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Betty Mattson Obituary

MATTSON-Betty Tyler, born in Lexington, NE, to Rufus and Bertha Tyler on January 25, 1912, died peacefully at her daughter's home in Bella Vista, AR, on July 10, 2008 with family at her bedside. Betty spent her early years with her family living in Lexington. She lost her mother at age 10 and moved to Sumner, NE, where she spent the next several years living with her Aunt Margaret, Uncle Bert, and cousin, Richard Cheney. Betty left Nebraska to attend high school in California and South Dakota and then returned to complete her high school years at Sumner before attending Kearney State Teachers College. Even after meeting the love of her life, Dr. Arne Mattson, in Nebraska, her independent spirit took her to Washington D.C. where she lived with her sister, Dorris Dassing, and worked at the General Accounting Office. Arne followed Betty and they were married in Washington D.C. on August 1st, 1936, beginning a 62 year marriage. They returned to Nebraska in 1938 and built their home on South 68th Street, in what was then the far west of Omaha, where they reared their family. Betty was predeceased by Arne in 1998. She was also predeceased by their son, Douglas, and her sister Dorris. In 2005 Betty left her home in Omaha to move to Rogers, AR, to be close to family. She resided at Apple Blossom Retirement Residence where she continued to make new friends who were entertained with hours of Bridge around Betty's table. She loved being close to family and spending time with friends, but her heart always remained in Omaha. Betty will be greatly missed by daughter Dorrie Chiarella and her husband, Vic, of Napa, CA, and their two children Juliet and Greg; daughter Debra Sorensen and her husband, Stu, of Bella Vista, AR; daughter-in-law Judi Mattson, and her son, Troy, and his family, of Omaha, NE. Family and friends will remember Betty for her positive outlook, her love of family, and the many gatherings that she orchestrated to perfection at the family home in Omaha. Betty will be forever in our hearts, and her long life was a life well-lived.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Service on Saturday, August 2nd, at 1:00 p.m. at Westlawn-Hillcrest Memorial Park, 5701 Center Street in Omaha. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Circle of Life Hospice, 901 Jones Road, Springdale, Arkansas, 72762; Uta Halee Girl's Village, 3017 Mormon Street, Omaha, Nebraska 68112; or a Hospice of your choice. WESTLAWN-HILLCREST
Memorial Park Funeral Home
5701 Center Street 402-556-2500
www.westlawnhillcrest.com

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Published by Omaha World-Herald from Jul. 27 to Jul. 30, 2008.

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Alice, Norm, Dan, and Jennifer Grosbach

August 20, 2008

Betty was like a parent/grandparent to our family-we were so fortunate to be neighbors and friends for a long time. She was a fun person to be with, and we enjoyed all the times we got to share.
She showed such a genuine interest in our children. We will have many happy memories of shared meals and special occasions-she was a good role model for someone who enjoyed the simple things in life-any time with her could be special. We always felt comfortable in her kitchen!

Nancy Dolan

August 11, 2008

My first memories of the Sorensen family involved the Mattson family, too. The classy, lovely matriarch of the family was Betty. She kind of intimidated me at first because she seemed so perfect and I was so young and, well, imperfect. But I soon learned what a warm and real person she was and what a wonderful wife to Arne and mom to Dorrie, Deb and Doug. She hosted Deb and Stu's wedding and it was a lovely affair.....small but so elegant. And she loved to play bridge and always outplayed all of us. Mostly I remember her always striving to make everyone feel comfortable and at home. The world has lost a wonderful lady, but, oh, what we have to look forward to in heaven! My deepest sympathies to your wonderful family.
Love, Nancy Dolan

Judy Jancik-anderson

August 7, 2008

When I was a youngster growing up in the Omaha neighborhood a couple of doors down I couldn't wait to see Betty (although my mother told me to always call her Mrs. Mattson :) all dressed up in beautiful gowns and headed to dances with Arnie. They made a great couple and had fun. I'm so glad I stopped in to see her a few years ago when I was in town. We reminisced the old days in the neighborhood. She was still the awesome lady I remembered! God bless her and all of the family. P.S. Hi Dorrie-; and thanks Deb for the opportunity to write something.

