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Beckie
March 11, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
I loved his smile.
Beckie Brabec
March 11, 2022
The Smile of someone so special that no one can take it away. I will always remember that. Always! I thank God knowing I could be apart of his life.
Beckie Brabec
March 11, 2021
As i sit here today and remember this extradentary young man, i still see that smile he always had. There were very few days that weren't many days he would show the pain. I think about the years that have passed by and
try to picture the Handsome man he would be today and the adorable women by his side. He would be the same amazing man we all knew him as. To his incredible family, i know that each day there is something that
you smile at when you think of Ethan an something you are doing that reminds you that it was one of you that
was with him when something was said, had done, or simply made you smile. I wish you a continual and loving
remembrance of this incredible man we all think of to this day.
Beckie Brabec
March 12, 2020
When I think of Ethan I remember the love he had in his heart and the fight he had in is soul. He could brighten a day like no other. The love his family gave and he gave back is undeniable. Such Love An amazing Man and lucky me to know him.
beckie brabec
March 11, 2019
Grimm Family,
It is a thought that passes here and then. When i remember Ethan i smile. His laugh and amazing smile is the one thing that i remember most. I was lucky to one of those people to know him. It's hard to believe that it has almost 11years since this amazing young man was here. I'm sure that he watches over all of you with that smile and an occasional laugh. I bet he has shown everyone those amazing tattoo's to everyone. I think of you as well and hope that all of you are ok. All my thoughts and love to Tracy, Marci and Asia.
Kip Crook
April 17, 2008
I was saddened to hear of your loss,the thoughts and prayers of my family are with you all....
Zack Fahey
April 10, 2008
Im Kelli's friend, im really sorry to hear about the loss. But i had to write a poem about a the strongest person i know and i chose Ethan.
His name was Ethan.
He was a young kid who was just living life.
I didnt know he was.
But he was my close freinds cousin.
He was just a teenager having fun and hangin out with his freinds.
He had no worries really, just goto school and have
But there was a thing that held him back from living that great life fun.
It was cancer,
Why did he have to face this problem?
Why Him?
No one really knows why.
But what I know about this kid , he was a great kid.
Maybe its the best though he past away, now he is out of his pain.
But we all dont think it was the best choice, especially the family.
But may god be with him.
Yes, Ethan is only a teenager and lives far away.
Yes, I never met the kid but he is my idol because he was a teenager who has faught and tried beating cancer.
So, R.I.P Ethan you will be missed
Danielle Amato
March 28, 2008
I didnt know you but i know of you, Kelli your cousin is my bestfriend, you seemed sucha strong boy and i know why you and kelli were bestfriends and cousins. rest in peace Ethan<3
Jennifer Sell
March 24, 2008
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. I wish there were words to make the pain lessen. We are holding you in our thoughts in prayers. Matt, Jennifer, Tyler, Josh and Nathan Sell
Donna Blankenship
March 22, 2008
Marcy, Tracy & Asia,
We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Ethan was so special to Dylan at Children's Corner when they were 4 and 5. I remember reading them a favorite book then called "Oh the Places You'll Go". They loved that book and just playing together. I'm so glad Ethan and Dylan got to see each other when they were in 6th grade at the baseball game at St Alberts. I took pictures of them together and will send you a copy.
You are very much in our prayers this Easter and always. May God comfort you and may all of you and Ethan find peace in God's love. He was and still is a great spirit among us all.
God Bless You
George, Donna & Dylan Blankenship
Kelli Miller
March 22, 2008
Ethan was the best cousin anyone could every ask for. There's no doubt that hes up there bowling right now :) I pray for E every night and so does the rest of my family and friends. Go Hawkeyes!
Trent Loper
March 21, 2008
Marcy and Family,
I am very sad to hear of Ethan's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Helen Strohmeyer
March 20, 2008
My prayers are with your family.
George Cheeseman
March 19, 2008
I will always remember going through elementary school with him. And even though I moved away I always prayed for him. My families prayers are with you at all times.
Ellie
March 19, 2008
Marcy,Tracy,and Asia,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and I send you love and strength at this most difficult time. Ethan was an incredible little boy,his strength and courage was amazing. He was an inspiration to so many and we are all better for having known him.....
