March 6, 2006

Mr and Mrs. Thompson,



My haeartfelt condolences to you and your family. My prayers will be with you.



Sincerely,



Patrick Hosty

neil chapman

March 6, 2006

Words seem shallow and terribly hollow to express such feelings of sadness for your loss. It is into God's hands that we must truly let go and let God now take cared of Jared.



Sally and I pray that God will give you all the tools you need in the time ahead. There are many, many people, more than you can imagine who are there for you, and while you must walk this journey, you do not have to walk it alone.



With deepest sympathy,



Neil and Sally Chapman

Tammy & Terry Howard

March 6, 2006

God Bless you Joaine. We are thinking of you.

Karla & Paul Bell

March 6, 2006

Our sympathy and love go out to you, Tommy and Joanie. We want you to know how deeply saddened we are by Jared's tragic death. We know it will require an untold amount of courage for you to carry on. We hope and pray that knowing how much others care will make your grief a little easier to bear.



We will never forget Jared's cute, mischievous smile and those fun-filled 4th of July "fires" we shared together.



With love,

Karla & Paul

MEL AND KATHY NATIONS

March 6, 2006

We are sorry to hear of the passing of Jared. I saw it on the computer.Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you

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