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Jenny Oliver Obituary

Jenny Penney Oliver, age 58, of Athens, died on Wednesday, June 12, 2013, after a one-year battle with lung cancer.

She is survived by her husband of 33 years, J. Steve Oliver, and her sister, Melinda Hamrick, of West Jefferson, N.C.

Jenny was born on May 15, 1955, in Wilmington, N.C., and came home from the hospital to the place that would be her hometown: Wallace, N.C. She was the daughter of the late Charles Brantley Penney and Dovie Logan Penney.

She graduated from the Wallace-Rose Hill High School in 1973 and matriculated to North Carolina State University in the following fall. At NCSU, Jenny majored in psychology, and in her senior year, she was honored with the Psychology in the Community award given to one graduating senior of that program to recognize outstanding effort. This was just the first of many awards that would recognize her incredible sense of responsibility for the community in which she lived.

After graduating from NCSU in 1977, Jenny was employed as a psychologist assistant at Broughton Hospital, a psychiatric hospital in Morganton, N.C.

On June 23, 1979, she married Steve Oliver and began a life that included more education and travel. In the early 1980s, she and Steve moved back to the Raleigh area, where Jenny ultimately received a Master's of Adult & Community College Education degree at NCSU, while also serving as the residence hall manager for the International Living & Learning Community of Alexander Hall on the NCSU campus.

After a move to Athens in 1983, Jenny was employed by the UGA Vice President of Student Affairs to work in the Office of Judicial Programs. Many of the students with whom she worked in that program remained friends until her death and have cited her as a powerful inspiration for their own sense of community involvement.

In 1986, Jenny and Steve moved to Manhattan, Kan., and new employment at Kansas State University. In her work at KSU, Jenny began to put her intense focus on issues of multicultural education and diversity. Working there as part of a Ford Foundation-funded project to examine the nature of multicultural education found in schools of the western U.S., she traveled extensively and developed partnerships with school districts in such diverse places as Yakima, Wash., and the Navajo and Hopi Indian reservations of Arizona. This work, along with her life-long interest in issues of equity and diversity, stimulated the dissertation that ultimately resulted in her receiving a Ph.D. in the area of Counselor Education & Educational Psychology from Kansas State University in 1991.

In 1990, Jenny and Steve returned to Athens, where Jenny served as the assistant to the Dean of the UGA College of Education through much of the 1990s. Ultimately, she held a faculty position in the UGA COE in Counselor Education in the Department of Counseling & Human Development Services until her death. At the UGA COE, Jenny served as a primary motivator of efforts to recognize and support efforts of diversity, inclusion, and social justice.

Throughout her career, Jenny was the recipient of many awards and recognitions for her outstanding contributions. Especially noteworthy awards and recognitions included the Outstanding Alumni Award for the NCSU College of Education in 2004; the 1st Annual University of Georgia Diversity Award in 2004; and the UGA President's Fulfilling the Dream Award in connection with the annual MLK Celebration in 2009. Most recently, the COE Diversity Award was renamed the Jenny Penney Oliver Diversity Award, and Jenny was its first recipient in 2013.

Jenny's commitment and service extended outside of UGA to the Athens community and beyond. She served on many boards for organizations including the National Association for Multicultural Education; the Foundation for Excellence in Education; the Young Leadership Development Project; and the Clarke County Department of Social Services. Jenny was also an ardent member of the Democratic Party, and played many roles within the Clarke County Democratic Party, include Chairperson.

Jenny's love of working within and across diverse communities is also reflected in the travel she and Steve enjoyed throughout her lifetime. Their travels took them to places as far away as Rome, Beijing, and Bangkok, but her favorite trips may have been to a little cottage on the banks of Lake Hartwell.

Jenny led a full life with a strong sense of dedication to the many communities of which she was a part. For many, when the words justice, equality, equity, generosity, compassion, love, and commitment are spoken, three letters come to mind: J P O. Jenny will be greatly missed.