Kit and Luke Argilla

August 2, 2008

What a warm and wonderful woman Betty was. We are all lucky, as we are able to take a little piece of her with us...and try to emulate her thoughtfulness, kindness and enthusiasm for family. She will be missed. We were so privileged to have known her.

Larry Purcell

August 2, 2008

From our first meeting in 1972, Betty always remained true to her image. For so many years the term "Betty and Arne" provided a warmth, a feeling of down to earth good people, and those who were fortunate to visit their comfy home on South 68th, knew they had been exposed to a truly wonderful experience called the Mattson family.

Betty, you are a good woman, and I can still see your smiling face.....do not see that changing! And to Dorie and Deb, I send all my love.

Julia Althoff

August 2, 2008

I was blessed to know Betty for so many years. She was wonderful and caring in so many ways. She was a role model for me and helped sort out the important things in life. My favorite memory of her is when we went to get Megan's hair cut when she was five and Betty kept asking me if I was sure Megan wanted it short. So many other times spent with family. The drive from Oklahoma with Kels, Derk and Aunt Dolly to visit Uncle Arne and Aunt Betty. So much love . . .
I would love to be at her memorial but I know she is glad I'm with Megan and her family.

Janet Scarpello

August 1, 2008

What sweet memories we all have of this gracious and lovely woman! Our sympathy to her entire family,
Fred, Janet & Christine Scarpello

Mary Campbell

July 31, 2008

Even when I was in high school, and even before the current meaning of the word was invented, I knew Mrs. Mattson as a woman who was "together." Always kind, always lovely, always dignified in a gracious, charming, genuine way. I adored Arne, too, and I'm nuts about their daughters....

Linda and Mike DeShon

July 30, 2008

Oh, Betty -- our time together was too short, just two years since we all moved here. But what a loving, caring, fun time it's been. We feel like family as you did to us. We'll miss you dearly. Thank you for being such a special friend.

Dorrie Chiarella

July 30, 2008

I have been blessed with an incredible mom who has made a profound impact on my life, as well as my families lives. We miss you mom, but you are forever in our hearts.

Ceata Oberhofer

July 29, 2008

I first met Betty about 2 years ago, but right away I could see she was a very special person. It is truly a blessing to have had the honor to meet such a wonderful lady.

Jean & Dave Mattson

July 29, 2008

Aunt Betty was a warm and caring person. She and Arne always welcomed us to their home. Aunt Betty will be missed by all her neices and nephews.

Greg Chiarella

July 28, 2008

Grams was a remarkable woman who lived 96 wonderful years. She was loving, enthusiastic, and, like Arne, incredibly optimistic. The warmth and love she showed friends and family set an example I can only hope to emulate in my own life. We will miss her terribly.

Paul and Sandy Germscheid

July 28, 2008

We will miss seeing Betty every time we visit Deb and Stu in Arkansas. We got to enjoy Betty's humor at dinner when we saw her in May. She never seemed to age! She will always be in our hearts.

Paul and Sandy

Ed, Karen, and Conor McKeown

July 28, 2008

Betty was a magnificant lady who lived a magnificent life. Her warmth, kindness, and love of her family and of life was contagious. We all feel so blessed to have been a part of her life.

Sue Freelin

July 28, 2008

I have many great high school memories from the Mattson household. And in more recent years when Dorrie was in Omaha and we visited with Dorrie & Betty. A wonderful lady who lived a good life surrounded by a loving family.

Juliet Chiarella

July 28, 2008

My grandmother was a pillar of the family, an incredible woman in so many ways. As I get older, I can only hope to be the sort of wife, mother, and woman that she was. Grams, you will be missed. I love you!

Mary & Wade Sundin

July 27, 2008

We feel so fortunate to have been able to know Betty and have the opportunity to have some fun times with her and Debbie and Stu in the past, not only in AR but also in Omaha and Pequot Lakes. Good Night to a wonderful Lady.

Debbie Sorensen

July 27, 2008

To the best mother a daughter could ask for. I will thank God for you the rest of my life.

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