Dawnette Kahnk
March 19, 2008
Marcy and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Brian Beverage
March 19, 2008
May he rest in love with the lord.
March 19, 2008
My prayers are with you all.
Max Whelchel (Mark Schmieding's mom)
Sarah Markuson
March 19, 2008
We always remember Ethan at the many past Make a Wish events, especially with the auction nights running around and so full of life. He truely blessed this world and everyone in it with his fighting spirit and love of his family and friends
Tricia Graves
March 19, 2008
Marcy, Tracy and Asia,
May the Road Rise to meet You and the Wind be always at Your back and until You meet again may the Lord hold You in the palm of His Hands. No words can express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of need.
Tricia Graves and Family
Laurie Rewolinski
March 19, 2008
Marcy,
I am so very sorry to hear about Ethen. Please know that Ethen has been in our thoughts and prayers for some time and we will continue to keep you and your family in them. May God bless you and your family at this time.
Jenni Halley
March 19, 2008
Tracy, Marcy and Asia,
Our deepest sympathies to you in the loss of Ethan. I have come to know him through your blog, and from the Eickholts. What an amazing child! May your precious memories always outweigh the pain of losing him. Our own battle has taught us that cancer can never take away your love.
Many blessings from our family to yours.
Lorie Miller
March 19, 2008
Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. Angel Ethan is watching over his loving family.
Andres Ordonez
March 19, 2008
Im very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and your family during this though time.
Bambi Behm
March 19, 2008
Dear Marcy and family, You are in my prayers and always have been.What I have always felt is that we are not human beings on a spiritual journey, but spiritual beings on a human journey.There are no words to truly comfort you, I pray for your family to continue the faith you have always had. Bambi Behm.
Jeanette, Sami Jo and Tyler Myers
March 18, 2008
Marcy, Tracy and Asia,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this hard time.
Shannon Pageler
March 18, 2008
I am terribly sorry for the loss of Ethan. My heart is deeply saddened with this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you all during this time.
Dacia & Kerwin Benton
March 18, 2008
Marcy, Tracey, & Asia-our thoughts and prayers have always been with you. Ethan will forever be in our hearts.His courage and strength keep our faith all these years. He will never be forgotten. May GOD's comfort and peace keep you always. We love you and know that GOD loves you more.
Linda Hammond
March 18, 2008
I don't know you or your son but as a stranger who had cancer, who parents could had lost me please except my grief for you and your family.
Tony & Jody Fredrickson & Family
March 18, 2008
It's been years since we seen each other and though we grown a part you have always been in our thoughts. If only we could turn back time to re-live the precious moments with friends and family, but time has a way of moving forward and the true memories live on. We are sadden very deeply for your loss and our prayers are with your family.
Robin Bruck
March 18, 2008
From one mother to another, my heart breaks for you and your family, Marcy. Please accept my condolences.
david winchester
March 18, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Sherri Morris
March 18, 2008
Tracy,
It's been many years i'm sure you don't remember me, but I am so sorry for the terrible loss of your son. Losing a parent is hard enough but losing a child/sibling has got to be devistating. You're all in my thoughts. May time help heal your hearts
(Cookie Petry's Daughter-Sherri)
Kelly and Ty Stewart
March 18, 2008
Marcy,
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of your son Ethan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Michael, Becky, Carley & Sydney Fields
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this hard time. Ethan was a great kid and that is a huge reflection on you as parents and as a sister! We will miss seeing him outside playing with the other kids in the neighborhood and we will miss his big smile as he rode by on his bike.
God Bless Ethan and your family.
Penny LeVier
March 18, 2008
Ethan we will miss you. God bless, you and your family.
Stephanie Nanfeldt
March 18, 2008
Marcy and Tracy -
I work with Lori Campbell and knew of Ethan's battle. I have always kept him in my prayers. While I know that this time must be terribly difficult I pray that God will be there to comfort you both as well as the rest of your family and close friends. God Bless all of you and of course Ethan.
Kindest Regards,
Stephanie Nanfeldt
Douglas Russell
March 18, 2008
Marcy and Tracy,
My wife Hope, and I are extremely sadden to hear of your loss. Ethan has truly touch the lives of so many, including myself, and he will alway be remembered as a young man of courage and resilience. You have our deepest sympathy and will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Thomas, Coleen and Cole Fleming
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in the days, weeks and months to come. Cole said "bowling just isn't going to be the same without Ethan". Ethan made a great impression on Cole.
