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April 23, 2016
Really nice guy. I recall in High School he had it all- looks, athletic ability, personality... But he humble even then. He had a genuineness about him very rare for younger people. Sad about the loss but he is with the Lord. Peace Brother...
-Geoffrey Merrifield
Eric Fleming
November 17, 2009
Lisa,
You don't know me but I was a classmate of Eric's through junior high and high school. I haven't seen him in over 20 years, but here I am in California at 1am on a Tuesday morning thinking about him. He was a great guy. I used to say that when you hung out with Eric, you felt like you were spending time with your uncle. I don't know if that speaks to my own immaturity at that age or to Eric's remarkable grace and maturity. Probably a little of both. He was an extraordinary kid and I can only imagine what a remarkable husband and father he must have been. I'm not quite sure why a guy like that has to depart this world so early. It really doesn't make sense. But I hope that it is some comfort that Eric is thought of so often and so fondly by so many... and that is the meaning of a rich and full life that never really ends.
Eric Fleming
September 26, 2009
Lisa,
Thank you for continuing to write in this book. My heart breaks as I read it, yet I am reminded to live life the way it was meant to be lived. Your love is an inspiration.
I think of you often,
Sharon Windsor
joanne hester
July 29, 2009
Eric Just want to let you know that i praay for your family all the time. i can not imagine what you wife and kids Have been going through. i live two blocks from your parents house and when i ride my son on my bike to my moms i go by the house and say a little pray. WE all miss you
Joanne
July 27, 2009
Eric- sometimes i just miss my best friend.
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric-It is hard for me to understand the timeing of your death. You were born to be a husband and a father. You were made to be in your 40s. I do not get it??? I feel like we miss out on you every day but i also think you are missing out on what could have been the best time of your life. I just dont get it? Can you ask the big guy about that one and get back to me?
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric- One of the hardest things for me is not being able to tell you about all the cute and funny things our girls say and do. They are so great. They are my joy!
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric- I remember one time about a year after we were married we were talking and laughing and i made a comment about how i loved the fact that you always made me laugh and you never made me cry. You got very serious and you reminded me of a time before we were married when you were short with me and i teared up. You immediately hugged me, appologized and i forgot all about it. You never forgot. You said you hated to see me cry and at that moment you promised yourself you would do your best to never make me cry again. I was so shocked you remembered that incident. I can think of very few times when you were alive that you made me cry but i got to say you blew it at the end and i am still crying!
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric- You made every day fun! I would be in the kitchen washing dishes and you would walk out in the cow costume. I loved every silly stunt!
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric-The lady at the post office gave me a card ofter the accident. She told me you always took time to talk to her when you went in to mail something. She said you knew her childrens and grandchildrens names. She said you always asked about them and you always talked about Jessica and i and how excited you were for Erica to get here. I admire you for always taking time for people. I am trying to follow in your foot steps.
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric-Thank you for all the cards you gave me. I remember one day when i was at work, you came and got my car, washed it, and left a card on the seat for me. That was so kind and thoughtful.
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric- I want to write down everything i can remember so that one day i can tell the girls about us.
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric-Remember our "time line"?
-the last hour of 2001 we met
-the first min of 2002 we had our first kiss
-2002 i moved to FL
-2003 we got married
-2004 Jessica was born
-2005 you moved to heaven
-2006 Erica was born
I think you took the "time line" a little too far.
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric-It has been 3 and a half years since i last saw you. For a long time i only remembered the bad times. As you know there were very few bad times and so for a long time i have felt like i couldnt remember you at all. I am sorry. I talked to a lady at hospice. She told me that when i felt safe i would remember and then the tears would come. It was one of those moments when you hear something and you know it is true. I guess i am statring to feel safe because i remember the good times and i can not turn off the tears! We had something very special you and me!
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric-Remember the day we were driving down US-1 and we saw a truck pulling a giant real of wire? You looked at me with a straight face and said, "look it's your old dinette set." I laughed so hard i was crying. Your timeing, presentation and delivery were 10s across the bored!
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric- One of the things i loved most about you was how well you understood me. I think you understood me better in the short time we spent together than anyone ever has. You never once asked we what was wrong or if i was upset. You would tell me that you knew i was upset and you always knew why.
Lisa
July 27, 2009
Eric- Remember the day you brought me lunch at Palm City Elementary? You lost track of time so you stoped at the gas station and got me a turkey sandwitch. You were so worried i was going to hate it. When i ate it and thanked you, you started to laugh and told me that you got my lunch at the Texico. After that we had another inside joke to add to our very large collection. Texico turkey!
July 27, 2009
Eric- Jessica is 5 and she talks about you a lot. She says her dad is an angel in heaven. She says the birth mark on her side is an angel kiss from you. She told me that you kissed her on your way up to heaven.
July 26, 2009
Dearest Eric- Your girls are beautiful! You would be so proud.
Erica is 3. She is happy all the time and so easy about life. Her teacher told me she lives in a rose garden. Everything is wonderful and beautiful. I said she gets that from her dad.
Jessica is 5 and she never stops talking. We all know she gets that from her Dad. She is what i imagine you were like at 5. She has never met a stranger and boy can she tell a story. The way she walkes reminds me of you.
We miss you every day but dont worrie we are very happy and full of life. We tell say we love eachother a lot and we give lots of kisses. The eye ball kiss has become the favorite.
We love and miss you
your girl
Lisa
Al Perez
November 3, 2008
Hello Lisa, I recently learned of your loss. I extend to you my deepest sympathies and prayers. You have my prayerful meditation along with your 3 daughters. The Lord bless you and keep you.
