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Betsy Condy
May 14, 2013
I wanted to thank EVERYONE who sent in their prayers, thoughts and condolences. My love Chris will ALWAYS be remembered, and sorely missed.
The sweet Little Angel Boy
Jerald & Carole Griffin
April 19, 2013
Miss you so much Chrissy-Poo!!! You are ALWAYS with us in our hearts and in our souls!!! LOVE YOU MAN!See Ya When I am Lookin At Ya!, Love Jerald & Carole
Billy&Maureen Phillips
April 19, 2013
We Light this Candle for You my Friend.It has been one year now since you left all of us.We miss that smile of yours,we miss You.Until we MEET again LOVE YOU ALWAYS.
Betsy Condy
April 18, 2013
My message didn't go through with the candle I lit. I cannot believe tomorrow will be one year since Chris is gone. I miss you so much, I miss your laughter. But, I know you are smiling down on me from Heaven. I cherish the memories, as I cherish you. Thank you for blessing my life.
I will love you always,
Betsy
Carole Griffin
February 14, 2013
Here's to the everlasting light that Chris' spirit brings to all that have had the honor and pleasure of having him in their lives. I light this candle for my sister Betsy-- his everlasting light and love of his life!
Betsy Condy
February 13, 2013
These words touched me and I will try and heed them in the days and months to come without my love Chris by my side. My Forever Valentine.
Written by the poet, William Wordsworth:
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now forever taken from my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower,
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind.....
Love Always,
Betsy
You having fun, as always at your 50th Birthday party
Carole & Jerald Griffin
December 31, 2012
Happy Birthday Chrissy-Poo!!!! We will celebrate YOUR day and YOU and all of the JOY YOU brought EVERYONE who was blessed to have you in their life! Betsy is doing okay, she has your spirit to help her through the hard times. She and your SPECIAL friends will toast you and all of the joy and good times you brought them. Jerald & I will celebrate your life and spirit and rest assured Betsy will be taken care of and loved as you would and still do always. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU, OUR FREEBIRD!!! We will SEE YOU WHEN WE ARE LOOKING AT YA!!!
Dan Smith
December 28, 2012
Betsy,
Thanks for posting the phots of Chris. I was a friend of Chris' from way back -- all the way back to the days where we tried avoiding getting spanked with a ruler by the nuns in grade school. Chris was a great human-probably one of the most easy going guys I've ever known. He was certainly brave through those tough times, but he's still around in spirit. And he left me with plenty of Mr. Condy stories to remember and smile to. "Hey man, hope you're having your Happiest Birthday ever on December 31"
Betsy Condy
December 28, 2012
I'll be celebrating you on 12/31, what would have been your 52nd birthday my love. What am I saying? I celebrate you every day. Thanks for the visit on Christmas Eve. I needed that as you know! I heard Freebird twice this week. You are always with me as I am with you. Tonight I pick up our wedding video that was converted to a C.D. I get to hear your voice again, and the vows we took. Those vows do not end in death, not in my opinion. You are the love of my life, and always will be. All my love, Betsy
Betsy Condy
December 21, 2012
My Chris,
This Holiday season is difficult without you by my side. I tried to put up the tree, but it kept toppling over! Remember last year we had trouble keeping it up, but you fixed it. You always fixed everything. I miss you and I will cherish you always, I love you.
Betsy
Betsy Condy
November 5, 2012
Hi My Love, I just wanted to tell you over and over again how much I love you. I have been feeling your presence alot this past week. This is our favorite time of the year. I miss you so much, I know you know that. It's like I am waiting for you to walk through the door, and my world will be alright again. But just knowing you are with me always, brings me comfort. I love you Chris.
Always, Betsy
October 19, 2012
My Darling Chris, Today is 6 months since you are gone from this Earth. Not a second, nor a minute, an hour or a day goes by that I don't think of you. You are always with me, and that will never end. I love you now and forever. Love, Betsy
Paul Dabney
October 15, 2012
I am sorry for loss. I remember Chris from the time we spent at C-J (Class of '79).
