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for Fred Marlin
Gloria Bing-Thiel
March 1, 2011
To the Marlin Family,
I know it's been hard to face the 1st year without Fred....
I'm sooooo glad I got to meet him and his family and VERY glad he and his family took to my Son Jason and allowed him to marry Lisa...
I know that you are all still hurting, but the Love of all your family, friends and all the cherished memories you have, will carry you through the hard times. I pray for all of you that the tears grow less and less and the laughter grows more and more...
In Loving Memory of a GREAT Man!
Rest in Peace Fred...You are and always will be Loved..So greatful to have known you...God's Blessings,
Gloria Bing-Thiel & Bill Thiel
Joe Tolerico
February 27, 2011
It has been 11 years since I was accepted by you into your Family Fred, and I am so glad that you were there with open arms when I asked your daughter Tiffany's hand in marriage. You saw in me what others could not, you gave me direction, in my personal and business life. I respect you so much for all you have done not only for me, but everyone, including your family. You are by far one of the GREATEST men I was able to meet. You are missed so much, I miss watching you sing to Tiffany, I miss hearing you laugh when the family would reflect on the past, I miss hearing your stories of what most would consider horrible trips, but you seemed to make amusing. I am proud to call you my father in law, and I am so happy you accepted me into the Marlin Family. We all miss you Fred, and you will not be forgotten. With all my love...I look forward to the reuniting.
I love you and miss you.
Dominique Bing
February 27, 2011
What I see, What I want, What I have What I dream what, speaks through my eye’s, What speaks before me in my life, What I say always lives, What does live and what does not always is alive, What I can do, what I can say lives before you and I each and every day. I miss and love you very much.
Love Your Granddaughter Dominique Bing
Jason Bing
February 27, 2011
To my father-in-law. We had a lot of laughs together even though you might have thought I was a little crazy or different. The fact is I am crazy about being apart of the marlin family. I still remember to this day asking your permission to take your daughters hand in marriage. Phew I'm glad you said yes. I am very honored to have known you fred and to have been such a close part of your life. I miss you Fred & I know your up in the heavens making sure we are all taken care of down here. See you when I get there Fred. Love you
Lisa Bing
February 27, 2011
This is for you mom. You wanted me to put my eulogy speech in here for you. I love you so here goes…
This is definitely the hardest thing I have done. I am not one for giving speeches and today, of all days, is no exception but I will do my best. When I was without a mother and father my dad and mom became my saviors but more then that they chose to be my parents. My dad since that time and through all the years, he has never failed to be that guiding hand that shoulder to cry on, that light in the darkness…he was and always will be the center of my world. There is so much about my father one could write a book, several books. He was tough when needed but the tenderest man then you could ever imagine. He raised my brother and sister with the wealth of wonderful stories, laughs, kisses and the best bear hugs around…and that never ending smile that was so sweet. He taught me the value of family, determination and to love unconditionally. He gave me more than I could ever repay, not that he would ever ask. He made decision making look so simple. If you were down, he picked you up. If you were depressed he found a way to cheer you up. If you were confused, he helped show you the way. Most of all I will miss the way dad’s eye’s lit up when he would reminisce about old memories. My father and mother have certainly made it difficult for the rest of use to live up to what they have built together through the years. As much as this hurts, as much as I cry because I miss my dad, I do hold my head up high, smile and laugh for all the wonderful memories he has given me, all of us. He would want all of us to be happy and keep creating more memories. Daddy you are the best and can never be replaced. I love you and thank you always! Love your daughter Lisa Bing
Brian Burgess
February 27, 2011
I have many fond memories of Fred from back on the Upshur Road days and regret having lost touch with the Marlin family for so many years. Fair winds and following seas Sir!
Don and Pat Nyswonger
February 27, 2011
Tiffany, Sue and family: Don and I are saddened to hear of Fred's passing. We have many good memories of Subic/SRF. May God be a comfort to all.