Terri Hogan (McGee)
June 5, 2007
Dear Lisa and family,
I sit here shocked and saddened to have just heard news of Eric's death. I attended Flagler College, cheered with Eric and saw Eric after College in South Florida many times during business trips to the area. One of the last times I remember seeing Eric we were with Jolie Whorl (another Flagler alumni) and a few others at Houston's having a great time and as always Eric was as quick witted and funny as ever. I've thought of Eric many times over the years and always wanted to get in touch with him to find out how life was treating him. It sounds like he continued living his life to the fullest and I can only imagine what an amazing father he was - he was one of those men that just beamed with genuine light and life. As I sit here writing this I pray that time has eased your pain and God continues to bless you with joy through your children. As a mother and wife, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With deepest sympathies,
Nancy Kramer Kaman
January 8, 2007
Dear Lisa,
I don't know if you'll even read this, since so much time has passed since Eric's death. But, I just learned about the accident and I had to express my sympathy to you.
I attended Flagler college with Eric and also cheered with him. He was such a nice person! And, I remember that he always was in good spirits. He also lifted the spirits of those around him.
Even though it's been a very long time since I last saw him, I can easily recall his great qualities.
You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Larry Wilson
August 21, 2006
This is a very hard thing to come across on the Web, so long after the event. My most heartfelt sympathies to Lisa and the children. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I'd barely been working for McDougal Littell for a month when I met Eric at a sales meeting in the Panhandle. My memories of him are of a great guy, a true gentleman, funny and fun-loving, engaging and smart, who welcomed me into the customs and culture of the company and never failed to be warm and welcoming at meetings or on the phone. What a loss for his family and and his wide circle of friends and colleagues.
Susan Hudgens-Moore
July 18, 2006
Dear Lisa and the Johansen extended family:
I was shocked and very sad today to learn that Eric, his father, and his father-in-law were on that Chalks plane. I am so sorry for your loss, and will pray for you, your girls, and your family.
I was a frightened teenager, new to Gardens in the first few days of my junior year when I met Eric. He was the first to identify as a new student, and took me under his wing. He became my friend, introduced me to his friends, and got me involved in Club. That led to my actually enjoying my last two years in high school in a new school and a new state. That is just one example of Eric's good works.
In reading other entries in this guestbook, I note that he touched many lives in his way. Words seem inadequate to describe his effect on me and every one whose life he touched. I was lucky to know him. He will truly be missed.
With love, Susan Hudgens-Moore
Lynne (Woodford) Ramirez
June 20, 2006
Dear Lisa,
My thoughts and prayers were with you, the girls, your family and the Johansen family on Father's Day.
I lost my father (1999) and my brother (2004) to Cancer and know the heartache and emptiness that the families feel, not just on special days but every day....especially since I recently had a baby girl that will never know her Grandfather or Uncle.
I never met you and I don't even know if Eric would have remembered me from Junior High as we went to different elementary and high schools and I was involved with my own church youth group rather than CLUB and Young Life.
I have wanted to write you on several occassions but never seemed to have the right words.... there isn't a day that goes by that the Lord doesn't bring you to mind and then I say a prayer for you, Jessica and Erica.
When the realization that life goes on and you must continue on this journey that has changed you forever, I pray you will find the comfort and strength you need from the Lord.
I know you must be an incredible woman for God to have chosen you as Eric's wife.
Monika Murphy (formerly Duda)
April 25, 2006
Lisa- Over the last 10 yrs I have searched for you on and off via the Internet. I was never successful. Just yesterday in the mailbox was my usual Pacific Magazine in which I have enjoyed reading updates about fellow students at FPU. When I spotted your name in bold font I was elated. Once I began to read the update, I was horrified. I cannot possible fathom the amount of loss you sustained. It leaves me completely speechless. I prayed for your family last night and will continue to rememeber you. Lisa, in the short time we spent together, you have to know the impact your friendship had on my life. I wanted to find you in the past to tell you exactly that. You were an incredible blessing during that time. You are very positive and nurturing and I can only imagine what a phenomenal mom you must be to your girls.
You are so dear to me. I hope you are doing OK.
Love Monika
[email protected]
Teresa Carrera-Hanley
February 5, 2006
My deepest sympathy on the loss of a wonderful colleague. I was a real honor to work with Eric in Florida. Eric will be missed by all of us in the field.
Melissa (Missy) Hess
January 25, 2006
Dear Lisa:
We've never met, as I lost touch with Eric many years ago, but I only just got word of his death and I felt compelled to reach out to you.
Reading about Eric's adult life online, it is apparent that the wonderful young teen who I knew and loved grew up to meet all his potential.
I spent so many happy hours at the Johansen's in Palm Beach Gardens, and Eric spent many happy hours with my family in North Palm. He was always such a model young man, so smart, so handsome and so kind. I always regretted losing touch- but I went to college in Texas, and then moved to NYC and our lives moved in different directions. Still, the positive impact his friendship had on my life remains intact to this day.
The news of his tragic death hurts me deeply- I can only imagine your pain. I myself just had my first daughter, and my heart hurts for your children, I am sure that Eric was a wonderful father. I pray that the happy loving times you spent with Eric help assuage your pain. As horrible as his loss is, I am sure you feel blessed to have had him at all.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Best, Melissa "Missy" Hess
Bill
January 21, 2006
Lisa,
I went to college with Eric and had the pleasure of several local fishing trips with him over the years since. Although we were not close friends, Eric always made me feel like I was his best friend when we were together. He made everyone feel that way. There is such a common theme in the entries of this guest book. Eric was a truly special person. That phrase is often used as a cliche in terrible cricumstances such as this, but in EJ's case they could not be truer. Everyone who knew EJ admired and respected him. They wanted to be more like him. Everyone he came into contact with is better because of it. I am so sorry for what you and your family have had to handle Lisa. I hope all of the entries in this book will one day help your girls gain a sense of what a great person their dad was.
