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Gary Methner Obituary

Gary Lee Methner

Sept. 24, 1940 - March 14, 2023

MOUNT VERNON, Washington - Gary Lee Methner, 82, of Mount Vernon, WA, and Palm Desert, CA, died unexpectedly on March 14, 2023, in Palm Desert.

Gary was born September 24, 1940, in Midland, MI, to parents William and Coral Methner. He grew up in Midland, the oldest of three children, moving away only after graduating from Midland High School. As a youth, he helped his father Bill in construction and his extended family on their farms. He excelled in baseball and football. Gary and his younger brother Terry terrorized rival teams in the area, and he went on to play college football at Graceland University in Lamoni, IA, and later at Albion College in Michigan, where he reunited with Terry on the field. After graduating, Gary was invited to training camp with the (then) Washington Redskins, but chose not to go into professional sports.

Gary worked as an admissions Counselor at Albion for several years, and was recruited by State Farm Insurance to become an agent. This was the beginning of a 35-year career with the company, culminating with his 15 years as Regional Vice President, overseeing all operations in the Northwest region encompassing Oregon, Washington, Idaho, Montana, AK, and Hawaii. He retired from State Farm in 2002.

On December 22, 1962, he married the love of his life, Lola Condit, in Anchorage, Alaska, and they lived their lives for each other for the next 60 years. Moving with State Farm, they had homes in Plymouth, MI, Greeley, CO, Bloomington, IL, Salem, OR, Gig Harbor, WA, and now Mount Vernon, WA. They lived in Gig Harbor and enjoyed winters at their second home in Palm Desert for the last 20 years, where they have grown a large and very caring group of dear friends. In December 2022, almost the entire family was joyfully together in California to celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary.

Gary was a deeply loved and respected leader, both professionally and personally as a volunteer in numerous philanthropic organizations. He was often called upon for his calmness, wisdom, and his quest for balance and truth in making decisions. He never shied from tough situations, but sought resolutions that left dignity and respect intact.

Gary is survived by his wife, Lola Methner (Condit); sons: Bradly (Pam) of Mount Vernon, WA, Douglas (Lori) of Mt. Prospect, IL, and Stephen (Sarah) of Port Angeles, WA; brother, Terry of Fair Haven, MI; and sister, Pamela Schlafley (Methner) of Midland, MI. Gary and Lola have eight grandchildren.

A celebration of life is planned for Thursday, June 8, 2023, at 2:00 p.m. at University Place Presbyterian Church, University Place, WA. Donations in memory of Gary can be sent to the ARK Institute of Learning, Tacoma, WA. www.arkinst.org; or 1916 S. Washington St, Tacoma, WA, 98405.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Pantagraph on Apr. 30, 2023.

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Missy Safer

April 21, 2024

Gary was one of the finest men we knew. He and his beautiful wife Lola were neighbors and friends. He was a breath of fresh air, always an optimist and willing to lend a helping hand. He is truly missed. Missy

Melanie D´Avanzo and girls

June 8, 2023

Sending all our love to Lola and the rest of the family. Gary was such an amazing man and we loved seeing him at family and holiday dinners when he and Lola were here in So Cal! His laugh was infectious and his stories were even better. Cheers to a life very well lived and hugs to the family. We miss you already, Gary!

Missy and jeff

June 4, 2023

We just learned of Gary´s passing. There was no nicer friend and neighbor. For a short few years we had the privilege of living across the street from Lola and Gary. We were very sad when they sold their home because we knew we would miss them. We consider ourselves fortunate to have met him. May his memory be a blessing. Missy and Jeff

DW

May 27, 2023

You were a true friend to me. Thank you for the confidence you showed in me. It made a huge difference in my life.

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Aunt Lori

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Ed &Mary Smith

May 17, 2023

Our prayers go out to you Pam and your entire family! Mary& Ed Smith

Lori Anthony (Gary's Aunt)

May 16, 2023

Gary was the first of 27
grandchildren.

Mary Wright

May 3, 2023

Dear Lola and family,
I am remembering all of the great, fun times with Chuck and our children and all of you especially in Bloomington.
May peace and loving memories help you on the new journey.
Love,
Mary Wright and family

Donna & LeRoy McKeage

May 1, 2023

Grew up in the church in Midland, Michigan, with Gary. So sorry to hear of his death. Love to his family. Donna (Killingbeck) and LeRoy McKeage

Dave Nichols

April 30, 2023

9 years of my State Farm career were spent working with Gary in the Pacific Northwest. His leadership style was such that I felt empowered to my job serving our customers and employees. He was always there to help out in a pinch, Lila and I send our deepest sympathy to Lola and the entire Methner family. May he rest in peace in His heavenly kingdom.

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