Betsy Condy
September 26, 2012
What a beautiful tribute Brian. Thank you for such warm and soothing words. Words I will treasure always. I am honored to be a part of the Condy family. Thank you and Peggy and kids. I love you and miss you to!!
Love, Auntie Betsy
Brian Condy
September 24, 2012
Auntie Betsy,
As the days pass and time marches on
There is one constant that always stays strong
It is within ourselves that we find the strength
To carry on each and every day no matter what the length
Some days would have it they never seem to end
It is upon these days when we really need a friend
Someone just to listen someone just to care
Someone just to say it is okay no matter when or where
Sometimes we need to hear this sometimes we need to hear more
Sometimes we just want left alone and we want to close the door
It is during these times I ask you to remember the constant that I spoke of
And I want to remind you the constant you have is The Condy Family's Love
It cannot replace what has happened nor do we intend it to
But hopefully this will help you be strong in knowing we will always love you
Before I go there is one more thing from Peggy, the kids, and me
No matter what this life will deal to us you will always be our Auntie Betsy!!!
We love and miss you!!!
2/5/12 Super Bowl Sunday-Eva, Dale,Dale,Betsy & Chris
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Oct 2010 - Upstate NY @ Carole's - Chris the moosehead
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
2/5/12 Super Bowl Sunday - Chris on Billy's new bike
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
7/19/04 Chris & Betsy - Peanut Island
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
1990 - Chris with a rainbow in the background
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
12/31/09 chris & Maggie
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
July 2003 - Wedding Bells Chris & Betsy
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
May 2011-Vero Beach, Betsy & Chris
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Thanksgiving 2009-Chris, Betsy, Ginny, Tana & Ralph
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
June 2011, Chris, Jerald & Tom at Allie's wedding-NJ
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
June 2011, Roberta,Chris,Betsy & Nick-Allie's wedding, NJ
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
1/22/05 Chris the Captain
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
1/22/05 Chris near Singer Island
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Christmas 2006-Chris, Mr Burns & Maggie
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Chris Oct 2010
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Oct 2010 - Chris, Jerald, Betsy & Carole
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Thanksgiving 2001 - Chris & Betsy's dad
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Chris caught a big one
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Betsy & Chris Halloween 2004
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
March 1990 - Chris
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
12/2/01 Toys for Tots Bike Run-Betsy & Chris
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Oct 2010 Upstat NY Betsy & Chris
Evelyn Buckenmier
September 14, 2012
Marissa Carnovale
August 6, 2012
Aunt Betsy
I am so sorry for your loss!! Chris is an amazing man and now he is an angel looking down at his family!! Stay strong for him and the babies.. Just like Carole said you met youre match and was able to share 11+ years with the man of your dreams. I love you both very much!! XOXOXO
Angela Kuebler
August 1, 2012
Betsy, I've finally got up enough courage to do this, cause I;m still hurting from my dad passing due to cancer too. I am truly sorry for your loss of you best friend and lover. He is in god's hands watching over you. You were there for me when I lost my father and now I hope I can be there for you. Just take life one day at a time and it will get better. Your ACC family are here for you anytime or day.
Pattyjo Looby
July 30, 2012
Betsy,
I am truly sorry for your loss although I did not know Chris I do know the profound loss you must feel I will never forget you coming when my Dad died all those years ago you cared.
words cannot express how much that meant I will never forget it or you.
Alice Geiger
July 29, 2012
Betsy, I've finally got up enough courage to do this. As you know I am always here for you, if for no other reason then to listen when you feel like talking. I truely enjoyed knowing Chris, he was a pleasant man. My daughter also thought he was a nice man the one time she met him. I am so glad you met Chris married and had eleven wonderful years together. I know you both wanted more years, but I feel its better to have had what you did instead of not having them at all. You are always in my thoughts and heart.
That's a halo, not a reflection off our heads!