Sincerely,
Tom
January 20, 2006
Lisa,
I was glad to see your entry in the guest book. As I knew Eric since 6th grade I never met you. I sat crying Christmas Eve looking at presents under my tree thinking about those same images at your house with no one there to open them christmas morning. Eric was a special person and will always be in my thoughts, I hate thinking about those two girls growing up and not knowing what they truley missed out on. And for you losing your best friend, husband,and life long partner. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Johansen
January 16, 2006
December 31, 2005
Well Eric here we are 4 years later. We had a dramatic beginning and a dramatic end. But all the little boring parts in the middle that no one else cares about and no one else will ever think about will always be my favorite. I loved living my boring suburban everyday life with you. And I will always cherish that season. I truly loved you with all of my heart, mind, body and soul.
My love
My best friend
My partner and the father of my children.
May your soul be free and eternally at peace.
All my love,
Your girl Lisa
Lisa Johansen
January 16, 2006
CA girl meets FL boy on a remote island in the Bahamas on New Years Eve. He rides up in his big white boat and sweeps her off her feet. He gets her attention with his quick wit and keeps her attention with his gentle spirit and depth of soul. It is not long before they are married and start the family they have both longed for. They buy a house on Rainbows End and watch the wild bunnies hop through their yard.
In many ways I have lived a fairy tale life. But don’t be fooled by this prince charming and Cinderella. If you were to drop by their castle on any given night, you would not find them dancing a waltzing in a black tie or a ball gown. You would see a middle age white guy in a pair of khaki shorts with some sort of stain on it and a T-shirt with a fish on it. Eric would be on the couch with the remote flipping the channels between a fishing show and some story about fighter jets on the history channel. His princess would be lounging next to him complaining about some part of her body that hurt, because she was pregnant again.
Once Eric started snoring, I would grab the remote and change the channel to lifetime or some Julia Roberts movie I had seen 100 times before. When I was ready to go to bed, I would wake Eric up and tell him to come to bed. In the dark, my Prince Charming would appear and he would start to talk. He would tell me what a good mother I was, how I had cooked a good dinner that night or how he appreciated the way I kept the house. He would tell me something really cute that Jessica had done that day. He would always ask me if I knew how lucky we were.
If I got him on some sort of spiritual, theological topic, it would be 2am before we said good night; I had always prayed for a man who would talk to me. Be careful what you pray for because there was more than one night I silently prayed for him to stop talking because I was so tired.
Our daily routines may have appeared more mundane than magical to most, but our home was a refuge free of conflict and drama. And we preferred it that way. Our favorite past time for the last year and a half was watching Jessica do new things and bragging to each other about how cute and smart she is.
Eric had a special gift for making ordinary things fun. A trip to Home Dept could result in a belly laugh so hard that I feared wetting my pants- another benefit of pregnancy!
Eric was great at parties. He usually had everyone captivated with a funny story. They would range from Young life adventures, teaching fiascos, coaching mishaps, or just hanging out at Tarp & Bend with his buddies in Fort Lauderdale. Frequent visits to the Bahamas and the Keys made for endless entertainment as well.
We had recently attended 2 funerals. He told me that if anything ever happened to him, that I had to tell funny stories at his funeral. He said I could be a little sad but he wanted me to remember all the good times.
Well, Eric, here is a funny story. Remember, you asked for it.
Eric came to California to “meet the Parents”. I told him my Dad was a 6 foot 6 cowboy with a gun collection and liked to ride horses. He could hardly wait to meet my Dad and tell him he was taking his baby girl 3000 miles away to hang out in FL just see if we could stand each other. After some hand shakes and formalities Eric decided to make some small talk. “So, Lisa tells me you like to ride horses. You know I used to do some barrel racing.” Marlin looked at him and said “Barrel racing, that’s for girls.” I started to laugh and keeping in line with my ornery nature I said “Eric was a cheerleader too.”
It seemed like a rough start but Marlin & Eric hit it off. They had endless talks about, marine toilets, generators coils, airplane props & scuba tank valves.
You can be assured I never let Eric forget the fact that he was a barrel racing cheerleader.
Anyone who knew Eric knew he was funny but it also did not take long to see Eric was a man of great balance. He was a loyal friend, who would be there in times of trouble. Even though he was the baby in the family he was very protective and wanted to take care of everyone. He was a hard worker and developed relationships w/ his coworkers whom he considered more like family members than business associates. People who spent any time with Eric felt that their life was enriched. I feel like the luckiest person on earth to have spent the last 4 years with him.
He gave me three of the best gifts that anyone could receive. The first gift he gave me was the gift of total acceptance. I was always good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, and funny enough in his eyes. He taught me to believe that I was good enough in my own eyes. The second gift was the greatest gift I have ever received, a beautiful baby girl that looks just like him. The third gift has a stamp on it that says do not open until February.
My biggest heartache in this tragedy is for Eric’s girls. He had a true father’s heart which is not often found in this world. It is a tragedy beyond my comprehension that they will never know their father the way that I do.
Thank you for helping me keep Eric’s memory alive through legacy.com.
