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Nickolas Peter Chilivis

1931 - 2016

Nickolas Peter Chilivis obituary, 1931-2016, Atlanta, GA

BORN

1931

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

H.M. Patterson & Son-Oglethorpe Hill Chapel

4550 Peachtree Road Ne

Atlanta, Georgia

Nickolas Chilivis Obituary

Nickolas ("Nick") Peter Chilivis went to be with his Lord and Savior on the 4th of October, 2016. He died peacefully at home in his loving wife's arms, surrounded by family. He was born in Athens, Georgia, to Wessie and Pete Chilivis on January 12, 1931, and he lived there until January 1, 1975, when Governor George Busbee called him to Atlanta to serve as Revenue Commissioner of Georgia. He is survived by his dear wife of 49 years, Patricia ("Patti") Tumlin Chilivis, by two daughters, Taryn Bowman and her husband Pete of Atlanta, GA, and Nicole Chilivis and her husband Jamie Fleming of Seattle, WA, and by one son, Nickolas Chilivis and his wife Katie of Atlanta, as well as six grandchildren that he adored, Annabelle, Noelle, and Daley Nicole Bowman, Spencer and Benjamin Fleming, and Nickolas Peter Chilivis II. He is also survived by one sister, Mary Dunbar, as well as several nieces and nephews. His sisters, Kee Chilivis, Angela Cash and Helen Chilivis, predeceased him.

Nick graduated from Athens High School where he was President of all his classes and was one of four class valedictorians. He then attended The University of Georgia, where he was Cadet Colonel of the AFROTC, President of Gridiron Secret Society and President of the Inter-Fraternity Counsel, as well as an Officer of all of his undergraduate classes. In addition, he was requested to join the swimming, wrestling and football teams, but he declined because he was working more than 30 hours a week to pay for his education and other expenses. He then attended The University of Georgia School of Law, where he was President of Phi Delta Phi Legal Fraternity and graduated in the top three of his class. He began the practice of law in 1952 in Athens, where at various times he served as President of the Athens Bar Association, Judge Pro Tempore of the Athens Recorders Court and County Administrator and was a shareholder in the Athens Country Club, on the board of The Athens YMCA, a trustee of the University of Georgia Foundation, Athens Academy and Hope Haven School. He was a Fellow of the American College of Trial Lawyers, the American Academy of Appellate Lawyers and the International Society of Barristers.

After moving to Atlanta, he served as Vice Chairman of the Georgia State Depository Board, and Chairman of the Constitutional Revision Sub Committee on Governor and Lieutenant Governor articles. He was a past member of the Georgia Board of Public Safety, the Board of Visitors of The University of Georgia Law School, the Board of the University of Georgia Research Foundation, the Metropolitan Rapid Transit Authority (MARTA), and the Atlanta Ballet. He was listed in The Best Lawyers in America in three different categories, reputably the only lawyer in Georgia listed in three categories. He served as Chairman of the United States District Court Disciplinary Committee for the Northern District of Georgia and served on its Rules Committee. In 1996, he was one of three persons to be awarded the Tradition of Excellence Award by the State Bar of Georgia at its annual convention.

In 1980, Nick was honored with the award of the Archdiocese Medal of Honor by Archbishop Iakovos on the stage of the Alliance Theatre in Atlanta.

Nick gave many professional lectures to Judges, lawyers and professional associations, and he wrote a number of professional papers. For several years, he was a member of the Capitol City Club, the Commerce Club and Leadership Georgia.

In the Fall of 1964, a group of Law School Seniors asked Nick if he would teach a jury trial practice course for seniors at night at The University of Georgia Law School. He did so, and when his first course resulted in a national award, the Law School Dean asked him to continue to do so as an Adjunct Professor. He did this for 10 years until moving to Atlanta in January 1975. Many of his students became judges, one became a congressman, and one became the Governor of Georgia. Others became outstanding trial lawyers. His class was held in a courtroom and was open to the public. At the first mock trial, he met, fell in love with, and ultimately married his wife, Patti.

Nick was also an avid football fan of the Georgia Bulldogs and was the lawyer for The University of Georgia Athletic Association for more than 40 years.

Nick served on active duty with the United States Air Force from 1953 through 1955, during which he earned an LLM degree from Atlanta Law School and also wrote a complicated book on how to settle disputes with government contractors. This book was adopted by Warner Robins Air Material area and developed into a rather substantial manual. Nick was called back on active duty several times to revise and update the manual.