Julei Tupper
February 27, 2011
Lisa and family,it has taken up to this time to be able to let u truly know that u had a wonderful dad and husband. He welcomed our family as his own. The best was his stories that he always had to tell. I am honored that I was able to take care of him on his final day with us. I will carry with me always.
Tiffany Tolerico
February 27, 2011
I can't believe it's been a year since you brightened the heavens with your arrival. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Sometimes it makes me smile, sometimes it makes me cry, sometimes both at the same time, but ALWAYS it reminds me of how much you loved me and how much I will always love you back! You are, by far, the greatest man I have ever known and I was so lucky to have you as my Dad! I will always try to live up to the expectations that you set for me and to be the kind of person that you can be proud of. I love you and miss you so much.
March 20, 2010
Aloha Uncle Fred,I will miss you very much but you will always be with me.I will never forget the Christmas when I opened the present and inside was a football.I remember I cried like a baby I was so happy. It was the Army-Navy 1963 special ball that was signed by each player.I had a special case made for it and looked at it everyday and thought of you and still do.You will be in my thoughts and now you have a front row seat to all the games.Love and aloha, bobby
David Davies
March 18, 2010
Fred relieved me at SRF Subic Bay, Our paths crossed from time to time after that and I was always amazed at his zest for life. It was a priviledge knowing Fred. He left us way to early. He was a really good guy and served our country and his family and friends well.
Nancy Marlin
March 11, 2010
Fred Marlin was the greatest man I've ever known! He has been a Father to me since I met this family & a Daddy to me since I joined this family! You are truely a man I will NEVER forget! I love you & will miss you until we meet again! Now you get to meet my side of the family... I know my parents Paula & Bill Watkins were happy to finally meet you! I am going to miss your smile & those hugs! I LOVE you Daddy!!
Don McPhail
March 7, 2010
It was a shock to hear of Fred's passing. To Sue and her loving family, I add my condolences on your loss. If I had a "best friend" at the Academy, it was Fred. We were teammates and roommates as enlisted men at NAPS, and for a short time at Annapolis, where we spent a great deal of time together until I left the Academy in 1963. He was one of the most sensitive, smartest and toughest guys I knew.
Though I let us both down by not staying in touch, I never forgot him -- each of us coming from families without much money, struggling through the loneliness of plebe year, working hard to make the football team. I remember visiting his family in New Jersey, and how proud they were; and watching Fred take on tasks without any consideration that they couldn't be done. Need a fullback? He would do it. Need a guard, a linebacker, a place-kicker? He would do it, and do it well.
I think it was at Cdr. Roland Riggs' house in Annapolis, just outside the Main Gate, that Fred and Sue met. It must have been plebe year, and he told me when we walked back, that he was going to marry her some day. Good on you, Fred, for being a great husband, parent and grandfather.
It was from Cdr. Riggs that I heard an excerpt from a letter Fred wrote from Viet Nam, telling of how tough it was over there, but how much good we were doing by rebuilding war-torn communities, and creating new schools. Good on you, Fred, for being a builder and a teacher, and helping kids learn what you learned.
Dianne Watkins
March 7, 2010
Lisa, and the whole Marlin family,
I didnt know Fred, but I do know that Lisa loved and admired her father very much.
All of you are the person you are today because of his input in your life. I know that all of you feel that void without his presence. Rest assured he has left his mark and all of you have your memories to carry on his legacy for yrs to come.
Let those memories help you heal and move on thru life. Dont let sadness prevail as he would not want that.
Smile and know he loved all of you very much and showed it daily as he interacted with u.
God bless all of you and will keep u in my prayers.
alexis escobar
March 7, 2010
Don't let your grief be measured by his worth for then your sorrow has no end - Shakespeare
pat mcgoldrick
March 6, 2010
I didn't know Fred, but I know his children and if they are any indication of what kind of person he was, then he was indeed a wonderful man. The stories they told were filled with love and admiration and kindness. I am saddened for your loss.
arne soderman
March 6, 2010
Sue, Tiffany, Joe, and Lisa, and Jason, and all the extended family members of Fred: I just wanted to add my thoughts and respects. I didn't "run" with Fred at USNA (few could!) but I knew him and came to respect him even more as I learned more about the man. Tiffany, I think you said it best; the world being duller and heaven brighter.