By Lisa Johansen
Tyrone Holmes
January 13, 2006
When I think of Eric the words that come to mind are 'Effortless Grace'. Eric was blessed with a Giant sense of humor while simultaneously exuding a sense of tranquility and peace. It was as if he lived at 'the Point of Calm'. Upon meeting him I immediately recognized that there was a light inside him. This light quickly transformed our relationship from co-workers to friends. The past few years are filled with memories of skydiving, driving around Florida and nights out with the McDougal gang. My favorite memory however is of a night out in Evanston (several years back)and listening to Eric talk about meeting the woman of his dreams (his future wife Lisa). I could see in his eyes that love had begun to work it's transformative powers on him. He was fully immersed in all its magic. He spoke of her with such reverance and appreciation, and they had only recently met. He was a man who always had a strong understanding of what was truly important. Althought I really don't want to say goodbye, I am so thankful for having known him. He has truly touched my life and the lives of everyone he came into contact with. And he did it all with 'Effortless Grace'.
Joy Bozicevic
January 12, 2006
Dear Lisa,
You and I were supposed to meet. I'm a French teacher and Eric was my contact person for the Foreign Language Teacher of the Year banquet. Over the past several years, we talked on occasion, me about water skiing, him about boating and fishing. We talked about you coming skiing with us one day. You were pregnant, then house hunting, then moving, and somehow it never happened. Your husband was a wonderful man. He helped so many teachers and made us feel special and valued. We will miss working with him. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Through the holiday season, I thought of you so much through so many of the beautiful holiday songs, maybe becuase it seemed to me that Eric "got it", that he knew which priorities were really important. I pray for peace in your heart, strength for each day, one day at a time, and the joy of beautiful memories.
Judit Finlay
January 12, 2006
Dear Jill,
I am speechless. I was horrified to hear the news from Evie by e-mail. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. May all the wonderful memories of your brother, Eric
your father, Lawrence and Lisa's father, Marlin help sustain you and your family in the days ahead. If there is ever anything I can do, please let me know. I will keep you in my prayers each and every day.
Love.
Judit
Jen Johansen
January 10, 2006
I know you and papa will watch over our family. Each day that goes by I try to tell myself that time will heal, but I just can't let go. I wish you were here so I could get your advice on the many new things in my life. I miss you so much, I never thought something like this could ever happen. I will never forget all the wonderful things that you have taught me. Love always, jen
Maurice Van Horne
January 5, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Eric's family and to his friends as well. We all lost someone special who will always be with us. I had the pleasure and fun of working with Eric when he came on board as part of our social studies team. He had it all - he was polite, respectful, and hard working - a true gentlemen who had obviously been "raised right." But he also had a great sense of humor, he new how to enjoy life, and new what was important and what was not. I know the loss to his family can not be put into words. But for many of us, there will not be a day that goes by when we don't think of Eric. We will all miss him, we will all remember him, and we will all know how lucky we were to have known him.
Glenn Diedrich
January 5, 2006
Lisa,
Eric was such a great friend. I learned so much from him each time we spent time together. He was an inspiration to everyone he knew. His love for you was inspiring. I remember driving the boat around your Uncle's sailboat for over an hour for him to see you again. You and your children are the only thing that could distract Eric from diving, fishing and the ocean. Every day I think about Eric. He was a great husband, father, friend and teacher! I've been reading the guest book and feel great joy at all that Eric gave to some many people. The memories come every day:
Abacos on New Year's Eve
Your wedding
My wedding
Sailing on Lake Michigan - "The water is so cold here why do people live in WI?"
Vegas consultant meeting
Sailing and diving in the Keys
The FT. Lauderdale airshow
Jumping out an airplane in AZ
Riding on a glider in WI
Diving
Fishing
Watching football
Driving all over this great country with a true history geek, "let's stop at this historical site"
9/11
His FL native pride and pride to be an American
The list is endless. He was a great man on all levels. I'm so lucky to have worked, played and to have known him.
I wish you,your family, Jessica and Erica all the best. I will always be available to tell Jessica and Erica about their Dad. I will never be able to look at the ocean without thinking about Eric. I think he would like that.
It is a priviledge to call Eric my friend and to be his "wingman".
All my love,
Glenn
Nicole Cordray Valdes
January 5, 2006
We have lost a trememdous person. Anyone who had the honor of knowing Eric Johansen will miss him dearly. He was a peace keeper, a positive thinker, a role model, a diplomatic leader and had such a kind spirit. I miss him already and can't imagine what Lisa and his family is going through. I am sure he was a fantastic husband and father, he had tons of love and kindness to share.
I cheered with Eric at Flagler College for a few years and had a great time being his friend! He was the glue that kept the team together and a real team motivator. He is someone who will be missed by all who crossed his path.
My prayers are with his entire family and community.
Sincerely, Nicole
Mary Stansbury
January 3, 2006
Lisa,I saw Eric at the Sat. am science presentations on Dec 3rd and 10th and he was the usual very friendly, very helpful gentleman to even his competitors. His smile was so great, it was hard to think of competing against him.
We talked for about 20 min. comiserating over the results of the previous week's sci results. Eric was always there to open a door, lend a hand to a competitor, be a friend with always that smile.
He will be greatly missed in the publishing business by not only his own colleagues and customers but those of us in the entire publishing industry.
Mary
Stacy Paolini Hahn
January 3, 2006
Lisa,
I was a classmate of Eric’s at Flagler College and was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his tragic death. Through the years I would run into Eric on my trips back to south Florida. He always had a smile on his face and kind words to share. It’s obvious from all that was written here that he was cherished by many people. May you find comfort in your faith, family and friends during this difficult time. You and your girls will be in my prayers. With deepest sympathy,
Barbara Mitchell
January 3, 2006
Dear Lisa and Mrs.Johansen,
I worked with Eric for the past four years and enjoyed every phone conversation, every meeting, and every meal I shared with him.
In fact, on Friday, December 16, Eric, Laurie Pattillo, and I ate lunch together at a sales meeting. Eric was in even higher spirits than usual and was looking forward to having time with his family over the holidays. Conversation ranged from politics to his favorite topic of Lisa and Jessica. He told a story about a recent conversation with his father. The three of us laughed a lot.