After serving three years as Revenue Commissioner for the State of Georgia, Nick began the practice of law in Atlanta and did so until he semi-retired in 2002, after 50 years of being a lawyer. He is reported to have represented more governors, judges, and lawyers than any other lawyer, as well as cabinet level members of the United States of America Presidency and several movie, stage and television actors and columnists. During this period he had trials in more than seven states, including hundreds of jury trials in Georgia. His cases have been included in several books and in one television show.

Nick was a long time member of Emanuel Episcopal Church in Athens where he served as President of the Men of Emanuel and also served as treasurer for five years before moving to Atlanta. In Atlanta, he was a member of The Church of the Apostles where he served as Senior Warden (President and Lay Leader) for four different terms, more than any other member. He also served as a trustee on the Foundation of the Holy Apostles for many years until his death, and he and his wife conducted a Bible Study at their residence for more than 15 years.

Throughout his career, Nick was immensely generous in giving his time and money to numerous charities and civic organizations, and, at various times, he served on the board of many of them, including but not limited to, The Easter Seals Society, Eagle Ranch and The Skandalakis Foundation. He also helped many individuals in many ways.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Leading The Way, P.O. Box 20100, Atlanta, GA 30325 or the Haggai Institute, P.O. Box 13, Atlanta, GA 30301-9989 or to Eagle Ranch, P.O. Box 7200, Chestnut Mountain, GA 30502 or The Church of the Apostles, 3585 Northside Parkway, Atlanta, GA 30317.

A funeral service will be held on October 10, 2016 at 11o'clock at The Church of the Apostles with a reception immediately following the service. Interment will be at 4 pm at Evergreen Memorial Park in Athens. Arrangements made by H.M. Patterson and Son Oglethorpe Hill, Brookhaven, GA. Online condolences may be made at hmpattersonoglethorpe.com.

1931 - 2016

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Published by Athens Banner-Herald on Oct. 6, 2016.

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Nickolas Chilivis

August 23, 2017

He was my Grandpa and I really miss him he was very important and i miss him.
-Nickolas Peter Chilivis the 2nd

October 16, 2016

Patti and Nick Jr. My deepest symphathy in the loss of your husband and father.. I loved my occasional lunches with Nick and Patti and they always insisted on buying. Nick was a man's man and I enjoyed his stories and his wit so much it makes me tear up thinking about what a good guy he was. God Bless you and your faimily, I know Nick is looking over you from Heaven.
Jim Whelan

October 13, 2016

Nick was a great boss, mentor, and friend for many years, going back to 1974. He was a wonderful role model of integrity, excellence, and generosity for untold numbers of lawyers and public people. My condolences to Patti and the family.
David Poythress

Ed Poss

October 12, 2016

Nick was a great friend. We go way back (Athens High and before). Mary George and I send our love and prayers to the family.
Edwin C. and Mary George Poss (Clayton, GA)

Nancy Seagraves

October 12, 2016

I knew Nick and Patty through his sister, Helen. Helen was a mentor to me at the Athens YMCA, and through her I got to know Nick. Oh, the stories she could tell of their growing up years in Athens. While securing donations to the Athens YMCA fund, Nick was more that gracious, he was one one the most generous supporters the Athens Y has ever had. Why did he give so much year after year? It was because he loved the Athens YMCA from a young child, and he cherished the many wonderful learning experiences and friends he gained at the YMCA in Athens. His loving wife Patty and his sons, daughters, and their families have lost a giant of a man, but the memories will stay warm forever in their hearts.

Harriet McCurley

October 11, 2016

I was very sorry to hear of Nick's death. Pattie you and the rest of the family have my deepest sympathy. You will remember I worked with Nick at the law firm in Athens for a few years.

Denis Burger

October 10, 2016

My Father spoke of Nick with great admiration and praise. Deepest sympathy.

Hal and Jean Crawford

October 9, 2016

We were deeply saddened to learn of Nick's passing. Nick and I first met while students at Georgia where we regularly met for bridge during lunch at the student Co-op and I have found him to be a friend and confidante over the years. I could call Nick for advice both as a friend and my personal legal advisor. I never received a bill and when I would ask for a bill he would only say "you can't afford me", and I probably couldn't. He was the best lawyer to ever graduate from the UGA Law School and had the reputation to prove it. Nick, thank you for your friendship and kindnesses. Our prayers are with your family and loved ones during this time of sadness as we know Nick is wanting them to know he is now with the Lord in his heavenly eternal home.