In lieu of a funeral, a memorial service will be held at 3:30 p.m. on Saturday, July 20, at the UGA Chapel.

Persons wishing to make donations in Jenny's honor are encouraged to consider the Cancer Foundation of Northeast Georgia; the Foundation for Excellence in Education; the Adopt a Golden of Atlanta organization; and Caringbridge.

Further information will be forthcoming in the next weeks about a specific designation for donations at a local foundation, which will have a specific purpose and carry Jenny's name.

The family wishes that donations be sent in place of flowers.

Lord & Stephens Funeral Home, Athens, is in charge of the arrangements.

www.lordandstephens.com

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Published by Athens Banner-Herald on Jun. 14, 2013.

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September 26, 2013

So sorry to hear of Jenny's passing. I grew up with Her in Wallace. So many wonderful memories of our childhood together. Never a dull moment with Jenny around. My sincere condoleces to Her Husband, Steve & Sister Melinda.

~Anne Bostic, Southport, N.C.

Ethylen Powell

July 12, 2013

Jenny was a great cheerleader in school at WRH and a very nice and fun person

Elaine Rivenbark Apple

June 25, 2013

I cannot believe that this strong, vibrant, caring classmate and friend is gone. We loved her from first grade on. So glad she lived such a full life.

Merry Carol Ward

June 22, 2013

I've admired Jenny since we were the first Junior High Class-- she in 9th grade and I in 8th, at the former Charity Senior High School. We attended WRH and NC State at the same time. I have never known a high school chief cheerleader with more leadership and enthusiasm than Jenny. Dovie was a terrific Mother. What a prize she parented!

Barbara Blanchard

June 18, 2013

My heart is saddened

Nina Mobley

June 18, 2013

I will surely miss seeing Ms. Oliver she made everyone around her feel special, when really she was the special one. I feel so honored to have known her. Rest in peace my friend, I will NEVER forget you!!

Don Locke

June 17, 2013

Steve,
I am deeply saddened at the news of Jenny's death. Jennie was in racial awareness training that Becky Leonard and I conducted when she was with NCSU housing. She never forgot what we taught her, and she commented on the training every time I saw her. She was a devoted professional who made the world a better place. Please accept my most sincere condolences.

Greg Jensen

June 17, 2013

I was deeply saddened to hear of Jenny Penny's passing - Jenny was inspirational to many including myself. I enjoyed working with her at the College of Education, and am very glad that she was my friend during that same period of time. Jenny was always capable of helping others, regardless of the amount of time - moreover, her educational research projects indeed, touched the lives of so many in Athens. You are missed JPO.

Rachel Allen

June 16, 2013

The first though that comes to mind when thinking about Jenny is that she was rarely short on words, including generous expressions of compassion, support and love. She was a true joy to be around and such a wonderful asset to our community. As my mother said, "I just can't imagine a world without her in it." It' s a little less bright because she's gone.

Anna and Trey Scott

June 16, 2013

We are so glad to have known Dr. JPO-she made everything and everyone around her better.

Akinloye Ojo

June 16, 2013

I pray that God will give her family the fortitude to bear the loss. She will be greatly missed.

Tonya Carter Cox

June 15, 2013

Dr. Oliver's bubbly personality and sweet spirit will be missed. I can still hear her saying (as she walked into the office), "Good morning, good people!" Rest on, Dr. Oliver...

Kelly Girtz

June 15, 2013

Jenny was a warm and wonderful woman that I always looked forward to seeing. Her laugh and smile made every day brighter. My thoughts are with her family.

Dr. Tim Riley

June 15, 2013

I will always remember how welcoming Jenny was when I ran for State Senate. She was kind and upbeat and very supportive during all three of my races!!! She made me feel welcome at the ACC party meetings. She will be missed.

