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Cindy Newnam
December 15, 2008
Frankie,
In my mind, you will always be about 10 years old, wearing a much too large Saint Andrew's football jersey, running around campus with a huge grin on your very handsome tanned little face!
Martha's Vineyard, Chappaquidick
Jeanne Yeend
December 14, 2008
This reminded me of Frankie. I'm sure he would have enjoyed it.
I am standing on the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of strength, and I stand and watch her until at length she is a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky mingle with each other. Then someone at my side says:
"There, she is gone". Gone where?
Gone from my sight, that is all.
She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side, and she is just as able to bear her load of living weight to her destined harbour.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
And just when someone at my side says,
"There, she is gone!"
There are other eyes watchig her coming,
and other voices take up the glad shout:
"There she comes!"
And THAT is dying.
Mom and Dad
December 14, 2008
Our darling son,
You gave your Dad and me so much happiness. We are always your loving supporters.
Even our grief now would never surpass the joy and constant pride we have for you. Thank you for giving us the time we had with you. You will always be our inspiration to have the great soul, heart and kindness that you gave others.
Love always,
Mom and Dad
Danielle O'Connell Murphy
December 13, 2008
The ceremonies were beautiful, thank you to you and Frank for hunting me down. I don't know what I would have done if I didn't have the chance to say goodbye. The day of the paddle out was exactly what Frankie wanted, just wild. I was looking at the boat thinking about you, what a ride!
I cannot stop thinking about our Frankie (my "Kevin") and all the wonderful childhood memories we shared. It all began at the age of 13 at Nomad, we instantly became friends (one of those love/hate relationships), however as time went on we became so close. I remember he would ride his bike to my house or I would ride over to his, we would meet at the beach and I would watch him surf. Then there's the time he put me on the surfboard and said try it, I thought oh no, but I did it!!...... he was such a great teacher, so calm patient and caring. Of course my favorite thing of all, the drums, I loved sitting and watching him play the drums... I saw the same passion, energy and love I get while dancing/performing. In High School we went to Homecoming together and of course all of my boyfriends were very jealous of him because he was so charismatic and lovable:-) After High School we both were interested in field of nursing. I remember all of our long talks in his bedroom about life, I'd give anything to go back to those innocent days. I know the sadness and confusion I am feeling is only an ounce of what you and your family are going through. Life passes us by so quickly and we lose touch with each other. They say people come into your life for reason, season or lifetime... Frankie will be in my heart for a lifetime.
if there is anything I can do, I am here!!
Love to you and Frank
Jewels Blaine Davis
December 13, 2008
What a gift Frank was and all the love he gave...he was a beam of light- I remember his smile forever as kids- so blissed out and deeply kind- such an open heart and a true adventurer. He was amazing and had a soaring spirit. I hold your broken pieces.
Jen Pakradooni
December 13, 2008
When I think of Frankie I always think of a spirited young guy full of life and love for others.
He will be missed greatly and my thoughts are with you both and your family during this difficult time.
Fondly,
Jen Pakradooni
Barb Laureman
December 13, 2008
I have such fond memories of my volleyball years at SA. I remember Frankie's visits-big smiles and positive energy. I send my happy thoughts and prayers your way.
Rachel Katz
December 13, 2008
Parents are not suppossed to watch their child die before them. It just isn't fair. I do know what an incredible, accomplished, friendly and handsome young man Frankie was. And there is always a demand for somone so special, especially in heaven. All my loves and prayers are with you and Frank.
Nicole and Heath McMaster
December 13, 2008
Little Franky will be missed but his memory always be in our hearts.
Roaxan Allen-Haslett
December 13, 2008
What a beautiful service. That picture of Frankie with the dog is beautiful. He was such a handsome young man and he was exceptionally popular and charming. I wss so moved by your very young neighbor who tearfully spoke of Frankie's generosity and patience. I'm sure he will cherish that skateboard forever.
I hope time will help your cherish your wonderful memories.
Dot Emer
December 13, 2008
After Frankie's memorial service I have this wonderful picture of a handsome, smiling boy with enough joie de vivre for three people.
Deepest condolences.