Thomas, Coleen and Cole Fleming
Vanessa
March 18, 2008
I truly feel honored to have met Ethan and to be considered a friend of the Grimm family. Your unfaltering faith and strength are an inspiration to all of the lives you have touched. I am constantly giving your family BIG HUGS! God Bless.
Donna Matthews
March 18, 2008
My thoughts & prayers are with.
God Bless you all.
Janet, Judd, Jace & Josh Cochran
March 18, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Ann Lutz
March 18, 2008
Marcy & family,
I am sorry to hear of Ethan's passing. I know these years have been difficult and joyful, and you will always have your memories while Ethan watches over you from heaven. I am praying for you.
Please Don't Cry
Daddy please don't look so sad
Mommy please don't cry
Cause I am in the arms of Jesus
and He sings me lullabies.
Please try not to question God
Don't think He is unkind
Don't think he sent me to you
And then he changed his mind.
You see, I am a special Child
And I am needed up above
I'm the special gift you gave to him
The product of your love.
I'll always be there with you
And watch the sky at night
Find the brightest star that's gleaming
That's my halo shining bright.
You'll see me in the morning frost
That mists your windowpane
That's me, in the summer showers
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a gentle breeze
From a gentle wind that blows
That's me! I'll be there
Planting a kiss upon your nose.
When you see a child playing
And your heart feels a little tug
That's me! I'll be there
Giving your heart a hug.
So, Daddy please don't look so sad
Mommy don't you cry
I'm in the arms of Jesus
And He sings me lullabies.
-unknown
Vickie Shipley-Nolan
March 18, 2008
Marcy, Tracy and Asia,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss of Etahn. You might not remember me but I was Ethan's teacher at Children's Corner. Even though we lost contact I thought about him quite often and always wondered how he was doing. He had a special place in my heart and once again I am so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve and Jordan (Oder) Turner
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
P ODell
March 18, 2008
I didn’t know Ethan but he sounded like a wonderful person. I am very sorry for your loss and you are in my prayers.
Connie Hiatt
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayes are with you all at this hard time.May God bless all of you.
Betty Crawford
March 18, 2008
Tracy & Family. You have my deepest sympathy. You are an exceptional Family.
Betty (Bullock Garages Secretary)
Karl Lee Gahm
March 18, 2008
Tracy, Marcy and Asia... My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences on Ethan's passing... His ascendance from this Life has left a deeply palpable emptiness in this world and the lives of the people he touched. He is a very bright light... as are each of you...and I feel honoured and blessed to know your family. Please know that Ethan's presence will remain strong and ever present and that the impact that his Life brought to this Earth will always remain an Inspiration.
Corey & Buffy Jacobs
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Ethan left a lasting impression on us during my year of coaching his soccer team of rookies some seven years ago. He was an inspiration to all of us associated with the team as he would come to the soccer field, tired and ill from treatment, and then refuse to quit playing until he couldn't play any longer.
God Bless Him.
RALPH AND MICKIE GESSERT
March 18, 2008
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THIS TIME. ETHAN HAS GONE TO THE LORD AT THE MOST HOLYEST TIME. HE TOO SUFFERED PAIN AND ILLNESS BUT IS NOW FREE OF ALL EARTHLY BONDS. THEY ARE BOTH WAITING FOR ALL OF US IN HEAVEN. GOD'S PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL. RALPH AND MICKIE GESSERT
Sheila,Emily,Ethan
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Wendy Evans
March 18, 2008
Marcy and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Ethan. May the Lord encircle you with his loving arms and grant you his peace and comfort now and in the days ahead.
Cheryl, Haley, Giovanni Fortezzo
March 18, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Matthew Sternberg
March 18, 2008
Ethan was a great little boy. I loved playing football out in the yard with him. He was the ultimate Iowa Hawkeye fan.
