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PAMELA WILMUTH Obituary

WilmuthNov. 2, 1958 - July 7, 2016 TUSCALOOSA, AL Pamela S. Wilmuth, born Nov. 2, 1958, in El Reno, OK, to Robert and Flo Benard, joined her Heavenly Father July 7, 2016, while surrounded by family in Tuscaloosa, AL. A private family memorial will be held at a later date in Oklahoma City. She is survived by her mother, Flo M. Benard; siblings, Rusty, Gayle, Debbie, Byron, Doug, Patricia, Todd, George, Rolynda, and Angie; children and grandchildren, Robbie (JR) & Alisa Wilmuth, Baylee, age 11, and Gary, age 9; Jeremy & Lori Beth Wilmuth, Charlie, age 8, and Anna, age 5; Blake & Misty Tidwell, Riley, age 6, and infants Brady and Kody. She was preceded in death by husband, Robert G. Wilmuth; and father, Robert L. Benard. Pamela possessed a soft touch and a kind spirit that lives on in all who knew her well. We love you Pam, you are truly missed. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Hospice & Home Health of Alabama (www.hhhfa.org).

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Published by Oklahoman on Jul. 10, 2016.

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Carl Bragg

June 25, 2025

Worked with Robert at Payless Cashways in OKC. Will always remember the trip with Robert and Pam and other friends to the Orange Bowl in 1979. Pam was a beautiful and incredible person. Miss them both.

Sandra Payne

July 15, 2016

Pamela was beautiful inside and out. I am privileged to say she was my friend and my mentor. The world lost a beautiful person, but heaven gained an angel.

Ro

July 14, 2016

Love and miss you

Rolynda

July 14, 2016

Pam, it's so hard to believe you are in heaven. You were such an inspiration. You never gave up and you faced each challenge with a smile. You are loved and missed.

Loren Benard

July 13, 2016

This beautiful woman had nothing but love to share with everyone she ever met. She had such a loving personality, open heart, and kind smile. I love you Aunt Pam. I'll forever miss you.

Angie

July 13, 2016

Pam you will be dearly missed. You sacrificed so much for family and taught me so much. Love you

Christy Benard

July 13, 2016

Through out our lives we learn and grow by watching others ... Pamela was a shining example of pure love and every memory I have of her teaches me how to be a better mother and a more loving person. I miss you Pam.

Todd Benard

July 13, 2016

"Let us sacrifice our today so that our children can have a better tomorrow" -Kalam

This is how my wonderful sister lived her life. You are forever loved and missed.

Natalie Williams

July 11, 2016

Praying for strength and comfort. If y'all need anything please let us know. Love you guys!
-Shane, Natalie, Brooklin, and Riley

Becky (Morris) Davis

July 11, 2016

Robbie, Jeremy, and Misty,
So very sorry for your loss. Your mom was always so kind to us (and awesome about letting us all take over the house). You and your families will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Kimberly Rinehart

July 11, 2016

You always put a smile on my face, I am going to miss your spunky personality. No matter how bad things got you never gave up. I Love and Miss you Pam!! I know you are dancing and rejoicing in Heaven right now. Until I see you again.....

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