The Robinson Family
December 13, 2008
The service for Frankie was so lovely. The song Beautiful Boy was so appropriate. He was truly beautiful, inside and out. He was so energetic, loving and full of life. He is gone from sight but never from our hearts.
Nancy Harold
December 13, 2008
My own heart aches for you both. Your Frankie was such a good spirit. I always remember how hard he studied for a test on South America and then he ACED it! How proud he- and all of us were.
I know how proud you were of him you aways were, and he of you.
We shall all miss him.
Claudia Lewis
December 13, 2008
When I heard the news I wanted to believe that Frankie had moved away with a new name; but I suppose that's not going to happen.
He was a kind and polite young man. It was always a pleasure to see him.
Marta Chatelle
December 13, 2008
I will always remember Frankie lovingly. I first met him in your house. He came and sat next to me with the photos of the family album and explained each one quite clearly.
I will always remember him as he was a good looking and sports lover boy. We always had great fun together in the states and in France.
George and Lil Andrews
December 13, 2008
Although Frankie's journey was not as long as we would have wished it is obvious he lived a full life and touched so many lives with his loving spirit. We shall miss him.
Terry Lewis
December 13, 2008
Frankie was a great guy and will definitely be missed. I always thought highly of him.
Maria Dulaney
December 8, 2008
Memories are not where we leave them. I will carry the memory of Frankie Boy's spirit and tender heart with me always.
Love Aunt Maria
rhianon dulaney
December 6, 2008
Frankie Boy will be missed dearly! He is always with me in my heart and will never be forgotten. I love you Frankie!
Leta Betor
December 6, 2008
Teresa and Frank,
I left another message for you, but also wanted to share something that was given to me when I lost my niece. You may have heard this poem before, but wanted to place it in here so you will always have it. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. I wish I had met Frankie, he sounds like he was quite a character and a good human being.
The Broken Chain
We knew little that morning that
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
you did not go alone;
for part of us went with you,
the day God called you home,
You left us peaceful memories,
your love is still our guide,
and though we cannot see you,
you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same,
but as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.
Leta Betor
December 6, 2008
I Do Believe
You will miss his laughter, fun, and gentleness.
You will miss the things you used to do for him and with him.
You will miss the beautiful little child he once was.
There is nothing I can do,
to make him come back.
There are no words I can say,
There are no answer's I can give,
that will satisfy your questions.
There is not another soul I can introduce you to that will ever
replace his And, there is no love I can offer that will ever replace
the love you had for him
I can not promise your broken heart will ever be complete
I will not say it could have been worse
I will not deny it was a tragedy
I will not lie and tell you he will come back
He never really left
I do promise he hears you when you speak.
I will say he loves you no matter the distance.
I will say, it gets easier to remember the good times.
I will not deny he is in a better place,
And, I will not lie; he is waiting to greet you someday.
He is with you every you step you take
He is in everything you do
He is in every beat of your heart
" He is like the wind. You can not see him...but you will always feel him"
Maureen and Mark Johnson
December 6, 2008
Dear Teresa and Frank,
Mark and I want you to know that you are in our minds and hearts. We pray for strength and peace in the coming years. We love you.
Mark and Maureen Johnson
CaTHERINE CARTER
December 2, 2008
Dear Frank and Teresa
Teilhard de Chardin, a man of spirit said that, "We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience." I believe this. Frankie's human experience is now accomplished, even while the legacy of his earthly existence will continue as evidenced in these messages. Our task is fix this spiritual vision in mind, so that our human experience might be all the more invested with the anticipation of spending eternity with Frankie, feeling well, happy and free. We do not weep as others do, who have no hope. We are encouraged to live our best life in their memory, and say, "Catch you on the other side, Frankie, see you in a few..."
Love and prayers to you every day,
Cathy Carter
Scottsdale, AZ
julian Domenech
November 29, 2008
Dear Teresa,
Luisa and I are so sorry to hear about son. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Love,
Luisa and Julian
Janice Marshall
November 25, 2008
Dear Theresa & Frank- I was so saddened when I heard of your loss last night at our 'Family' support meeting. We had shared so many concerns at these meetings. I am grieving for you but can never begin to understand your pain. You and your family are in our prayers. I do hope we meet again at our meetings, but healing is what you need now and I am sure forever.