Love,
The Sternberg's
Mollee Becker
March 18, 2008
Thinking of you now and in the future. I want to Thank you for allowing Ethan into so many peoples lives and into mine. What a brave young boy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your Make-A-Wish Friend
Ginny Redden-Frigge
March 18, 2008
Tracy, Marcy, Asia and extended family, My heart is very heavy and sad today as I just heard of the passing of Ethan. Sending you my deepest sympathy and prayers during this very difficult time. Ethan was a very brave, courageous and very accomplished young man. He will be truly missed but never forgotten. May God Bless you always,
Bill Rance
March 18, 2008
Tracy, Marcy and Asia,
Connie and I are very saddened by your lost. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Justin & Kathy Swanson
March 18, 2008
We would like to express our thoughts and prayers to your family. Justin enjoyed many summers with Ethan at Roberts Park summer camps. Justin would like to express that Ethan will be truly missed and he was everyones hero.
Brian Schulte
March 18, 2008
Although I didn't know Ethan personally, I was deeply saddened by his passing. I have umpired Ethan in baseball for the last 4-5 years when I work St. Alberts games.
I woke up this morning reading the OWH as I always do, and as we all know when you get older you gravitate toward the obituaries (something we didn't do when we were younger), and saw his picture and name and recognized him. I had no idea he was fighting cancer, while playing baseball, for the last 9 years.
Ethan didn't hit the ball farther than everyone, or run faster, but his LIGHT certainly shone as bright as anyones on the field, and thats how I'll remember him.
As baseball is getting ready to start up in the area, I will take time before each St. Alberts game I umpire, to honor Ethan with a silent tribute before the first pitch.
May God Take Good Care Of Ethan Grimm
Brian L. Schulte, Metro Umpires
Monica Summa
March 18, 2008
Our Thoughts & Prayers Go Out To You & Your Family
Pottawattamie County "Relay For Life"
Scott & Kathy Coziahr
March 18, 2008
Marcy & Tracy,
There are no words to make sense of it all. Ethan was such a gift to so many. May your wonderful family memories give you strength during this most difficult time. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Gloria and Terry Blum
March 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this time. Ethan was a special child to all who knew him.
With Sincere Sympathy,
March 17, 2008
God bless Ethan and his dear family. He has been through so much and now God has called him home. Just know you'll have a loving angel watching over you. Bless you all in the days ahead.
Joni Rasmussen
March 17, 2008
To The Grimm Family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you and
all your family during this time of sorrow.
Joni and Bruce Rasmussen
Matt Peckham
March 17, 2008
Ethan was an inspiration to me.He will truly be missed!
Cindy (Hall) & Jim Berg
March 17, 2008
Tracy,Marcy and Asia,
Our hearts are heavy and our eyes weep. Time stops at this moment for all who crossed this young man's path. Faith, Hope, Love. Never so true a word spoken.
Dave and Kris Stewart
March 17, 2008
Marcy,Tracy and Daughter
Please accept our deepest condolence with the loss of your son and brother. We will light a special candle at Easter mass in hopes that Ethan's glow will never faulter.
Mark, Ami, Jace and Anthony Galvan
March 17, 2008
Tracy, Marcy and Asia, our hearts go out to you and know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers
jessica pace
March 17, 2008
I will always think of my friend Ethan, i have known him most likely my whole life and i know i will miss him very much. So the Grimm's family i am always there for you, and i will see you at the wake and funeral. God bless!
Charlotte Herrman, AEA
March 17, 2008
Ethan was a special young man. Memories of his courage remain with me. He was an inspiration to many. It was a pleasure to know him and his parents through the school. You are in my prayers. May God grant you peace.
Mindi Richardson
March 17, 2008
I feel blessed to have known Ethan. Those crazy summers we shared together! My prayers are with you always. Ethan will be missed.
Chris Nedved
March 17, 2008
Tracy, Marcy, and Asia,
Words cannot express the sadness that we feel for you. Ethan's life will serve as such an inspiration for others who fight such difficult battles, especially for the children. You made many wonderful memories for your family to always share....keep those close at heart. We will be thinking of you. God bless you.
