DOUBLEDAY, Jr., Nelson
Nelson Doubleday, Jr., passed peacefully on June 17, 2015 surrounded by his family. He was born July 20, 1933 and was the son of Nelson and Ellen Doubleday of Oyster Bay, NY. Mr. Doubleday was a graduate of Deerfield Academy and Princeton University. Upon graduation, he joined the Air Force where he was stationed at Myrtle Beach, SC. He later joined the family publishing business in 1958 rising to become President and then Chairman until it was sold in 1986. Mr. Doubleday was an avid sportsman. He owned the New York Mets from 1986 to 2002 during which time they won several National League titles and the 1986 World Series. He also was an owner of the New York Islanders Hockey Team winning the Stanley Cup in 1983. Mr. Doubleday was an accomplished golfer, loved sailing the world on Mandalay, shooting at his plantation in South Carolina and the valleys of England. He thrived on having his family and friends enjoy his passions with him. Mr. Doubleday was a retired trustee of Deerfield Academy, The Green Vale School and the New York Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Children. He is survived by his wife of forty-one years, Sandra Pine Doubleday, his sisters, Ellen Violett, Neltje and the late Madeleine Martin, his daughters, Wendy Havens (John), Lillian Woodworth, Nanki Doubleday, Phoebe Timpson (Bill), his step children Duke Barnett (Lindsey) and Alexis Barnett, thirteen grandchildren, one great-grandson and his beloved dogs, Max and Moby. Services will be held at 10:30AM Saturday, June 20, 2015, St. John's of Lattingtown, Locust Valley, NY. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to Locust Valley Fire Department, 228 Buckram Rd, Locust Valley, NY 11560; Boys & Girls Clubs of Martin County, P.O. Box 910, Hobe Sound, FL 33475; or the New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, 161 William Street, 9th Floor, New York, NY 10038. Further information Whitting Funeral Home, www.whitting.com
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Published by The Palm Beach Post from Jun. 20 to Jun. 21, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Nelson DOUBLEDAY

26 Entries

James Metcalf

February 18, 2021

When my father Capt. Jim Metcalf was stationed at Myrtle Beach AFB in 1955 then Lt. Doubleday lived two houses down from us. On several occasions when our folks went out to the Officers club together I was called upon to baby-sit the Doubleday children. They were always really good kids and the Doubledays would always treat me well. They were always so down to earth and I had no knowledge they were from famous families until many years later when I learned they became owners of the Mets. Great memories of our tour to Myrtle Beach AFB.

William Skipper

September 7, 2016

I met Nelson Doubleday Jr sometime in the late fifties or early sixties. I was the mess boy on the Ogden Phipps yacht..."Vergemere." We were down at Cat Cay in the Caribbean and to make a long story short Nelson and I ( a nineteen year old second cook) ended up on top of the flat roof of one of the buildings and the waiter was bringing drinks to us, up the ladder we had used to get to the roof. He was a Down to earth kind gentleman. At times he would cook his own Breakfest. I have never forgotten that cruise after all these years. God Bless Him.

christine brooks

December 20, 2015

I am writing this evening on behalf of Sybil Daniel who worked for and with Mr. Doubleday at Doubleday, Publishers for many years in the various New York offices. Sybil thought the world of Mr. Doubleday and she wants me to pass on to his family just what a kind and generous person he was and what a pleasure it was to work around Doubleday for more than 30 years with him.

Every person at Doubleday knew Mr. Doubleday and he treated everyone with such genuine kindness that will always be remembered.

July 1, 2015

Thank you for being the owner that cared. I Speak for all mets fans when I say we all wish that you were the only one running this organization to this day. Oh yea thanks again for Mikey P

Kenny McDonald

June 22, 2015

The game of Golf has lost a dear friend. Days at the Jupiter Island Club will never be quite the same.

Andrew Pascoe

June 21, 2015

As a young florist with a new business it was such an honor and a pleasure to arrange flowers for Nelson Doubleday.
This was a man of great taste and style that appreciated art, beauty and flowers in a profound way.
It has been my good fortune to have worked for Sandra and Nelson for over thirty years.I have arranged flowers and decorations for weddings, birthday celebrations and Christmas parties too numerous to mention.
I will never forget his friendliness, kindness and generosity.My heart is filled with joyful memories of a very special man.
Thank you for everything, and i know that there will be a Christmas party up in heaven this year the likes of which no one has ever seen before.
Andrew Pascoe

Lyle Richards

June 20, 2015

I was a volunteer at one of the golf tournaments in Northville when Mr. Doubleday came by the VIP tent. We struck up a conversation when I said I was a devoted Mets fan. He was so nice and responsive to my enthusiasm. The next day he came up to me and out of his pants pocket came an official Mets baseball signed by him. I still have and cherish that ball and memories .God's Blessings for a great , sweet man.