Eric always impressed me with the way he remembered details about the person(s) to whom he was talking. He was aware of where each person lived and how recent events in the news had impacted them. I never saw him struggle to talk to anyone.
Mrs. Johansen, you and your husband did an outstanding job of molding your son into a caring, quick-witted, responsible and informed man. Lisa, Eric once told me that he knew you were the one for him when you jumped on the fire truck. He adored you and Jessica and was excited about the new baby.
All of us who were lucky enough to know Eric will miss him. I can't imagine how hard the loss is for you.You both seem to be strong women, and I hope that strength, time, and memories will help you now and later.
Kathy Cavers
January 3, 2006
I have been one of the lucky ones to know and work with Eric. I will miss his smile, his sense of humor and his love of life. My prayers are with his family at this difficult time.
Michelle Hargrett
January 2, 2006
To Eric's Family:
I was hoping against hope that it WASN'T my dear classmate who passed away. Eric was definitely "one of the good ones". He was one of those people who made everyone feel as though they were a part of his inner circle in high school. I haven't seen or spoken to him in over 20 years, yet, he still holds a warm spot in my heart. When I first met him, I automatically KNEW him -- I could sense his warmth, and what an upstanding, charming individual he was. My fondest memory of Eric is the twinkle in his eyes whenever he smiled -- as a matter of fact, I cannot picture him in my mind WITHOUT that wonderful smile of his.
All that he was, is a testament to his great upbringing, and should serve as a source of pride for your entire family. My deepest condolences to all of you....
Linda Levine
January 2, 2006
To Eric's family,
I am truly honored to have known and worked with Eric. He was one of the most patient, understanding, dedicated and sincere professionals in our educational community. He really treated each person with whom he came in contact with such respect and congeniality. This loss is heartfelt. I pray that the Lord gives you the strength that you need to continue to deal with this loss.
Lisa Shotts
December 29, 2005
To Eric's Family
Someone once said that a man is not judged by how much he loves, but by how much he is loved by others...Eric was loved by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. He will be missed.
Barbara Browning
December 29, 2005
Lisa,
Watching you as you have traveled this difficult path over the past two weeks has just cemented who and what Eric is. The love between the two of you was and is a living, breathing thing.
Eric was a special guy and all the comments on these pages about him are so very true.
I am a better person for having experienced the man, felt the love that exists between the two of you and shared a bit in Eric's walk on this earth.
I cannot imagine the depth of your loss nor the completeness of the love that exists between the two of you.
I am here and will always be here for you in any way I possibly can be.
Eric the daddy and husband is in my thoughts daily as are you, Baby Jessica and soon to be Erica!
Love,
Barbara
Kari Peters
December 28, 2005
My prayers and thoughts are with you at this tragic time. I never knew Eric personally, but I believe I have talked to him on the phone a few times in customer service. Please know that we are all hurting inside for you and your family, and I pray that the Lord will provide the comfort that you need to get through this.
Ellen Lees
December 28, 2005
My heart hurts for you and for your family. I only pray that you find comfort in all your wonderful memories of Eric. No matter what meeting we were having at McDougal Littell, a huge smile and a twinkle in his eye, is the way I will always remember Eric.
Cathy Lanier McClemens
December 27, 2005
To The Johansen Family,
To have known not only Eric, but to be able to meet his loving family is a part of my life that I will always treasure. Eric came to Louisiana to work as a Social Studies consultant; he embraced the mores of this unusual state with the utmost appreciation. His sense of humor helped to carry us through a very successful selling year. It was not long after that year he realized he wanted to become a sales representative and settle down in Florida.
I had the good fortune to spend time with his mother and father as they shared time on our sailboat and then when I visited them Florida for one of his many fun birthday parties. The love in this family is very deep and very special.
The world is a better place because of the Johansen men.
Jeannie Dennard
December 27, 2005
To the Johansen family:
I had the opportunity of getting to know Eric over the last year at McDougal Littell. I was overwhelmed with sadness when I heard of your tragic loses! In the peace of quiet moments I will always remember Eric as the very special person he was--kind, generous, thoughtful, and a friend to all. May time, your faith, family and your many friends help heal your deep wounds.
David Hermosillo
December 27, 2005
Lisa,
It was Eric's spirit that I admired most. He was never without a smile, a kind word, or a great story. I can think of no one who didn't have anything but great things to say about him. God be with you and your family in this most difficult of times.
Deepest sympathies,
David
Mary Devore
December 27, 2005
To Eric's immediate and extended families, I want to express my deepest sorrow for you in your time of loss. I work for a publishing company, as did Eric, and though he was a competitor, I considered him a friend. The world has lost a bright light, but he will shine on for those who remember him. If I can say something about Eric (and so many wonderful things have already been said), it would be that his smile held something in it that showed that he "got it." He had a confidence and a knowledge that there was more to his life than the oftentimes stressful job at which our paths often crossed. His smile held peace, humor, and love. Clearly that came from the wonderful people in his life, and I hope all of you gain strength now in knowing that he was a COMPLETE man, a fulfilled man, a happy man. God bless you all.
Dave Sellers
December 27, 2005
Dear Lisa and all the Johansen's,
I am deeply sorry for the news of the deaths of Mr. Johansen, Mr. Nachtigal, and Eric. I knew Eric especially during his high school days and I was always struck by his enormously gifted personality and am greatful for his friendship. I admired and was encouraged by Eric's faith, coupled with his wit, a rare combination that made many people want to be close to him. Please know that I'll continue to pray with and for your family.
Patsy Davis
December 27, 2005
Lisa,
You already know how Eric could light up a room. I hope you also know how his face would light up when he talked about you or his daughter.