Kathy Hynds
November 25, 2008
Dear Frankie,
You will be missed by so many but especially by me. I will always treasure the time I got to spend with you. Love always, Aunt Kath
Natalie Lambert
November 24, 2008
Teresa and Frank,
My heart goes out to you and I pray for God to give you the strength to get through this difficult time.
I went to high school with Frank (and even briefly dated him) and have nothing but fond memories of him. He was such a sweet and good hearted person. He will certainly be missed.
Dorothy Balbier
November 21, 2008
Dear Teresa and Frank, Kelie and I pulled out all the pictures with the boys and Frankie last night and cried, we just remember Frankie with soooo much life, his huge smile and contagious belly laugh, he didn't walk he bounced. We'll miss him DEEPLY. You and your family are in our thoughts and we pray you receive some comfort knowing Frankie is in a better place.
All our Love,
Shawn & Dorothy
Elizabeth Valdiviez
November 20, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.I only recently became friends with Frank, but he certainly made a great and lasting impression on me. I hope your family can find the strength during this difficult time. Take care of each other and God Bless.
Gena Vacha
November 20, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories of Frankie bring a smile to your face. Frankie will be missed greatly.
Lots of love from all of the Straub-Johnson Family!
Alwyn Powell
November 20, 2008
Teresa and Frank, you have my deepest condolences on the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family.
Nicole McMaster
November 19, 2008
Frank and Teresa,
Heath and I were deeply saddened when we learned about Frank's passing. As you grieve know that we are remembering you and honoring Frank's memory. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Nicole and Heath
Hilary Hauser
November 19, 2008
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I remember Frankie fondly and I hope you know my family's thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love
Christiane (at Brennans)
November 19, 2008
Dear Teresa and Frank: I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May it comfort you a little to know that others are thinking and praying for you. I wish you strength and courage. My deepest Sympathy...
Jamie and Jay Codispoti
November 19, 2008
Teresa and Frank,
We are so so sorry and so sad for your loss. Please know that we love you very much and are praying for you right now - may you be blessed with strength and courage during this difficult time.
Love you and miss you,
Jamie and Jay
stacy cavanagh
November 19, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you travel on your next adventure, Frankie. My love and condolences to your parents and family as they grapple with the loss of your being.
Janna Evans
November 18, 2008
Teresa,
I am so saddened to hear this news. It's been a long time since we've seen eachother. But I think of you often, and now more than ever. I finally have a son of my own and, as a mother, I know words do not suffice right now. My prayers and love and thoughts are pulsing through the airwaves to you, your husband, your father and your entire family.
Much love,
Janna
duff tyler
November 18, 2008
Teresa and Frank, Barb and I are so sorry to hear of Frankies death. Our prayers are with you both in this most difficult time. We enjoyed the time that we had to spend with your son, he was always the life of the party. We love you both! Duff & Barb Tyler
Carl Maffei
November 18, 2008
Teresa and Frank, I hope that you can find some comfort in your many special memories of little Frankie. Please know that you are very much in our thoughts and heart/prayers at this time of sorrow.While no words of mine can ease your loss, I just wanted you to know that Carl and I are thinking of you and Frank constantly. Love always, Carl & Ruthie
Nicole Barrett
November 18, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Frankie. May your love and memories of him carry you through this very difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Nicole Barrett SA '88
Megan Wilson Schroeder
November 18, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. We will always remember Franki's smiling face. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this extremely difficult time. all our love, Patti, Chip, Kiely, Megan and Garrett Wilson
brandy willoughby
November 18, 2008
frank we grew up together you were my first kiss, i love you and will keep you in my heart always. My thoughts are with your family and all of those who got the chance to know the beautiful person i have always known.
Jennifer Campbell
November 18, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Katy Trinkner O'Brien SA '87
November 18, 2008
Teresa and Frank,
My deepest condolences on the death of your son.
Carlos Barroso
November 18, 2008
Frank and Teresa, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you both and your families.
Tammy Friedman
November 18, 2008
Teresa and Frank,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your loss. May your memories of Frankie bring you strength during this terribly difficult time.
Much love,
Tammy and Steve Friedman
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