My thoughts are with you. In the modern vernacular, you all hang in there. Fred wouldn't have it any other way.
Arne Soderman, USNA Class of '65
Linda Michaels
March 6, 2010
My brother was an exceptional person; always laughing, hugging, telling stories, mentoring, and loving. He was an exceptional Husband, Father, and Grandfather. No one could Love his family more than he did his. He was a person you could look up to and admire. He treated everyone with the same love and respect no matter who they were or where they came from. He had a zest for life and lived his well.
He taught me to dance when I was 11, counseled me on marriage, opened his home to my family when we moved, tutored me through my college Math courses, and gave me lots of advice. I loved him dearly and he will be sorely missed.
I will cherish the memories forever.
Bob Orlosky
March 5, 2010
I have nothing but the deepest respect for Fred Marlin. He was family man without peer a great teammate and dear friend.
Bob Orlosky
USNA Team of '63 Teammate
Steve Shrawder
March 4, 2010
I have read the other entries in the guest book and was especially emotionally touched by those written by children and grandchildren. My tribute will pale in comparison, but I will tell you that he was very much loved and respected by his mates at the Naval Academy and most especially by his football teammates. My recollection of Fred on the field is concerning his field goal kicking, his leadership or his relentless play. This was brought back to me very vividly in the video highlights that were, I believe, forwarded to each team member in cojunction with the publishing of the book about our team titled The President's Team. Even though the footage is old and not the best quality you can clearly see Fred blocking on offense, tackling on defense and kicking some very crucial field goals. I hope that his children and grandchildren are afforded the opportunity to watch it. Fred Marlin was a giant of a man who I loved, respected and admired and we will all miss him.
Sally Lagoy
March 4, 2010
How grateful I am to have had Fred Marlin as a friend and colleague. He was an excellent role model for the students whose lives he touched and a loyal professional who supported others in the profession.
Ann Marie Beers-Tharp
March 4, 2010
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Lisa Willingham
March 3, 2010
R.I.P. Mr. Marlin. If it wasn't for this man I wounldn't have learned alot. He was sacraficial enough to take time out of his busy schedule to tutor me as a teenager, and his words of wisdom helped mold me into the person i am today. I have held him dear to my heart for years and always will.
Pete, Jen, & Alainna Amato
March 3, 2010
To us he was "Dominique & Payton's Grandpa." We saw him a few times a year at gatherings and through that little bit of contact with him we knew he was special....you are blessed to have had such an amazing man in your life and to have such wonderful memories of your time together. Our prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.
Janene Emick
March 3, 2010
R.I.P. Uncle Fred. The world just got a little duller, heaven brighter. He was an amazing man. He served our country, then taught our children and loved his family tremendously. He had the best stories, awesome laugh and hugs for everybody. He will be missed.
Dave Hilda & Ryan Havling
March 3, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Gloria & Bill Thiel
March 3, 2010
Our hearts are filled with your sorrow...Know that we are with you and all of your family members in spirit...
May your wonderful memories of Fred comfort you now along With Our Deepest Sympathy and Love....
Bill Thiel & Gloria Bing-Thiel
Alicia Biggers
March 3, 2010
Jason, my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless! Love, Alicia
Lisa Bing
March 3, 2010
My dad was a wonderful and generous man. He had the brightest smile, loved to laugh, tell stories and give the best bear hugs ever. I will truly miss him and will always love him. I know you are up their looking down and you will always keep us safe and sound. I so miss and love you, Dad!!!
William Louis Jr
March 3, 2010
My best memories of my Uncle Fred are all the weekends we played football in our backyard in Florida as a kid.His laugh and the way he could tell a story are going to be missed but not forgotten.I will not be able to watch a football game without thinking of him.
Randy Glover
March 3, 2010
Your legacy will carry on forever, through your family, friends, and accomplishments. It was an honor to know you.