I consider it a privilege to have known and worked with Eric.
I know your whole being is now flooded with memories and I pray that, in time, those memories will be a blessing.
Deana Buzzy Mitchell
December 27, 2005
I, like a few others in this guest book, have not seen Eric since our high school days but I, like everyone who knew him, will never forget his outstretched hand , welcoming nature and most of all his smile. Please know that my family's prayers are with you.
Brian Roy
December 27, 2005
Dear Lisa and Johansen Family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time. Eric was a kind and gentle soul, who will be missed dearly and remembered fondly.
Brian
California Sales rep
Chris Ealing
December 27, 2005
Dear Lisa,
This is the third time I've started a message to you in this Guest Book, unable each time to transfer what is in my heart to a keyboard and screen. You know by now that so many in our McDougal Littell family feel that same way. The entries in this book are a living testament to a man who loved and was beloved. Had we known your father and father-in-law, rest assured that we would be writing tributes to them, too.
The goodness Eric had about him is the kind that is generally cultivated early on and then easily recognized by all those whose lives Eric touched. You already knew that, so all we can do is send our stories and memories of Eric and our prayers and condolences for you and hope that they will wrap themselves around you with some measure of comfort.
I knew Eric almost exclusively from yearly sales meetings where we shared attendance at various training sessions. He was always intelligent, witty, adorable (that has to be said!) happy, and considerate. I really enjoyed talking with him and listening to him. It was so endearing to hear a daddy talk about his baby girl like there wasn't another one anywhere on the planet! A year ago, another rep and I were invited to attend the Language Arts sessions at a special meeting in Florida with our McDougal Littell friends "from that side of the world." It was a wonderful experience. I remember asking a question at one of those sessions - the kind of question to which there is probably no concrete answer. It was answered but, afterwards, Eric quietly walked over to me and offered more information on the subject matter as well as the promise of any additional help I might need. What a sweetie! That's what he was like, taking kindness and simple consideration a step beyond anything you could expect.
The tragedy that you and both of your families have experienced is beyond comprehension, Lisa. Those who don't know any of you are at a loss to help assuage your collective grief but please know how the loss of these men in your life - and in the lives of all who knew them - has touched so many, all across the country. Like the babies we are given, those we love are "on loan" to us with no guarantee as to how long we'll have them in our lives. Trust that in our grief for you, we have probably all been quietly mindful to hug those we love a little tighter and cherish family and friends more than usual, especially in remembrance of our friend, Eric. One cannot make sense of a tragedy such as yours because it is not ours to understand. I can only pray - each and every day - that God will be your anchor in a storm that has taken so much from you. May you find in Him the peace that passes all understanding. Any may the women in your life - from your daughters (here and unborn) to those in the Nachtigal and Johansen families - rise up with you to make an ongoing living legacy of all that is representative of the men you all loved. God bless each and every one of you, now and always.
"I will thank my God every time I remember you." Philippians 1:3
Paul Angelino
December 27, 2005
Jill,
You and your family was lifted-up in prayer on Christmas morning at Grace Lutheran Church in Knoxville. Over 200 people, prayed for you during this most difficult time. I mentioned that even in high school Eric knew what it meant to be a Christian, something that took several years later for me to understand.
Carla Small
December 27, 2005
Lisa
Having worked many times with Eric in Florida and as a sales advisory board member, nothing brought a smile to his face like talking of you, your daughter and the baby on the way. He will always be by your side. We all feel for your loss.
Regina Younger
December 26, 2005
Dear Lisa and Family,
My husband and I met Eric when he came to Arizona for his training with me and I've enjoyed getting to know him more over all the years he's been with McDougal. Words can't express how sorry we are. It's a huge loss to all of us. Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Regina
Dick Humphrey
December 26, 2005
I am also one of those who was privileged to work with Eric at McDougal. Whenever he came into my territory to work it was always fun. As former football coaches we swapped coaching stories both poignant and funny. Eric was always "on top of his game" as a consultant--professional and polished. Last spring in Dallas at the NSTA we both had later flights home so we had a few hours to spend together awaiting our departure from the hotel. Over lunch we talked of our personal lives and families. It struck me then how happy Eric was. He'd found the woman who was the love of his life and his young daughter was the sparkle in his eye. And there was his love of the ocean--boating, fishing and diving. He promised me a trip on the boat when I came down. As hard as it is to understand a tragedy like this, solace can be taken in memories we all have of Eric--the smile, the wry sense of humor, his happiness with his family. He will be missed. We're all better for having known him. You are in our prayers.
Eddie Marshall
December 26, 2005
Eric and I worked together at McDougal Littell. Although our encounters were brief, 1-2 times yearly, my memories of him will endure. May all, too, find comfort in memories.
Lorena Richins Layser
December 26, 2005
Dear Lisa and family,
Please accept my condolences. Eric was a wonderful friend and colleague. He was the most caring person that I know. He treated everyone has a friend and was always upbeat and generous. I pray that your memories of Eric will always be present and his love for you will comfort you throughout your lives. Please know that you all will be in our family's daily prayers. I feel blessed to have known him. God Bless you all.
Jane Latham
December 26, 2005
Lisa,
Know that you are in the prayers and thoughts of the many who knew and loved Eric. He was an amazing young man who loved you, his daughter and life. He will be greatly missed by his many friends. Take care of yourself. Call on those who love you for support and love. Call upon God -- He will never leave your side and knows before you ask your needs. God's love will sustain you. It is His promise to us all.
