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Matthew Colin Auslander

1974 - 2024

Matthew Colin Auslander obituary, 1974-2024, Amarillo, NE

Matthew Auslander Obituary

Matthew Colin Auslander

February 25, 1974 - November 19, 2024

Matthew Colin Auslander died Nov. 19 in Amarillo, Texas after a lengthy battle with mental illness. He was 50.

Born Feb. 25, 1974 in Tucson, Arizona, Matt moved to Omaha, Nebraska with his mother and brother in January 1982. He attended Druid Hill Elementary, Lewis and Clark Junior High School and graduated from Central High School in 1992. Matt later attended Northern Arizona University in Flagstaff and the University of Arizona in Tucson.

Matthew was a gifted athlete, playing soccer as a youngster in Tucson and, later, baseball in Omaha little leagues and for Central High School. He also played a mean guitar, wrote funny, witty, oddball short stories and was wicked smart with a mischievous sense of humor and a bright future in front of him.

During his senior year in college, Matt began to hear voices and was later diagnosed with schizophrenia. So began a long and tortured downward spiral that tore him away from all of his friends and most of his family, and led him to drift from Tucson to Colorado Springs to Oklahoma City to El Paso and, finally, to Amarillo.

Matt's resistance to treatment coupled with the cruel, diabolical miseries schizophrenia inflicts upon its victims proved to be a lethal combination that he could not successfully fight. We hope Matt has finally found the peace he deserves.

Matt's life would have been exponentially more difficult if not for the efforts of his mother, Martha. She made sure he never slept on the streets or went hungry, and that he always had warm clothes and a phone. Her efforts were nothing short of heroic.

Matthew is survived by his mother, Martha Clifford Auslander, older brother, Jason Auslander, stepbrother Gene Armstrong, stepsisters M.E. Armstrong and Anne Pagel, as well as his father, aunts and cousins.

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Published by Omaha World-Herald on Jan. 26, 2025.

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Christopher Dryden

February 3, 2025

It was hard for me not to cry reading this. know Matt from high school and I´m very sorry to hear about his passing. Matt was always kind to me and even went out of his way to give a ride home after baseball tryouts at Central. I remember we laughed the whole car ride due to me failing miserably at the tryouts. I wish I would have gotten to see before he passed. Rest in Peace brother.

Cari Tokheim

January 31, 2025

Matthew's memorial caught my eye. While I don't know you or him, your family's struggle brought tears to my eyes. May you all find comfort in the memories of your beloved son and brother and may Matthew finally find the peace he so deserved. Thank you for sharing.

Virginia Clifford Anders

January 29, 2025

Matthew was a loving nephew for whom the external world was too complicated for him to navigate successfully. I am proud to know he was my nephew. I will miss his smile and his presence in my life.

shari

January 29, 2025

i am so sorry for the loss of your son. keeping you in prayer

Alison

January 28, 2025

Ms. Clifford, you are my shero! Today, I learned that while you might not know what to do when a loved one is hurting from mental illness, just hold on tight with all the love you can give. While that might not be enough everyday, someone will know you are doing all you can. So sorry for the loss of your precious child.

Jessica Pierson

January 28, 2025

Martha and family, I was so very sorry to hear about your son Matthew. I also have a son struggling with this terrible disease and I understand all to well what a difficult thing that can be for the family. I pray that Matthew is now resting in peace and you can be at peace as well.

Judi Maikoff

January 27, 2025

It had to have been quite the struggle for Matthew during those 25 years of his illness. And for his Mom Martha also, and for Jason. Rest in Peace now Matthew and peace to his family too.

Jolene

January 26, 2025

It is great for Matthew to finally be at peace with himself. Martha, what a great Mom and you can exhale. I did not know Matthew but I know about.the struggle.

Barbara Skalla

January 26, 2025

Although I did not personally know Matthew, I offer you my deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers. I, too, have lost a son and now my grandson (also named Matthew) is dealing with an illness similar to that which plagued your son. He, too, excelled at soccer and academics and had a promising life before him when "the voices" also began talking to him. After his diagnosis he has been hospitalized several times is really struggling. I also sympathize with you as a mother as I see the difficulties my daughter-in-law encounters alone on a daily basis. I think I can understand your grief and hope you will find solace in knowing you did everything you could to make Matthew whole again.

Carol Woodley

January 26, 2025

My memories of Mathew are those of an elementary school student who was my son´s best friend. He was smart, talented in so many ways and a great person; truly a shining star that spread joy to those lucky enough to know him. May he rest in peace and peace to all of his family and friends.

Maggie Boyle

January 26, 2025

I met Matt in 8th grade at Lewis & Clark. I was fortunate enough to become friends with him and thoroughly enjoyed his quick wit. Matt was extremely bright without making others feel less than him. He was the first person to expose me to David Letterman and so much music. He is the guy I think of when certain 90´s alternative rock songs are played.
We drifted apart after college and I wondered about him. He was a true friend and I will never forget him.

From the time I met him, his mom was very involved and I am not surprised by her unconditional love and support. His brother Jason was equally intelligent, talented and kind - and Matt adored him.

My heart goes out to Matt´s family and friends who are grieving.

Jane Eichler

January 26, 2025

I got to know Matt in our college years. While I did not know him well, he was a huge part of our social circle at the time. He was funny, caring and intelligent. Unfortunately this was also at the beginning of his issues with mental health. I appreciate the absolute honesty of Matt´s obituary and the impact mental health has on family and friends, but most importantly someone like Matt. My thoughts are with Matt, his family and his close friends as they grieve his loss.

Angela Naujoks

January 26, 2025

I did not know this young man, but your obituary is absolutely beautifully written, and I think it will help many people. I am a clinician and have had a number of patients and family members who have faced this struggle with mental health. God bless you all and prayers to all.

J. Scherle

January 26, 2025

God bless this precious mother and family. I don't know you at all but your obituary is a masterpiece of openness and compassion for your son. These things can not be explained and why you had to endure this is a mystery. You did what you had to do ...good job. Rest. Prayers for you...bless you all.

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