Shelly (Feinen) James
March 3, 2010
I was truly saddened to hear of his passing. He was a surrogate father to me at a time in my life when I desperately needed one. He will always remain in my fondest memories. He will be dearly missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to know him.
Christy Tamiroff
March 3, 2010
My heart goes out to your family in this difficult time. My thoughts are with you Lisa.
Anita Lopes
March 3, 2010
Jason and family; My deepest condolences to you and your family.
A life well lived, a life well loved, a life surely missed.
Peggy-Sue (Hinson) Griffin
March 3, 2010
Uncle Fred, I will always remember you wonderful smile and how caring you were while with us here on earth. I know you are watching down over all of us which I hope is a comfort to your family. Although I have not seen you in years, you will truly be missed. Love you,
Kenneth Louis
March 3, 2010
My Uncle Fred was one of the Greastest Men to ever walk this earth and he will truly be missed. My prayers are with you Ant Sue and the rest of the family, Kenneth Louis Sr. USN SK2 SS
Lexine Oliveira
March 2, 2010
Fred, you will be sorely missed by those who knew you well and by those, like me, who knew you briefly. I consider it a priviledge to have known you at all. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family.
Alyssa Tolerico
March 2, 2010
Grandpa, I miss you so much and I am so sorry I wasn't able to see you. I love you so much and you will NEVER be forgotten. You were the most amazing person ever.. you always knew how to make me smile when I was in a bad mood or sad or whatever. I thank you so much for helping me with my math homework when I needed it, although I use to get so frustrated because I didn't understand it at all and you made it seem so easy. I love you so much Grandpa. You are missed alot and I will never forget you or the memories I have with you. R.I.P Grandpa! :( Grandma & the rest of the family, I am so sorry and my prayers are with all of you. I'll see you soon. I love you all. I'm sorry I couldn't make it sooner.
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!
Mark McGarry
March 2, 2010
My family's condolences go out to the Marlin family for their loss. I will always have fond memories of Fred including my last visit with him in April 2009. It has been a privilege to know the man and be accepted as a friend of the family.
Tiffany Tolerico
March 2, 2010
The world just got a little duller and heaven much brighter. My Dad was an amazing man. He served our country, then taught our children and loved his family tremendously. He had the best stories, awesome laugh and hugs for everybody. I miss you and will always love you, Dad!
Joe Tolerico
March 2, 2010
Losing Fred is a great loss to our family, He was one of the greatest men I have ever had the opportunity to meet, and unlike other people and thier inlaws, I LOVE MINE !!, He was always honest, no matter if you wanted to hear it or not, He always made people feel welcomed, no matter what type of background you came from, or walk of life you chose. He had a heart of gold and would help you if he could. Fred you will always be in our thoughts and in our hearts, you will be missed but NEVER FORGOTTEN
Nick Glover
March 2, 2010
Fred was a treasured classmate and friend. My condolences and prayers to his family.
Nick Glover, USNA '65
Ed Burrow
March 2, 2010
May you find strength though God during this period of your loss. My deepest sympathy and condolence at this time.
USNA Class of '65
Dawn Madrid
March 1, 2010
I wish I could be with our family during this time. My Uncle was an amazing man. My fondest memory of him was our ski trip to Lake Tahoe. He had a zest for life, loved to travel, and loved his family. He will be missed.
Marion Ruegsegger
March 1, 2010
We were lucky enough to know Fred through our daughter Annette. He was a very nice man and well respected and we are sorry to hear he has passed away. We remember him when he was in his healthier state and that is how we will remember him. He has been like family to our daughter and we are thankful to have had him in her life since she has been away. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. May he rest in peace.
Annette Koonce
March 1, 2010
Mr. Marlin was a rock of a man yet gentle as a teddy bear. I loved him for his kindness and strength. He and his family have invited me in as if I were family since I had no other family in Florida. Without that I would have left years ago. His hugs were theraputic and his handshake was painful but honest. I will miss him but remember him fondly. ...Annette M. Koonce
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