Jane Latham
Joyce Russell-Menyasz
December 26, 2005
Lisa,
There is no way I can say any words that will bring you any comfort in what is surely your darkest hour. Please know that I am praying for you and thinking of you always. Treasure the love and memories that God has blessed you with, and keep your husband, father and father-in-law in your heart always. Nothing but time will make this any easier. I look at your family pictures often and wish I was able to know the man that put that beautiful smile on your face. May you find peace when you need it most, and strength for your daughters. You will never be far from my thoughts, my friend.
Dan Battisti
December 26, 2005
My deepest sympathies to the Johansen family. Please know that many caring thoughts are with you. We will miss dear Eric's warmth, humor and charisma. Eric had a way of making us all feel great. What a pleasure it was to work with him. You are all remembered in my family's daily prayers.
Jack Bovee
December 26, 2005
In the short time that our teachers were able to work with Eric during Florida's recent social studies adoption, we found him a most knowledgeable presenter and a man of his word. His service to our teachers was superb, his insights keen and his pleasant style reassuring. It was obvious to all with whom he came in contact that Eric loved teaching and believed in the importance of education's overall mission -- to make this world a better place for others. On behalf of his many friends in FASSS and FCSS, let me express our deep sorrow at this sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Greg Jacobs
December 24, 2005
My condolonces to the Johansen family. I grew up with Eric in PBG and like others have lots of great memories on the playing field with Eric. I haven't seen Eric since high school, but have nothing but fond memories of our time together. He was as intense on the field as he was friendly off the field. He will surely be missed by all.
Traci Clark
December 24, 2005
Lisa,
I am praying God's complete comfort and strength in this time of loss for you and your family. Although I never got to meet Eric, from the sound of the entries here, he sounds like a wonderful person, and that God blessed you and Jessica with him for the time that you had. Hold on to those wonderful times, Lisa. Remember to lean on God always. Curtis and I will be praying for you and your family.
Michele (Mattei) Galasso
December 24, 2005
One day a group of our friends went to a fair. Eric heard me say that I liked a certain stuffed animal so, when I wasn't looking, he won it and gave it to me. This kind of gesture toward a friend says everything about the person that Eric was. Eric and I went to the same Jr. High, High School and College. In Jr. High and High School I was always at the games cheering for him, then in college I got lucky enough to convince him to join our cheerleading squad. We were also in Young Life together throughout all those years.
"He was a good person" is so often said but Eric was for real! My sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Claudine Fontaine Marrero
December 24, 2005
Dear Lisa,
My heart felt condolences to you and your family. I've heard so many wonderful things about you since this tragedy, I'm sorry we never met. Eric and I went to Gardens High School together. The amazing man you married exhuded a Christian heart and a smile in his eyes from the moment you entered his presence. I promise to do an extra good deed in honor of him. May all the prayers for you and your family's comfort be with you.
Chris Johnson
December 24, 2005
I was very saddened to hear of Eric's death. I had the privilege of working with him when he was our social studies consultant, and again this year during the Florida adoption. He was always so positive, insightful, and knowledgeable--just the greatest person to work with him. I will miss him very much, and my deepest sympathies go to his family.
Daisy Brown-Lanier
December 24, 2005
I was shocked and saddened to learn of the tragic passing of Eric. We were co-workers at Wellington High School and he was a terrific person. His genuine smile, quick wit, and free-spirit were but a few of his many attributes that I admired. When I first saw his name in the paper, I really did not want to believe that it was the Eric that I knew. It has been years since we worked together, but fond memories of Eric flooded my mind as if it were yesterday. My deepest sympathy goes out to Eric's family. May God continue to bless you and may your faith sustain you through the dark days ahead.
Sincerely,
Hope D'Alessandro (Regan)
December 24, 2005
Dear Lisa,
We met tonight and can see why Eric
Called you his best friend.You are a beautiful inside and out and I know your strength is coming from your Angel above.My family and I have you in our hearts,thoughts and
prayers.Eric was very lucky to have
such a wonderful wife and mother. God made a perfect choice
and match on that New Years Eve night.I hope in time your heart will
heal for all your losses.My love and
God Bless to you and your family.
Mark and Lucy Kaczanowicz
December 23, 2005
Both Mark and I met Eric at Wellington High School in 1989, where we taught and coached together. Eric was an incredible man with a great sense of humor. He always put the students/athletes first and was a role model to both teachers and students. Our prayers go out to Eric's family.
Carla Lowery
December 23, 2005
Lisa,
Joel, Will and I wish to send our heartfelt sympathies to you and your entire family. Please know that you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. My heart aches for you and Jessica, but I know that Eric, his dad and your dad will be with you always. A more loving husband, prouder father or dedicated worker could never be found. Love always, Carla
Lellany Ruiz ('96)
December 23, 2005
Coach Johansen was my favorite teacher at Pace. Even though it has been over 10 years since I last saw him, one of my fondest memories of him was his golden lab, Chloe, who he loved so much. He was destined to give that love to everyone that he came in contact with. Everyone can tell he really cared about his students. He was funny, smart and always willing to help and put a smile on your face. He treated us as friends - understanding, lenient and overall a wonderful person. My heart goes out to your family and may God bless you.
Shirley VanWanderham
December 23, 2005
The Johansen family has been in Palm Beach Gardens as long as the VanWanderham family. And enjoyed all the wonderful times at Plant Dr. Park and PBGYAA. Jeff coached Clay and Chip and he was always remarkable. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Eric but he must have been one terrific son, husband and father. Palm Beach Gardens suffers with the families today and always. Gardens folks are family and when we lose one of ours, it affects each and every one of us. Our prayers are with you and may your hearts be not heavy, the Lord is with you now and forever. Love, Shirley, Buck, Valeri, Clay and Chip VanWanderham
Kristin Engleman
December 23, 2005
Eric was such a special person. His humor, intelligence, and kindness were clear to everyone who knew him. I feel lucky to have known Eric, to have worked with him, to have laughed with him, and to have gone fishing with him. I hope that when your grief subsides you can find joy and peace when remembering him and the times you shared.