Billy Ray

June 15, 2013

Simply one of the finest persons I have ever known. I loved her like an older sister. I grieve for Steve, as I understand what he and all of us have lost with Jenny's death. She was one of a kind.
Billy Ray

Barbara Sims Bradford

June 15, 2013

I am grieved and heart-broken to hear of Jenny's passing. Oh, my God. What a wonderful, cheerful leader in our community! My prayers are with the family and all the thousands of friends who will miss her. Jenny, you will live on in my heart.
Democrats everywhere will feel your absence.

June 15, 2013

Jenny was such a positive force for good that she will live on in all of the lives she touched and the contributions she made. She will be missed but long remembered.

Lureen Tomlinson

June 15, 2013

My sincere condolences to Jenny's family: may her dear soul Rest In Peace

Terrell Austin

June 15, 2013

JPO was so incredibly encouraging and helpful and when I was organizing a UGA outreach to public schools ten years ago. She helped me figure out what to do over a few lunches and we also had a great time. Deepest condolences to her husband and family. What an amazingly giving and thoughtful person she was.

Elizabeth Platt

June 14, 2013

Dr. Steve Oliver, I was devastated when I saw this death announcement. I had no idea Jenny was ill. I am so very sorry for your loss. Words can't express my sorrow, and she will be missed by all she has touched. I am glad I had the pleasure of knowing such a wonderful woman, May God bless you and keep through this difficult time.

Carmen Shuler

June 14, 2013

Jenny Penny Oliver was a pleasure to work with on UGA multicultural events. She was an inspirational person and so kind to me and others. So lovely - sweet smile and joy filled laugh. Thank you God for having given us Jenny Penny Oliver.

Jason Parker

June 14, 2013

Best wishes to her surviving family. I did not have the pleasure of meeting her, but she is a hero in my book.

Cary Sell

June 14, 2013

I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Jenny when I was a graduate student of Steve. She was always fun to be around and she loved interacting with Steve's grad students. Thoughts and prayers are with you Steve.

Roxanne Jackson

June 14, 2013

I knew you way back when, Jenny. Loved you then, love you now.

Charles Apostolik

June 14, 2013

I was only casually acquainted with Jenny on a personal level but well aware of her extreme dedication and many good works on behalf of the community. Her contributions will be remembered and appreciated, and she will be missed. Condolences to her family and good friends.

Brent & Cathy Allison

June 14, 2013

I always liked seeing Jenny when I was in the College of Ed and whenever I caught her around town. We're going to miss her terribly; our deepest condolences.

June 14, 2013

With Deepest Sympathy to you, at this most difficult time--from a participant in the Democratic Party in Athens-Clarke County, Judy B. Glatzer, Bethlehem

Anastasia Cantonis

June 14, 2013

Mr. Oliver, I am so very sorry for your loss! I was a member of this year's graduating masters cohort. JPO was so much more than a professor for us! Her determination and strength this past year were such an inspiration to each of us and she did it all while keeping her wonderful sense of humor! We will cherish the butterfly pendents she gifted us at graduation. They will serve as a reminder for each of us to fight for what we believe in as JPO always did. I am so thankful to have known her and learned from her! She will be truly missed.

Irene Budoff

June 14, 2013

Jenny was a guiding force on the Clarke County Democratic Committee, and will be missed. My condolences go out to her family and friends.

Jane Head

June 14, 2013

Steve, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kenneth & Jane Head, Kenneth & Debra Oliver, Ina Mae Oliver

Tina Favors

June 14, 2013

I had the pleasure to work with Jenny a few years ago at Chase St Elementary. Her love of life and education was amazing!

David L. Gast

June 14, 2013

Jenny was a wonderful colleague who contributed endlessly to the mission of the of the College of Education and University of Georgia. I'll miss her and her wonderful sense of humor and warmth.

Carolyn Howell

June 14, 2013

Steve, I was so sorry to read of Jenny Penny's passing. She stands out in the memories of my years in the College of Education.

Joe Crim

June 14, 2013

Jenny Penny, a warm, caring, and inspiring friend, will be so greatly missed.

Lord & Stephens Funeral Homes East Chapel

June 14, 2013

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