June 20, 2015

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one. We look to God's guidance and strength during these difficult times. He states in his Word at Psalms 29:11, "He will give strength to his people. He will bless his people with peace."

The Whitting Family

June 20, 2015

Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.

Cordelia McCuaig

June 20, 2015

What a wonderful friend was Nelly for 65 years. Not only was he the most generous person I knew, buthe was also funny, fun, kind ,and a true gentleman. He will be so missed by his myriad of admirerers. Love to Sandy,and all the children .Cordy and Vic McCuaig

June 19, 2015

As a young NYC police officer I was assigned to Shea Stadium. Often I would visit with Mr. Double day up in his suite, he would treat you with the greatest of respect!! He would invite me up and introduce me to hall of fame players. He would pour you a cold one and fix you a plate to eat!! He treated everyone with dignity and respect! He would ride the elevator by the press gate that usually had beer spilled all over the floor, and greet everyone with a smile and ask how they were doing!!RIP Mr. Doubleday, and thank you!!
Ed Forrester NYPD- Retired

Ron Davis

June 19, 2015

Thank you for running the Mets the correct way . We know you cared . RIP Nelson. Mets fans always respected you

June 19, 2015

Dick Frenz PGA
Nelson was one of my favorite members @ GCGC

June 19, 2015

So sorry to hear of loss. During this time there will be tears, but please keep in mind that even Jesus gave way to tears when someone he loved died. this occasion was recorded in the Bible at John 11:35.

From one who has experienced such grief, I offer my sympathy.

Sandy Lederman

June 19, 2015

As a member of the Cuckoos Nest, I became friendly with Bookworm. I found him to be very friendly, caring, a great sense of humor and was thoughtful and generous. I remember when my wife and I bought our first house, he unexpectedly sent us a whole case of wine.
He will be missed.
MILKY

June 19, 2015

Nellie was a champion in everything he did. My late brother Bobby Pratt & I never enjoyed anyone's company more than Nellie. As a friend so correctly said "he was the king of fun". He was that & so much more. Rest in peace old friend your job is done & save a tee time for me in that big golf course up yonder. I'll miss you

Artie Pratt or as Nellie called me Prattski

June 19, 2015

Deepest sympathy & our thoughts & prayers to Sandy & the Doubleday family.

Sally & Artie Pratt

Gail Williams

June 18, 2015

My love and prayers go out to Sandra and all Nelson's children and grandchildren. He was a wonderful long time friend, full of joy and kindness who loved to make those close to him enjoy life just a bit more.

Robert Feffer

June 18, 2015

I worked in the International Divison, Feffer & Simons and for a number of years was the Sales Director for Africa.

One of my fondest memories was flying to Washington DC with a number of dignitaries from Nigeria on his personal plane. A thrill of a life time!

The very first ballgame my sons watched was in his box at Shea Stadim. Sharing his tickets with me was another thrill of a life time!

For me, he will always be remembered as a regular guy, one with a captivating smile and a person that made you feel comfortable.

My heartfelt condolences go out to his family.

Scott Chamberland

June 18, 2015

Rest in Peace

June 18, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers sent up for the family.

Eddie Montague

June 18, 2015

Truly a great man and a class act. Always enjoyed your visits to the umpires room in Shea stadium. It was always a pleasure to see and be around you. God bless you Nells!
Eddie Montague
National League Umpire # 11

June 18, 2015

Some years back I was Mr. Doubleday's FedEx man at his home and office in Locust Valley. He was one of the kindest and most thoughtful people I've ever met. He was very funny and generous and I never saw him speak any differently to people whether they were rich, poor or anywhere in between. He was a real gentleman. My condolences to his family and all else who knew. He was a special person and will be missed.

-Jim Algie

June 18, 2015

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Met Fan in Albany NY

June 18, 2015

Thank you Mr. Doubleday for all you have done. Rest in peace.

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