Kristin and Vic Engleman
Luc Garneau
December 23, 2005
I worked with Eric at McDougal Littell. Even though I only saw Eric a couple times a year at sales meetings, we did nothing but laugh every time we were together. To all those family members affected by this terrible loss, please take care of yourselves, and know that many, many people are thinking of you at this sad time.
Tom & Mary Ann Deming
December 23, 2005
We are so sorry for your loss. No one is ever prepared to lose someone they love, but such a sudden event where three loved ones are taken is beyond comprehension. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Maria Radinson
December 23, 2005
I had the pleasure of working from time to time with Eric. My fondest memory is the last time I saw him and asked him how was the family? He immediately beamed a bright smile and pulled out a stack of pictures, explaining each one and smiling from ear to ear. I will miss him. May God bless Eric's family, my thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Ellie Avegno
December 23, 2005
Dear Famly,
I cannot begin to imagine your pain; my heart hurts for you. I saw Eric last in October ; he beamed as he talked about his wonderful wife, baby Jessica, and the arrival to come. Knowing how happy he was must be of some comfort.
I am lighting candles for all of you.God's peace. Ellie
Geri Goldstein
December 23, 2005
As a member of the McDougal Littell family, I am saddened to know that we have lost a truly great person. May you and your family find peace and comfort in wonderful memories and in knowing how much you were loved.
joanne hester/callea
December 23, 2005
My deepest condolences go out to Eric's family, I have not seen Eric in a long time I have known him since elementary school and enjoyed playing football and baseball in the neighbor.eric enjoyed life and was always smiling. God bess His wife and kids.My prayers will be for them .
Tony & Sarah (Cvetas) McLendon
December 23, 2005
Our deepest sympathies go out to Lisa, Jessica and the entire Johansen and Nachtigal families. Eric was and always will be a wonderful man in the memories of everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him. We were truly blessed to have had Eric in our lives. Not only was he was an amazing teacher and coach for many of us that attended Wellington High School, but also a great friend and neighbor. Several years after graduation, Sarah and I had the good fortune to reunite with Eric when we relocated to Stuart.
We will miss our friend Eric, he was a true gentleman.
Julie
December 23, 2005
Eric Johansen was my high school social studies teacher. At a difficult time in my formative years, Mr. Johansen used his humor and passion for seeing his students succeed to set me on the right course.
I offer the Johansen family my heartfelt sympathy and prayers.
Susan Willis
December 23, 2005
To the Johansen, and Natchtigal familiies,
As colleagues of Eric, we'd like to express our sincerest sympathies. You are in so many people's prayers.
Timothy, and Susan Willis Kanold
Russ Dillman
December 23, 2005
To all of Eric's family and friends, my deepest sympathy for your loss. To his daughter and yet to his daughter who will never know his smile and love, know your father was a gift to all who knew him. Always a ready smile and thoughtfulness for all who had the pleasure of knowing him. I will miss him. My love to all of you.
Debbie Miller-Phillips
December 23, 2005
Dear Lord,
Please give this family the peace that passes all understanding.
Debbie
My prayers are with you.
Donna Graham
December 23, 2005
In his short time here, Eric has touched the lives of so many. What a remarkable young man! As a former manager with McDougal, I had the opportunity to work with Eric on many memorable occasions. He was a great presenter, a beloved colleague and a dear friend. My heart goes out to all of your family during this tragic loss. May you be surrounded and strengthened by the love of God and the continued prayers and support of family and friends.
Shelly (Meyer) King
December 23, 2005
Mr. Johansen was my softball coach at Wellington High School. He was a wonderful, bright individual that will be deeply missed. My condolences to the Johansen family.
Debby Parsons
December 23, 2005
I didn't know Eric or did I know his family, however My heart goes out to each and everyone in the family. There was not a dry eye in the office today when we read the article. There is not a single word that could express our sympathy for you. God bless...
abel Soares
December 23, 2005
Lisa
My wife Karen and I sent our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I had the the honor and to work and socialize with Eric. I also had the opportunity to enjoy his great sense of humor and wit. I feel blessed that I had the good fortunate to have know Eric Johansen.
Shanta Corbett
December 23, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Johansen Family, especially to his wife and daughter. I knew Eric from High School (Palm Beach Gardens) I haven't seen him in a very long time but I remember that He was a really nice guy and that he liked to laugh. I know he will be greatly missed.
Michelle Chute
December 23, 2005
I spoke to Eric about 3 weeks ago and he was so proud of his daughter, wife and new baby on the way. Eric was such a happy outgoing person - he will be truly missed! Our condolences go out to the Johansen family - you are in our thoughts! Michelle, Jim, Jordan and Nina Chute
Rita Schaefer
December 23, 2005
Eric was a joy.
Eric was about family.
Eric was a terrific employee.
Eric was one of the best presenters I've ever seen.
Eric was so fun that everyone wanted to be around him.
Eric shared his knowledge, his love of life with everyone.
Eric was a very proud father.
Eric was special.
I ache with the loss.
God bless.
Commissioner Felicia Brunson
December 23, 2005
I worked with Eric at McDougal Littell. I only have fond memories of him. He was very pleasant to be around. My prayers are with the family during this time of loss. May God comfort and keep you is my prayer.
Jeffrey Thomas
December 23, 2005
I was Eric's Sales Associate for just over one year. The first time I met him he had a picture of his wife and daughter - he just beamed with pride!
He was sharp as a tack and quick with a smile.
My sympathy and praires are with your entire family.
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