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Chris a man in love!
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Picture perfect kid
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Another one of the kids
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
The kids
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Boy, were Chris & Betsy young!
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Chris & Betsy
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
A smiling Chris
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
The love of family & friends
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Evelyn Buckenmier
July 29, 2012
Betsy..When we lose someone we love, it seems as if time stands still. Stars in the night sky are our loved ones shining down on us, always watching over us and those that they loved, including our four legged children.Remember not that Chris died, but also that he lived. He lives on in the hearts of those that knew him and love him. Life is eternal, love is immortal and death is only a horizon. Lean on your friends and know that you are cared about.My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mona Richardson
July 28, 2012
Betsy,
My heart goes out to you and your family.
I didn't know Chris, except for the one time we met, but that was enough for me to see how in love you both are with each other.
I know he was a wonderful man because he stole the heart of one of the kindest women I know.
Best wishes to you always!
Carole Griffin
July 26, 2012
Happy Anniversary Betsy & Chris! There are countless people that go thru their lives with someone and never experience the love, respect and the genuine "Soul Mate" experience that the two of you had for 11 years! You two were so lucky to find each other, although not long enough for this "earthly" world, but your love will last always and forever & will be a true testiment of what having the "love of your life" should be to all. I feel so lucky to have witnessed such a love and I can only hope to someday have that kind of love... I LOVE YOU BOTH SO VERY MUCH!
Betsy Condy
July 26, 2012
Happy 9th Wedding Anniversary my love Chris. I can't believe it was like yesterday we were married. I have all the cards you gave me, and you wrote last year at this time "Betsy thanks for helping me through the harder times during the last two years". I love you and always will. Chris". You will and always will be the love of my life, my soul, my heart. I will think of the good times, and smile, because I know you want that for me. You don't want me to be sad. The new wedding ring and engagement ring you gave me this past Valentine's day will stay on my finger, and I wear your wedding ring on my right ring finger. That's our bond. We will always be husband and wife. I was so lucky to have you in my life for 11 years. For that I will cherish forever, until we meet again. I love you Chris. Always, Betsy
Betsy Condy
July 19, 2012
Hi My love, it's 3 months today you are in Heaven. I miss you terribly every day, not a day goes by that I don't cry. The dogs miss you, I can tell. They mope around with me. Work is a help, I don't know what I'd do if I was home all the time. Not that I don't mind being home, it's just that I want your physical body there with me. I know you are always with me in spirit. Believe me, I didn't want you to suffer, as I know you did. You never complained, always smiled. You even gave me a smile the night before you passed on. That smile would melt the heart of the enemy. I will be writing again soon. All my love forever and ever my Darling. Love Betsy
Carole Griffin
May 26, 2012
Betsy, my BEST BUDDY... Your Chrissy is FREE now and he is FOREVER AN ANGEL by YOUR SIDE... I wish you PEACE, LOVE & UNDERSTANDING ALWAYS!! Love YOU & I am here for YOU ALWAYS!!! Love, Carole
This is what LOVE looks like!
Evelyn Buckenmier
May 25, 2012
Terri Bennett
May 1, 2012
Betsy..I recently read a book about a man who was in a horrific car accident and was pronounced dead at the scene. He spent "90 Minutes In Heaven" (the name of the book) and he describes his experience there before coming back to life on Earth. If his depiction of Heaven is real, then you/we have nothing to worry about for Chris. He is experiencing the most incredible, joyous, loving, beautiful, MAGNIFICENT thing EVER. I want to believe that it is true, for that is the only place Chris should be OTHER than in your arms. I never saw a woman love her man more than you did! He was a lucky guy in that sense. Chris was a kind, gentle man who did not deserve cancer. Know that he was loved by many and well respected. You are in my thoughts, my heart breaks for you.
Dorothy Darville
April 30, 2012
“You were a wonderful partner and did everything you possibly could to take the best care of Chris” He will be missed by his many friends and family. I'm here for you when ever you need me.
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