Dianne Collier

October 9, 2016

Patti and family - I was deeply saddened to hear of Nick's passing. I'm so thankful for the leadership he provided at Apostles and I pray that the Lord will comfort you all and give you peace in His perfect timing.

Thomas Chinchilla

October 9, 2016

Deep sympathy for the lost of Nick,

Dee Epps

October 9, 2016

I was in Nick's high school class. We had some great reunions and he will be greatly missed by all of us. Because he was so handsome, many girls called him a Greek God. We all loved Nick. Our prayers are with Patti and the family.
Dee Epps

October 9, 2016

The review of Nick's life reveals an astounding man who obviously cared deeply for others and was willing to take enormous effort to help and promote them. What a wonderful role model he has been and will continue to be for all who knew him. We were privileged to have known him.
Timothy and Marilyn Fleming

October 8, 2016

Patti - I am feeling deeply for you in the loss of your precious Husband. You and your Family are in my prayers. Please come and enjoy one of our Friday DHS Luncheons sometime. We would all love to see and be with You.

With Love - Sibby Johnston Vosburgh

October 8, 2016

My condolences to friends and family.

October 7, 2016

I so enjoyed working with Nick Chilivis along with Betsy and Gary Grindler. Nick was always so kind and considerate as well as appreciative of Betsy and all the others he worked with.
I look forward to seeing him again in our heavenly home.

S W

October 7, 2016

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. Psalms 116:15.

October 7, 2016

Patti, I know you don't remember me - Vicky Freeman - I married Jack H. Graves 44 years ago and have often thought of you and wished you could have attended a few of our reunions. Your husband will be missed by all who knew him - not just by his family - but by everyone whose lives he touched in so many ways.

October 7, 2016

My heartfelt condolences to the Chilivis family. Nick was one of a kind and a great teacher and attorney. I was a student in his trial practice class while at Georgia Law my senior year (1970). I had become engaged to my current wife and was to be married in March 1970. Nick was wrapping up the last class mock trial and said to all present (including guests-one of whom was my fiancee) in his famous icy tone and look" In teaching this class over the years I have never had anyone who failed to pass this class until now. The class was stunned. He then said my name. I could not crawl under the seat quick enough before he added "especially since he is going into the Army JAGC and his lovely soon to be bride is with us today." His usual iced demeanor, then turned into that smile that he alone owned and our long term friendship began in earnest. He always had a moment to be of service to others and I greatly benefited from his friendship. Nick, you will be missed.
Bill Bushnell, Athens, GA

Ann Montgomery Pitts

October 7, 2016

Heartfelt sympathy from the entire Montgomery family! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time!

October 7, 2016

Our hearts go out to Patti and the Chilivis family. Nick was my mentor and trusted adviser, as he was for hundreds of other young men and women from Athens and beyond. Frank and Pam Christian

Dave & Jane Lester

October 7, 2016

Patti sending love & blessings to you and family. Nick will always have a special place in my heart. I am honored to have known him.

Caw

October 7, 2016

Offering our deepest condolences to the Chilivis family and friends in your hour of sorrow.

Maxine Hall

October 7, 2016

My condolences to you and your family due to the loss of your better half. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in the Lord Jesus.

Betsey Brock

October 6, 2016

My heart is heavy; the sadness won't ever go away. there aren't enough words to describe what Nick meant to me and his family. So I won't write a "brief" although I typed many a brief for him -- rest in peace, my friend, I know you have already entered God's kingdom -- one day I hope we will reunite in that special place. Patti and family my love is with you and I can't get to the funeral or I would be there on the front row. I will see you soon -- all my love, Betsey

Margie Tumlin Bennett

October 6, 2016

Patti, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Buddy Griffeth

October 6, 2016

Patti,
I am so very sorry to hear of Nick's passing. He never knew it but was one of my favorite people. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. While Nick was a little older, as a young man growing up in Athens and a "Y" member, he was always a leader to be looked up to. Needless to say, that leadership continued throughout his life. This is such a loss for all of you but also to his many friends and admirers. It is indeed, a very sad day.
Buddy Griffeth

Laura Spaller

October 6, 2016

Taryn: I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs

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