David, Chris and Joshua Nedved
Keith and Darcy Holmes
March 17, 2008
Tracy, Marcy and Asia,
Keith, the girls and I's heart goes out to your family, our heart breaks at your loss. Ethan has won his battle of cancer and is at peace. We will sure miss him, he always went out of his way for a friendly wave as we passed by your house, he was a very strong young man. Words can not express the sorrow we have for you and your family, but am sure Ethan has prepared you all and will always be your guardian angel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dennis, Sabrina, and Stephanie Lenihan
March 17, 2008
Tracy, Marcy, and Asia:
No words can hope to ease your pain of Ethan's passing. Lean on each other and God. Our church offered special prayer for Ethan and all of you by my request. My last visit to CB, I saw Ethan in his baseball uniform. I will always remember him that way. God Bless
Brea Nelson -FDR
March 17, 2008
Grimm Family --- may the comfort of friends and family get you thought the days to come. Please know I am thinking of you and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
COLLEGE FOOTBALL SATURDAY WITH
Chris Howard
March 17, 2008
Ethan Grimm was an inspiration to me and to many who knew him. I know nobody who was as tough as Ethan. My heart is heavy, as I have lost a good little buddy. Please accept my condolences and know that I will always think of Ethan...I miss my litttle buddy!
Carmen and Bonnie Gioiello
March 17, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time, let your wonderful memories of Ethan substain you.
Laura Leininger
March 17, 2008
Marcy,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss this morning. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Laura Leininger
Veronica Herrera
March 17, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you! God Bless you always!
Chris & Michelle Rochleau
March 17, 2008
Praying for friends to comfort you,
faith to uphold you,
and loving memories
to help you smile again.
With Sincerest Sympathy,
The Rochleau Family
Annette Pace
March 17, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Grimm family, we will keep Ethan in ours minds.
Ron and Vickie Hebing
March 17, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your families. Although, we did not personally know Ethan, I listened to countless stories and loving thoughts that his Grandma Grimm passed on about his courageous battle and his unending spirit.
Beckie Brabec
March 17, 2008
Thank you for the honor of knowing such an extrodinary young man. His smile will always be with me. May God Bless all of you and hold his memory in great honor...as I will.
Beckie
Julie Holm-Ridnour
March 17, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
The Alvarez Family
March 17, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jan Andresen
March 17, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Bob, Kris, Brett & Amanda Elsasser
March 17, 2008
Tracy & Marcia -
Tim just called to let us know & we are so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I guess God must have a special plan for Ethan as he is a special little boy. God Bless you All,
Coleen Fleming
March 17, 2008
Tracy, Marcy and Asia
Thomas, Cole and I were all very saddened by the news of Ethan but we all know that he's home with his heavenly Father, enjoying the beauty and serenity. There are no words that we can say to express our sympathies, but we do want you to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Cole was especially saddened by the news. He told me 'Mom, bowling is just not going to be the same without Ethan there'. I know that we (Thomas and I) don't know you (Tracy and Marcy) very well, but our hearts go out to you.
Sincerely,
Thomas, Coleen, & Cole Fleming
22 Spencer Ave
Council Bluffs, IA 51503
Ray Bullock
March 17, 2008
Never have I seen a young person touch so many as Ethan did in his short life. I and many have been blessed to have known him. His impact on me and my family will live on forever. He truely was a great example of how we all should live our lives. Giving and caring not about ourselves but about others!
May God Bless his family and all who knew and loved him as we did.
Dana, Mark, and Michael Applegate
March 17, 2008
Ethan has left a part of himself in everyone who knew him. Even though he had challenges with his health, he had a strong determination to be a normal kid. He rarely complained. That should give us courage to live our own lives to the fullest. Ethan, You are our hero!!!
Rollin & Mary Lou Rogness
March 17, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers have been and are with your family as you mourn the loss of Ethan's young and vibrant life. May God's tender love fill the emptiness in your hearts at Ethan's passing. God's Best!
Desirae Vallier
March 17, 2008
I feel very blessed to have known Ethan. He touched my life with his courage and passion for life. My prayers and love are with his family. May you know the depth of God's love during this difficult time. With all my heart, Miss Desirae
Deedee (Milone) Miller
March 17, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
Kristina White
March 17, 2008
Marcy,
My deepest sympathy to your family. Rest assured he is in a far better place and has done more in 14 years to leave a legacy then others do in a life time.
God Bless
Mike, Debbie, and Chris Edris
March 16, 2008
We heard of Ethan's passing while traveling today. He touched our lives and many others in a very positive way. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ethan's family and all who loved and cared for him.
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